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babaowo:
but we are more than 140 million people Why can't coach scout out youngs talents Mr steve lazy-bone!

Stop your illiterate rants.

I was expecting the following FB players to be invited, even if all do not play:

Enyeama
Taiwo
Yobo
Ayila
Obi
Mikel
Etuhu
Haruna
Kalu Uche
Moses
Yakubu
Odemwingie
Ike Uche
Ideye
Martins
Nsofor

freshcvv:
Sorry but who said anything is a failure? i said NOT everyone is made for 5am-8pm JOBS. please read well before putting words in my mouth.

You scolded her to quit her job and do something else. A Plan B!

Why would you do such if you do not already believe Plan A was not viable?

freshcvv:
@Sagamite

 Sorry was never in the first place answering your question, but if you wanted an answer, the answer lies in my comment if you read carefully without a defensive mindset.

What you need to be educated on is that:

No 1, don't assume something is a failure or un-rectifiable just because of some little problem. You have to learn to critically analyse and generate options and not jump to the first conclusions and options that come to your mind.

No 2, there is a difference in practicality and rewards of different options. You think everyone wants to live petty trader lifestyle or it is as rewarding as her life in her job will pan out?

jamace:
Within his ability and equipment available to him, yes.

1. He ensured people where far from the object, because object was found in a built up area with a lot of human activities.
2. He went alone for reconnassance of the suspect object.
3. Using the available equipment to him, which is the hand held metal detector, he frisked the bag to confirm whether it contained metal.
4. He noticed that the mouth of  bag was tied, and so on------.

My brother, IED/Bombs is a big topic which can not be exhausted here on the forum. However, if you want to know more goggle the words. You will learn about types of bombs/IEDS, reconnaisance of suspected IED/BOMB object; Methods of disposal which includes manual, mechanical and by use of explosive, and under these, a lot more sub-methods are available. Please, let me stop here.

Professional hazard does not respect expertise or whatever, when it wants to happen. It was just unfortunate that he died, and if I may ask, how else should a  bomb disposal expert die?

May his soul rest in peace.

You are absolutely lying to yourself.

What can be reasonably deduced from the video clip was:

1. The security officers ensured people where far from the object. Stop giving him dubious credit.
2. He went casually, irresponsibly and foolhardily to a dangerous device to not carry out reconnaissance but to (mostly) casually attempt to stop it amidst euphoric cheers from illiterates around him.
3. You don't know what was available to him. Someone pointed to possibly more equipped people approaching at 1.38m. Lets even imagine nothing was available to him, people have suggested shooting the bag. Even just show some little sense of danger awareness by taking a metal shield would have made me give him more respect.
4. If he did not move close, there was no danger or threat to life. He could have waited for a good plan to be deduced.

There is nothing heroic about his actions, he was casually stewpid and you should be OUTRAGED that that is the quality of the brain power of individuals your government is giving guns to go around the country.

michelin89:
Abeg Missy nor encourage wetin you nor fit do. Abi you wan tell me that just because you don date boy for 12 years, even though he go impregnate other women for outside you go still marry am because him thing na golden?

I dey support you normally but this one nor just rhyme with me at all. Annie is insecure. How else can you explain that she took in a second time after she experienced a first miscarriage? And then Tuface already had 2 or 3 babies from his other two baby mamas?

This is pure rubbish. No man is worth worshipping like this and I know you wouldn't take such crap from any guy so why are you here hailing this pathetic she-goat of a phallusian? Enough of the joke jor.

Stop the blasphemy!!!

Some of us in a unique small clique are!

Premium men!

freshcvv:
Get the picture: she's not with kids, just the 2 of them, they both go to work, come back late, you only gets to prepare food for 2 people (herself and one other person), yet she's crying of stress, now picture it, what happens when she's:

pregnant?
with a kid?
2 kids?
teenagers who need parents around to guide them?

Conclusively, not everyone is meant to do a 5am-8pm job, it will only get you mad and make life miserable for you. she does not sound like someone that can handle just her hubby not to talk of the above mentioned.

