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alexialin:
Are you still on this topic?

This topic is over and done with nah? .. There are new buzzing threads online.

It's his life. And none of my biz.

There are more pressing issues to attend to. Not this one Biko.

Move on Sagamite we've already wrapped up this topic Tay Tay.

Well I just moved in today, after a week.

No wrapping can ever be as good as my intellectual wrapping.

So make una open up the wrapper and learn from me.

Golor, I just dug this out for another post.

Couldn't help but think this iss very similar to your case in some sense and the advice also applies helpfully to you.

https://www.nairaland.com/1992261/why-girls-mean/

https://www.nairaland.com/1992261/why-girls-mean/4#28038153

Xiadnat:
...........so, you say you are a college student? Your grammar is ok, but please "spell" things out. It takes very little out of your time.

This is an embarrassing reflection on your professors. They don't mark you down for these atrocious spellings or that you haven't learned yet? Or are you dumbing it down for social media? You haven't graduate? Good. There's time to learn.

Whatever the case, I am flabbergasted! (in your social media language "I am shook".)

Brilliant points!

Xiadnat:
Now, with your post: Please read Toks2008: "sex is marriage". You should be ashamed of yourself to be proud enough to say you "deflowered" her. You should not toy with another's feelings. Sex is no game. And until you are "grown up" enough, please face your studies.

..... Go and apologize to her for the "damages" you have done to her by taking her virginity. Make amends and end things with her in peace and with integrity. And, sin no more. Using IJN....Just don't.


Don't come here forming "big boy" with your tall tale 'cause you are looking for locker room handshakes from your fellow dirty dogs for deflowering a lady. Shame on you.

Next time you post, come tell me what contributions you have made to society. Not damages you have inflicted on another.

Nonsense point!

He does not need to apologise for shyt!

If she was the one, she would most likely not apologise.

When women do wrong, they usually only apologise when they are still interested or (at best, if at all) lamely if they are not interested.

They tend to only apologise for issues like this if they feel it can lead to calumny, if not, they just disconnect with the guy without any contrition.

I have said this shyt so many times:

https://www.nairaland.com/859170/marriage-worth-it-guys/35#13525034
https://www.nairaland.com/1992261/why-girls-mean/4#28038153
https://www.nairaland.com/1433735/ladies-attitude-when-breaking-up/1#18072016

alexialin:
He's even arrogant about it.
Whom he dumped!

Chai!

Anyways Op, your deceits and dumping is awaiting for you ahead.
Keep fucvking and dumping u hear?
Then sugar coat it with a reason.


Your conscience is judging you, that's why u don't want to believe she has forgiven u and moved on. You need some guys here to give u a pat on the back and tell u the same thing they always say here, don't mind her she's olosho. Na una language for here be that.

So it's possible she has moved on. Not everybody likes carrying grudge and hatred forever. Not every girl still remembers or linger onto the guy who popped her cherry in the past.

Continue whining!

Like if women themselves don't use that term arrogantly.

And as if women have a conscience when they are doing their own.

"Me, me, me, me, me" mentality at work.

Davedgr8:
My ex girlfriend whom i dumbed during our year 2 has been disturbing me since we resume this session. I've been avoiding her but she just won't give up. Deep within me, i knw she want a chance into my life only to seek revenge cos i disvirgined her.. We re both in our final year nd d level of stalking has intensified, knwing fully well this is d last chance she's got.

Yesterday, while i was with my goons in sch, she walked up to me dt she wants to discuss something wit me. I gave her a listening ear, but she said she can't say it to my face she'll call me. I told her no p.

Last night.. She sent this msg to me via whasApp..

"Aff always hold grudge against u.... For everything that happened to us.. Year after year I have been nursing it..... I just want to let u know.... I forgive you.. I want my peace of mind... Have a great life dear" ..

What could she be up to guys?

P.S : I left her cos she nags too much, wants to knw everythng about me nd notice my CGPA was back sliding. So, i had to back off b4 i get emotionally involved in d shiit..

Cc ubunja , sagamite

You are not interested in her.

Then move on and find your happiness. Life is not that hard.

