₦airaland Forum

CsRockefeller:
Realistically, your chances are very slim. It's not your fault though. The Universities have limited spaces, jamb registers about a million each year, half of that barely makes it in.

If you are from a family that relies on minimum wage, or a struggling biz, you can't get into private universities.

So by the time to manage to cross that finish line you are in a new generation with a new trend. The new trend of graduate trainee and internship with a ceiling of 26 years for most.

Lest we talk about the poor remuneration if you are fortunate to even get a job.

No startup from the Government, NYSC doesn't add any value, no savings, no help. It can be frustrating.

At 30, you have already lived half of the life expectancy for a Nigerian.

It's a tough one Bro, failure of leadership is the reason for this. Nigeria has so much regressed.


Your solution: Grace. I know people will say those clichés "learn a skill" "start a biz" don't be deceived, I know people without skills doing fine, I also know people who work for others and earn very well.

While you need to put yourself out there, you need Grace more than anything.
Thanks bro

Vortex369:
Are people too shock to comment on positive news ?

And for the mor0n who said 'misplaced priority'. Are travels between Lagos & Abuja misplaced priorities?

Seems some of you are destined for cocoyam farms.

Lightangel65:
I see different posts on Nairaland about girls not wanting to date or marry broke guys, you can't really blame them. In this world men are bread winners no matter how much we talk about splitting the breadwinning with females it can't happen, even if she is rich that's the world we live in.

If a girl should get married to a broke guy what of if he doesn't get rich, that's a life of poverty and also damming you children's future.

It's better to make it first, before thinking about marriage and women.

You would be surprised when you have made it women won't even be on your wishlist, there is more to life than women (there is games, movies, food and much more) you can also adopt kids if you feel lonely and can cater for them. And marriage is not for everyone.

fulaniHERDSman:
That's a regular line for people who are not ready to say the truth.

Charleys:
Invest in yourself, fiance go come.

Zooposki:
Just means you are sick or getting sick. Go check yourself.

Khd95:
his lunatic ways are paying him millions of naira, I still fail to understand why y'all think NM is Nigeria's problem

Nigeria as a nation has lost it sanity, sane/normal people can't survive Nigeria, let him do what he likes,he's not forcing anyone to be a marlian, who ever get influenced by him is not his fault, I my self I listen to his songs not because I want to hear something sensible but to help me forget the terrible reality of being a Nigerian


I am a marlian

nurex01:
if I may ask? How old are you? May be you're not psychologically active

justnock:
You're not alone sweetie. I believe you want friendship but ain't ready for love... even though the opposite sex misread your intentions always. Don't change for nobody. You're a free spirit

healthserve:
Stop using people. Be better. Stop taking people for a ride with your emotional recklessness


Use and discard. Passive Narcissistic personality disorder. Go see a therapist. You're a destroyer


You also have an over-inflated ego. The world doesn't revolve around you. And No, you're not too good for everyone.


You're an egomaniac that exists for feel-good vibes only with a detached feeling from regular existence. Go see a therapist. You're pathetic

lavylilly:
Dear Men,

Local Girl is NOT understanding something and needs your help.

Here is the scenario

Mr. Man approached her,professed his love and asked to be given a chance. She refused. He persisted, but she stood her ground.

3 months later, Mr.man is now getting married.

Local Girl is hurt. She feels like Mr.Man ALMOST used her. How could he have found and engaged a woman within 3 months?! Did she dodge a bullet or missed out?

IamNawty:
Big, bold and beautiful.
I wunt watch myself grow this fat tho.. Emi layemi. I alws see fat pple as lazy beings

IamNawty:
Big, bold and beautiful.
I wunt watch myself grow this fat tho.. Emi layemi. I alws see fat pple as lazy beings

CindyeMerAld:
what is the essence of this if i may ask

booqee:
God forgive me..without any reason, i just dislike this guy