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Make una no worry, I am just lecturing abit that people should think carefully before making statements and be careful of the choice of words they use.

Irresponsible.
Looking sad.
Immature.
Fraud.
etc.

Because you object to something does not make that something wrong or make the silly tag you put forward applicable to it. Your moral values are different from other people's [size=4pt](and mostly inferior and irrational)[/size].

Azumy: Ina ruwa na! Dat number 7 na im gbadun am pass. Pls stop blamin d galz d guyz r equaly b*d!

Yep. But what is annoying is when women come and moan of "baastards", "shallow", "jerk" etc and seek pity when they themselves are not nice to people.

That is why I am indifferent to women screaming some steeewpid "rules of engagement" and demanding some principles they lack. Then the mugus that fall for their rules are rewarded with the tag of "Real Men".

"Said it all before (Said it all before)
All of ya lies, all of ya sweet talk
Baby this, Baby that
But your lies ain't working now, look who's hurting now
See I had to shut you down (I had to shut you down)"

- Sunshine Anderson featuring and remixed by Sagamite

https://www.nairaland.com/820236/what-not-after-first-date#9723514

michelin89: Nope. By Nigerian standard, I'm a stupid lady because I have never done any of those things which is cool by me.

Liar, liar, pants on fire.

TV01: Ok, I’ll explain;
1. Being unmarried is not in and of itself irresponsible, but like I explained, being married ushers in a new and deeper level of responsibility.

Now we finally got there.

Now you are learning.

Never call the lack of will to marry irresponsible. That is silly.

TV01: 2. It’s irresponsible – at a societal and individual level – for a man to enter into multiple/serial casual relationships with women (and yes married men can and do this to, they are even more irresponsible). More so, when this is compounded by offspring.

Why? How?

TV01: I am not personally responsible for the Afghan situation, nor in any way liable for it’s resolution.

Are unmarried men responsible for women that are not blood relatives? Why did you insist they are irresponsible for not putting the women first and sacrificing themselves for the women?

So saying, and I quote you: "The responsibility of putting someone else first, caring for that person sacrificially if required" is silly?

Saying someone not interested in getting in an arrangement in putting someone else first or caring for another person sacrificially is silly?

If not, then you are irresponsible for lacking the will to go to Afghanistan and instead give excuses that others should.

The point I am teaching you here is that it is SILLY to term as irresponsible something that is not one's responbility or duty. Extrrrremely silly.

TV01: Firstly, I'm not speaking for the world, merely expounding my worldview/viewpoint.

Because one has a grasp of, insight into or expertise in an issue, does not indicate responsibility.

A highly skilled surgeon, responsible for carrying out intricate cranial operations and who has successfully done so numerous times over many years is found en-flagrante in a car park. Is he responsible?

A president, who is a highly regarded statesman and skilled diplomat, is found in a compromising position with a staffer. Is he responsible?

A West African head of state who regularly chairs and addresses ECOWAS/OAU and speaks at the UN, whilst bleeding his national treasury dry. Is he responsible?

Oh, so who is Clooney looking sadder by the day to? You admit it is not the world? Majority of people do not see him as looking sad when he is tapping the arse of those lovely young women?

All those examples you gave are lame. Clooney is not a diplomat or governmental agent but is respected enough by the UN to be invited to talk. Don't compare that to people doing their job in their field.

A President found in compromising position with a staff IS RESPONSIBLE. It is no ones business what he does that is legal (apart from his wife if he has one).

Unfortunately, your en-panta grammar is not in the dictionary so I don't know what it means. If I was to guess, maybe it means drunk or indecent. As long as the surgeon is never drunk while doing his surgery work, he is RESPONSIBLE.

TV01: Now to the main, the main.

1.
To plan a life devoid of commitment and responsibility in the sense of serenading a succession of nubile young women till departure. Is grossly irresponsible – and on so many levels. It’s also the height of selfishness and immaturity. Obviously taking covenant orders or the like varies this.
This is solely driven by your desire to sample without charge and your being able to do exactly as you please. Your unwillingness to fully and properly commit to the welfare of other/s. And willingly putting their welfare before yours.