No one wants a nagging girl.

duwdu:
If your profiling me as an "Amala strategist" for identifying Obasanjo's purported suggestion as being unrealistic makes you feel like a superior thinker, good for you.

Those who do the actual voting (outside social media, which section is miniscle in terms of the actual ballot-casting population, anyways,) will speak to Obasanjo when next they have a chance - in February, 2019.

'Nuf said.

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Please show me where you identified "Obasanjo's purported suggestion".

Rorhymes:
So what is the way forward? I don't agree he was a better choice though. So much was stalled and alot of the previous administrations recommendations are being implemented. Removal of subsidy to name one. I think he was not the best man for the job (but hey we can agree to disagree). It is good we have all had a taste of him, now we can drop the funny idea that fighting corruption is the most important thing for a president.

He was by far the best and only choice out of the two.

You would be eating from bins if the Cretin of Otuoke was allowed to continue. You have no clue how reetarded that moooron was. The looters loved him so much because they knew the cretin could do nothing and has no interest in doing nothing. I bet it was his obese market woman wife that was even managing some ministers and most likely even him.

That cretin is the daftest head of state we have ever had.

Please never say "recommendations" again. What is an achievement about recommendations? What is hard about recommendations?

Recommendations, plans and announcements were the tools used by, and still used by, stupid Nigerian governments to manage the morale and support of the masses; and deceive them.

They make stupid grand announcements and cretins start getting excited and saying "we are progressing". It was a tool I saw the Cretin of Otuoke's government use repeatedly while looting the country dry.

I don't want to hear recommendations, I want to fcking hear achievements, completions, actual cost, contracted firms, benefiting interests, strategy, plans, milestones and fcking budgeted cost. You will never hear the first 5 from corrupt arsewipes like the Cretin of Otuoke's government.

Fighting corruption was the fcking most important thing in 2015, mate. It was fundamental.

Those in the know already labelled us "Fantastically Corrupt". International publications could not even hold back anymore, and keep demonstrating any diplomatic decorum, that they publicly started labelling the Cretin of Otuoke an "Dumb" and "Corrupt".

I, PERSONALLY, have been to that Deizani's London estate agent's, Adeyemi Edun, office in King's Cross office. (With my own physical body, not a Sagamu spiritual thing)

I have been there, met the guy (with the huge pimples on his face) and we chatted briefly. The office is like a former apartment turned into an office. At the stairway leading upstairs (on the right, just 6 walking steps from the front door), at the top of the stairway first junction, the picture that faces you are pictures of Adeyemi Edun with GEJ and Mama Diarisgodooo. No be "Dem say", I saw it with my own fcking korokoro eyes. That was part of his marketing to the corrupt. GEJ was in some green polo top in the picture.

This guy was not only buying for Deizani, he was a personal estate agent for the Nigerian corruption circle. They were fcking looting the country dry and I was saying it here. Now we are paying for it.

What is the way forward? As long as many of us cannot afford to be in politics or manage the politics, then the option you have is to always vote for the best options they people with the power put forward.

If we had voted for Ribadu when Tinubu put him forward in 2011, we would not be here today.

In 2015, Buhari was by far the better option out of the 2 poor options.

In 2019, if hypothetically anyone has an option between Buhari and Athieku, then chooses Atiku, then they need to be shot.

Preferably, better options than the 2 would be put forward in 2019. I doubt PDP would bring a good option though. APC is at risk based on the option of PDP. PDP bringing a very bad option is the only way Buhari can win in 2019, and the PDP is very capable of providing horrible candidates.

I repeat, in 2015, there was nothing more important than fighting corruption. It was fundamental after the Cretin of Otuoke!

UyiIredia:
What is good for beef is good for Gbawe.

Gbawe is in a different stratosphere from Beaf.

Beaf is a reetard!

blarkraimez:
Am not on any drugs , mind You. And I stayed in that country for 30years too..... all those things also happen here too, the media only make you see what they want you to see... no point arguing with you further because you have obviously derailed from the argument.

Yes, I know.

Being owed salary for months also happens in Germany.

Not being paid your pension and going to stand in a queue at 90 years old also happens in Germany.