Let her get something (a job or a business) that gives her more time to enjoy her life, food, young marriage.

Why live a life of the ancient slavery days when the only time couples (slaves) see each-other is late in the night after stressing all through the day?

That does not answer my questions.

Try again.

freshcvv:
@Sagamite

 Is that all you could see? i said if plan A is making your life miserable, move to plan B, not everyone is made for 5am-8pm job and i can see the poster as one of them,  Not with kids, she's already crying of stress, what happens when she's preggy not to talk of having 1-2 kids?

 Why not look for a job or do something that would make your early marriage stress free, give birth to maybe 1-2 kids within 4yrs, then go back to your 5am-9pm job if your life depend on that.

I ask people again, what happens if any of them gets sacked by this slavers? are they going to jump off the cliffs? what i am saying is reality, they are sacking massively already and more to come.

So, in your world, when you have a hiccup/bottleneck/adversity with Plan A, you abandon it and move to Plan B?

Irrespective of the benefits gap in risk & rewards between A and B?

You do not look at ways to address the problem with Plan A?

Wow!

Really?

I am assuming if you approach life like that, in your life now, you are on Plan N since you would have abandoned A to M?

freshcvv:
@those who responded to my comment:

What happens when you lose that same job, are you going to die? won't there be a PLAN B?

I ask again why do people work when you don't even have the time to enjoy the reward by eating good food and spending quality time on yourself and that of your loved ones?

Aside 5am-8pm jobs, are there no other jobs you can do? i as again, what if you lose that job tomorrow? are you still not going to plan?

EKO bank is about sacking thousands, Access already did EVEN WITH THE WAKING UP BY 5AM AND COMING HOME BY 8PM, NOT EATING GOOD FOOD, SLEEPING LIKE A SLAVE, EATING LIKE A SLAVE, STRESSED UP, A 25YRS OLD LOOKING LIKE 40, are all these people going to die off because they were sacked? get something that won't make you a time slave, go solo, look for what you can do that people'll pay you for, depending on your certificates as if you exist for that is dangerous.

You are chatting shyt!

People should abandon Plan A to go and do Plan B?

Are you yourself doing your Plan B?

What consideration did you put to the weighting on practicalities & returns for Plan A and B respectively?

jamace:
Good points @ the highlighted.

I am sorry for people yarning nonsense (talking theory) on this thread without reference to the sorry state of  leadership in Nigeria as a whole.

Adieu, my gallant policeman.

Did you see any iota of organised method to his attempt at a suspect package or did you see display of casual stupidity?

queensmith:
Sagamite- More black men date white (and other) women that black women dating white men. Explain

Because white men are hardly attracted to black women.

Their indoctrination of beauty is the sticks-with-hair they are brainwashed to see as beauty and they are also not interested in people they see as aggressive as it is not an attractive feminine feature.

Secondly, black women themselves are not that attracted to white men, they prefer black.

Black men tend to date other women because the are seen as the symbol of strong. They are more swaggerlicious. They are seen as some dark, mysterious and forbidden bad boys. There are rumours they are well hunged. They are also more bold hence tend to approach women more, suggesting confidence. All very attractive, masculine traits to women.

For girls from some strong, entrenched cultures where all those masculine traits are not valued, black men have a very low chance. E.g. cultures like Indian (money and social class is supreme) and Arab (religion is supreme). That is why you don't see those ones dating black men. If Indian girls ever miss road, it is most likely to a white man because white men are more socially affluent and off course they don't question their social class as it would be perceived as one of the top ones automatically. I have dated Indian girls before, I know all this shyt. They will be less scared taking a white man home to the parents than taking a black man.

Is that clear? Explained? It is not because of some moronic claim that you need to be classy to date a white man.

ifyalways:
Suspended to be paid at a later date,when they pay the workers perhaps or suspended indefinitely?

100,000 to university students for what?Is there any criteria for qualifying or just being an undergraduate makes you eligible?
Imo state get money ooh,so much freebies these days.

