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Mayflowa:Honestly, I dey confused as I no even know which girl you dey talk about again. I no read the thread at all as it was on the 8 page, I just read OP's intro. I think say na OP you dey talk to, now I dey see freecocoa dey answer you. That said, I am a sex-driven man, actually scrap that. Lets rewind and start again. I am a sex-crazy man, and I am still Mr Right for majority of these women. ![]() |
Mayflowa:Wetin consign her with your frustration? Go put blanket for her head na. |
OP, well done jare. Very few of us have the moral discipline to remain a virgin at this age. Thanks for being in our club. I am proud of myself and you knowing that no one has popped our cherry. I will continue till the day I find Mrs Right too. |
ronkebp:A "worst" a single person does not have to put up with. Exactly my point to dunces calling themselves Analytical, marriage has cons of its own. ronkebp:Better bring enough bacon home for her to be a housewife comfortably. Otherwise get in the kitchen most times to do it yourself. Or buy your fresh soup on your way home from work. |
naijababe:You no see the injection of hormone and the resultant possibilities I dey tell Ronke earlier? |
ronkebp:With the technology that is available, no woman can give excuse of not making a meal for the husband. One full day (or 2 half-days) and you can cook enough meal to last 2 weeks and watch your Eastenders every night with your feet in the air. |
[quote author=Missy_B link=topic=868152.msg10169770#msg10169770 date=1328911858][img]http://4.bp..com/-n7AdpGvTUk8/TzUg9ubgeWI/AAAAAAAARHU/cSKyxHgku3g/s400/1chika+ike+calendar+lindaikejiblog.png[/img][/quote]When are you releasing your own calendar? ![]() |
[quote author=12 inches! link=topic=8730.msg10172248#msg10172248 date=1328956985]There was this girl I dated. she was such a greedy girl, Always asking for money after sex (I used to help her out with money b4 but later it started getting too much so I stopped), Infact she acted like an ashy, And to cap it up, On my bday after bringing some yeye gifts(boxers and white vest) she said she wanted to break up with me, I swear I wan cry, And she could not give any concrete reason, Anyway she later said that day dat she was joking, After I've begged her for over 2hours, Our relationship was neva the same after that and we finally broke, My friends started calling her a witch because of that.[/quote]You never had a relationship in the first place. Take it as a lesson, and learn how and when to tell a girl to fck off. |
sinistyle:You are a cretin! You have finished cooking on the fire? ![]() You are struggling to prove Obi is spectacular, now you have failed you are trying to shove prove to me? FOOOOL! That is how you make proves in your failed education? You make an assertion and submit it telling the teacher to disprove it? You thought you could debate with Sagamite? ![]() sinistyle:You are a cretin! Is David Villa the heart of Barca! FOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL! How did you use the example of removing a striker when 3-1 up and need to defend to justify removing a midfielder that you claim is the "heart of the team" when you need to score and defend simultaneously? Cretin! Product of a failed education. ![]() Kai I enjoy Suya o! ![]() sinistyle:Because your daft arse said so? That is why he was substituted? That is why Ethiopia's famine infested farmer-strikers that can not score against Somalia tore his strings and scored 2?FOOOOOOL! sinistyle:The same 78,900,845,866 ft that Guinea went to win 4-1? Did they use Obi? ![]() sinistyle:So he was not performing? He was not seen as the heart of the team? ![]() sinistyle:You are a cretin! A lot has changed because you said so? ![]() What better structures do you know that football adminstrators built? You think you can pluck points from thin air for SAGAMITE of Sagamu? Ori e o pe! ![]() They sacked their coach and reinstated him is your proof of why they reached the finals? Which team does not change over 2 years? How is your bolded an exception? FOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL! ![]() You are trying to debate with the GREAT SAGAMITE! ![]() sinistyle:You are a cretin! You think Ethiopia will score 2 against Barca because of altitude? The same Ethiopia that had a new coach 10 days before playing Nigeria and trained for only 10 days? The same high altitude place Guinea went to win 4-1? The same high altitude place Namibia went to win 3-2? The same high altitude place Malawi went to win 3-1? What was Obi doing? You are a cretin! FOOOOOOOL! ![]() http://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/0/football/13654229 1710GMT: And some happy Ethiopian fans despite not winning today Meba Selassie Mekonnen e-mails: Even though Ethiopia's chance of qualifying is slim, drawing 2-2 was not bad for the new coach, who only had 10 days to get to know the players, train and then face the Super Eagles. sinistyle:You are a cretin! Has Nigeria not won in Jo'Burg against a stronger team (SA) than Ethiopia using the midfielders you belittled and Obi let 2 past us in Ethiopia? sinistyle:You