Armed robbers closing and robbing a street also happens in Germany.

Driving against traffic on the motorway also happens in Germany.

Being robbed of your valuables by thugs while driving in traffic on Graf Adolf Strasse also happens in Germany.

Unqualified teachers teaching kids also happens in Germany.

Electricity going off for 2 weeks also happens in Germany.

Pastors slapping reetarded churchgoers also happens in Germany.

As a fcking matter of fact, Koln has its own Ajegunle and Makoko.

Continue your typical black-power, black-pride self-delusion nonsense!

Leave heaven for a pure, unadultrated shithole to take a shithole job because you want to have pride in your shithole nation and shithole race.

LordAdam16:
Yh, I'm defending her. And you can't even give a sensible retort.

Now who is the cretinous f*cktard?

I'd hand your a$$ to you with my eyes closed. You are NOTHING!

Now move along dejected trash, I've given you all the attention your lowly self deserves.

You can either answer the question or keep making a fool of yourself. Bets are that you'd take the latter option since your brain is petrified.

M0R0N.

-Lord

You are what can only be termed a "Congenital fuuktard".

The sooner death takes you, the more God proves his high level of mercy towards the weak.

LordAdam16:
Taking a chill pill you POS?

Can't even answer a question. And then rooting for someone who pays killers. How low can Sagamite really go just because of pride?

Utter disgrace!

See how easy it was for me to put you in your place. *spits*

-Lord

Cretinous fuuktard said he is putting me in my place by defending Mama Piss.

You need to be dragged into the streets begging for your life while Mopol are kicking your daft head in before blowing it into smithereens.

LordAdam16:
Stop bleating.

Mention one name.

Only one name. That shouldn't be so hard for you, no?

BASTARD!

-Lord

What utter moronic fuuktard!

ikeyman00:
This is precisely what im talking about; i believe this man lives in Uk and even with all the providence the whole world could see sophistication at its peak!

Okay do you seriously believe anything has changed; all the people around boko harem Buhari are stealing and he looks the other way. NNPC never paid a dime in the so called single account and nobody is talking and to cap it all billion is budget in food; wetin dem dey cook

Even the clinics in aso rock do not have syringe and his wife technically told Nigerians the level of kworruption going on in the zoo called Nigeria

however this is you in trashing around

my goodness me

Yeah, you honestly thought in your head that anyone can stop corruption in Nigeria in 3 years?

Or even 10?

While the person is running a country, the judiciary & police are corrupt and the person is even sick for months?

What foolishness!

LordAdam16:
Mention any First Lady in Nigeria that did not become wealthier after their administration? Just one.

A Second Lady in Bayelsa, First Lady in Bayelsa, Second Lady of Nigeria, then First Lady of Nigeria. And her assets are less than $100m. Every First Lady in Africa both alive and dead would be ashamed of her.

You see your problem, you think only some people should steal.

And did you really just say it is okay to pay killers instead of prosecute them?

What an animal! No wonder you voted the animal in Aso Rock.

-Lord

Look at the reasoning of this fuuktard!

What an utter cretinous fuuktard!

I have repeatedly advocated that in the ideal world, people with your type and level of reasoning should be dragged out on the streets and have a bullet pumped into your moronic, daft brains for the good of the world.

As that ideal world is far aware, I will settle for now with your daft arses being sold like cattle in Libya.

LordAdam16:
Hopefully, the Dullardeen of Daura would do as you say (in bold).

At a time when rigging for Presidential elections should be in the past, your ilk guaranteed that it became a necessity to win the Presidency.

All of a sudden, a man who believes in do-or-die elections is now the man holding the torch.

-Lord

You are a cretinous fuuktard!

Even if Patience Jonathan was your English teacher, never use such comprehension to attribute wrong meanings to my clear statements.

LordAdam16:
If in 2018, you still think Buhari is better than Jonathan and Atiku, you need to check yourself.

And do all of us a favor, don't vote in 2019.

Recommending El-Rufai who paid killers instead of arresting them.

-Lord

I have said it several times on NL, people like you are too reetarded to vote.

