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tit: i did not see any weapons with the shot men.You are a person! Continue disputing facts. They were not armed? They were not more than the police? You are a cretin! |
luvinhubby: As much as i condemn human killing, there should be a limit to everything. Had been rioting & killing for days now ( ten dead including policemen). Today they make a dash towards armed policemen with matchets, sticks & guns taken from slain policemen, what do you expect. In conflicts, deadly force is employed WHEN THERE IS OBVIOUS TREAT TO PERSONEL LIFE and in this case there was. Poor miners, what a heavy price to pay for VIOLENT IGNORANCE .Thank you! Let cretins continue trying to give "I am civilise" excuses for barbaric animals. How I wish it is them or their fathers that was hacked to death by under-developed animals that feel justified to kill another human being for wanting to go to work and not wanting to join a strike. Bloody foooooooooooooools! |
2buff: Ya from reading this, I think the miners asked for it. 4 Play: It's not a bright idea to be wielding a machete. No point exposing yourself to the risk of getting shot over a pay raise by wielding a machete.Thank you! Finally people with sense. Cretins should not have an opinion. It is sacrilege! bittyend: Speechless!!Cretins like this! |
phraze: Heartless Company. Shutdown the Company jare. They ordered the Shootin. The Workers had the right to protest.... Aparthied Police Men.person, and the workers had the right to kill other people? This kind of cretin has a right to vote! Shyt! |
panafrican: VideoGood job, SA Police! Next time, worthless human beings will not charge with machetes and spears at police men with guns and try and harm them. Kill this useless animals. Waste of human skin. |
berem: did u actually post this topic to type such a disgusting and wicked comment? Boy! U need to get ur brain diagnosed!smh for u.You are a person! You need to get a brain first! |
naijacutee: What an embarrassment. Human life does't mean anything to you?What stupidity. What worth are life of moorons that pick up weapons to kill others because they do not support their strikes? Maybe we should deport your arse to the North of Nigeria so some Almajiri can slice your throat and you can appreciate his human life while you bleed. |
coogar: to dictate and to control means the same thing!Explain to me how it has dictated/controlled/conjoined/pukut/meerkat/polock/chin-chin/karagounis/morounfolu your desire if you still have the same desire as you admitted yourself. Laws DO NOT dictate desires! |
fstranger8: Ode oshi. SO it is written in their genes abi? Already programmed in their DNA. And it takes smacking to deprogram their DNA?Shh, Shymmexer! |
fstranger8: Mr. plagiariser. Na here you dey?Cretin, "can't". ![]() |
dayokanu: If you are well brought up regardless of the suffering you would not steal.Up-bringing contributes to honesty. Smacking can be one of the key deterrents. But the major driver of crime is finance. That is why there is more crime in poor areas than in rich areas. The major driver of vices is innate personality, that can be controlled with smacking. You smack your child to control them and guide them to do what is necessary to achieve the type of human you give to society. |
Well done, South African police! I stand in ovation! When people behave like barbaric animals, kill them like mere barbaric animals. Slaughter them. Cretins! |
Deadly clashes at South Africa's Lonmin Marikana minehttp://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-19286654 |
coogar: it does when enforced effectively!What are you arguing. How has the law dictated your desire if you still have the desire to honk my horn playfully, run the lights, stick one arm out of the window, jump queues, etc? The law merely controlled your behaviour, as I said. I would rather have kids that will not do what I don't like because they fear smacking, than kids that do it freely. I would rather live in societies where kids are scared to slap their teachers, than one were they whooze teachers faces at will. coogar: but how come our "smacked kids" grow up to become corrupt leaders in spite of the strict discipline. i am sure all our leaders and corrupt officials were all smacked - see how it has worked for us. now compare to their counterparts abroad and see the difference.......To answer your question, you yourself think how come Singaporean/Botswani smacked kids do not become corrupt leaders. Maybe that will show you that other factors determine things and smacking is not a panacea for everything in the world; and if you can find anything wrong in a society you should not put it forward as evidence that smacking is not useful. What next? You will ask me how come we don't win alot of Olympic medals even though we smack our kids? coogar: charity starts from home......You see the effects of the discipline when they are young and under their parents. Whatever they become as adults is based on a lot of factors. coogar: singapore is a nanny state - you cannot really call what they practise there democracy!Oh, so now you see there are other factors that dictate corruption? E.g. Leadership? E.g. Culture? So now you know smacking is not the panacea or determinant of everything that can go wrong? |
