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How? Please tell me. I'd like to know.

pasqal09:
At the begining, you were making sense only to ruin it at the end.

Lool okay na!!!

I'll be watching you closely from now on.

BiafranBushBoy:
I have removed it already. I am on Nairaland on a mission

So this shouldn't undermine it .

I have never said I smoke BTW

Lool is anyone watching you?
Why are you scared to admit the truth lol.

BiafranBushBoy:
lol.. as a yes?

Guess you don't wana implicate me somewhere?

Make I commot my face first

I see. I'll take that as a yes then

BiafranBushBoy:
I wish I can say it here.

But the fact is that... if you work in a place that requires a high level tempo... there are things you can't do without.

Most Wall-Street brokers in America live purely on drugs.. same way most musicians live on drugs too.

Not like it is bad... but the abuse is the bad side of it!!

How is that a contradiction? If you're using your beauty to attract successful men initially, does that stop you from being financially independent yourself. Even if a woman has got her own money, it doesnt mean she shouldnt look for a comfortable guy. Be the whole package. Beautiful, financially secure and smart and along with that attract the right kind of men. Simple!

bstringz:
I quite understand what you're saying it's just that your post contradicts itself. Like a part you said a girl should also be financially stable. Then another part you said a girl should use her beauty to "capture" a rich dude? In summary, the girl should be broke but use her v-jay to capture us? You see that you contradict yourself? Mind you don't generalize that it's broke guys that are coming after you.... Many of them reply here may be Rich guys who knows how it felt to had been dumped by a girl when there were not yet financially buoyant. I'm not Broke either.

Kind regards Safiaa

Hmmm

Do you take it regularly?

BiafranBushBoy:
Aww... I get it now! it is normal for first timers and for sure.. there is an overdose which leads to misbehavior from the person involved.

If you take it again... you will now see the wonders of taking that medicinal plant.

Too much. Looks like a mask. Less is more on your wedding day. Let your man not wake up to you and not recognise you. It's not fair.

It was my first time. I dont know if it's possible to do an overdose of weed, but thats what it felt like. I blacked out.

BiafranBushBoy:
I don't think so. Unless it was your first time tho.

You steal someone's husband, somebody will steal yours. Its a cycle. It is well madam.

Its either you accept it, or you move on with your life. Your husband is not ready to be faithful to you and you're running after the uni babe. What does she owe you? Did she repeat the vows to you on your wedding day.

Better level up and be smart.

Terrible. Never trying it again.

Okay
Good luck!

IamAirforce1:
Lol
Coming from a hater like you, swerve

It just show you know nothing about music.

Some of the greats today started off the way i started go dig.

We can see how nobody has bashed this op. This is what the men like to hear, it strokes their ego. Once the truth sets in, they retaliate with anger. Lool. Wonders shall never end.

IamAirforce1 you should've taken the opportunity. You're not really talented in the music department. Ive heard a few of your songs, and they're not that great. Somebody that has potential is synord. You on the other hand, i cant say much. Music is not for everyone. Try and focus on other things to support yourself financially. Be smart!

Guys with an unrealistic vision. All they do is talk, no action. This is exactly what i was talking about on my thread.

Okay. Bye bye now.

gnykelly:
you said it, why did you delete it. sister you need to work on your mind if you have had problems with men in the past. you need to let go cos it's taken toll on your psyche.

Thank you for your opinion.

davidif:
Yeah right! As if every situation is permanent. You forget that people's situations change and that you are not God to know.

It's this pathetic reasoning that causes ladies to end up with the wrong men because of money. This men cheat on them and brutalize them but because of money they stay with them. Absolutely pathetic. We need to raise our young daughters to know there worth and that there love cannot be bought by a man with a big pocket. Also that a man's worth is not necessarily correlated with what he owns but what is inside-his character.

Lastly on your pathetic point that the lady should go after the guy with guys who love and adore them.

Yes. I said it..and what? Whats your point. I deleted the thread because i knew i wasnt going to get a mature response from narrow minded men on this forum. What's your point now? Please tell me?

gnykelly:
Safiaa :
Please all the immature, judgemental narrow minded individuals, I don't want to see your opinions on this thread. Please!
Yesterday i was having a discussion with some female friends and we got into the topic about anal sex. Some were saying that they will never do it..it's disgusting. I feel like im open to try it. They were looking at like like i was insane lol. I'll like to try it with the right person though. I want to know if anyone has experienced it, what are your opinions about it? Is it pleasurable? Is it something you will never do too? I just want to see general opinions on this.

Can you just email me please. Thanks.

chi4ik:
here is my contact: 08064883627. just WhatsApp me asap. need to share some stuffs with u
which are very vital. thanks 4 ur understanding

Okay. You're free to leave now. Bye bye.

