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kandiikane: Aye, it's funny how many of you against homosex.uality would love to have a three.some with two women, watch two women shove tongues down eachothers throat(I believe you're not against this, sagamite.) or watch po.rn involving two women but chastise men for doing the same thing. Ahh, it's not bad, sha. It's because they are women. If you deny this make the gods of your ancestors strike you down!

Abeg, mek I go sleep, got a headache from this hypocrisy and double standards. Principles my azz!

I don't watch such.

And people being attracted to such is not grounds for not objecting to homosexuality.

kandiikane: Limiting freedom is putting a man or woman who abuses a kid in jail, not two men or women who love each other and decide to raise a family.

But noo, we rather put gays in jail and leave the child molesters to roam the streets of Africa. LOL! Seriously, someone spare me the bull.

Cut the crap!

These are the moronic arguments you see generated when you are brainwashed.

I am sure there are laws in the African statute books that gives punishment to abuses on kids.

I am sure there are 100 times more cases going to court of child molesters than gays.

So how did you come up with this bullshit argument? You just felt like conjuring it because it sounds funky and so-called "progressive"?

3kay945: Then I will take it up legally but not by stripping them naked.

You will take it up legally after you said it is none of your business?

Under which laws? The ones you said should not be there because it is none of your business?

kandiikane: Bullshyt!


How is my question silly? I gave you an example to show you that we should tolerate eachother.

You gave me an example that shows how it can affect people.

kandiikane: I was brought up in the same 'funky' society as you(the African society) but I for one was not brought up ignorant and riding on a high horse. We have principles and we have boundaries but it doesn't mean we should proscecute someone for their sexua.l orientation. I am not the one getting it in the azz, so why you I start huffing and puffing over it?

We don't persecute, we just refuse to embrace perversion. Any sane society would have boundaries against perversion and instil it in its moral codes.

Check the meaning of perversion in the dictiionary for complete clarity. Don't assume the meaning.

kandiikane: You talk of principles-see, this is the same facade I was talking about. Lol, talk of principles, but come from one of the most phucked up continents where even with the high morals, boundaries and principles, it's still messed up. People burnt a kid in the streets of Nigeria and you talk of principles. Spare me the bullshyt, joor.

This is stewpid!

Who told you that Africans had all the principles required? Because they lack principled in some aspects then they should not have in any?

Cut the crap trying to use the down-troddenness of Africa as an excuse not to have any morals.

There are more complex issue than morals for the predicament of Africa. The predicament that makes young ones like you quickly embrace anything fed to you in the West just to show you associate with "progressives". You need a stronger personality to question and drop the subconcious inferiority complex.

[quote author=Ms_Steph]Everi1 is concern abt how dey r bin paraded. So if dey catch a gay person dey just hug dem. U guys don't knw d evils of homosexuality.[/quote]Maybe they need to parade you for sleeping with your brother too.

It makes sense since, according to you, we need no evidence and a mob of illiterate like you should be free to be investigators, judge and jury.

nwando: This is about parading 4 men naked ,men who have not been charged let alone been convicted of any crime
Start a thread on homosexuality and people will join you there if the desire
Any well meaning individual should condemn this barbaric act
Have you?
What you have done is educate us on the immorality of homosexuality,most of us are against homosexuality FYI
But there is a difference between that and extrajudicial crude judgements that have no place in 2013

You are a person!

You are obviously not intelligent enough to bother reading what I have said on a thread that is less than 4 pages long but would rather resort to your moronic conjectures like a fooool!

3kay945: I wonder o, what concerns me if my neighbor is digging a anus instead of womanliness.. Inasmuch they're not screaming while doing the thing

And if they are screaming what would you do?

nwando: And a group of villagers parading people they claim are homosexuals falls in line with this so called morality crusade
Mgbo sagamite

Where did you see me say that?

You want to waste my time?

kandiikane: It's called a sex.ual deviance by those who do not condone it.

Africans try to paint the continent as a no-nonsense continent with high morals but what we don't realise is how backwards it is and immoral it is, in fact it's an absolute cesspool! How has jailing homose.xuals made Africa a better place? We use the little issues to cover up the main ones. We have worst things and disgusting issues to be worrying about but noo. Oh, yes, homosexuality is the reason for Africa's problems.