fstranger8: Dont you ever confuse me with Shymmex again in your life. Ode sohiShut the fck up! Dumb plagiariser! |
fstranger8: Who and you is debating? I teach your a/s/s. I open your clogged mind. When DID I ever debate you? Ode! I just laugh at your stupidity.Shut up! Mooron! How can you plagiarise in debate? |
fstranger8: So in 1847, the goal of smacking kids in Africa was to make them studious? Saga man, now I see why people like [color=#990000]Chiarcover[/color] think you are smart! Your ability to pull shyt from your a/s/s is commendable. In fact, you are a 1 percenter when it comes to making shyt up.Shut up! The cretin that plagiarises in debates. ![]() |
dayokanu: Sagamite,To be frank, I wouldn't think that question was relevant because the drivers of crime has little to do with smacking. The dominant factor for crime is economics/finance. Finance determines unmet needs that lead to crime. It determines assets available to steal. It determines societies ability to deter crime. Plus social factors like wealth gap. Those are what determine crime levels. That is why you will have more crime in Haiti than you will have in Monaco. A more relevant question, in this context, is "which society has more unruly and disrespectful kids". That is the West! |
coogar: if the smacking and the strict discipline were effective, why cheat in the exams?The first thing you have to learn is that, laws do not dictate people's desires. The second thing you have to learn is that, smacking do not dictate people's desires. But both can limit behaviours. That is the intent. It is pure silly to blame smacking for all ills of society or as the panacea for all problems of society. Start looking at economic, social, cultural and leadership. All part of systemic contributors to how a society functions. They smack in Singapore. Even the courts passes sentences of smacking for juveniles and it is one of the most advanced and structured countries in the world. So why have they not failed as a nation? So why would you blame smacking for any failures? What makes singapore successful? Look at the systemic structure - Economic, Social, Cultural and Leadership. They also smack in Botswana. It is a lovely country. Tell me why. Complex issues have complex explanations. |
eldee: Wait, I'm the first to state that families are building blocks of society? You've never heard that flaws in family systems translate to problems in the society at large? WOW. . .that's a first!What clunking rubbish! So because flaws in family system translate to problems means it must translate to this problem? ![]() You can as well tell me flaws in the carburetor is why the door mirrors are not working. The leaders also where Agbada and eat eba or tuwo, maybe that is the source of their corruption. My friend, go to google and dig out just ONE (Eyokan) academic research that attributed corruption to family upbringing before you start rewriting sociology and anthropology. Then secondly, show me where I attributed junkies to families. You want to strawman Saga? Ok o. ![]() eldee: Again I ask, the most corrupt people in the world and you're claiming a moral victory? Oh yeah I get it, corrupt leaders are from Mars.Answer the gaddam question. Which one DO YOU PREFER! All this story! All this verbosity! Answer the gaddamn question. coogar: no, it does not -So somehow, you attributed exam malpractice to smacking? Really? Not inefficient administration? You mean if there is access to expo in countries that don't smack, they will not take it? How come the same girl whoring in Naija will get to the UK where she has the powers to make her own money and will reduce it? So it is an economic influence? The same as you will see in Eastern Europe or Thailand or any third world country where people are poorer? |
airfinance: 52 athletes with 500 officials 2.5 billion gone only for olympics.Our president is a professional person! |
eldee: Lool . . . oh, I thought the reply was self-evident?Oh, really? RUBBISH! It is a failure of leadership, not a failure of family unit. What utter clunking rubbish! You want to reinvent and rewrite sociology and anthropology to fit your arguments? Go on google, go and dig out one place where experts have attributed substantial blame for corruption to family unit or upbringing. I wait. It is Saga you want to BS! eldee: And you asked, which would I prefer, I'll repeat myself. . . "It's not what about what I would prefer, it's about what is better for the child in the long run.", making the question irrelevant to this discussion.Cut the BS! You specifically came here to critique ONLY the African approach. So I ask you, which do you prefer? You are now saying it is irrelevant. Your lack of will to answer shows you did not think through it before you spoke. You prefer the RESULTS of the African one to the Western one but you chose a position based on funkadelism. Awon funky! E mi o funky. Am an African man, original. |