Explain to me how it is irresponsible?

Are you confused after what you said above?

Also take your time to tell me how it is selfish and immature? Why should you commit to the welfare of others if you do not wish to and it is not in your best interest? Why is your selfish and immature arse not in Afghanistan? Because you are irresponsible? You are putting your welfare before Afghanis?

TV01: 2.
To base your understanding of marriage on what obtains around you and to decide to marry, not marry, slander marriage or seek to vary it on this basis is at best immature and in all likelihood fear driven. One is to understand and embrace marriage. Or of course simply opt out.
Basing your views on other peoples flawed character, faulty understanding and failed execution is just tragic.

Since we are being frank here, let me be frank with you.

To state that not wanting to follow a man-made institution like marriage is irresponsible is quite foolish.

To see the failure rate of marriages and the consequences for men in the West and state you are going into it based purely on complete faith is quite moronic.

To say you would know what your partner will do and how your marriage will turn out in a few years time after your vetting process of your partner before marrying her was having only one date is purely cretinous.

All those does not demonstrate maturity, does not demonstrate rationality, does not demonstrate sensibility. It is a myopic and herd mentality existence.

TV01: Sagamite, you so obviously want to marry. You have frequently detailed what you are looking for (not that I necessarily get or agree with your criteria, but that’s fine).

Like I have often said, if marriage is crap, leave it or simply construct something of your own making, something that reflects your desire and find someone to co-opt into that arrangement?

Having said that, I personally see absolutely nothing wrong with marriage as originally instituted. One may have to delve foundationally to see that, but that is simply taking responsibility. We’d do that prior to entering into much lesser agreements. Having done, that it’s a question of finding someone of like desire, understanding and commitment.

Now, please present us with your bride. Good news is never too much!

No, I am not interested in marriage but I am open to it.

Just like I am (and most men are) not interested in flambouyant, ostentatious and wasteful weddings but I'm/we are open to it.

Just like I am not interested in being an employee but I am open to it.

I can possibly have someone of like desire, understanding and commitment and not be married to them. If I decide to marry, I will do it on my terms. Anyone that can't agree with my terms can fck off.

TV01: Failure does not make one a fraud. Nor does success mean you are honest.

It's fraudulent if one pretends to be or practice one thing to make a sale/pitch, but in actual fact does not practice or believe in that thing. Or simply put to sell yourself or a product as doing/being, that which it doesn't/isn't.

Best
TV

I never said failure makes one a fraud. Where? When?

YOU were the one that said not stating your failures to prospective customers/clients/consumers is being a fraud. So I named institutions that don't and asked you if they were frauds.

How did the guy pretend to practice one thing he does not practice or believe in? He just mentioned he likes his wife and appreciate her in his life. He did not state anything about faithfulness.

Lets go back to the Pope. Surely he must sin occassionally and then asks for forgiveness from God, does the fact he does not, actually NEVER, mentions his sins to the congregation make him a fraud?

Does a father that says I am proud of my son but has smacked his son a few times when the son does something wrong a fraud?

michelin89: i'm a straight forward lady. don't have time for silly and childish games.

So you are guilty of all then!

Scarpon: i have been 3times victim of 12

The only way that would have happened to you 3 times is that you are a goody-two-shoes.

You gave her everything she asked for and she got bored? I bet you are a terribly nice guy?

A lot of young girls can smell that and eat you for breakfast. They might tell you that is what they want, hence why you give it, but that is not what they want when they are at a stage of having choices of men. Give that to the ones worth it after they are losing or lost their value.

Women don't understand the art of fairness and equality. They only know the art of gaining advantage and me, me, me. That is what they consistently seek.

kimberluge: oops! u must b referrin 2 d whores u bang everynite,eyah,wen u get AIDS dnt say I neva warned u,FOOL!!

A-WHAT!

Are you fcking mad!

You are a person!

No one I don't do whores like you and, No 2, I am not a rock and roll guy, I am a roll and rock guy. I strap the fck up on before skanks like you give me some disease. I roll it, THEN I rock.