Jailing homosexuals makes Africa a better place because it demonstrates a saner society.

We have worse things does not mean we should not deal with other things, that is really a silly argument.

When you start working, go on a project and then say don't solve smaller issues you can solve because you have not solved the big issues and see how quickly your arsse would be fired for grotesque incompetence.

kandiikane: Spare me the bull, sagamite. I need serious answers here. How does it affect your life? How does two men or two women raising a child affect your life? How has is affected your wellbeing? Every single person has a right to state their opinion but it doesn't mean it's right. You don't condone gay marriage, fine but it doesn't mean you have to impose your opinion on others.

People discriminate against gays at work, not the other way round.

There was that case on the news about the lodge or inn where two gay couples went and were kicked out by the owners. I personally don't think it was right for the owners to pay compensation because in the end, it was their right to deny them access but I could understand why. For us to live in a better society, we have to tolerate each other even if you do not accept or condone eachothers lifestyles or cultures. The keyword here is tolerate, not accept.

You are asking me such a silly question of how does it affect my life but at the same time giving me an example of how people were told to pay a fine for not wanting filth being performed in their home that they use as a business?

We have to tolerate each other does not mean toleration should not have boundaries. Otherwise the UK would not be prosecuting people for using or engaging prostitution.

Don't give me that bullcrap you have been brainwashed with by the funky society you grew up in. I don't do funky. Every sane society has moral principles and standards. Morals is essential to societies, it is how you specify cohabiting principles in them where people live peacefully. Morals would even ignore the so-called tolerance in some cases. Freedom has limits in societies if you want a sane society.

Libkid: Suits them rite.say no to gayism

What evidence do you have that they are guilty?

kandiikane: If you want to go with this theory, then it has to be said that noone is born straight either.

How is it your business if someone wants to sleep with another man? How will it affect your life? Don't you have important things to worry about in your own personal life?

The way it affected the life of those UK Xtians who were penalised at their work because they conscentiously refused to engage in gay marriage.

The way it affects UK people that have to constantly watch how perverse concept as gay people with kids are promoted and put on TV as an alternative form of family.

The barbarians are at the gates, don't tell us to wait till they come into the city before we arm ourselves.

Now in the UK, in the hierarchy of rights, gay rights is above the right to religious beliefs. Only if the UK citizens had not listened to the rubbish of "how does it affect your life".

People like us had seen it a long time before it even happened.

Rastamann: Is there no freedom of association again in this country? Why can't a man associate with a man and a woman with a woman?

There is freedom of association in Nigeria but there is no freedom of fagsociation. And rightfully so!

The fucktards parading them should be arrested and flogged!

No 1, if someone breaks a law, you pass them to the police not carryout your own justice especially when it is not a violent crime.

No 2, if they are homosexuals, I am sure they were doing their filth in private, so these cretins just speculated.

2good: Melinda was born in 1964 in Dallas, Texas. She was the second of four children born to Raymond Joseph French Jr., an engineer, and Elaine Agnes Amerland, a homemaker. She has an older sister and two younger brothers. Gates, a Roman Catholic, attended St. Monica Catholic School, where she was the top student in her class year. She graduated as valedictorian from Ursuline Academy of Dallas in 1982. Gates earned a bachelor's degree in computer science and economics from Duke University in 1986 and an MBA from Duke's Fuqua School of Business in 1987.

Shortly thereafter, she joined Microsoft and participated in the development of many of Microsoft’s multimedia products including Publisher, Microsoft Bob, Encarta, and Expedia.

In 1994, she married Bill Gates in a private ceremony held in Lanai, Hawaii. Shortly thereafter, she left Microsoft to focus on starting and raising her family. Her last position was Microsoft’s General Manager of Information Products. Melinda and Bill Gates have three children: daughters Jennifer Katharine Gates (born 1996) and Phoebe Adele Gates (born 2002), and son Rory John Gates (born 1999). The family reside in a large mansion on Lake Washington.

Melinda served as a member of Duke University's board of trustees from 1996 to 2003.Gates attends Bilderberg Group conferences and holds a seat on the board of directors of the Washington Post company. She retired from the board of Drugstore.com in August 2006 to spend more time working for the Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation.

