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MissMeiya: Friends with benefits: ultimately someone starts feeling possesive, and someone gets hurt

"Fun" buddies: gets lonely sometimes

So, yeah I would prefer a (mutual) friendship.

That would definitely not be me, so I do not even see that as a potential problem.

barcanista: Bro, have you fallen victim b4?

Not really.

I have had a girl try that with me but I knew she was doing it and I just played along while she was hiding boyfriend from me.

What happened was, it leaked from another girl that she liked me after seeing me and I no jah her face. I was even introducing guys that wanted to chat her up at a party to her (she was shocked and fancied me more). I did that because to me, she was on the side of a bit too skinny (like if she was hungry), although with nice solid racks. But as she stays locally to me and was always calling me to come out (she was a party girl who knew all the parties and also liked me giving her a ride), I hung out with her. And as I always like girls that like me, and the racks were nice, after she put on just a little bit more weight to be above my threshold, I decided to try it.

Smooched sometimes but she knew by this time that this boy aint loyal and she likes to chase while I thought since I heard she said she already fancied me, I should play nice, she lost interest and chased someone else.

We are still cool friends till today but I did not waste anything except my petrol but I got parties and cooking in return.

ThoniaSlim: Oga if she does not like you like that then trust me all that won't work. It'll just be you hurting yourself indirectly because you the one pinning for her not the other way around.

Nah, I won't be hurting myself.

I am lucky to be very-much blessed with the disposition of not tending to like girls that don't like me. That is how I have always related to girls. Luckily it makes my like very easy.

My love has never been blind. It went to SpecSavers.

barcanista: Hahahahaha That girl is mean. She indirectly placed him on bench in case of injury

Many marriages follow this model.

Trust me.

AjanleKoko: LOL.
Do you know, some women even 'friendzone' their husbands after a while.
They only wake up when the man gets attention from outside

Lol. Advanced friendzoning!

tonididdy: bro after reading comments on this thread by ladies...omoh na playing win am oh. these girls have no emotions at all.

I have already posted it.

https://www.nairaland.com/1127016/alpha-male-vs-nice-guy/2#13325686



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pjvQFtlNQ-M

PiperAlpha: Not long I just saved one of my friend from being friendzoned. This guy goes crazy anytime this lady calls him 'Dear'; he gave her most of his medicine/surgery textbooks. I had to awaken the poor dude senses but he refused thinking one day this Girl will fall for him. This lady visited my guy oneday and came with another dude, dont know if its her boyfriend sha; but what would have prompted the lady to come with another guy? Na so my friend vex oo. Thank God He has learnt his lessons but unfortunately the deed had been done, the textbooks cannot be collected again. #Team SayNoToFriendZone

Most of these guys are thought rubbish while there were young to end being mugus.

https://www.nairaland.com/1433735/ladies-attitude-when-breaking-up/1#18051710

While the girl would conveniently ask him "were we dating?" since she knows mugu men are told:

- You are responsible for chasing.

- If she no gree or does something inconsiderate, it was because you failed.

https://www.nairaland.com/1433735/ladies-attitude-when-breaking-up/1#18053941

sexylogan: I am shocked from the replies of babes on this thread that they don't see

anything wrong in Friend-zoning guys

DIARIS GOD OH!!!!

So you thought women understood what it means to be fair before or are nice people?

Siddon there.

https://www.nairaland.com/1568999/why-nice-ladies-get-dumped#20465001

lynpetra: You will seriously hate this zone if you are in love
It's te worst I tell you,although for the weak hearts.When a guy/ gurl who loves you know its about the s.exx.and the fact he is always available,it hurts like hell.For example,I have a serious man out of town,I got this introvert who is inlove,I spent time with him cos he is available to do my little biddings,"honey please when coming,can you stop by and get me so so so and so,don't worry about the dough,I will pay back(some might feel bad cos this),"Hon,please I am Hot o,please come over,bring condom and a bottleof wine","sweery,I dey salon,please I need your help,I left my keys under the rug,please help take my laundry to that drycleaner near the house"Then one day,"Baby please no calls,my bf is around,let me do the calling ok.

No strings, no problems.

chrisbaba1: [size=13pt]A place of unspeakable pain and hurt ...... Be 100% nice to a girl you love and want to date at your own peril, she will find you boring and wont wanna date you. You get friendzoned . currently friendzoned to a girl i have friendzoned too, love her to bits though [/size]

Thank you Jesus!

After all these years of my lecture, all these young NL boys are learning.

God is great!

https://www.nairaland.com/1127016/alpha-male-vs-nice-guy/2#13325686

MissMeiya: That's just friends with benefits.

