₦airaland Forum

Mariangeles:
[/s]EMANCIPATE YOURSELF FROM MENTAL SLAVERY, IT'S THE WORST KIND... ONLY YOU CAN FREE YOURSELF!

blarkraimez:
Get your fact right..... they came here first... and they are still coming. . Just as we need them to survive they need us too... what do you think will happen to the world if everybody stays in his or her place... this same german government open up their borders maximally for immigrant because of their ageing population which could not hold their vast industries in 20 years? Now almost all courses in Germany have an English part because world is changing, and reality is we all move around to achieve something.... let Africa hold their resources and block their borders and see the number of people in so called developed country that will he commiting suicide..... once they are free from their long work days the first thing That comes to their mind is holidays in Africa.... because their they feel alife and relief of stress from the ever boring, only bills oriented lifestyle

DedeNkem:
The racism also occurs in Nigeria everyday in the form of tribalism!!

Yoruba hating Igbos, Igbos hating Hausa/fulanis and Hausas/fulanis hating both Igbos, yorubas and others!

Mariangeles:
[s][\s] Don't ever make a fool of yourself this way again!

diegwu01:
They should come back and Play for Kano Pillars, El-kanemi Warriors, Akwa United, Gombe United or Iwanyanwu Nationale.
Lets grow our own league.

Sagamite:
Nairaland is run by blacks, you don't need to bring them down, they are stupid enough to bring themselves down.

shobroy10:
Seriously I don't know why we Africans are surprised, things like this will nver end the earlier we get used to it the better cos we went to them leaving our own father land. Destroying our future and using our selfish interest of I want a greener pasture to build their land for them is mind bugging. So any jab thrown to us should be accepted whole heartedly

Mariangeles:
So these white foolish ugly Germans are still caught up in the 18th century with their superiority complex, always aiming to bring the Blackman down and it hurts... Seems as though the war against racism is getting nowhere, but we'll keep fighting nonetheless until it's won.


urgh! I'm so angry!

khiaa:
Yes Emmanuel is real.

Davedgr8:
Galor, na boss sagamite dey advice u so wey u stl dey form James Bond.

It obvious u so much trust dt gal... My own advice to u is this, never trust a girl cos u'll end up getting fvcked.

Gerrard59:
I'll implore you follow Sagamite's advise. The guy na bros for woman matter. You're obviously new not to know who he's. Anything he says, take it. He's a God!

bodyonchecheche:
1. Lol it’s temporary, I registered it when I got banned by the anti spam bot so I switch usernames every now and then
2. 3 years ago, one of the best decisions I’ve made (na joke o )

I think they can be as selfish as each other, for example, society places men as the providers, they're the ones pressured to pay for things, be ‘chivalrous’ etc., as a result a lot of women are selfish and entitled. On the other hand, men tend to be more polygamous and use it to justify infidelity a lot, this in itself is selfish, so I don’t think any gender is necessarily more selfish than the other it just depends on the situation

I'll check out the thread

Belafonte:
Your last paragraph is the truth. I think guys know these things but learn to accept it for the sake of marriage. If more guys saw marriage as just another good thing to have and not the ultimate, things would be calmer between the sexes. Right now, there seems to be such tension between the sexes.

bodyonchecheche:
Same way I look at things when it comes to guys @ bolded, or just humans in general tbh

Happy new year by the way, this is Ibkayee

Belafonte:
I consider spoiling them and gifting them things are just maintenance costs for the kind of pleasure they offer. Once, the cost begins to exceed pleasure, I bail without thinking twice. To now include such talk as direct cash solicitation and mercantilism, I will "change it for her" with a quickness, she would doubt if I ever liked her. If I ever thought of marrying her, I would blame my momentary lapse in discernment. People will always be who they are, women will always be who they are. And they are neither angels nor princesses, I don't treat them as such.

Rayhandrinni:
babe, I don't reckon pep talk would help him....she's given enough signs she wants out, but he's holding on ...so ?

Rayhandrinni:
babe, I don't reckon pep talk would help him....she's given enough signs she wants out, but he's holding on ...so ?

golor:
I don't need to prove anything to you , one thing is for sure truth unvail it self ..

Runs girls do compliment her of being good . I have been dating for long before we met . what's good is good . the babe is good . most importantly loyal . she don't follow guys for money , she was brought up well . so , keep your advice .when we go out people admire her beauty when she comes back her faithfulness is her ceiling point .


By sister said , your babe is just too beautiglful to be this decent , that most girls will want to use theirs for rubbish .

Belafonte:
Golor, your babe opened her mouth and told you she would start cheating if you do not spend more money on her and you're here shaking like a bastãrd. She is a prostitute you fool, and prostitutes get fuckēd and chucked, simple as. Even if she finds her senses, this ship has sailed. Love on already. There are younger, fresher women waiting for you to buy FanYogo and they will appreciate it. Gtfoh.

bodyonchecheche:
She's obviously a parasite and has made it clear she's using you for money, I'd use her back in return or dump her tbh

golor:
When I saw your lengthy write up at first I was thinking you will make sense but believe me bro you didn't make an iota of it.