As of 2009, Melinda and Bill Gates have donated more than US$24 billion to the Foundation.
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Awards and recognition

In December 2005, Melinda and Bill Gates were named by Time as Persons of the Year alongside Bono. Melinda and Bill Gates received the Spanish Prince of Asturias Award for International Cooperation on May 4, 2006 in recognition of their world impact through charitable giving. In November 2006, Melinda and Bill Gates were awarded the Order of the Aztec Eagle for their philanthropic work around the world in the areas of health and education, particularly in Mexico, and specifically in the program "Un país de lectores".

She was ranked #40 in Forbes 2008 list of the 100 Most Powerful Women, #24 in 2007, and #12 in 2006.

In May 2006, she was honored for her work to improve the lives of children locally and around the world with the naming of the Melinda French Gates Ambulatory Care building, at Seattle Children's (then called Children’s Hospital and Regional Medical Center). She also chaired The Campaign for Children’s, a $300 million comprehensive fundraising campaign to expand facilities, fund undercompensated and uncompensated care and grow the hospital’s research program to find cures and treatments.

On June 12, 2009, Melinda and Bill Gates received honorary degrees from the University of Cambridge. Their benefaction of $210 million in 2000 set up the Gates Cambridge Trust, which funds postgraduate scholars from outside the UK to study at the University.

Melinda has also donated over $10 million to her high school Ursuline Academy of Dallas. She is one of the major donors of their Facing the Future Campaign and was honored in their dedication ceremony on May 7, 2010.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Melinda_Gates

Now, if I was Bill Gates, that is a woman that can easily collect $10bn from my $66bn and I would gladly hand it over because she is worth every penny.

Not some hairdresser coming and saying a person told me "I should get half because without me you will not have emotional, spiritual and psychological balance".

FXKing2012: The laws we have in Nigeria is fundamentally flawed; it is way too biased towards men.
Our laws enslave women who are forced to stay in a relationship/union even when they are not happy in it. Why should such continue?

Some say the divorce settlement law will encourage divorce therefore we should not implement it. I think that notion is very selfish and only meant to protect men even while enslaving and mistreating women.

We've seen cases where the man beats the wife daily, leaves her with permanent disabilities or even beat her to death. The women stay in such unions because our law does not protect them - doesnt necessarily mean they are happy in the marriage. So the fact that divorce rate is lower in Nigeria compared to the west does not mean we are happier in our relationships/marriages.

And when you try to defend the defenceless (women) you are termed a sissy. This shows how patriarchal our society really is.

So, according to fucktards like you, we should change the law to be bias in favour of women?

Cretin!

Babylox: From your comment I can tell you pro'ly have not shopped online. In fact, you've spoken like someone still on salary mentality.

Their target market is probably young people and young ppl like to do star follow-follow. If Banky wear hat, Idumota hats go begin sell. If Tiwa Savage wears Dog hair weave on, what do you think will sell the next day? It's simple marketing 101.
I'm sure they might have wanted a bigger artiste but all dem DBanj mouth don tear. Na only Glo n dem that can afford them.

Most businesses fail within the first 3 years of business. DealDey has been around for more than two.

Wait small before you begin talk say them no get business brain. Nuff said. *No offense intended.

I am not going to hold your throat because at least I can see you making an attempt to think. I will ask you a few questions:

No 1, are you telling me even Banky W and Tiwa Savage have that effect on Naija youths today?

No 2, if they do, does that mean MoCheddah also has the same or close influence on youths or you just think as long as she can claim "celebrity" why not use her?

No 3, you think celebrity endorsement is by merely selecting any "celebrity" you can see?

No 4, because DealDey has been around for 2 years in an uncompetitive market environment is your evidence that it is doing well?

Go and pick your book and start reading Strategy 1.0101.

Never lecture Sagamite on business, you are not at that level, trust me.

armyofone: You don't have to contribute anything to want something. It is a marriage and what is yours is mine. Black guys complain too much.
Thank goodness for oyinbo law of 'garnishment'

Eh-ehn!

Ole! Barawo! Mrs 95%.

FXKing2012: Looks like you know these male chauvinists from somewhere, they must have built a reputation for themselves.

I pity any woman who marries these two cos they gonna use her and send her packing empty handed. I pray no female family member of mine comes in contact with these heartless souls.

You are a person!

Mugu, I think any woman that marries you is who we should pity. Why would any sane woman couple with a person so he can pass his genes to her offsprings and create fucktardinhos.