Then there's fúck buddies, which are not friends at all lol

Are you going to tell me those are not better than just being friends?

MissMeiya: Friend zone level 100

I just find that picture shocking.

Are some guys really that thick?

lynpetra: What the hell
One can still be fuccking a guy she friendzoned .Some people just wants something special than s.exxxx,if they can't get it,they still feel friendzone.

What can be more special than sexxx which is not more special with "it" plus sexxxx?

Abeg no dey carry that kin excuse gif me if I ever say lets play "hide the sausage".

Nihilist: https://global3.memecdn.com/friend-zone-please-leave-us-alone_o_1014216.jpg

cirmuell: erm!!! u can, if u double tap the turbo!

ROFLMAO!

barcanista: That one na wetin vex me pass. When I was 17 and friendzoned, this girl that I was "Hoping for" had her birthday party. I "donated" my 2 weeks Allowance to her party and even helped out in buying stuffs and things. I invited my padis to grace the day with hope that she will dance with me. men, after all my kindness, suffer and patience, this girl brought this dude to introduce to me ..."barcanista, meet Alex my Boyfriend. We met not long ago and I have told him a lot about you"....To the guy she said..."Alex meet my BEST FRIEND barcanista. He's very nice and caring". I no fit smile or cry, I begin de think of my life. As if that was not enough, She told everyone that she wanted to show them the person that has showed her love and that is important in her life. My Padis them don de think say na me, but ... Na Alex she call. Kissed him and they danced together. Me wey don endure no get shi-shi. Not even a hug . I decided that I can't take it anymore...

I almost fell off my seat.

Thank God, I am very good at sacking girls and cutting them off A-sharp.

missberrypop5: a girl who tells you to be friends with her, can one way or the other, have feelings for you. Well, ok. I'm not a guy, i don't know how you guys view this friendzone stuff, but if it's the way i see it, mehn, there's nothing i see wrong with it.

No wahala na.

I would be friends with her but I will be smashing some other girls on the side and I don't treat her any better than I treat my male friends.

Lets see how long her "lets be friends last".

Prowizy2: You'd ask a girl out, instead of telling me NO so that i can move on to the next girl.

You keep me around as your comforter and source of goodies, giving me some little hope that you'd one day accept me.

Some will even tell us let's be friends or i see you like my brother.

And dem go turn around with their mugu "real men" to say a guy used a girl so we must join them in being outraged.

Thank God, I know women. I have a PhD in Womantology.

barcanista: No Dear its not necessarily all about "Sex". Women are moved by emotions while men are moved by sight. The guy you are having a crush on probably doesn't consider you to be his "taste" in terms of looks(No offense) but the possibility that he will have a change of mind and "consider" you is 50% because beauty is not universal and could be manipulated by the human mind. Hence, YOU STAND A CHANCE in the nearest future.

Women on the other hand are moved by emotions. If they don't have slight feelings for a guy in the first instance, then the possibility of re-considering the person is in the barest minimum(that is IF there's any hope). So there is no need for a guy wasting his time and helping her with stuffs in the name of friendship when his intention is to win her heart.

WRONG!

The guy might end up boning her one day if she dresses right and offers it free on a platter (As long as she is not completely butters and below his threshold). After that, she might be successful roping him in with emotional blackmail or by the virtue of how good she is in the sack.

On the other hand, a guy friend-zoned might have a chance too when she has passed her expiry date or is in decline faster than a broadband connection and she knows her options are now limited and all the bad boys don chop, don wipe mouth.

missberrypop5: well, i'm not saying or posting this as a lady, but to me i don't see anything wrong with it. Women too do get on the Friendzone. I love someone, yeah, and he doesn't love me, he just likes me, and he sees me more like a sister. But i just can't imagin not talking to him at all, so being friends with him is better than being nothing at all. Or else you guys are looking at the other stuff i.e sex.

No o.

We will only be looking at buying you something.

missberrypop5: if that's the case, is anything wrong with being "just friends" with a girl you love?

Is anything wrong with allowing a man you love enjoy himself by boning any girl he really wants to?

missberrypop5: what is FriendZONE?

The place you have put all those guys trying to woo you that you yourself know they would never taste your honey but you enjoy their attention and let them have the privilege of paying for your meals and carry your handbag.

This is while you chase some bad boy that would end up smashing you 52 ways from all sides, he would have you wrapped around his fingertips and you do as you are told.

You guys should stop hating jor.

Unlike you, these guys are gentlemen.

They are REAL MEN!

