Crime › Re: Mob Lynches Cop For Killing Driver Over Bribe by Sagamite(m): 8:23pm On Jan 30, 2012 |
Jakumo: The cop might have been guilty of murder, but many other categories of trivial non-violent crime can and do trigger IDENTICAL beating to death by mobs on Nigerian streets. With jungle "justice", any correlation between the gravity of the crime and that of the punishment all goes out the window, to be replaced with a uniform penalty of death for all people simply accused by screaming members of the public.
It is impossible to regulate mob murders, and there certainly is no appeal process once the beating begins. How do you feel, Shagamite, about the drivers on Nigerian roads whose vehicles knocked down pedestrians due to brake failure, only to be dragged out from behind the wheel and killed in broad daylight by instantly formed mobs of "sympathisers" ? Is that justice in your eyes ?
Lynching is ILLEGAL by definition, and so there is no rule book available to educate potential lynch mob members about what class of criminals to kill, and who to spare. That is the problem with instant mob "justice". It is not justice by any stretch of the imagination, but is rather simply murder committed by multiple accomplices. For as long as I live I will NEVER have a hand in that gore. We are not talking about who was beaten to death for adultery blah blah blah or any other categories. We are talking about a policeman that shot a man in the face for bribe. I will never condemn that in Nigeria. That is justice. I would be happy to have more of it when any policeman shoots an innocent civilian. There is currently no indication or observation it will spill beyond that or has been the norm for other categories of recent. Let them continue taking other categories to police for trials (civil) but lynch any murderous police man they can (jungle). Pragmatism and Expedience! Why do you think such police killings does not happen in the UK/US and other countries? |
Sports › Re: Rabiu Ibrahim Signs Lucrative 3 & Half Year Deal With Celtic by Sagamite(m): 8:06pm On Jan 30, 2012 |
12large1: you are a freaking case cretin failure of democratism paroism operatism,expressing themselves in a very loud and clear tone.Everybody have gone to matilonipples to say cabudo rejectament tothe case of rabiu ibrahim because of jealousy and an act of not believing in yourself everybody is speaking with one voice and this is not only happening to me i do not love a player i love nigeria and speaks solely about a player because he is good,but across the length and breadth of a soccer pitch, Like ia said,when i gave my Debudelic arrang,i did say that all the rationtilation,al the adumbrations,verba gugriculation effiation that has been put forward by by silly nincompus like you economies and petty buzwagigcon sagamite be careful You are a cretin! Did you pass English in school? |
Crime › Re: Mob Lynches Cop For Killing Driver Over Bribe by Sagamite(m): 8:01pm On Jan 30, 2012 |
Jakumo: Ghadaffi and Sammy Doe were despots who had murdered scores if not thousands of political opponents, so their deaths, brutal as they were, were necessary evils, to prevent those monsters from escaping to perhaps later de-stabilize entire nations. In Nigeria, on the other hand, starving people who steal a few crumbs to eat are slaughtered by mobs. That is dead wrong, and NOBODY is safe in that country for as long as they could be set upon for no sane reason by mobs formed instantly on any given city street, beaten to death and incinerated in front of impressionable children, all simply because of a shouted accusation that could be entirely false and groundless.