2good: You need to go to the religious section to see the kind of topic that FXKing2012 is raising. The guy is just absolutely daft in all subject matter. Infact his IQ will be in the negative range.

Thanks, bruv.

I don't really need to go there. I just need to see about 2-4 opinion post by someone to judge his IQ. I knew he was a person right from the first two I saw on this thread.

It is a pity he thinks my calling him person is an insult. It is not, he is a pure person like I said from my first post to him.

jennykadry: Saga egbe enu'e dake. A man who insists I most wear expensive things had better settle me one off and be done with it. Seeing that he is JD, I would gladly settle him one off in fukufaka businesss After I get my money, I disappear and I expect him to do same. His children, he must care for. If he buys his daughter $80k on every birthday then he better prepare to do same until she is way past 18.

Nah, the courts would not agree. It is his human right to maintain the lifestyle he is used to. So you have to consistently give that fuku faka he is used to once he calls you to report for duty. If you don't report then he should cut out payment for your shoes.

By the way, if you marry Baba Sala too, then after divorce logically the courts should ensure you don't exceed the suffering you are used to. Any attempt to improve your life should be seen as contempt of court.

jennykadry: I don't cook his meals, or wash his clothes. He pays people to do all that for him. I am not obliged by law to continue having s3x with him but it is his responsibility as the bread winner to take care of his kids and the woman he has spoilt WITH MATERIAL THINGS

So basically you contributed nothing but yet want something?

If you had his kids, surely you must have at least contributed fuku fuka, hence he is used to that you PUUNANI THINGS so you should continue contributing it?

If you claim you no dey contribute fuku faka to his spiritual, emotional and psychological balance that makes him assume the character of his script(according to our resident person), then the kids must have not been his so he should not pay child support paa paa.

jennykadry: I marry Johnny Depp. I am used to wearing cheap perfumes, shoes and clothes. Being a multi-millionaire, he decides that I must wear designer stuff. He spoils me rotten with CL, Louis, Gucci, Chanel,McQueen, a lamborghini etc. We get divorced, is it not his duty to make sure that he maintains the life style he insisted on, in the first place?

You are taking the piss right?

Well, lets go!

You also spoil Johnny Depp rotten. You cooked his meals, washed his clothes and gave him 6 hours fuku faka 4 times a week to make sure he had the spiritual (baba nla spiritual), emotional and psychological balance to give that Oscar performance. You get divorced, is it not your duty to make sure that he maintains the life style you insisted on, in the first place? Should the courts not order you to keep going to his place after divorce to make his meals, wash his clothes, iron them and give fuku faka fuku faka action?

jennykadry: OKay. So does a man deserve a divorce settlement from his wife?

1. EVERYONE should work for their money and NO ONE should live a life they cannot, and would have not been able to, afford off the back of another's sweat.

2. The best attempts should be made that NO ONE loses out because they married.

3. EVERYONE should leave with the sane and realistic value of what they contributed.

Those should be the foundation premises of any sane divorce laws.

Gudintent: I see a metrosexual man
On bended knee, iPad on one hand
asking ' will you marry me'
But before you answer
Sign this pre-nup


Who says romance is dead!

As u were!

As long as my marriage is going to be subject to Western laws, fck any woman's concept of romance.

Romance my bleeping Sagamu-Peckham flavoured arsse.

Maybe a prenup isn't 'romantic' but lots of things about marriage - when it goes wrong - aren't romantic - including men being taken to the cleaners.

[quote author=*Kails*]Theres alot of haters on dis thread mehn....

Fyi to the person who commented about americans tatting their gums....senegalese ppl do it..sir. not like hers. Not partially but all of it. Hmmmmm.

Sagamite..shes a freshman. She is in college sir.

Moneyhungry pacs life, philosophies, and poetry is what is is being studied...not rap sir. Scarfaces rant is irrelevant to that fact. Tupacology is in fact a college course in some schools. Stop hating. With that being said though,

@the pac vs. Biggie folks...this thread is about biggies daughter. Let that go.[/quote]Which college is she in?

dayokanu: -My friend went to UNILAG got a first class, Went to Imperial college for Masters got a distinction, worked in a consulting firm, and an Investment Bank after few years wrote GMAT scored 730 got into the best Business School in the world - Wharton. He wrote CFA and passed, He now works with a Hedge fund and he is not married yet

If in 10yrs time he becomes Minister of Finance and makes a fortune now some 2 left legged woman would waka and say she was the one who made him? HOW? Was she there with him in Primary, Secondary School, UNILAG, Imperial College, Wharton, CFA classes and those qualifications that made him a hot property.