Thank you.

N100K for what? Is the school itself equipped enough to a high standard that you have N100K to dish out to students?

He suspended their pay because of sharp practices of interest? Why not sack them, arrest them and get them prosecuted?

[quote author=c.fours link=topic=870887.msg10205525#msg10205525 date=1329349768]of course since you guys are so damn cheap. even a monkey from jungle could date/marry an African male. so what is the matter?
A woman has to be pretty classy to date a white guy. Not always but usually.

Point is: White women definitely aren't submissive like African ones are expected to be. Go and marry a white woman and you will be lucky if she cook for you 3 times out of the week sef. and by cooking I don't mean frozen sandwich.[/quote]You are a cretin!

You are an absolute cretin!

First of all, lets make it very clear that don't think my blood pressure is raised because you insinuate classless people date black men. I am just in utter shock you can open your moronic gob and say such a dumb statement comfortably. You are a cretin!

From this day, I can never respect you and I can never speak to you with any iota of respect. You are a cretin!

So, fooooooool, explain to me, is it "pretty classy" girls you see dating all those white expatriates in Nigeria?

Cretin, explain to me, is it "pretty classy" girls from Thailand, Russia etc you see dating and marrying white men on holiday?

Dimwit, explain, is it "pretty classy" girls you see dating white guys in the hood/council flats/projects etc?

You are a cretin! An utter moooron!

moderattor:
Blind Foo.l
First of all blind.
Then a Foo.l

Read your first comment again.
MUmu.
You are just a lol, a lmao.
Jump from the window.

You are a cretin!

Point out the part of my statement that was anti-police!

Cretinous product of a failed education system. We will test your reading skills today.

Dumbo!

[quote author=12 inches! link=topic=870887.msg10205132#msg10205132 date=1329344231]@queensmith with ur behaviour and attitude I can never marry you, Infact no sensible man can marry you, Gawwdd, What rubbish, Are u the only doctor in the world, We have 2 in my small nuclear family of 6, So go and sit down somewhere, Na stethoscope u go marry, Vile woman.I'm not replying you.[/quote]Abeg, wey this queensmith is a doctor gist dey come from?

Where?

Make we call a spade a spade o. She is not a doctor.

moderattor:
You are an anti police mumu.
Go shoot yourself.

You are a cretin!

What part of my statement did you see as anti-police, mooron?

davidylan:
why dont you just bow down and worship your british Lords then? Infact marry a white british man, its not compulsory to stick with nigerian cave men. QED

Believe me, honestly, she does not have anything to offer a man in marriage. White or black!

GenBuhari:
[size=18pt]This poor policeman gave his life so that public can continue about their business in safety and all you useless people can do, is criticise his brave action.

Do you think if a robot or a bomb suit had been available he would have refused to use it?

Even a bomb suit would not have protect against such a powerful bomb at close quarters.

So to those criticising him and the police, would you rather he did nothing and allowed more public lives to be endangered?

May you R.I.P. Sir.[/size]

You are a cretin!

Gave his life or was dumb?

Public life was endangered by everyone knowing it was a bomb and have cleared the place? Moooron!

It would be nice if you do the same thing as the policeman. FOOOOL!

sandysprax:
Dude its not a western thing, its a military/police procedure.They are to work in groups with a superior who's duty it is to bring the men back alive regardless of wether they wish to die.BTW, it might even be his superiors that asked him to go check it out

Please direct me to your source for these.

Did you see him following any procedure?

The superior would be held responsible if he wishes to die and risk his own life?

Please direct me to your source of that.

sandysprax:
Didnt he have superiors that ordered him to stop? Did they think Oyinbo people that use robots or protective gears are fools? His superiors should be held responsible for his death.We obviously have a lot to learn from the oyinbo people

I hate it when people, especially in the West, just try and lamely throw blame at people in authority.

IS THE POLICE MAN FCKING DAFT TO NOT KNOW A BOMB IS DANGEROUS?