Deep in their heart, the mugus would be convinced they are doing well and are building their chance with these girls.

mainman7: People, don't be carried away by emotions. Whether of young or old, man or woman, child or adult, theirs or that of others, the truth remains that Palestinians do NOT value life. Yes, Life is not sweet but can you laden yourself with bomb in the name of suicide bombing for whatever reason? Say the truth, can you? You can't, not because you are afraid to die but because you value not just your life but that of others as well because of the sanctity of life. You know that you cannot create one so while should you destroy life (whether yours or that of another). But Palestinians are not like that, they see life as worthless. While Israel will do anything to protect the lives of their own citizen, Palestinians will go and kill and run back to use their populace as human shield, what wickedness! They are bloody cowards, they don't value the lives of their women and children. If they do while running back after inviting trouble to mix up among them? Useless cowards! They laid the exemplary format of the suicide bombing that all Islamic terrorist organizations like :oBokoHaram are now following killing innocent people. It's Palestine that hates peace with passion, knowing fully well that they are no match for Israel, yet because of the fact that they have no respect for sanctity of life (neither for their lives nor for Israelis) they keep provoking Israel. They've been firing missiles at Israel without Israel responding. Feeling that that was not provoking enough, they went ahead to kidnap and kill 3 Israelis.
Read History: There are still million of blacks in Morocco and Egypt, peacefully integrating and living with the Arabs that stole their land and drove most of their forefathers further down Mid-Africa and South of Africa. There are still millions and millions of Red Indians in America today, peacefully integrating and even now ruling with the Caucasians that stole their land and callously spilled the blood of their fathers on their own land. Similar cases abound around the world. Not because they are fools but because humanity is becoming more civilized, knowing that "An eye for an eye would only make the whole world go blind"
Just like America offered to develop Japan, despite the fact that Israel earlier paid for most of those land, Israel still offered pecuniary compensation, infrastructural development, economic development, technological development and much more in exchange for peace but these senseless stone-age Palestinians flatly rejected all. May be Palestinians are under demonic influence to thirst for blood and/or see blood shed. To them, their life is worthless and for their desire to always see blood shed (whether theirs or others does not matter to them) stone-age people of Palestine still kill Israelis (then run back to hide amidst women and children, COWARD!) without slightest provocations from the Israelis, even when it should by now have deeply sunk into their dumb brain that Israel have NO other place to go!

If your mother and grandmother were slaughtered like sheep by a soldier who intentionally aimed at them while running from bombs with white flags in their hand. The government of people that shot her refuse to even bother to investigate because to them you are just a worthless piece of shit christian. This is something the do frequently, you are not the first.

Then the world shouts on your behalf and then this government finally out of shame relents and tried the soldier. They found him guilty of some lame lower charge and then send him to 45 days in jail, would respect the sanctity of lives of those people?

kmcutez: The only sensible post in this thread. It's as if you read my mind.

You must be reetarded too as you appeared to have failed to get it and thought I supported your warped mentality.

Did you attend Fisk too?

BananaBender: WOW!! Woww!!


This is coming from the same person that supports the criminalization of gay people?!

You are a cretinous person!

Can you see what happens to your brain when you end up being a Fisk graduate?

Let me tell you:

- You will start struggling to comprehend intellectual ridicule and sarcasm.

- But you will be a champion is twerking.

Martini101: . ADVOCATE. E be like say u dey chop ur sister kpomo! shame on U.

You are a cretinous person!

You are so daft, you decided I must show "I am a mooronic product of a failed education system".

AH-AHN!

This is blatant discrimination and persecution.

When will Africa ever move forward from this their "backward" thinking?

What is your business with what 2 consenting adults do behind closed doors?

How can you take people to court for just loving each other?

Where are the Western media, government, ambassadors and human rights activists? As well as NL self-appointed "progressives"?

Weselion: If that is only what you can deduce from what I've been posting since plus the link I posted then you lack sense of reasoning

person, I lack sense of reasoning?



Oya, entertain us by what you meant with your moronic post.

I am going to enjoy this.

chukxie: Brazilian federal police say that some 200 Ghanaians have requested asylum after entering the country on tourist visas to watch the World Cup .

The Ghanaians say they are Muslims fleeing inter-religious conflicts in their home country.

They have filed their applications in the southern city of Caxias do Sul, in one of Brazil's most prosperous areas.

Another 1,000 Ghanaians are expected to request refugee status once the tournament is over, police said.

The Brazilian authorities believe many of the Ghanaians are looking for the right to work legally in the country.

'Overcrowded now'

"This region - Serra Gaucha - is known as an area of full employment. It has became a magnet for foreign workers," federal police chief Noerci da Silva Melo said in Caxias do Sul.