The problem with civilians taking the law into their hands in a "peacetime" society is that the categories of offenders who the mob agrees should be killed ALWAYS expand and multiply in number, till you get to the point where merely shouting the word "thief", or "witch" could result in an INNOCENT person being chased down, beaten to death and burnt to ashes. That, sadly, is the situation in many Nigerian cities and towns, and I firmly believe that such spontaneous killing dehumanizes all involved - both the victims and those who gleefully commit murder in frenzied groups. We are not talking about a starving person here. We are talking about a police officer so power-drunk, heartless and emboldened to shoot a man in the face for refusing to give him bribe. A policeman so confident he can do that and get away with it. Can you blame him? One of the police officers that "arrested" the 15 year old girl for riding Okada at 9pm (outrageous offence) and went to r[i]a[/i]pe for a month only got a demotion until people shouted. The DPO that the case was reported to and did ZILT except apologise and told the family to let the matter die is still in his job. The Police Commissioner that did not deal with these people is still driving around in police entourage doing big man. Are those the people and system the public should rely on? Fck the law. When a few of them and their inactive bosses are killed, trust me they will take the matter seriously. |
Crime › Re: Mob Lynches Cop For Killing Driver Over Bribe by Sagamite(m): 7:21pm On Jan 30, 2012 |
Jakumo: Ha ha famous last words, hollered at the judge as the bailiffs escort the accused off. Kai! You have seen me in real life before?  Jakumo: Just kidding man. If you have no qualms bout "dominating" the activities of a lynch mob, my humble opinions expressed here will never change any of that. I just happen to regard those who participate in lynch mobs as murderous cowards, and thus would like to think that you are simply playing devil's advocate as you extol the pleasures of slaughtering mob victims, but if I am wrong in that assumption, then suffice to say your concept of civilized conduct is at extreme variance with mine. No, they are not cowards under this circumstance. They are heroes. They are defending the rights of others where the law has failed repeatedly in defending such. I believe in pragmatism and expedience. Calling them murderous cowards is like calling those that take to the streets to protest the stealing of their votes in an unfair democratic election, anarchists! Why do you think policemen in USA, UK and other similar countries will not dare shoot people at will like the Nigerian policeman? Jakumo: For me, a muffugguh needs to point a loaded weapon at me to make killing cross my mind as an option, and I simply cannot bear the thought of a mob setting a human being ablaze, no matter the ALLEGED offense of the victim. The mere thought of such mass insanity makes my flesh crawl. The global internet audience that witnesses such barbarity will marvel at the sheer backwardness of Africans, and come to regard ALL who occupy that entire continent as primitive, blood-thirsty sub-humans, but hey, if that don't matter to you, then that's all that matters. It ain't no thang. You are still blowing grammar.  Oyinbo ni gbogbo eleyi to nso! There might be cases where mob justice is unjustified but this is not one. The people have waited years for the law to act and protect them but those in charge of the law just dismiss the people and their lives as worth nothing. We are different because I surely took delight in watching Ghaddafi being beaten and murdered. I took delight in watching Samuel Doe being tortured and killed. People in power that don't believe in laws and human rights and heartlessly torment others should not be shouting for law and human rights when they are in trouble, powerless and helpless. |
Crime › Re: Mob Lynches Cop For Killing Driver Over Bribe by Sagamite(m): 6:19pm On Jan 30, 2012 |
Jakumo: Regardless of the reason offered for the ILLEGAL killing of any person by a screaming mob, Nigerian law does prescribe death by hanging for anyone deemed to have committed culpable homicide, either alone, or in the company of others similarly accused . With the prevalence of phone cameras in Nigerian society today, anyone who participates in a mob murder COULD be identified from footage of the incident, and later charged for murder, thus becoming eligible for a date with the hangman if found guilty.
Certainly Nigerian policemen are the scum of the earth, but they, along with the military and federally licenced civilian vigilante groups, remain the ONLY armed gangs sanctioned to operate by the Nigerian government, therefore, anyone who feels vengefully entitled to attack and murder a cop is undertaking an extremely risky adventure, in which the aggrieved party is none other than the government of the land.
Personally I would not hesitate to use deadly force in a self-defence situation where my own life is in immediate peril, but I would NEVER contemplate joining any ululating crowd that descends on a helpless, disarmed human being, beating to death and then setting alight the victim. Every person who partakes of such frontier "justice" is no better than the individual being killed in that macabre extra-judicial manner, and has, by engaging in such wanton savagery, descended to the status of a cold-blooded sadist and murderer forever after. The same mob who killed the rogue cop in this instance would be equally inclined to chase down and burn to death further random victims selected on the flimsiest of excuses, ranging from alleged theft of reproductive organs to purported withcraft or petty, non-violent theft.