Despite the billions of loot being exposed as looted by even the Cretin of Otuoke's wife and being recouped, your moronic arse still thinks he was the right choice.

Or better still, you would vote for someone that became a millionaire from being a civil servant.

Next time, get a brain and find out the reason shy El-Rufai paid the killers.

NgeneUkwenu:
If you believed Buhari will lose the election in 2019....then you are a novice in politics...The difference between Jonathan and Buhari in 2015 is the Support Base! Buhari has favoured the North, who determine who rules Nigeria... And they can never abandon him for any other unknown Northerner....Buhari Northern Support Base is intact ever than before....and He will win convincingly, if he contests..

Watch out in days to come, how they will turn the campaign..

Nonsense!

Buhari has always been favoured by the North; what did he win until he could get the support of the SW?

Historical evidence will show you that to win election in Nigeria you need to have a strong support base in at least 2 of the 3 major tribes.

If you have this base with the Hausa/Fulani and Yoruba, then you have virtually won bar any mega-rigging. Fortunately, the Cretin of Otuoke was too drunk to know this simple fact.

LordAdam16:
Atiku and Jonathan are far better than the Buhari you supported in 2015.

And no id*ot should groom El-Rufai. That is a mortal sin.

I'd take Ribadu or Sani over any current Northern presidential candidate. But let's keep watch. The right candidates hardly ever get the ticket.

-Lord

You must be on prohibited drugs!

duwdu:
Obasanjo has identified a lot of our problems, like most minds have always done. Unfortunately, Obasanjo has not provided any viable or real world alternatives or solutions!

Coalition for Nigeria ko, CoN ni — a real con man.

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When you finally get a functioning brain, you will realise men with one and who are strategic in nature show their cards in phases.

They don't think, talk and behave like Amala strategist like you.

Welcome to Phase 1!

Brilliant write-up by Baba PhD.

He said it all!

It is now time for APC to groom Ribadu or El-Rufai for the role.

If they don't, they are at risk, unless the PDP continues putting forward more crooks, like Atiku or Jonathan, as candidate. Then any person with a functioning brain-cell in his head would say Buhari till 2023.

If Nigeria has Ribadu/El-Rufai vs Duke in 2019, that would be fantastic political system progress.

blarkraimez:
You are only harping on the same chord of basic and established fact.... but residing abroad opened my eyes to the reality.... You are right, they may have some huge progress jn some areas where we are lacking.... but i can tell You, they are not that fulfilled yourself.... You can confirm in your lecture time... an average german will not wait the next day to visit Africa during holidays... just because, they experience what there countries did not offer them... I may shock you if I say some of this big countries can't survive being Nigeria.... I mean every month with a salary of 2000euro, I pay social and tax and insurance of 600euro and house rent of 400.... so half of my salary is actually going back to the government.... am not including parking ticket anywhere you get too... my point is everybody both the shithole country and the so called advanced country have their "for and against....... belif me, if u have a good federal government job in naija today, I will book my ticket home tommorow......... the so called big country are also overrated.....

What drugs do you take?

You are telling me you are going to leave Germany and take up a job with Nigerian government?

Earning what? .....................N2m a year at best? ........Or lets even say a parastatal, N8m a year at best?

What schools would you send your kids to? The ones where the teachers can't pass the exams they are supposed to give?

Or when they get older, the teachers would be sexually harrassing and assualting your daughter?

How much would you pay when your kids are kidnapped?

You prefer to live behind burglary proof, in front of open gutter and with the benefit of numerous generator noise?

You prefer to live in a place where the state gives an illiterate animal a gun and he is telling you "I will damage you and nothing will happen"?

What the fck do you smoke? Or how bad was your offence against your enemies in the village? Una no fit beg them?

You will leave the land of Human Gods to go to a shithole for less pittance money?

Priscy01:
An African American woman took to social media to state that black men shave the hair on their heads to look like 'white men' and this, she insists, is supposedly because of self hate. Is she being too 'woke'?

See more from her rant in defence of her stance below and tell us what you think.

http://www.torimill.com/2018/01/black-men-who-shave-their-heads-are.html

Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique

Her logic is actually quite stupid. I don't expect any better from a woman who wants to prove an illogical point in her favour.