are a cretin! Explain to me how Guinea, Ethiopia and Madagascar are stronger than SA, Sierra Leone, Equatorial Guinea, Tunisia, Mozambique, Kenya Uganda, Niger and Lesotho that we played and led in 2008 and 2010 qualifiers. You are a cretin! You think you can throw silly conjectures when debating with Sagamite? Su-su-su-suya! [flash=400,350] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=heY15iUzZZs[/flash] sinistyle:You are a cretin! ![]() And so? No 1, Zambia is not a small team, it is a medium strength team in Africa. No 2, FOOOOOL, if big teams are not playing, what odds were you expecting? And you will claim you attended school? ![]() Tell me what the Guinea Obi you claim was spectacular and could not stop did in the poorest ANC tournament so far after they knocked us out. sinistyle:You are a cretin! So you believe they passed MRI scan and their "records are clean as a whistle" but you are still saying they may or may not be? ![]() FOOOOL! Who do you think you are fooling? ![]() Was Stanley Okoro 15 when he played for Nigeria and was Rabiu 16? ANSWER! ![]() sinistyle:You are a cretin! Where did I say it was OK to play for reserves? Tell me what league matches Rabiu has played in the last 3 years that made him worthy of an SE invite? How is he different and worthy of invite more than the Nigerians playing at Hackney marshes mid week and weekends? sinistyle:You are a cretin! So any player with rumours of interest from clubs is highly rated? ![]() You do not know the meaning of highly rated or you are just more stewpid than a baboon? ![]() So if tribalsports or the SUN says a Man U and Tottenham are interested in a player, that player is highly rated? Your cretinous arse does not even know sometimes agents falsify and circulate such stories with useless press to increase the value of the player? FOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL! ![]() You are struggling? SUYA! ![]() You can not get players that are highly rated when dribbling players at youth competitions but cannot get club games when playing with their mates or highly rated players that have to go through trials to get new clubs. SHUT UP! You have been roasted! ![]() sinistyle:You are a cretin! So any player signed is a star of the tournament? Product of a failed education system? sinistyle:You are a cretin! If he was not doing anything on the field, he would be selected to play 49 times? FOOOOOOL! You have the common sense of a Dodo! Again, explain to me on what grounds you compared Altidore to Rabiu with your Dodo common sense. sinistyle:You are a cretin! So a player with 4 appearances automatically plays a crucial part? You think this is your Teachers Training College Ede that you can give such lame points? Do you know the meaning of crucial? So Peter Utaka made a crucial part in SE? FOOOOOOL! Tell me what Weiss did in the qualifiers that made you label him crucial? You think SAGAMITE will allow you throw moronic conjectures? And you will claim to know SAGAMITE? ![]() sinistyle:You are a cretin! Elliot Who? FOOOOOL Tell me a highly regarded player that has to (or will) go to trials to join a club! Messi? Bale? Xavi? Rooney? Balotelli? Lennon? Dafoe? Bellamy? Stephen Ireland? Odemwengie? Ike Uche? Kroos? Clichy? Sagna? Charmakh? Even Carlos Vela? FOOOOOOOOOOOOL! No brain! You think you can throw moronic and manufactured facts to back up lame points? A player goes from one team to another having to go through trials and your moronic arse said that reality is proof he is highly rated? How dumb does one get to reach such conclusion? Were you taught or used proofing in school because this is just one of the numerous moronic "proofing" we have seen you use? Which school did you go to? You are SUYA! Do you not feel incredibly moronic when being slaughtered, cut and diced by the fabulous and great Sagamite? ![]() |
moremi2008:You are a cretin! Don't worry, I will catch you again. Then you will try and claim piperbowl again. ![]() Suya! ![]() |
moremi2008:You are a cretin! You only started claiming hyperbucket when you realised I was about to intellectually slaughter your daft community college arse. |
moremi2008:You are a cretin! Explain how the UK is becoming a 3rd world country. |
moremi2008:You will fit well to hook up with Ayamamama/queensmith. ![]() Perfect couple. |
moremi2008:You are a cretin! You cannot even intelligent enough to be UBA branch manager before we start talking about any decent American university. Dumb foool that said UK is turning into a 3rd world country. |
moremi2008:You are a cretin! It is way beyond the reach of community college cretins like you. |
moremi2008:You are a cretin! Are we suppose to be impressed you know people that attend UPenn/Wharton, when you are a hoodrat that can never get to such places? |
Ngodigha1:You are a cretin! Jail for what? |
naijababe:[flash=400,350] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X5vulA50tyI&feature=related[/flash] ![]() Make una see irresponsible people: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2099082/When-Helen-Baxendale-Friends-got-mobbed-street-reveals-Im-glad-I-gave-fame-family.html ![]() |