If you want to pass death sentences in Nigeria, attend law school there, graduate as an attorney at law, then work your way through the hierarchy of the judiciary, until you rise to the position of a presiding judge who is vested with the constitutional power to weigh evidence and prescribe jail or the hangman's noose as punishment for murder suspects brought before the court. Lynching ANYONE outside of that narrow legal context marks all involved as outlaws who may themselves face judgement and ultimate execution by the state, once they have been identified, apprehended and tried in the court of law. The laws can go to hell if it can't protect the people from being killed repeatedly by animals given guns (using the people's money) to protect the people. Laws are meant for sane societies and settings. In insane societies, I will join in in killing any murrafcker I see heartlessly using and abusing his powers to kill an unarmed person because of some bribe. I will dominate the killing if I can. And I am sure better than the person killed. Savagery for savages in the jungle! You can start blowing all these grammar when you have enforcers of laws that have at least the intent of enforcing it, talkless of capability and passion of enforcing it. These are the police men so comfortable with abusing the people under the "law" with impunity that they took a 15 year old girl to the station in Kano (they called it "arrest"  and violated her for days (taking turns on her one by one) and when her family finally got her out and went to report to the DPO, he told them to forgive and forget. If the government won't protect the people, the people should protect themselves. Fck the law. Don't let me even go into Justice Delayed. |
Politics › Re: 7 Same-sex Nigerians Demonstrate At Nigerian House In New York by Sagamite(m): 6:09pm On Jan 30, 2012 |
debosky: I am not equating them, but they share many common features - the dominant group seeks to denigrate the minority, often purely for self gratification without any provocation. That tweet wasn't necessary in any sense of the word. The ga-y contestant didn't make a pass at him or anything so it is unwarranted.
Are you saying people don't lose their jobs for making racist comments? People can and do lose their jobs. Suarez was engaged in a heated EXCHANGE with an opponent, not simply mouthing off in isolation.
No one is using severe force to do anything. Many people do not support homosexuality but are not attacked for it. This tweeter DELIBERATELY set out to cause offence and that is not acceptable. If you are against it you can express that in non-insulting fashion.
Why express that 'lack of interest' when not approached? Did he express his interest/lack of interest against each person in the celebrity house? Why single out the homosex-ual person for ridicule? Do you express your interest/lack of interest of sex with your co-workers randomly?
I am sure the guy signed up to anti-discriminatory terms and conditions and has violated them. He is a public representative and should conduct himself with decorum. Come on, are you saying "heated exchange" provides more grounds for using racist words? There is nothing like attack in what he said. What he said was just a plain objection to homosexuality. Nothing of hate. Look at it in the context: There is a scenario where you will be in a closed facility with a 6ft 3 or so muscly gay man who would not have access to s.ex. He jokes he would not want to be next to such a person, is that enough grounds to take away his means of income from him? If it was a woman that said that about a 6ft 3 muscly heterosexual mine in a confined place, would she be sacked? If I express lack of interest of s.ex with my 50 something year old, fat female boss, do you think I would be sacked? Would someone lose their job if they said (without any query) they don't like African food because it just stinks? debosky: Again she was fired for violating the code of ethics. The issue here is with the code of ethics - if it becomes acceptable to treat people who want to 'change' then there will be no issue. But till the law/ethics are changed, you abide by them - simple. If you know what the ethics require and choose to go against them, then be prepared to face sanction.
If she doesn't like the rules governing the profession, go do something else. I can't wake up one day and decide I want to practice medicine based purely on my views - by registering with a medical registration board, I become bound by their rules and they can strike me off if I violate them.
I don't support entrapment either though, but then again, if as a policeman someone approached you to trap you with a bribe and you accepted, you are still guilty of accepting bribes. If indeed she did violate the code of ethics, then the punishment is warranted.
Whether we like it or not personal beliefs and professional ethics will have boundaries - the key is to separate them and not muddle them up. What role of ethics says you can use therapy to treat one intimate desire but you cannot use it for others? Is that sane? What bunch of bias and suppressed quacks made such code of ethics? You don't see anything wrong in that logic? |
Politics › Re: Who Is The Best Ig Nigeria Has Ever Had by Sagamite(m): 12:53pm On Jan 30, 2012 |
solihu: Roger that! The question still holds. Are you sgt Adewale A. of Isokoko? "Is he sgt . . . . . ." |
Politics › Re: Who Is The Best Ig Nigeria Has Ever Had by Sagamite(m): 12:37pm On Jan 30, 2012 |
solihu:
adwale197, are you by any chance a cop? I wouldn't even use that term in relations to Nigerian police. A " cop" gives me a mental signage of an active, actionable and dynamic person. Lets just call them policeman or corporal/officer/sergeant/olopa. |
Politics › Re: Who Is The Best Ig Nigeria Has Ever Had by Sagamite(m): 12:04pm On Jan 30, 2012 |
adewale197: D best IGP so far is Tafa Balogun just forget abt d problem he have with OBJ followed by Sunday Adewusi there work is stil speaking 4 dem d worst IGP is Sunday Ehindero and Afiz Ringim. You are a cretin and in an ideal world, you should have your brains blown out! |
Crime › Re: Mob Lynches Cop For Killing Driver Over Bribe by Sagamite(m): 11:29am On Jan 30, 2012 |
cheikh: @^^ Well, I am glad that you've converted to my stance of "retaliation" or "eye for an eye" at last sagacious Sagamite my brother. Our police are not worth reforming but rather it should be "abolished". It is not fit for purpose at all. It is because of lack of sanity in the system that the police officers have grown to feel enbolded to shoot and kill anybody at will. We see it at repeatedly virtually every month. Yet some are saying the people should still depend on the system even when they have an option of burning the murrafcker on the spot. Jokers! Go and change the system and then we can come and talk about civility. |
Romance › Re: How Do You End An 8 Years Old Relationship? by Sagamite(m): 11:22am On Jan 30, 2012 |
[quote author=c.fours link=topic=856511.msg10077792#msg10077792 date=1327889336]don't misquote me abeg. marriage is for the more mature minded. it's not for those who just want to have fun without any serious responsibility attached like a dating relationship. OP should learn her lesson and move on to a more eligible bachelor. Her fault for staying with the guy for 8yrs. She should have left long before.[/quote]Am sorry.