IS HE A CHILD YOU NEED TO TELL NOT TO GO CLOSE?

Do your bosses need to order you to stop and not go for holiday in Kandahar?

Stop bringing that Western jargon here, my friend.

Dyamante:
@Sagamite oh well men lie and women lie too,let us wait and see how long they will last,  Wish them the best of luck because they will definately need it

I think they would last.

She has already been through the worst he can dish and she stays. He is dictating, seen it all and nice now.

They will probably last!

If you have banged Makosi for months, you should have banged all you need to [i]b[/i]ang. Otherwise, you are a very, very greedy man in my view.

Dyamante:
@sagamite well u may have a point but that she too may have fooled around and still not have found someone better?i tend to disagree with that,
Women are full of motives,im sure she just did not find one with deep enough pockets

Believe me, while there were news report of him fathering babies locally and internationally, she was getting her shyt on too. She was not sitting there waiting. She might have not gone round the block, but she visited part of the block. She did not find one that fit the bill and maybe she is also attracted to what she can not have.

Trust me, I am not one of those men that are gullible and thinks women are angels. I know "whagoan" as my Jamo friends will say!

dayokanu:
Thank God some of us too are able to go to Obodo Oyinbo and see white people live

Else they would have made us believe whites dont shiit.

Someone asking if white women cook? Then maybe white people dont eat

Contrary to what many people believe, In Texas for example, The real conservative white women are even more domestic than other races.

Actually its the blacks that carry the feminism thing on their head and the worse are those who learn the new concept of feminism without knowing what it entails.

White women cook the food their families eat. They spend hours baking, making all those turkey whatever they eat

As an aside:

Something funny came on TV recently and I remembered some women argument here.

I heard Rick Santorum has 7 children, But if it was a Nigerian man that has 7 kids, Someone would already start saying "Nigerian men turn their wives to baby factories"

Thank you for every sentence.

[quote author=Kilode?! link=topic=871260.msg10203619#msg10203619 date=1329329658]Sagamite & Ejine,

Not really. I know, they probbaly can't save the man with his torso flung 1 mile away from the bomb, but I was referring to the lax attitude around the scene.

It was even more shocking after the guy got blown apart.

Did you all see the camera pan to the police truck a few meters across the street? no urgency from them.

Did you see that Okada rider? he just glanced a bored look behind him and hung around still waiting for his next passenger perhaps, no sign of urgency or care.

We are wrong o, we need healing walahi [/quote]Bruv, urgency to do what?

To be fair to them, I don't think the police on the truck might have realised what happened as there was a fence there.

Secondly, I don't think anybody there would have seen such a thing before, they were mostly all just shocked.

Thirdly, Okadaman has to eat and pay his house rent. This one no consign am. 

Honestly, no use our belleful life to judge people that live on less than $1 a day, who see their pikin die before the age of 5, who watch their family members die of minor illness and their wives frequently die during child birth. 

The North of Nigeria is in the year 1907. South is in 1973. Lagos is in 1985. You are in 2012.

ogugua88:
Being promiscuous is real. Gyrating on stage is part of an act lol.

You are somewhat right.

But reality is that gyrating in sexual way on stage and wearing provocative outfits are not just an act. They are behaviours that suggest a way of life.

I can't totally blame these Western artists as I am not one to push the responsibility of raising my child to involuntary "role models".

I blame the millions of parents that allow their kids to worship and idolise these artists like Rihanna and Lady Gaga.

Not in my household. No MTV Base. My kids will not even have that much access to internet and only have access to it in the sitting room on a desk top. I can't help what they are exposed to outside.

ogugua88:
Which one better pass? Mercy Johnson marrying a married man with children? Or Annie engaged to a man expecting a child with another woman? And Nigerians want to blame Rihanna and Lady Gaga for being bad influences on their daughters. Our own issue worse pass their own lol.

Even though both are bad, I would rather have a daughter that did the former of the Nigerians than have a daughter that is promiscuous as the gyration of the latter suggests.

