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peacettw:
Kk then.. It's sad that you had to go through all that but surely you can't think that all females are cut from the same cloth..and a few bad experiences shouldn't make you treat us all like we are dirt just cos you get better results that way. It is simply not fair...

Dumbo, is that how you rationalise it?

What you do is "a few bad experiences".

But what is done to you is "treating you like dirt"?

Asinwin oshi! "Me, me, me, me, me". Only they matter and they are the "victims".

Typical woman! She would rationalise her every fcking misbehaviour. Well fcking take what happens to you as YOUR "few bad experiences". No ounce of understanding of fairness and equity.

The fcking reality is that both sexes would have their period of "upper hand". Unfortunately for women, men have it last and for longer.

You misuse yours when you have it, many would remember when it is their turn.

Black women are proficient in misusing theirs, hence they get the worst.

Lesson: Don't pick a fight you know you would lose eventually. Don't mistreat people that you hope would mrtreat you later.

Even white guys are saying and fcking doing the same thing. The white girls are now having their "few bad experiences" with white guys.

https://www.nairaland.com/2424042/what-sagamite-been-saying-years

The misbehaviour of women is pervasive especially post the introduction of feminism. Added to the fact that they are built to be selfish and primary think of their interest only. Toxic mix!

shaybebaby:
Elebi part two, your hunger is not letting you too thinking straight abi?

Ewo l'epistle? Does your post tally with any of my previous posts?

Abunu!

What fcking previous post did you have that made sense?

peacettw:
I checked my post again and again and nowhere did I see your name mentioned anywhere in my post. You must think highly of yourself what with all the PMs and shit all serving to inflate the already self inflated ego of yours. Now listen, you little twerp, I only interact with people with some degree of intelligence. Your kind had better find your type as I am sure they are littered somewhere in your glorified PMs. Now run along and be pleased that you got my attention as any typical irritant would. This will be your last. Silly things out there looking for relevance in anything.

Biitch, I don't fcking think highly of myself. I think Godly of myself.

At the same fcking level as your fcking God. I am your Alpha and Omega, dumbo.

Bow down and worship.

If you familial lineage has half the fcking intellect I had when I was merely 14, you cretins would have annual blockbuster party every fcking year to praise God.

Ode oshi!

Jupxter:
It hurts to see friends fight one another, in all honesty, i blessed the day i met you, Shayebaby is my sister oh, a similar minded person like you if you both weren't in this situation...Jeez..Not fair watching this happen

Let her go fck herself, men.

I don't do and don't tolerate all that feminist shyt!

All they do is think about their interest and that is all that mattters.

Jupxter:
Anyways

THIS IS MODERN DAY WOMAN FOR YOU, EXACTLY LIKE YOU STATED IT, ACCEPT ME JUST LIKE I AM NOT GIVING HERSELF TO DEVELOPMENT, WHILE PRESSING AND PRESSING, AND TESTING THE GUY TO SEE IF HE'S DESERVING OF THEM, A FLAWED MYOPIC SELFISH PERSPECTIVE ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS....

They enjoy testing. It is a challenge and chicken game based on "how desirable am I and how much power do I have with my looks over this guy", which is fun to them.

When it bites them in the ass, they start wondering what happened.

peacettw:
@op, hang in there. Be determined, be focused. Love yourself and live. Accept it all so that you can move on quickly by healing faster.

Ignore nitwits whose tasks are to make you feel like it's all your fault. Maybe some but surely not all of it. Reject negativity. Be independent.

I will not lie, the journey will not be smooth but hey nothing ever is.. The guys ranting that they are now bad boys (ridiculous I know) also had a rough past with a girl, never recovered and now have their synapses all messed up. Rise above all that, remain good cos if you follow their logic, then you might as well be a glorified prostitute and a first grade witch (morgana standard with a touch of hela in thor) with a singular mission to torment guys eternally (ridiculous? yeah I know).

Will stop talking now. This is your cross, so deal with it like we all deal with ours. And yes, like the bad boy gangs are also dealing with theirs, only difference is that they don't know it yet.

Later dear. Got to prepare the kids for school

No! Women are the ones that have their synapses (abi Schnapppes lo de pe ni) messed up.

I don't even bother discussing with females anymore because I know many are not receptive to feedback. All they think about is "me, me, me, me, me" and follow the stupid feminist mantra of modern day "he should accept you just the way you are".

Feminism have destroyed many of you. Many have no interest in self-development or the best interests of men. It is all about themselves is the rule. And to many (if you ask them to list what they think), the best interest of men are aligned to doing the things that are in the best interest of a woman. I spot it even on NL. Schnapppes yin ti tan (Your Schnapppes is finished).

If I look at the amount of people that have PMed me personally for advice on improving in relationships and interacting with the opposite sex, only 1 has ever been a girl.

Women have no interest in equality and equity when they feel they have an advantage. They abuse the advantage at will and enjoy the privilege.

When the boots switches to the other side, they now want the other side to join in the pity party. Get da fck ourrahere!

Looku Looku!

shaybebaby:
I bet in your delusions you thought wanking each other off that you and your cohorts did all over the thread was helpful.

Cvntbreath!

shaybebaby:
Totally at odds with what you, belamorte and saggy ass were wanking over with glee. However you know me, remove the church angle and you know I'd be in total agreement.

You are a moooron!

If I want to wankk, I would wankk over the face of a girl like you. And you would honestly think it is raining white custard!

A woman is explaining her marriage has collapsed, and at no stage did she even bother in her outpour to wonder why her husband would behave in such a way, and your dumbarse did not think WTF?

So what were you expecting?

She is a woman, she should not have responsibilities and accountabilities?

That I should join in and start a sympathy and "men are so evil" party?