My babe is not near what you think , not even considering me maga note that , my sist and many more see her as a very humble and submissive , I make bold to say I am using her , on many occasion I know what that babe has done ....I beg you , she doesn't deserve those words from you . I am only worried about her change of attitude lately and I wish to correct it as soon as possible. My nail cutter , my prayer warrior, my loyal babe . even in a room she will that's not off standard , she will stay in ,in as much as I am there ....she has never seen me as a maga , I hold her Facebook password and ATM ,my parents knows her , permit me to say you ain't giving a good advice .

golor:
Landers please help. Read carefully.


I am about to quit my 3 years relationship nor start cheating on her. I happened to meet a good girl , well brought up , a loyal and extremely beautiful babe.


This girl has been contented for years now , I do give her my change when I have and when her parents sends her money she do give me , I know her ATM password just as she knows mine .


Lately , when I started service due to the fact that I am no longer staying in school , I try as much as I can to get her provision (standard provision ). Each time she comes to my house I do update her provision cause my dad owns a provision shop .

The issue .
December some unexpected cash entered my hand , I decided to spoil my loyal and trustworthy babe , I took her to spar , to genesis and to a pool of which she refused to swim , all this were on different occasions during December after which she told me she needs to get a relaxer for her hair and the price is 3,200 I gave her , she requested for 3k to make hair I gave her , she talked of indo mie and biscuit I gave her 3k . a day to leave I took her to a boutique and bought her a trouser and a top . after which I gave her 6k then subscribe her for 2weeks cause that's how I do subscribe my phone .


Ever since then , all her talk is money money money of how I am suppose to spend on her , of her rich girls do get from men and that when I stop giving her money she will put eye outside and the rest . Her mentality changed , this is a girl that do manage what ever her parents give thogh her parents are trying .....


Her words regarding money today made me went mad on her , I regretted ever trying to spend on her lavishly . I know I have been giving her money , but the December flexing was too much .

A girl her parents will send money she will inform me , I will have to twist her to get some but lately she just see me as a guy who's suppose to take full responsibility of her upkeep whereas we ain't married and if she doesn't change I just feel I will quit ..


Please what should I do to correct this mess.

khiaa:
This post would break his heart, I could never let that happen.

Mariinee:
I caught the compliment...thanks

Well...there are many exceptions and I'm one of them.

Mariinee:
Haha, Sagamite...are you trying to say that I'm not that smart?
Actually, I'm that smart. I just don't flaunt it in people's face like you do

Happy new year though.

Mariinee:
Really..I told you it's unilorin.
I haven't been hiding, maybe you didn't look for me well enough.

khiaa:
LMAO Let me check with Emmanuel first.

khiaa:
Lol it depends on who will do the donating.

Mariinee:
Hey! Where have you been?

Bizibi:
u can write whatever u want to write,you live over there so u can say your grandpa is doing wonderfully well on the economy and security, maybe the Benue and nc incident is okay by you but your savior is going back to wherever he came from.

Bizibi:
very funny!!!
Maybe you don't know what party primaries mean.....
Supporting an old man from diaspora....

MiddleDimension:
i dont advice any guy to 'pick' the so called green light ooo. she can suddenly accuse you of sexual harrasment and you will be ruined! if women cannot be clearly forth coming with their desires, then let them die in passion! since feminists insist on the so called no means no, let them have it. @sagamite

Bizibi:
mtcheeeeew!!!!
Well,your messiah just made middle-class eat from the bins and we will correct that rubbish mistake some of you.......

Chiefly:
We've been together for a year plus now and it's a regular occurrence, she's always starting shi* with other guys, other times with other girls then I have to deal with thier men. Whenever we go clubbing, hanging out in a lounge, shopping at the mall, attending weeding ceremonies, infact the last confrontation was right in a cinema hall... it's quite embarrassing. (she seems to only behave at church)..
I've tried to keep her in check and curb her running mouth in these instances but it never works, and whenever she runs her mouth like this at other guys for minutes on end, it’s only ends one way: With her manning up …and expecting me to clobber the other guy for her, ultimately I get into physical confrontations and fights with these guys to diffend her and ultimately my ego.

Most people think It's my inability to control her but step in my shoes and you'll see the only thing I haven't done is hit her (physically), she's too damn stubborn (in this particular area). This is the only issue we have tho, every other thing is quite great. I've always thought she'll change with time but no. No significant improvement whatsoever. Don't know, could it be psychogenic? She was born and raised in the UK tho based in Nigeria now.

NB: *It's an arranged marriage.

So I really need your advice guys (I'd appreciate matured inputs pls from experienced folks).. Cos

Don't need a woman to go around picking fights for me. i gotta find a way to clip this the instant it starts, or figure out a way to stop this bad behavior once and for all...

Edited: Guys forgot to mention - her dad is a Brigadier General
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From a friend.
Lalasticlala let's help a brother.