Misquoted you?
Show me where you mentioned maturity there. All I can see there is your reference to the fact that it is harder to leave a marriage than a relationship. That leaving a marriage has consequence, so women should make sure they get the man to marry them so it is harder for them to leave.
How is that a misquote? |
Politics › Re: 7 Same-sex Nigerians Demonstrate At Nigerian House In New York by Sagamite(m): 11:17am On Jan 30, 2012 |
Here is another one: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2093646/Former-Archbishop-Canterbury-senior-clerics-therapist-row-gay-conversion.html?ito=feeds-newsxmlWhy was she sacked? Why stop her means of livehood? Worse still, the poof was the one that went to her for help. Secondly, this same British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy that struck her off, thinks it is OK to use therapy for paedophilia but thinks it is a crime to use therapy for poofterism? This are supposedly experts that are behaving like bias cretins. Can you see their arguments for acceptance of poofs is not based on logic, instead it is based on suppressive force? We are suppose to accept without any questioning. I don't see how you will think therapy can change one unconventional sexual desire but think it is a crime to try it against another. |
Politics › Re: 7 Same-sex Nigerians Demonstrate At Nigerian House In New York by Sagamite(m): 10:59am On Jan 30, 2012 |
debosky: You're exhibiting double standards - what that guy said is no different to what Suarez said that he doesn't talk to negritos. If Suarez was banned for that, this dude deserves the sack.
No one even forced him to sleep beside the gay dude, but he felt a need to ridicule him in public for no reason. If you go out of your way to insult someone with no real justification then you get what you deserve.
However, with Nigerians' rampant casual racism and tribalism, most peeps say worse things everyday so can't comprehend this type of issue. No 1, I have said it several times, I don't equate racism to anti-homosexuality. So I don't see the basis of comparison. No 2, lets say fair enough, the rules in the country is pro-poof. Does he have to lose his job? Did Suarez lose his job? This is proof of the use of severe force to create acceptance of poofs by the Barbarians. The only acceptable thing is to voice your support for poofs, anything against is suppressed brutally. He obviously ONLY expressed his lack of interest in sex with a poof? What is so wrong with that? He said his arse is locked to such. Is that worthy of losing his means of livelihood? I say NEVER in Nigeria. Poof Haram!  |
Politics › Re: 7 Same-sex Nigerians Demonstrate At Nigerian House In New York by Sagamite(m): 1:12am On Jan 30, 2012 |
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Crime › Re: Mob Lynches Cop For Killing Driver Over Bribe by Sagamite(m): 1:08am On Jan 30, 2012 |
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Education › Re: List Of The Top 10 Best Universities In Nigeria by Sagamite(m): 11:58pm On Jan 29, 2012 |
suogal: For d sciences especially med,naija public skuls r natn to write home about,look at uniben wit d best upth;no accreditatn.also uniben,unizik,uniport,dier med certificates aint recognised n d uk. And this person would claim to be educated?  |
Romance › Re: How Do You End An 8 Years Old Relationship? by Sagamite(m): 6:41pm On Jan 29, 2012 |
[quote author=c.fours link=topic=856511.msg10070187#msg10070187 date=1327781572]this is the difference between dating and marriage. You can't easily just call it quits on marriage esp with children and other social and financial investments. couples will usually try to make it work whether the relationship has become boring or not. unlike dating where people can break up over silly things without any consequences.