She obvious has issues she has to take responsibilities for for her not to even wonder about what triggered his behaviour. But you were expecting me to come and join hands with you and start your feminist rant shyt? I look like a Real Man Binnnnnch to you?

Worse still is when I know you black women well.

If it was a white girl now or a young girl now, I can give benefit of doubt. But knowing you black girls and the kind of arseholes you can be, you should be grateful I am just doing my Looku Looku!

When we see una behave anyhow you want towards black men with impunity and without contrition, then you want us to come and join your pity party when karma catches up with some? Amadioha na ata ahuhu gi otu! (May the God of Thunder fire your pusssy!)

You want us to think the men are mad when they choose to behave like that? And that you are just "victims"?

Ko ni da fun iwo feminists e! (E no go better for your feminist views)

Looku Looku movement!

https://image.freepik.com/free-icon/eyes-looking-through-eyeglasses_318-52502.jpg

Belafonte:
As always, you drop the gold when you can. Nothing to add to that comment. Pure fûcking gold.

Thanks, homie.

Oyindidi:
What is your advice for the op?

I can't advice without the whole story (the other side).

If I go by what she has put down so far, it would be negative for her. So I need the full picture to feel I am being fair.

No sane, well-developed man brings another woman home to his wife and tells her to eff off without her doing something drastically wrong to him.

So, at the moment, I am thinking it is either:

1) Her choice making
2) Her earlier misdeeds.

Belafonte:
Ori re pe ju.

They are a risk, I manage the risk.

It is not hate.

https://www.nairaland.com/4288134/edge-quitting-3-years-relationship/2#64611422

Oyindidi:
I know you're coolheaded. You say it as it is. I like that about you.

Good night dear.. Let me cuddle up

Yep. Exactly!

If you go through all my posts, you will find I never insult girls or even talk harshly about them. I just say what they are like and the realities on the ground.

Night, girl.

Ladyhippolyta88:
You need slap.

You see what I am talking about?

WAHALA!!!

Oyindidi:
I see, you are so real. Na your type no dey do pre-intimacy

If it can be avoided, better!

Especially if the girl is hot.

Slide in that motherfucker quick. ..............Before she changes her mind.

Jupxter:
Its been nice chatting ..

Sagamite
Belafonte
Gungnir
Oyindidi


Catch you all later

Salute to you, Nigga!

Oyindidi:
He may one coolheaded guy trying to be tough on women here

I am normally coolheaded until I see something is wrong completely.

I am reactor, not an arsehole.

I treat girls the way I find they deserve to be treated.

Oyindidi:
you can as well be the father, you called her Darling

Olorun maje! (God forbid!)

This one go burn nigga's house like Left Eye.

Ladyhippolyta88:
I don't know him only read his post today and observed two things misogyny and chauvinism.

Pele, "victim".

Oyindidi:
I'm a woman, sagamite may not be romantic though

Romantic ko, Mongoliatic ni.

I aint!

https://www.nairaland.com/2817873/nigerian-men-foreign-wives-must/4#41386562

Oyindidi:
Sagamite, propose already

No, thanks. Am good.

When I said single mother, I did not mean I would be the babyfather.

That would be another guy that likes wahala. I like happiness.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Who is your darling?Anyways your future prayer point is good for you.

You prefer I call you bit.ch?

You like bad boys ni?

Jupxter:
Hahaha but why ?

I am a Professor of Womantology. I know them.

She is a "me, me, me, me, me".

Oyindidi:
Then get a wife

Fck that, girl!

Am good.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Maybe that is your prayer point may God grant you your heart desire.

Darling, I can smell one when I see it.

And it is likely to become more common in future anyway. So no worry.

Jupxter:
Trust me that babe is cream...Trust me, i've evaluated her, just that i'm pernanently barred from her axial......

I strongly suspect her personality is not well-developed.

Oyindidi:
Get a sexdoll

Olorun maje! (God forbid!)

Ladyhippolyta88:
Belafonte and sagamite abeg make una nor quote me that is my interpretation of what I have been reading chauvinism and misogyny.

No worry!

Destination single mother!

Belafonte:
She was frigid and has issues I can't cope with. Her current husband is about to get another wife. Hehehe.

And I am sure she would still see herself as the "victim" and not learn to review herself.

Jupxter:
She's a fine lady, a beautiful exception....

I doubt.

Oyindidi:
Get a SD

Luckily (and carefully), I have never had one.

Nor am I a babyfather.

So I have done wonders with the condom.

It takes a lot for me to stick it raw in any girl; and I am not a fan of skanks. Once I know a girl is a skank, I cut her off.

Don't want any bacteria that would eat my diick while oyinbo is saying these bacteria are beginning to be resistant to antibiotics.

Jesus loves me!

efesodje:
I like your taste. Those are top class MILFs

Sweet, juicy, top class MILFs!

I would gladly tear them up.

Ladyhippolyta88:
These belafonte and sagamite guys are real chauvinist and misogynist.Please don't quote me.

Chauvinist ko, polovonist ni.

Don't learn and take feedback of what has been said about you black women for decades and women in general and change yourself.

Continue claiming "victim".

Oyindidi:
I don't think you'll find such woman on this planet. Ladies are something else

I know, girl.

I don't mind being single as long as I get sex. So all good.

Jupxter:
I've got arounfd 7 folks in London, and they express it this same way, that they avoid our chicks like plague, and in fact there's a rank...Moreso, i hear ondon chicks have roving eyes, monitoring the next Naija guy that touches base, to quickly jump in on him....Chai, how did we get here?

I know a large fraction of the 27+ year olds who had to marry a Naija guy that came to the UK for masters, a Naija guy in the US or they even had to go to Naija to find husband because Niggas in the UK just put a block on dating them because of their stinking personalities.