Here are the reasons why her logic is stupid:

1) Black people and maybe Amerindians are the races/people who have historically shaved their heads.
2) White people hardly do
3) Shaving is grooming, not adding anything fake

Black people have been shaving their heads well before contact with white people as a cultural style and are the race who continue to use extemsive shaving as style today.

If she is pissed about some oppobrium she is getting and want to make a counter point, she needs to make a point more intelligent than this and which is a more genuine criticism.

Her points are so stupid, they are not good as points for attacking her critics, neither are they good as points for defending her against the criticisms she is getting.

They are not good for attack because they are not logical.

They are not good for defence because they are not analogical.

This kind of outcome is what is normally termed "Headless Strategy".

khiaa:
Good morning Sagamite. I'm getting ready for work and I logged on and this is what I saw.

Sexually harassing me? You can't handle a woman like me, I'll have you tied to the bed with your legs spread eagle while dripping hot candle wax on your nak.ed body, watching you scream in pain and begging me to stop, all the while laughing with pleasure at your agony. That's how I'll treat a man like you.

Have a great day.

KHIAAAAAAAAAA!

I can't WHHAAAAAAAT?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gsuuA7_uQ8U

I can't handle who?

E MI, SAGAMITE? (ME, SAGAMITE?)

The fuku faka fuku faka fuku faka locomotiv shagging professional?

You are lucky you are in California.

Otherwise by tomorrow morning, I would have finished with your American ass and be saying:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PSWm971LXIw

quickly:
It’s people like you with no self respect that allow others to disrespect you.

You know meaning of shithole...it mean shit soakaway or toilet or shalanga.

Donald trump is a confirmed KKK and Nazi sympathizer if though he might deny it . Historically his grand father was a German immigrant from NAZI area.

And how is that much different from what you have at the front of majority of your houses?

[img]http://3.bp..com/-CLV9DFKv7xg/TfoDCKuAMUI/AAAAAAAAAR4/YfdpmyPM6SQ/s1600/DSC_6362.JPG[/img]

SHITHOLE!

Mariangeles:
[/s]Don't hurt yourself with self hate and bitterness... You ooze self hate right from where you are...no matter what you do, no matter what you type/say, you'll always be black...DEAL WITH IT!
Typing nonsense wouldn't make the White sons of b!tches love you...so, do yourself a favour... LOVE YOURSELF!

No. I ooze hate for the cretins that populate my race.

Just like there are many blacks selling/taking drugs and shooting each other like baboons in America, there are still some select blacks heading for the top and become 2-term presidents in the same fcking country.

So I have no problem dealing with being black. I just recognise reetarded blacks and take pleasure in letting them know they are reetarded!

Belafonte:
There's a darkness about women. They can be wickedly selfish. That's the difference.

I wouldn't call it darkness.

They are who they are. They are not doing it to be wicked, they are just built evolutionarily with the inclination. Just like we are not trying to be wicked when we want to smack multiple girls and give them some yoghurt.

Of course, just like us men, there would be a few girls that are utter arseholes and with darkness (either in personality or as an outcome of their shithole life), but those are just a minority in both sexes.

One needs to understand the way women are and manage the interaction and relationship with them with one's head and to one's advantage.

I have a philosophy of happiness; any girl that does not fit and help me drive that philosophy would not be of much value to me. I would extract what ever little value I can extract from them where I can, but they aint gonna be there on the long term eventually.

The ones that are trying their best to help me be happy would get my best efforts in making them happy.

I don't compromise on that.

Belafonte:
Sagamite



Massive contribution from the Girls' thread. Classic you.

With each passing day, I loathe the idea of getting married. It's just too much trouble. Very soon, marriage in Nigeria will be worthless. Divorce is through the roof. It is not worth the trouble. I've got two friends planning for this year. I asked one of them how much he trusted his bride-to-be and he said and I quote "I go just zero my mind". I was like "hmm", there are some things not worth getting an argument about. I would it extremely difficult to zero my mind with a woman I cannot vouch for which is nil at the moment and not even looking promising.