Now that she's approaching 30. it won't be easy to find a new partner. She has wasted her years on the guy. this is a lesson for young women out there. get out of the relationship if after 2-3yrs the guy hasn't "put a ring on it" and get out even faster if you feel your time is running out. women supposedly have a "shelf life" after all.[/quote]I like you.
At least you are blunt in your opinion that marriage should be used as a trap to keep hold to someone. |
Politics › Re: Dame Patience Arrives Addis Ababa With 32 Aides For Au Summit by Sagamite(m): 2:20pm On Jan 29, 2012 |
Funkymallam: When will Nairalanders grow up by reading well, understanding b4 spewing rubbish?
SR did not bother to tell us hw many govs wives were in d entourage, or they r also her aides? They bother to skip d presidents own cus it consist mainly ministes and govnors, or is mimiko also d presidential aide? Am sure their security details are also added as aides.
Pls lests knw d diff btw aides and participants.
Below is a link that tells u d number of aides assigned to Michele Obama, she has 22 aides compared to GEJ 24.
http://www.ourchangingglobe.com/how-many-personal-assistants-does-michelle-obama-have/
quit whining. And you are a cretin! Why are you comparing Michelle to GEJ? Does Michelle fly to Nigeria at the mere whiff of health problems? She is driving through pot-holes? She is living in a country where you cannot drive on the motorway at 2am? She is using generator to get electricity? She is in a country where 30% are unemployed or 80% are under-employed/shyt-employed? She is living in a country where 80% live on less than $2 a day? She is living in a country where their is no drainage? She is living in a country where you spend 8 years doing a 5 year course? She is living in a country where the police can shoot you at will? Cretin, on what grounds did you use your daft brain to make that comparison? |
Politics › Re: What Hasn't GEJ Done In 10 Months Of Being The President. by Sagamite(m): 2:11pm On Jan 29, 2012 |
diluminati: This is the worst president ever. There is nothing that the average nigerian will be proud of in Jonathan. The man is a bloody fooool! I told you all right from time before the election. He is too stewpid to be a President and he cannot inspire even a child with diarrhea to shyt. I said it that he is too dull and slow to be inspirational. He has Zero in ratings for inspiration! Minus 5 for intelligence. And yet people voted for him over Ribadu and Buhari. |
Sports › Re: Nigerian Players In South African League by Sagamite(m): 11:22am On Jan 29, 2012 |
How much on average do these Nigerian players earn? |
Politics › Re: I Knew Dad Disapproved Of Justin's Gay Lifestyle: John Fashanu's Daughter. by Sagamite(m): 2:52am On Jan 29, 2012 |
The next frontier of the poof-crusaders: football.
They will look for all avenues to complete the brainwash. |
Politics › Re: The New Igp, Md Abubakar's Past Sins: A Bad Replacement For Ringim! by Sagamite(m): 12:32am On Jan 29, 2012 |
aguiyi: i could not get any info on them  So you did not use your brain from the start to ratiocinate it is virtually impossible to get info on them? You did not use your brain before you requested I recommend alternatives? |
Sports › Re: Rabiu Ibrahim Signs Lucrative 3 & Half Year Deal With Celtic by Sagamite(m): 12:28am On Jan 29, 2012 |
12large1: In 2008 andre ayew was rejected by marseille dude went on trial at 2 german clubs they wasnt impressed with him. Sagamite stop switching topic we are saying u 17 20 23 and not u 12. Trust me despite your old age pension and all you will not do jack against u 20. Again i said u 23 not u12 . how can you label a player a You are a cretin! Do I look like the NCE quacks that were your lecturers at your College of Education! It is SAGAMITE you want to be telling fibs? You think you can give me the moronic conjectures you used to graduate? ME? A whole SAGAMITE? Do you know who I am? You are a cretin! When was Andre Ayew rejected by Marsielle? Show me where you got that report. |
Crime › Re: Mob Lynches Cop For Killing Driver Over Bribe by Sagamite(m): 1:06pm On Jan 28, 2012 |