In Nigeria, some 20 something year old area boy might break your head, in the UK it is 13 year olds. And people are still debating which produces more respectful kids. |
[quote author=Sisi_Kill]Guys. . .can I ask a question? ![]() Shouldn't it about teaching our kids how to find a balance i.e knowing when to study and knowing when to put the games away? I don't want to quote cliches oh but the old sayings all work and no play and all play and no work. . .has some truth to it. I think it would be unfair on a child to bring him up completely disconnected from the real world around him and this is the sense I get when I see the NO PHONE, NO INTERNET, NO GAMES, NO THIS and NO THAT rules. If we teach them right, we won't have to worry about these things controlling them because they will know how to control them. We can't always be there to watch them 24/7, so the least we can do get them ready for when mom or dad won't have their eyes on you. . .you don't want them going gaga and overdoing it at the first smell of "freedom". Just my opinion oh!![/quote]Obviously. I don't think anyone from any of the camps said anything different. |
eldee: Chicken and egg story. Which came first? The act of beating your kids to pulp or the corruption in the mindset of the average Nigerian?Answer my question my friend! What do you mean the question is irrelevant? If you are critiquing. or rather ridiculing, only ONE thing out of two options on the table, you don't know you have to justify the alternative? |
ronkebp: Not in that sense, looking at it from Sisi-kills' point of view..."whether you spank in one country and do not spank your kids in another country, there will still be bad and good children in both countries".And my point is, the odds are there will be more proportion of bad kids in one. No systems gives you 100% benefits 100% of the time but one gives better odds despite inferior resources. |
ronkebp: hunYou are patronising, she was wrong! |
eldee: Oh by the way, I want to know how to smack my kids into being studious. Is it by knocking their heads for direct access??When you grow up in my house, you will know that you will have solved 50 additional mathematics questions before you even think of Nintendo. |
ronkebp: True, not fair to try to say one nation is better than the other, since they both produce the same result.They don't produce the same results. Lets not patronise anybody. When I see kids of family and friends raised in Nigeria (not the funky ones) and I see kids in the UK, the difference is 7Up! |
[quote author=Sisi_Kill]In my opinion, finding a balance between two extremes i.e the spanking to a pulp and the no spanking at all in addition to other disciplinary methods might be the way to go. Besides, every child is different. . .one person's two year old is not going to act exactly like another person's own, even when the parents are siblings, brought up in the same home sef. So knowing your child and what he is capable of should also be considered here. Honestly, when it comes to child rearing. . .one size does not fit all.[/quote]Thank you! Only a foool would say never smack a child. It is as dumb as saying you will only use a screwdriver to fix your car. Sometimes you might need a spanner too. |
eldee: By "respectful", you mean "submissive" and "intimidated" children? The average Nigerian doesn't see anything wrong in giving bribe and you think that's a moral victory? Spare me the rhetoric your parents gave you. . . I heard it from my parents too, along with the one that says women should keep quiet when men speak.As I said social and economic factors have an influence. If you are travelling to Japan from Nigeria to close a deal of some innovative new products that the suppliers want to give you SOLE licence to sell in Nigeria. You have already put a large chunk of your life savings to chase this contract and it has come to fruitition. On your way you found out due to incompetent local officials and the information they provided, immigration/customs are going to make you miss your flight for not having a certain form except you pay a bribe. Will you or will you not cough up the bribe? I would rather have submissive and intimidated kids than kids that have no problem telling me to "fck off" or slap me. Which one will you prefer? Yes, we should be lookng for ways to improve but definitely not ways to imitate what the West have. |
The goal of smacking kids in Africa is to mainly have respectful kids, studious kids and moral kids. Other factors will impact these. Be it peer pressure and western TV programmes for respect. Demotivating teachers and school facilities for studiousness. Economic hardship for morality. But by and large, do the African disciplinary way achieve these (especially respect) better than Western way? Hell YEAH! |
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