Yah, man.

I like keeping it real.

I don't sugarcoat it.

I say it as it is with pure, unadulterated and intelligent objectivity.

khiaa:
Lol Dead beat dad in the making.

Trust me, it works.

It would make you a strong, independent woman.

By the way, you know that according to some people, I just sexually harassed you?

Are you going to call the police?

Bizibi:
I know all northerners can't be this wicked but president buhari and his clan are definitely not from Nigeria,this man thinks like a fanatic wired with a dangerous ideology......and my brothers like sagamite and co always think differently about him.

Because of failure on one/some issue(s), go and vote for Atiku.

I look forward to buying you in India or dragging your dead body out of the ocean in a few years time.

khiaa:
LMAO That video is so romantic, I didn't know you had it in you.

Am good. Ain't I?

I know how to turn the juice on.

khiaa:
Are you going to provide for those 5 babies and be a loving father to them, or are you going to be another dead beat dad? Are you going to take care of those babies mother as well? Are you going to put a ring on it?

All these things have to be considered before you plant your seed.

I am a responsible babyfather o, Khiaa.

I don't play around with my responsibilities.

If you are my 32nd babymama. I would send you a bag of garri and 3 boxes of pampers every year.

Just because you are American, I would send you a pack of sugar too as bonus.

Gerrard59:
I've been following the misandrist movements in the west, and honestly, it's sickening and totally illogical. The one that gets on my nerves is the so-called "gender pay gap", when actually it's "earnings' gap". Good thing, however, is that The Economist magazine - one of the greatest champion of equal pay - has realised the gender pay doesn't exist. Rather it's earnings' gap, women's choices, motherhood gap and negotiating skills.

Worse is the hypocrisy at realising we've two genders yet demand equality rights for the over "89" more genders - the ze, xi, zet, net, and whatnot. Another one is the pandering to the illogical ideas by most western politicians, which I believe will in the distance future weaken the west. Compared to Asian nations - Singapore, Japan, India, China, S.Korea etc. These nations are pragmatic and don't promote things of practically no value to the greater society. Especially Singapore. I see them not Britain, US, Canada or even Germany becoming the most influential nations in the near future.

Additionally, I agree with you that marriage favours women than men - in all ramifications. And with the growing animosity most western men have towards the system, it's women that will suffer the most, after all they benefit more from the institution of marriage. Yet, it's women who desire more than men to get married.

There is nothing wrong with giving people equal rights, but this comes with responsibilities. There has to be a limit. And to think I was a liberal. Well, at least, certainly not the Labour Party's kind.

"it's sickening and totally illogical"

What the fck do you expect from women when they are making an argument for an issue to favour them?

Gender pay gap is the nonsense conjured up by the feminists lunatics.

As you said, the Economists has already dismantled that. I don't need to go further into it.

My own opinion is "Equal pay for (a) equal work or (b) work that generates equal value".

If you work in an environment where the value of your work is primarily determined by the effort you put in or your qualifications, then (a) applies.

If you work in an environment where the value of your work is independent of effort put in or qualifications, then (b) applies.

On that basis, the gap in pay between men and women is low. It probably still exists but I am sure it is low.

There is no fcking way women on average would ever, ever, ever, ever get the same pay as men in sports except they find a way of sexualising their own sports. They can whine from today to the day the world ends, the value (revenues) generated from mens effort is higher (even if we ignore that the effort is higher).

On the other hand, there is no fcking way men on average would ever, ever, ever, ever get the same pay as women in modelling without any fcking exception. We have no assets to really look at (if one's head is correct). Women are a more beautiful thing. Now I don't hear this cretins that call themselves "feminists" whine about gender pay gap on the catwalk.

In the case of the BBC female journalist, Carrie Gracie, being paid half of what her male counterparts were earning, that is just fcking wrong and unacceptable. Those are the cases I want to hear and are justified.

Yep. This social engineering by Western leaders would eventually weaken them. UK is already a nation kissing the ass of China. The left/liberals would eventually destroy the West because politicians would not be able to do the right and logical thing without these lunatic "Outrage Mongers".