"You go through the streets and you can see many Haitians and Senegalese selling pirate CDs and watches. The area is overcrowded now" Mr Melo told the news agency Agencia Brasil.

Caxias do Sul is more than 1,600 km (1,000 miles) away from the venues where the Ghanaian team played - the north-eastern cities of Natal and Fortaleza and in the capital, Brasilia.
Brazilian legislation allows potential refugees to work legally in the country once they have filed for asylum.

The fact that the Ghanaians have entered the country on tourist visas should not be taken into consideration when considering whether to grant them asylum, a Justice Ministry official said.

"Asylum cannot be requested at a Brazilian embassy. The asylum seeker must be in the country to apply," said Joao Guilherme Granja.

"We have hundreds of Syrian refugees in Brazil at the moment in the same situation."

Most of the Ghanaian asylum seekers in Caxias do Sul have been given shelter by local Roman Catholic churches.

BBC © 2014

Fcking kick their xxxxxx out.

Asylum me xxxxxx

What inter-religious conflict are they escaping they have to go that far to "escape" it ...............after watching football?

They can afford visas and flight tickets but cannot find a place to "escape" to in other parts of Ghana or even West Africa?

As a matter of fact, lock them up in a camp for like 1 year before deporting their xxxxxx as punishment for wasting your countries resources processing them.

Now to prove this point I stated earlier:

Sagamite: This is the kind of lame logic you develop when you decide to ignore facts and choose to dig out lame points and grasp at any straws possible to support one side.

If someone was objective and open-minded, he would have bothered to check his fact instead of trying to engage in meaningless pettifogging to distract from the main issues he knows would make his position wrong.

Anyone using their logical compass would know a name of a place might be different from that of the inhabitants purely because they could not be bothered to change it.

That is just one angle. Just a quick 20 minutes look at Wikipedia, which any objective proponent can do if they were not one-sided, I found that Bethlehem has actually a meaning in both Hebrews and Arabic.

In Hebrew, it is Bet Lehem meaning "House of Bread".

In Arabic, it is Bayt Lahm meaning "House of Meat".

So the Arabs just Arabicised it, so no need for a drastic change. Bethlehem is now so Palestinian even the oppressive Israeli government has ceded the governance to a Palestinian body. But someone wants to argue "It has a Jewish name, it is owned by Jews".

If someone is objective and is not trying to grasp at any straws to lamely prove his position, he would investigate the "points" he his about to propose and get the "facts" before proposing it.

Now, if he had done that, he would have realised that all these Jewish named towns/cities he is saying is owned by the Jews because they have Jewish names mostly have Arabic names but which the Jewish Israel government are suppressing (with some being even places with predominantly Muslim populations):

Haifa = Hayfa
Nazareth = an-Nasiriyyah
Jericho = Ariha

Obviously the most recent conqueror with military might that controls the region tends to name the place, just like the British named a place Lagos, instead of Eko. That, by dafidi's logic, must mean the Portuguese own Lagos since we have not changed it back.

Furthermore, as we live in Christian countries and listen to news through media that is Western dominated, obviously the selection of disputed names reported would not be the Islamic one. It is going to be the Bible one: Old Testament.

Another angle is that, some places still had large Jewish settlements throughout all these hundreds of years as not all Jews left Arabia. Jews definitely own some land in the area as they were a minority population pre-1948.

This is the kind of meaningless pettifogging I was saying dafidi wanted to get involved in and distract from the main argument of root causes.

https://www.nairaland.com/1804892/isreal-bombards-gaza-it-literally/16#24581865

What has all this pettifogging got to do with if it was right for the Jews to come and take Palestinian land in the early 20th century?

davidylan: No one has ever answered that question. I always ask muslims and their apologists to explain why the jews are the occupiers of a town called bethlehem... a jewish name.

Oh, it is a Jewish name is your "fact" and "logic" that the Jews own it?

So Victoria Island is owned by Buckingham Palace people?

Johannesburg is owned by the Afrikaans?

Alexandria in Egypt is owned by Macedonians?

Albuquerque in New Mexico is owned by Spain, not the USA?

The Bethlehem in Pennysylvania is even owned by the Jews because it is a Jewish name na?

What a serious logic.

This is the kind of lame logic you develop when you decide to ignore facts and choose to dig out lame points and grasp at any straws possible to support one side.

davidylan: Please back this up with fact. I am tired of the verbal diarrhea

You mean like the verbal diarrhea you backed up of saying Balfour Declaration mentioned creating a State for Jews under the two-state system?

If you have verbal diarrhea, you should probably keep quiet for a while and maybe it would go away.