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You didnt have to work whilst studying? But you were calling mummy and daddy for 2k to eat at mama put. Youre claimimg money thats not yours, and you call yourself a man. Are you not even ashamed of yourself for writing that. Mr burden of life. Youre probably still a liabilty to your parents, the reason why your frustration is transferred. Shameful.

Im quite happy about my background, but im not ready to live off my parents. Is that to hard to understand? Im sitting pretty 1000 miles away from you, whilst im sure you've never sniffed an airport, so it doesnt bother me

Bye bye Mr nuisance.

FelixFelicis:
Too foolish. Who's following you about? You follow this same section I follow so don't think I won't come across your folly, infact it's the easiest to spot cos it's in 4k glory.

Look at this beech that has to work and study saying she's not on my level Yes you're not on my level, I didn't need to work while I studied and I'm grateful for that grace. In your case it's evident that you're bitter about your background. It's not a bad thing to be from a humble background, and don't ever hate it or act like you didn't grow in it. You're just too immature, please stop going around Nairaland brandishing your poverty-dented definition of life, else I won't mind writing a bit of sense at you when I can.

Go away please, ugly and mannerless child.

I can clearly see that my thread caused high levels of anxiety for you. This is the reason why you cant seem to get it out of your head. Hence, following me up and down like a redudant fool.

In the beginning of the thread, what did i state? Since you seem to be so inclined to my posts, throughout the thread please what was my stance? My first paragraph, clearly stated that i was agaisnt liabilities, gold diggers or any type of laziness in women. But since youre too stupiid to decipher that, ill let you know once again.

Yes, i am 22, im working and im a student. Ill say it once and ill say it a million times again. Im not the first and im not the last, understood. I work very hard, and if youve got a problem with me saying that, you can drink bleach. Its not my problem, that your life is synonymous to failure. I cant help you with that oga. Im not even on your level.

Why has my life become the foundation of your research? Why are you so invested in what a 22 year old decides to do. If my life is driven by money and finances at the moment, i'm pretty sure ill thank myself later. In the end, what does that have to do with you? Keep staying on my profile, keeping them tabs of safiaa. Follow my ass and evaluate my life like its earning you paper. Frustrations of a penniless blockhead.

FelixFelicis:
What part of the OP didn't you understand? Now I see your brain filters out useful details. Didn't you see "The self-centered girl, The lying girl, The indecisive girl" etc. What are those? Don't they have moral bearings? If you don't agree with me then you're simply daft.
Your thread presentation is the worst I ever seen, you didn't even say anything like "Guys also stay away from lazy, broke and needy girls". Then when someone else created that thread you rushed there to bash and what's with your obsession with finances? I see how you've been bragging about you working, you earning some money etc. Are you the only one earning money biko? Your background must be really penurious for your life goal to be about money money money at your tender age of 22. I'm sure your goal is also to link up with a high earner or a heir to an empire but you know what? That can't erase the fact that your bloodline were poverty-stricken. Go and choke on money, hungry bird.

Theres nothing 'moralistic' about this thread. Hes stating his points under a notion that they're factual, which theyre not. My thread was strictly based on my thoughts/ opinion.

It seems talking about finances, is too damn sensitive for you. So in your deluded world talking about 'morals' holds wayy more importance/substance than financial issues. Will these morals put food on the table? The funniest thing is that this thread has got absolutely nothing to do with morals. Or do the points like 'the wanna be bride' sound moralistic to you. He didnt present this thread well, period! Just gerrarahere. You cant seem to let that thread go.

FelixFelicis:
Exactly, Madam women leader, your thread was directed to women and it's content is instigative against men of a particular financial status. This thread isn't even about financial status or anything like that, it's simply moralistic so tell me you're not foolish compared to this wise OP?

25 + is ideal.

tweetsme:
I just need to know the Age.. I know maturity is involved. thanks menh!

When shes ready. Ideally when shes a graduate and working, and when shes ready mentally. This could be at any age.

Ode. Was my thread directed to men? Did i write a senseless list describing false characteristics of men?
My thread was dishing out advice/my opinion on a topic which was directed to WOMEN. So oga, Have sense please.

FelixFelicis:
I know say you go carry your mumu leg enter here. When you created your own thread, didn't you write like you created "men" yourself? Well better for correct, well-groomed girl to press one's mumu button than your foul bunch. Na woman go marry you for house at last, proud oaf

Senseless being.

White girl this..white girl that! What do you know?. Have you even breathed next to a white girl, for you to automatically assume that they're all loving and caring.

Get it into your thick skull, that women ALL aroud the world appreciate money. Regardless. So grow up and stop being so delusional. Ode.

I really didnt find this funny. Im sorry.

7am in the morning, you carry yourself to write a silly list about women. Are you not giving yourself a headache? Is it that deep? Na wa.

All these boys think they know it all about woman. List upon list, yet one babe somewhere is still pressing your mumu button. Mr borrow borrow aka Mr cash machine. Transfer your knowledge into something tangible please. Its annoying.

Dont mind them. Idiots of life. They all belong in the same category of fools.

Im fine jare, how are you love?

funmisticqueen:
safiaa dont mind them joor, they think they must have the last say in every matter after we gave their egos a bruising with the harsh truth, so any girl that ties wrapper anyhow is lazy and dirty. They dont want to marry. Silly men. How is your day jare.

All i have to say is, if youre above 21 and still a virgin, i applaud your self control. We understand that virginity doesnt gurantee anything, but it works the other way round too. Life is generally unpredictable, so it makes your points somewhat invalid.