ronkebp:Apart from your few L'Oreal moments here and there, you actually do sound like you are a quality wife most times. ![]() |
queensmith:While you are at it, open another one that says: 'is marriage worth it with an Obese and Obnoxious hoodrat' |
ronkebp:Everything is based on influences. I bet your husband is not aware of the risk you detailed there, not like if it is a bad or un-understandable thing. To him, his wife is just perfect, when in reality you are acting your good part. Just a little bit testosterone and/or a little bit over-injection of hormones can lead to actions or misreading of what is "maltreating" to some. And DENG problem begins and if not resolved quickly leads to bigger problem or some hidden animosity. Someone not married can protect themselves against marriage. If you are that tempted to marry, do it purely on your terms as much as your power and will can carry you. If your terms are not being respected, have sense and pull out.armyofone:But you still want half? ![]() |
ronkebp:The is part of the cons (risks) of marriage. Now for some ediot to come here and now be spewing rubbish that marriage is just fantastic and then call himself "Analytical" annoys the hell off me. |
Money good o! See these old lonely men and their cats. I am so scared now. ![]() http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2099379/Bruce-Willis-heavily-pregnant-wife-Emma-Heming-shop-baby-supplies.html http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2099111/Ice-T-wife-Coco-poses-naked-nephew-posts-picture-Twitter.html |
You should change the title of your thread by adding the adjective "irresponsible" before debt. I can pay (and I have paid) ex-girlfriends debt before but no way in hell would I pay for anyone's irresponsible debt. |
ronkebp:But they are responsible na? According to our "Analytical". ![]() You can choose to behave like Americans or choose to control your marital settings (it can be off or, if on, with good controls). That said, the men described in the article are not in my class. They are more like moremi. naijababe:Er, I think men have more options. Secondly even though you are right about some men being selfish, I think woman are generally more selfish. Majority are way too selfish and some are adopting this stewpid Western philosophy that everything should be about women and a "real" man will fall in line. Count me out of that brigade! |
sinistyle:You are a cretin! You still feel like a dumbo not to know Barca reserve is a team playing in the second highest league in Spain? FOOOOL So what if he played in third highest division? Which one has rabiu played for? FOOOOOOL! Continue struggling. Name a highly rated U-20 that is struggling to get a game like Rabiu that you want in SE. Product of a failed teachers training education. sinistyle:You are a cretin! No 1, How is he highly rated? You concluded he was highly purely based on news report that some teams want to buy him? You are a cretin! You think this is your beer parlour? No 2, Has he not played regularly in lower leagues in Spain? FOOOOOOOOOOOOL! So why do you compare him to Rabiu? IDIOT! sinistyle:You are a cretin! You are still scraping? How is he highly rated? You concluded that because he scored in the final? That was your analysis you did? GO and BURN your certificates! MOOORON. Again, is he not a regular in the lower leagues of Spain? How did your DUMB mind decide to compare him with Rabiu! FOOOOL! You are struggling? You are feeling the heat? You thought you could debate with the GREAT SAGAMITE! CRETIN! sinistyle:You are a cretin! He is a star because you said so? Show me where he was rated as one of the stars. FOOOOL! sinistyle:You are a cretin! ![]() Everybody get your plates. The dunce is cooked. SUYA is ready! ![]() FOOOOL! Tell me what 49 appearances Rabiu has. EDIOT! You are struggling? You did not use your gutter brain before you started generating examples to debate with SAGAMITE? You did not know you would be cut and dice and peppered like the fooool you are? ![]() sinistyle:You are a cretin! Do you think I went to a daft school like yours where you can manufacture facts and some unqualified lecturer will pass you? How did making an appearance become "crucial", FOOOOL! You think you can manufacture facts when you are struggling to make your arguments stronger? You want to manufacture facts when debating with SAGAMITE? You are a cretin! Explain to me what crucial role he played in qualifiers! sinistyle:You are a cretin! ![]() You are struggling with another of your daft examples? ![]() I hope you are sitting there and causing IBB under your breath? ![]() You are a dunce! They offered Hargreaves trials to test his injury and fitness condition since he has not played for years due to those reasons. You are DAFT! I have SUYAed you as I said I would. You are too dumb to debate with the GREAT SAGAMITE from Sagamu! sinistyle: ![]() Make una see desperation! ![]() Elliot who? ![]() How is he highly rated? ![]() I thought NEPA was hopeless in Nigeria? How did you get enough electricity to continue manufacturing your moronic facts from thin air? ![]() GEJ must be a magician! ![]() You are hoping any quote from tribal sports will save you? ![]() Explain to me how he is highly rated and "several top sides are after him"? ![]() Proper cretin! I am enjoying my Suya now. D U N done! ![]() Come back and explain how we should invite a player that cannot get a game for 3 years to play for SE. Product of a failed education system! |