omodapson: The policeman who shot an innocent civilian should have been disarmed and handed over to the police for trial on charges of murder. To prevent the case file from "vanishing", that handover of the culprit should have been carried out in front of invited members of the press, both local and international, if possible. On several occasions in Nigeria's recent history, serving policemen were handed the death penalty as a consequence of extra-judicial killings perpetrated while in uniform. Short of outright war, there is NO circumstance under which it should be acceptable for civilians to commit lynch-mob murders, EVEN IF the victim of that lynching was SEEN and CAUGHT in the act of homicide. The minute it becomes socially acceptable for an impromptu lynch mob to form and descend on a victim in the street, a floodgate of evil is opened, lending an air of "normalcy" to the notion of baying mobs beating to death and then incinerating motorists whose cars hit pedestrians due to brake failure, or women whose unconventional behavior leads to frivolous suspicions of "witchcraft", or non-violent petty thieves and pick-pockets who pilfer handfuls of loose change to buy a meal. Many of the participants in Nigeria's culture of jungle justice show up at the scene afterthe mob victim is already in the throes of death, AND YET, those "God Fearing" passers-by never hesitate to attack the human being on the ground with gleeful ferocity, JUST on the strength of unproven or unprovable accusations leveled by the crowd at their silenced victim. Killing another human being in the context of self-defence could be defensible in the court of law, depending on mitigating factors in favor of the accused, BUT, there is absolutely NO provision in the constitution or judicial system of ANY civilized nation on this planet, which condones or encourages vigilante mob murder as a substitute for due process in the court of law. No private citizen has the right to inflict ANY punitive measure to address perceived offences OUTSIDE of the universally recognized progression of arrest, arraignment, trial and sentencing effected ONLY by officers and officials of the legitimate law and judiciary.
The same way police carry out jungle justice on defenseless accused. Imagine police arresting ''innocent'' criminals and killing them immediately; that's one specialty of the Nigeria police force. I praise the people for doing this. An eye for an eye Purely based on the high possibility of the highlighted is enough justification for burning the murrafcker. Why should they have to go through all that stress? If you want people to behave civilised, develop a civilised system to cater for their challenges. |
Celebrities › Re: Heidi Klum And Seal, Set To Divorce. by Sagamite(m): 10:52am On Jan 28, 2012 |
ceasyc: Sag and divorce and women, u no dey tire? happy new year sagamu, been a while
chris rock did say that "everybody needs a prenup. . . u got 20 million and your wife wants 10, big deal, u aint starving but u make 30,000 and ur wife wants 15 u might have to KILL HER". LMFAO! You? No even talk to me.  Anyway, happy new year. I am only here pushing equality na.  |
Sports › Re: Rabiu Ibrahim Signs Lucrative 3 & Half Year Deal With Celtic by Sagamite(m): 10:45am On Jan 28, 2012 |
12large1: You are a disgrace to your father mother, and to your brothers in north boko haram people. You doubted ri in under 23 is already a senior team how can a bloody civilian call u 23 under 12 wtf look at equtorial quinea that has qualified for quater finals, nigeria olympics team hammered them 5 0 6 of their national team players were there ri nosa igiebir hl stared in that game. You are suffering from what we call inferioty complex a situation where by you think white people are better or they must say something is better before you accept. In your mind until rabiu ibrahim plays for european club befire se should call him. Where was eu club when he was shinning at u172023, u23 is not senior team. At u17 u can claim overage but if a player shines at u 20 or 23 his good. Even if rabiu was 28 playing against u20 if his not talented nothing go happen. Yhis rabiu case goes to all our players that shined at youth level believe in your star players and dont wait for another white club to do it. Look at andre ayew he was rejected by marseille 3 years ago even failed trials at different clubs but ghana called him up for anc 2008 and continue to help him 3 years later look at where he is my guy please as always believe in your self dont let a white man say you can do it before you actually belueve. Nkita lacha anya gi onye ala You are a cretin! It is me you think you can be telling porkies? You think I have your kind of education? You are a moooron. I tell you I am good at dribbling 12 olds, so according to your daft logic, I should be sent to the national team to see if I can perform na since we don't need to wait for clubs to give me a "chance". A player that has been in 2 or 3 clubs with his age mates and cannot get games to play is good? You are a cretin! Now tell me which Andre Ayew was rejected by Marsielles? Which Andre Ayew failed trials? You are a mooron. 12large1: At young 20 year old obi despite all the injuries he has had this season has played 21 games for inter milan and you call him a part time player my friend please have several seats or just stfu you sound like a dumbasss you are the reason why nigeria is very currupt today when forking boko haram boys are allowed on the computer this is how they show them self. Onye aboki abeg can you wire me suya You are a cretin! You are now giving excuses? You think it is your moronic teachers at the College of Education you attend you are debating with? What injuries did Obi have? You are a cretin! Cretin, what did Siasia do with J. Obi? Explain to me why I should not be selected for SE. |