I don't mess with that shyt. There three principles I adhere to.

- No ho like you is going to give me any disease.

- No ho like you is going to have my child.

- No ho like you will make me put a ring on it.

Why?

- Because I value my life.

- Because I adore my future children even before birth.

- Because I love my future and happiness

Ho, you aint giving me shyt and you aint getting shyt!

[quote author=Ileke-IdI]Omo Sagamite, you must be living the life. They say satisfied men often cultivate nicely round belle. Na so we dey see am o. E ti hit jackpot abi? E wo iku omo eniyan [/quote]You want me to take it all off and show you my 7 packs?

ikamefa:
see sagamite blockuus for hin profile chei !

Dirty woman, move you eyes up.

That is how she would come and corrupt me and contaminate my innocence.

Before I know it, she has taught me 360 styles in bed.

queensmith: do you have no life at all? Is that why you must make a big deal out of absolutely eeeeeverything? I mean I know you are sad and pathetic and misery loves company n all but you are a really messed up case.

bloody hell!

You know it is only smelly obese people like you that has a pathetic and miserable life? That is why you don't like going out much and you sit at home comfort-eating and adding to your walrus blubber. And when you go out, you become a cockblocker (as you admitted) to ensure other girls around you are unhappy too.

patuli64: i've done 10/12..... meanyl is person trendin somewher around world y is erry1 here a person all of a sudden coz of dis simple post.

I would struggle to believe there is any girl that has not done one of 1 and 2.

I would be shocked to meet Nigerian girls that don't do one of 3 and 4.

kimberluge: Who is d gal dat broke ur heart? Awww! She really did a number on u!! If u hav d tym 2 comment on all my posts den ur d most jobless fool on earth btw person is not a word try sumtin in a dictionary like asshole!

Only a person would not know the meaning of person, person!

Only a person would not say "Yes, sir" when ordered to do so by an intellectual God. You smoking the wrong shyt again?

I opened the thread to let moorons like you know that I don't feel guilty when I mistreat you. You can moan all you want, I will tap and walk.

kimberluge: Of course der can neva b a post like dis without uninvited guests poking dier dirty noses into posts dat dnt concern dem! ^{No b by force to comment,oshofri}!! Poster,welldone,o jare! Gals knw dis tins since,we no b mumu na,na wa o! It's jst dat der r gud gals n der r bad gals,so it's left for u 2 choose wer u belong. Der is dis wonderful website I found,www.catchhimandkeephim.com,it has helped lots of women across d world in their relationships and marriage.

You are more than a mumu, you are a cretin!

kimberluge: The guy is retar[b]t[/b]ed,let him be!

person, did they teach you spelling in school?

shymmex: Oi, I can do this all night..

I took it off because It just doesn't feel right..

But why did you pose like a butt warrior in your profile pic? Bwahahahahahahahaha!!!

Amsorry!

That looks like a normal pose? How did you find such an innocuous pose similar to a pose by a butt warrior? Or is that how the trannies you frequent pose to tell you they are free?

kimberluge: Did u read my signature? If u didnt,den ur obviously sillier dan I tot!

You are a what?

.....person!

Say: Yes, Sir!

kimberluge: First of all,whoever started dis post is as stupid as d post. Secondly,these two overgrown babies without jobs that are blabbering all over the thread,abeg make una go do sumtin beta wit una tym!D only person wey make sense here na d guy wey talk say[b] wat is gud for d goose is good for the gander[/b],I rest my case!!

You are a person!

shymmex: Fool, when did I call her my love interest?

Stick to wanking - with your palm and vaseline, with your homoerotic pose...

Everyone please check this loser's profile.. Bwahahahahahaha

You did not call her a love interest? LMAO!

So why did you scurry to change your post when I said I would call her to come and see what you put down?

Psycho-loser! Any girl that follows you needs to be scared.

shymmex:

Grandpa, you have a degree in wankology, palmology, and vaselinology... You ain't fooling no one, but yourself, faggitmite.

That is for losers that claim a girl following their post on NL is automatically their love interest.

Gameless, sad, lonely souls.