According to the person, it is the emotional and psychological balance given by his wife that would make him be able to afford to buy a house, not the hardwork and sweat he put in while others were dancing Alanta in Unilag.

And diplomats like biolabee would refuse to call a spade a spade, they would want to call it a garden gnome.

[quote author=baby_123]Dayo, what exactly are you saying? Just say from your own experience and the women around you. Are couples going to come out and confess to you that they jointly own properties? What is so difficult to comprehend in that? Because you have surrounded yourself with a little crowd, you are now in over-drive on your true thoughts. Honestly this thread has gone to sh*it. The fact remains these laws will be paSsed, only a matter of time. No matter how you want to kick and scream, you will still pay. Abegi! *with this I exit this thread*[/quote]In your wildest dreams.

I can guarantee you such laws will never be passed in Nigeria, not after we see what is being done in the West. Even many Western countries don't have such laws, it is only predominant in the UK and the US, so why do you think Nigeria would ever pass such laws? Even Japan, you go to Japan and get divorced and see what you will get.

Maybe the Nigerian law would be improved to make it more fair but definitely never expect it to be changed to California laws, which are utterly senseless laws.

If couples jointly own properties then both should at least ensure both their names are on the deeds. Even without that, as long as she can prove her contribution to acquisition, she can have her share.

Note: Her rewardable contribution is any contribution that once removed from the equation it would make the acquisition impossible without an alternative replacement contribution. And the reward should only match the shortage value of the removal.

FXKing2012: I'm really not sure whether you are just intentionally twisting the point being made or your tiny brain is simply incapable of grasping the point.

I never said single guys dont buy land and build houses, the argument is about married folks.
I'm sure you are not married thus the difficulty in understanding it but I'll help your ignorance.

When you are married you cease to be your usual self; it is no longer all about you because u think and discuss with your partner before making any big decision. Your partner advises and encourages you and this is huge if you are able to quantify it in monetary terms.

Have you ever wondered why many men look bigger and better almost immediately after marriage? Trust me it has something to do with the wives. Many men experience promotion in their lives after marriage due to the spiritual, emotional and psychological support from the wives.

I'm not saying single guys dont achieve, I'm saying when you are married it's a different ball game as your wife becomes a major factor whether you rise or fall.

In the African tradition, it is a taboo for a woman to own land or build a house. So the wife, in many cases, give her money to the husband to buy land and build on it in order not to be seen as proud or unsubmissive.
I know many men living in rented apartments who say they could never live in a house built by their wives. So our culture and tradition dont really support women engaging in such investments. Things are changing though due to westernization.

PS: During the days of our parents, the girl child is made to stay at home while the male child is sent to school to learn. This definitely affected many of our mothers as far as investing is concerned. So be careful how you blame them.

person, which men look big and better after marriage? Because your moronic arsse said so?

How does losing your independence to make decisions solitarily become a situation worthy of losing half of your asset for?

How does it make sense in the world of someone that has a brain to lose part of their assets for a contribution to an achievement they can, and will, have without that contribution?

y + x = 100, where y and x are both integers. y is revealed to have the value of 100, what is x?

If the equation is changed to y + x = 120, y remains unchanged, what is x? Foool, 60?

If the equation is changed to y + x = 90, y remains unchanged, what is x? Foool, 45?

If a wife buys land through her husband because of tradition then she is dumb. That said, she should still get that as that is her contribution.

It seems your "PS" is dedicated as a special part of your post to demonstrate the depth of your fucktardism. So a husband should take blame for his wife not being educated because she is a girl-child, why? Is he her father?

dayokanu: To test this Lets pick another man who didnt go beyond JS3, didnt write any professional exam didnt get a job at Accenture or Goldman Sachs and let this woman use her emotional Balance and psychological support to make him Minister of Finance like Segun Aganga

According to the FXFucktard, her balance would buy him Aso Rock and 5 houses on Banana Island.