Nairaland General › Re: O Ye My People! by Sagamite(m): 10:33am On Jan 28, 2012 |
[quote author=Kilode?! link=topic=816612.msg10065017#msg10065017 date=1327720130]^ I know you'll like that part. Ashawo  ROFL Dayuum![/quote]If I see this type woman, I go pick race. Who wan get injured.  |
Romance › Re: How Do You End An 8 Years Old Relationship? by Sagamite(m): 11:14pm On Jan 27, 2012 |
[quote author=~Mikael~ link=topic=856511.msg10064137#msg10064137 date=1327701420][color=#000030]I agree with the reasons you gave, but every marriage and every circumstance surrounding marriage and the eventual fallout(if there is) is not always the same! Very very few get closer like you said, and i like to think that those few are the ones that really committed themselves into making it work, irrespective of the fear of emotional blackmail and all that! [/color][/quote]You are right.
If the guy does not feel he would be happy with her, he should close case and move on.
Believe me, that is exactly what she would do if she feels the same. All that 8 years blah blah blah would not matter. She would find her happiness and not look back.
She is most likely not going to even perform any of the "rules" a lot of people are stating on this thread. She would not sit him down and say she wants to end it. You think women have such decency to take the guilt of ending a relationship by communicating maturely?
She would look for an alternative suitor, a nice back up, and then she would most likely start behaving irrationally and inconsiderately to create arguments. She would act so bad and disrespectfully, so he would have no option but to dump her. So she can now say (innocently), he was the one that ended it, not her but she is happy to move on.
And if he does not take the action, then she would move to Plan B: She will end it by saying they are "arguing too much and not compatible".
Then wait 4 months or so before she says she has a new man. The same one she has been communicating with when she was with her 8 year boyfriend. |
Romance › Re: How Do You End An 8 Years Old Relationship? by Sagamite(m): 10:44pm On Jan 27, 2012 |
[quote author=~Mikael~ link=topic=856511.msg10064025#msg10064025 date=1327700354][color=#000030] Do i need a proof for "What i think?" Do you need a proof for "everything?"  [/color][/quote]What you think is out of order from the facts on the ground. The main reason a lot of men are not leaving marriages is the fear of emotional blackmail, the tedious separating process and the domestic dependencies. You need to open your eyes in the same Nigeria to the amount of men playing away from home. Only very, very few get "closer". |
Romance › Re: How Do You End An 8 Years Old Relationship? by Sagamite(m): 10:31pm On Jan 27, 2012 |
[quote author=~Mikael~ link=topic=856511.msg10063886#msg10063886 date=1327699057][color=#000030]Affinity between dating couples and married couples is not the same. Marriage takes it to a whole new level. Married couples are closer to each other than mere dating couples, so i personally would not expect the level of attraction to remain the same! Except they were not that into each other before they got married![/color][/quote]You have any proof for this, or is it just a mere conjecture? |
Romance › Re: How Do You End An 8 Years Old Relationship? by Sagamite(m): 10:00pm On Jan 27, 2012 |
[quote author=~Mikael~ link=topic=856511.msg10063777#msg10063777 date=1327697829][color=#000030]I never used the word attracted! I rather meant it's pointless dating for that long![/color][/quote]What I asking you to clarify is the apparent suggestion you made that marriage is a panacea for loss of attraction after a long relationship.
You seem to suggest that he would not have lost attraction if they were married. That it is because they were merely in a long term courtship is why the loss of attraction was possible. |
Politics › Re: Dame Patience Arrives Addis Ababa With 32 Aides For Au Summit by Sagamite(m): 9:44pm On Jan 27, 2012 |
GboyegaD: It only shows the depth of insincerity in Jonathan. How would his wife be travelling with 32aides? What does she need them for? I shake my head for those who still believes Jonathan can do anything . Believe me, the man is not being insincere. He is plainly daft! |