Buffoon, where is the answer to the rest of my question? You are still dodging how you cretinously compared Altidore to Rabiu? FOOOOOL! Which do you prefer to go with? Red or White onions? |
sinistyle:You are a cretin! I am the one to prove Obi is not spectacular? Fooool! Product of a failed teachers training education system. ![]() You are struggling right? You spent 24 hours thinking of what to say and you came up with this moronic tactics that proves you are daft? ![]() sinistyle:You are a cretin! So when a coach wants to make an attacking tactical substitution, he would remove his "midfield general"? A young one at it? FOOOOOL. ![]() The coach is not most likely to remove the weakest link? You are struggling? Your suya smell is becoming stronger. ![]() sinistyle:You are a cretin! What makes Obi spectacular as a central midfielder! You said he was the soul of the team! FOOOOOOOOOL! sinistyle:You are a cretin! Like 2-2 against Ethiopia? Like 2-2 against Guinea where he was sub as the weakest link? Is that the fact you were taught at your moronic training college! FOOOOOOL sinistyle:You are a cretin! Prove that! State what changed in 2 years that made them stronger. FOOOOOOOOOOOOL! SUYA! sinistyle:You are a cretin! What acclimatization does Obi need to play football against area boys that they got 2 goals past him if you say he was spectacular and our saviour! The same team that Somalia drew with? Is that a team better than Wikki Tourist! You are a cretin! How did Obi allow that team of quacks get 2 in Nigerian net. The same place Guinea went and won 4-1? You are a cretin! Has Nigeria not beaten SA in Jo'burg that is above sea level? sinistyle:You are cretin! Not strong enough to match our stronger players? They are able to play Obi that you said was spectacular? sinistyle:You are a cretin! If you have a load of small names what names do you expect to see at QF? The big names that are not there? Did they teach you logic at school! MOORON! Tell me how far Guinea went at the ANC! Guinea, Madagascar and Ethiopia is what Obi could not play? And he was spectacular and the soul of the team? You are a FOOOOL! sinistyle:You are a cretin! This are 16 and 15 year olds? https://talentspotter.fourfourtwo.com/contentimages/PA-5117174.jpg https://mundialfutbol.paginawebsite1.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/stanley-okoro-300x350.jpg You are MAD! You have a brain of a turkey with bird flu! |
http://www.thisdaylive.com/articles/are-nigerian-marriages-in-america-on-the-brink-of-extinction-/108934/ [size=18pt]Are Nigerian Marriages in America on the Brink of Extinction?[/size] It has been a puzzle to me as I watch the rate families are disintegrating among Nigerians living here in Houston lately. And I can wager that what is happening in Houston, Texas (where I live) is typical of the rest of America. As I attribute this unfortunate trend to the environment and stress associated with living in America, my thoughts and research have shown that there are many other variables that have been affecting our lives here, which most of us have not accepted as reality, therefore, triggering the ripple effect of high divorce rate. There is resistance among Nigerians to accept the fact that we live in a system that is more sympathetic to women and what is a norm in an African oriented/Nigerian family maybe viewed as unconventional. The role of husbands in America is totally and mutually exclusive when it is compared to that in Nigerian context. While America has been so receptive to the influx of immigrants from every part of the world, the assimilation and transition challenges have been traumatic to these cultures. The dramatic culture clash, values, norms and open society pose the biggest challenge to most foreigners who have been assimilated and grounded in their ethnic culture in contrast to the host culture. It will sound illogical if the blame is solely attributed to the American culture; we, as the visitors have our role to play in order to bridge this disparity gap. Based on our slow pace of assimilation, the culture shock blossoms, leading to family cracks and sometimes ending in divorce or worse, death. How do most Nigerians marry? A typical marriage between two Nigerians usually starts from home. There is a myth that most marriages between Africans and Americans are usually faked. An assumption which has and continues to hunt true and candid marriage relationships between the two cultures. Therefore, the gamble to marry from Nigeria, especially those who have the potential to make money, instigates the rush to nursing and medical schools in Nigeria to engage and marry, not a soul mate, but a potential money making nurse, doctor or pharmacist. This expensive and tedious adventure has become a game of chance. Majority of these men go home to seek a wife