I dont really agree with the tone of your thread. Virgin or not theres someone out there for everyone. Do what makes you happy and keep it pushing. This thread is indirectly telling females to have no sense of pride for keeping themselves pure, which i think is wrong. It takes more to keep your virginity than to lose it, trust me. I normally stand by controversial threads, but i really cant on this one sis. I'm sorry.

Ok..so what?

Is it your 'natural beauty' that you want to use to attract fellow men? I dont understand the essence of this thread. Whats your point?

Because for most women, we dont give a shiit. We dont caree. This your thread is kinda zesty, i wont lie.

Some christians are religious when its beneficial.

I see.

jasper83:
It doesn't worth it my dear. Pussies are meant to be drilled and not the anus. The vagina secretes fluids that aids sexual thrusting. There is nothing to fantasize about anal sex because it will be very uncomfortable.

Try and watch gay porns and you will see those guys are actually forcing nature to do their sexual biddings. The way the moan in pains is disgusting. With the whole lubricant they use the penis in my own opinion doesn't still jell well in the anus.

Lastly think of the perception your husband will have about you as someone being unnecessarily too wild. Marriage doesn't necessarily gives you the liberty to do anyhow all in the name of satisfying ones partner, to every rule there are exceptions.
What about the health angle, your anus will be unnecessarily too wide to hold the tiniest of faeces, and over time your anus may start leaking faeces when you intentionally wants to fart. So what's the gain after all.

Lets learn to tame our bodies and fantasies to avoid stories that touch. Pardon me for my epistle

Its something i may try with my husband.

Must be nice to marry someone who you have everything in common with.

I feel your pain, sis.

debbie223:
Truth b told i'm really an indoor kind of person,if i'm nt working on a job then i'm home.And yes i'm kinda careful kos most guys are only interested in my body and bt hw do go abt dis?Most times i'm lonely and wish i had a man in my life.

Wouldnt marry. No.

Stop stalking me.

FelixFelicis:
you for no understand make i plank your brain

They did not finish me in any way. Don't be silly.

Sike:
I trust my guys. them don already finish the op before I come. nice one!

The only thing that i can agree with that you've said.

Tallesty1:
If she can stand up immediately and walk properly then you obviously didn't do something right


A satisfied woman always have this silly grin on her face after sex, she will become visibly weak and inexplicably attractive. She will wrap herself so tightly around you for a while before letting go.

Really? Well shes still very unattractive. No shade, just being honest.

ToriBlue:
Laura Ikeji bleached.

In sorry but youre wrong. Its men all over the world.
I live in the Uk and its a problem here. Its a problem in the US. Heck, this even happens in asia. Indian women bleach their skin, because its preferable to be lighter in their community.

Im sorry, but that's just the truth.

V0lv0:
Point of correction say Nigerian men and not men. Not all men suffer from inferiority complex. From my experience this is more common with Nigerian men. I remember a thread posted about this Senegalese beauty and a lot of guys were saying she is too dark and one even said she should bleach. It was then I started to understand why Nigeria has such a high record of bleaching. It's all about demand and supply

I always say that a womans beauty is not based on her skin colour. Ive seen so many unattractive skin/fair women. I'm just being honest. Laura ikeji is one of them. Same with unattractive dark women.

The attractiveness comes from your features. The proportion of your face. How symmetrical your feautures are. So regarless of your skin colour, if you're fine, youre fine. However, its the brainwashed westernized mentality that a lot of men have. So they cant see past a womans skin tone.

Its an issue of colourism.

Its an unconscious discrimination agaisnt dark skin women. Its funny, because most of the people that bring down dark women are DARK MEN. They are dark themselves, yet they despise women with their same complexion. It's self hate. Thats the reason why women bleach their skin.

Everybody needs validation in their life, and if a women feels like shes not recieving that validation due to her skin colour, she'll change it. They're some women who are secure in themselves, and believe they're beautiful regardless. However, most are not, and change their skin to feel more accepted and loved.

Youre too invested in someone else's life. Not good.

I cant do that.

Whatsapp conversations will be revealed, as well as people's identity, i dont want that.

All im saying is that..the people im talking about know what im saying. I want it to hit their skull

& to you mr man, Im entitled to say what the hell i want. So you dont tell me what the fcukk to do. Understood?

Bye bye

LethargiQue:
Drop proofs and stop running your fingers like a canary..

This is a guy that has common sense.

cooldood:
Guys face your hustle and work, and start earning some income before thinking of a babe, babes aint wired to hustle by their very nature.Even God gave Adam work to do before providing him with a babe (Eve). Dont come crying on nairaland when your babe start showing you her other side when you cant meet some of her needs/ demands. And by the way, guys try to cut your suit according to your size. Dont start chasing after a babe that was never raised in a humble background but raised in wealth and expect her to hustle with you, its just basic, dont blame her, she's not a gold digger, she just doesnt understand what hustling mean.

Once again, guys face your hustle and shine your eyes!your own babe that fit you will come.

Lamentations of frustrated negroes. These guys are such hypocrites.

If i start spilling things that i know about these guys, Everybody's mouth go drop. Someone will come on nl to rant about broke girls, lazy girls. Yet they will break the bank and borrow money to 'impress' these 'broke girls' behind closed doors.

Some are cash machines for these girls maintenance. Hair, nails etc. Some will borrow money to buy phones for these girls. But on nairaland..all of them are 'anti broke girls' 'anti lazy girls'. ' i will never spend a dime on a broke girl' ..

Get over yourselves, and stop being hypocrites for a few likes. You're deceiving yourself.

The truth is painful oh sis. After my thread, we will not hear word again. They need to do as much as possible to make themselves feel better.

Bumbae1:

Lol safiaa wetin u do these guys o

Chai savagery much

Your point is invalid. Typical.

Tallesty1:
Ladies with self espect don't apply as much makeups as you do.