Luckki1001:
Choi

So all this ranting came from a child wey life never happen to yet.

Everybody, it appyas we have been wasting our time responding to a nonsensical post from someone who obviously has had her head up in all those feminist-inclined romantic stories that has no bearing in real life.

Thread closed.

No problem.

chi4ik:
pls can I have a private chat with u? mean no harm & I wanna clear up some stuffs which I can't mention here. pls I beg u.

I do not reside in Nigeria.

biz2get:
Which state in Nigeria do you reside in..?

Im currently working and I'm a student. Im in my early 20s, is there a problem?

mrphysics:
Chai. So I just wasted my energy, I thought you are even working. Early 20 and you are on Nairaland making this kind of post?

1. Im in my early 20s
2.Im currently a student, working a year in an industry.
3.My goal is to work in the marketing industry, which im currently doing. To be a marketing executive for a huge co-operation. I dont need to go into detail.
4.Like i said being successful doesnt necessarily mean you're ranking in millions. Being able to fulfil your goals and being comfortable is enough.
6 and 5 are irrelevant to me
7. I have enough to take care of myself, and not be financially dependent on my parents. Thats all you need to know.

Have i satisfied your curiosity. Bye bye now

tobianthony:
@ Op , I want to say something but I want to just continue lurking .

I want to ask you a couple of questions some of them will offend you ... but I just want to understand where you are coming from with this topic .

Please do not take offence .

Here goes ?

1) be truthful and be honest how old are you ?

2) what do you do for a living ?

3) what goals have you set for yourself and how many of these goals have you accomplished ?

4) what has to physically happen for you to call yourself successful ?

5) I'm assuming that there is a fellow who is (broke) that dated you or someone you know ...is this true ?

6) answer questions 1-4 for him ?

7) finally right as this moment what is your net worth ?

Do not take offence I just want to learn more about you .

Uncle, ah beg did i ever say women shoulf not make their own money. In what way are women being greedy?
Do you hustle to put the money on top of your head? Or you want to buy a house so you can rot in the house lonely and miserable. NO ! If you want to die a loner,
Thats completely fine. But the majority of men will eventually settle down.

kibra4u:
Aunty simply go and hustle to make your own money na cos no man owes any woman anything. Make your money and leave we guys alone. We are not the architect of your problems. You can take a cue from your Aunty Linda Ikeji . All these greedy Oloshos wey just full everywhere these days. Them go want make man do wetin even their own Father no fit do for them. Shame

You, ask yourself this question. When you see a woman what are you attracted to instantly? Are you attracted to her financial status? As a man, are you not moved by her physical attributes? please stop being illogical. Will her beauty keep a man. No. Thats why i stated in my first paragraph to have your own finances and success.

LawdOfNairaland:
Check your third paragraph and you will realize where your greed lies!!!

No one wrote the OP for you but see how you are trying desperately to disassociate yourself from the shallowness of your thoughts. Let me save you the stress of going back to check that foolish paragraph 3. In that paragraph, you advised girls to use their YOUTH and BEAUTY, not even a mention of gift or talent, to get the best man (best to you means "financially stable". When you advise a girl to use her youth and beauty, you can't convince me that you aren't trying to advise her to consider gold digging.

Why do you like me so much?

RealHaute:
Yup. Unlike ladies like Safiaa

Im going to take my time to reply these mentions, once i get home. I have time for you people today!!!

No, that's not the issue. If you're going to counter my thread, have valid points. That's all. Make sure you read through my thread, so you don't repeat what i've said.

Ravenclawgirl:
Safiaa you see? Shey I warned you, both male and females have commented now, you think we are all wrong and you're right? Smh.

Yawns.
Reading has become a task that many Nigerian men fail to do.
Bye boy!

WriteBoy:
First off, you make a terrible argument.

You seem to want to encourage females to become financially stable; become independent women who can achieve desired levels of material comfort yet you are also advising them to become hang-on unto a man's coattails in the hope that the man will hit it big and thus the goodies will be able to trickle down to the woman.

Let me ask you a question. Please answer with all honesty: Do you not think you are daft?

I expected upon opening your thread to see you advising women to do the following:

1. Have parallel dreams -- so if the man is working towards a dream, you are also working towards one
2. Develop their skills in traditionally male centric but rewarding fields such as engineering, coding, business, military, ICT
3. Develop all-round independence -- that way, they are of more value to their man and society
4. Own their sexuality -- Enjoy sex but not exchange it for favors

I was pissed this afternoon over something my girl did, now you have added to it. 60% of women ain't worth shi*t and this is something we men of substance try to deal with everyday. Life is hard but why are our women making it harder.

Answer me: Are you not daft?

Infact, don't answer. Shove your response up your ass. Biatch!!!