Dyamante:
@Sagamite well im not Nigerian so i wouldn't know all these things,
But why wouldnt anyone marry her despite the fact that she has a kid with a famous personality?

Has a kid - they have several other equally attractive options without such responsibility attached.

Famous persona - Inferiority complex and self-doubt they will or can match up to her needs.

The fact there is that, her pool of men would be low and maybe even unattractive.

Secondly, I can guarantee you that in the 13 years or whatever she has been with him, she has explored alternatives and did not find one hence why she stuck around and took what she could get. She's not stewpid!

I know women, they are not THAT altruistic.

oyb:
bomb disposal or bomb activation unit?

man - that video is frightening

it was probably one of the people taking pictures who set off the bomb

wtf

no armor no nada

This guy you are crazy!

[quote author=Kilode?! link=topic=871260.msg10198780#msg10198780 date=1329288229]Is this real? Did a bomb just blow that policeman up, with people standing by with no sense of care or urgency? 

We need to hold hands across this country and hum a therapeutic tune. We need a collective national psychotherapy session  [/quote]Bruv, wetin you wan make dem do?

You see next to you the leg of a man you dey use your two korokoro eyes dey look at a distance of 100m after a GBOOOOM, you wan make dem go give am mouth-to-mouth resuscitation?

queensmith:
You have a habit of making up senseless statistics that do everything but prove your point. I know for a FACT (not to even talk of white women to talk of the british culture in its diversity) They DO NOT carry the belief of women sitting at home doing everything the husband says!Even the HOUSEWIVES of a western society is the one that handles the husbands pay check.
Dont try and insinuate white women behave or reason ANYTHING LIKE Nigerian women do, try asking this question on a different forum and see what responses you get.
It goes to show, Ngozi isn't famous for home making skills, and what she's famous for isn't learnt during cookery class.

Which Western society?

queensmith:
white women cook? I laugh in japanese. . . .kmt seriously David your soo full of it it's unbelievable.

Who cooks in most western households?

Dyamante:
She is crazy for accepting the proposal after all the women he's been involved with,
Anyway it is much better to cry in a ferrari than to laugh on a bicycle

In Nigeria, how much options does she have once she has put herself in that position?

No 1, how many men is she going to be attracted to strongly like that that will want her strongly in return?

No 2, how many young men she is attracted to will be interested in a single mother in Nigeria when their are loads of young girls? Worse still, a single mother for a famous and attractive persona?

No 3, when she gets her new man, what is the guarantee he will not be spreading it outside? How many Nigerian men with means do not do such in Nigeria?

Women would start demonstrating sense when they know the limitations of their strength and adjust their lives to make the best of it.

queensmith:
hmmm- is this from a consensus proving everyone on nl is a loser?

How do you know im not a queen  
Your post is an ignorant one but I won't blame you. You hate the modern society as much as I the backwards penisworship african women give their sons. Not withstanding I maintain I'm no-bodies slave, cook, cleaner, however you want to put it. The 'Nigerian' idea of a virtual wife is unrealistic and sad, a woman can never genuinely be happy and stress free carrying out these burdens alone, and if africans were ruling it soo much with marriage they a) won't have such a high aids rate from extensive promiscuity. (meaning whatever the women are doing in the kitchen certainly isnt making the men stay at home!)
b) The OP won't actually have this problem, and I'm sure many of their newly weds do!
I prefer to be with a white man that respects me as person and doesntl treat me like a maid that an african man that thinks he did me favourby making me his NaughtyWoman
I cant.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.I tried but i can't.
I'm speechless.
exactly what kind of assumption kmt- I totally see why you have no woman though! rotflmao!

You still haven't told us what is your value proposition that will make a decent man abandon the opportunity of a world of fun with many women and then decide you will be the one for him for the rest of his life despite him having eyes to see many beautiful women every day of his life.

What do you bring to the table that make you a catch and even a better proposition than his selecting another average woman?

Why do you think you deserve or are qualified to be married? What will your husband gain from being married to you?