Lovexme: You seem like a confused fellow. Well, women don't even know what they want so I wouldn't blame you for your naivety.

Calm down!

Virtually all girls before getting married have a guy as a friend that they see as an alternative.

Like I used to tell guys, I call it the JIC guy.

JIC - Just In Case. This is while they lecture guys on exclusivity and 100% commitment. Most of them will do anything to eliminate risk where they can but tell "Real Men" to forget risk and rely on faith. Thank God I am not a Real Man.

It is like when women say it is rubbish, lack of trust and too negative a thought for a man to suggest prenup. That it is bad for the relationship to be thinking of the possibility of failure of the marriage. Real Men fall for this. These same women will refuse to be housewives when it is suggested to them and say what if he leaves, they need to have their own career. Oh, so that is not negative thought and that is not thinking of the possibility of failure of the marriage.

Girl, sign the gaddam fcking papers!

I have a PhD in Womantology. Women no fit use me, I can spot their moves before they even think of making it.

shymmex: ^^^Who let this freshie out of his cage?

Stop stalking me, pu.ssy.

This is coming from the bitter troll that has a huge list of NL people on his Follow list that he keeps on harassing.

Your s[i]e[/i]xual frustration is about to come to an end, the local slag is offering you some comfort. Go get £10 out of your bank account for payment.

This is your chance to stop being bitter and retire from trolling ........for one year.

Goldieluks: hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaaaaaaa
see this CRETIN, stop flattering yourself, i already got shymmex, who wants a discombobo cretin??

He would love your fck face, fooool.

I would not touch Kola Boof look-alikes with a bagpole.

You will never get a chance with Saga. English premiership is far classier and out of reach for the Ugandan 3rd division material.

queensmith: he wouldn't want to share with anybody, he wants shymmex all to himself!

Walrus-like tranny, he likes trannies.

With your blubber and a face worse than Kola Boof, you will turn him the fck on.

You will not need to make fictional boyfriends up again to stop us yabbing you that you have none.

shymmex: Delusions of grandeur!

Stop throwing the toys out of the pram.

WTF?

What kind of stewpid statement is this?

Goldieluks:
Don't fret, I wouldn't mind sharing.

You can share with whomever you want to share with, but be fcking guaranteed you are not getting Sagamite.

Goldieluks:

Tosser!
Do I smell jealousy??

Cretin, jealous of what?

Goldieluks: Y'all should get a life and leave my shymmex aloooooone. Even if he gots
100 ids I still loff him..... sagacretin go away faggit!!!

You are a person!

A troll is your taste in men.

warrior101: Seriously? I didn't know that plunk is a lard arse

She is blubberful.

Morbidly obese.

queensmith: you wouldn't even know you went to south bank. The internet has given you the liberty to make excessive noise.

People that attended a Top 5 uni would have said "attended" not "went".

C[b]u[/b]mbridge was your educational institution, wasn't it? It was definitely not Cambridge.

shymmex: I'm just tired of your weak comebacks..

You have a match in lousy queensmith - you guys need to continue from where you stopped the last time.

Or you were tired of being humiliated and your lies exposed?

Where is your Birmingham certificate you promised to post online to humiliate me?

queensmith: Some of us have class meehn, not all black people flock to south bank. Just embrace it, i'm smarter than you. Your own self proclaimed intelligence doesn't pass nairaland. When it comes to real life we know who is on top and who is getting fcked in the arse! Shymmex thats your q!

What class? ROFLMAO!

Do you think Top 5 unis enrol fatsos with poor hygiene?

I have never seen one like that of uni age.

queensmith: awwwwww- this is too cute! too cute! he counted the days!

you're an idiot though! you really think this nl bravado counts for something? I laugh, this guy is pathetic it's sad!

Shymmex attend to sagamite thoroughly, so what positions do you gays do? Is it just the doggystyle?

Walrus, how many kebabs can you down in one sitting?

How do you get clothes when shops are providing for only normal slim women? No space for multiple roll blubbers.

shymmex: I'm bored now..

Run, pussi.

Never come online to lie about you sad life.

Where is walrus?