they have never known, while others decide to fetch a sweet heart that will come over to America and become a wonderful soul mate or a nightmare. The brewing of the problem starts from the approach of the suitors from the great US of A, where dollars speaks load and clear. Diaspora Nigerians will use their hard earned money to travel and impress these wives to be without minding the perception and ramifications of their actions. It is acceptable to lie to a girl friend to win her over for dating pleasures, however, it is suicidal to lie to a life partner of your lavish wealth in America; the one you have decided to spend the rest of your life with; while in reality, you are finding it hard to pay your rent in an efficiency apartment. After the lavish expenses involved, the spouse finally gets to America to find out the reality. She is very excited and at the same time disappointed to be here, feeling stuck, she opts for plan B because A has faltered. The opportunities, rights and liberties accorded to women will impress her new plan. She will start to realize that her husband does not live up to whom he projected while at home. He does not have a good job, big car, a mansion and other expectations he projected during the courting period; he is not settled! On her arrival, his rich friends pulled in all kinds of expensive vehicles while checking her out, flaunting their money, titles and class. Remember, some of these wives already planned on leaving as soon as they have gotten situated. While they have their plans going, the men are toiling to train these wives since the system is more favorable to women. The first line of action is to put her through school and at the same time making her pregnant. The wife goes to school and carries the pregnancy. Everything is going great because the man plays the African male figure and head of house hold while the poor wife dances to the tune on a borrowed time. Despite the burden of going to school, being pregnant and working, the woman continues to perform her chores as a wife. The man also continues to play the role, praying for her graduation and eventual self actualization. In some situations, there maybe family issues that may prop up and the woman is frequently reminded of her role and how she was brought to America, the greatest country in the world. Some may involve abuse, humiliation and sometimes physical abuse. While all these are going on, information and communication are flying from friends, relatives and associates who directly or indirectly influence the outcome of this marriage. While some will caution dialog, others will instigate different measures to resolve the issue, including but not limited to contacting the authorities. The degeneration of the marriage continues and leads to more suspicious issues: infidelity, rumors of leaving, unsatisfactory sexual performance and other innuendos. Both parties are suspicious of each other and the crack in the marriage continues to widen. The complications that arise will destabilize the marriage to the core; these may include: sexual starvation, threatening to call the law in order to label the man with felony, assault and battery, child abuse, or any accusation that will incriminate him. As the problem reaches the boiling point, the wife, knowing full well that she is covered, files for divorce and child support. Having graduated with a professional degree and a good job, the wife collects child support and ends up living lavishly while the man struggles to make ends meet with his meager earning. The woman who has been raised to her current professional level sees her sponsor, the husband, as unworthy to have her as a wife because she is now making a six figure income. In an effort to control this money, our men make the most horrendous blunder which usually leads to violence or even murder. While most break ups are associated with the wives, men also play the devils' advocate, thinking they can still have multple patners while they are married. Nigerian men should weigh in their options before getting into marriage here in Houston/America. The time has changed and yesterday is gone. There must be a dramatic change to sustain out marriages here because, there are many distractions and the victims are the poor Nigerian children that are caught in the middle. Nigerians, especially Igbos have a very inflexible culture engraved in marriage and family. This stoic culture is inert in most men of African descent. As a black man in America, you are guilty till proven innocent, therefore, if you insist on living like a husband in Africa, please save your marriage till you relocate back home. Otherwise, you may find yourself in jail, probation or even dead. If you are one of the lucky ones with an understanding wife, count your blessing; but please, do not seek her pay check because they do not come handy anymore. |
^^^Wow! 24 year old chic? My role model from now on! ![]() Everyone should be calling me Fatai Rolling Naira from now on. Are you sure his new wife is not TOH? |
ronkebp:Somebody[b] voluntarily[/b] refused to ask their ![]() |
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