₦airaland Forum

queensmith:
lol- chair that wont be possible, how can he when he's only attracted to men?

What will happen is all that you've mentioned but it will be his male companion in the nail salon 'queening' himself, . . unno waxin the underparts for the next bedroom adventure . . . . . . .

@saga
I cant wait for the day a man steals your heart,

I also cant see the new insult you've directed at me because my company blocks all media- but i will be sure to check later on. . . . .stay gay dude  

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jay bee:
abegi crack me up with big lebowski

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chaircover:
Debrief i dey o! How are you and your family? it is well o! It is well. God dey  

jaybee dont mind Saga. We all know his type.

Ive told him before. He is the one you will see Pushing trolley round Tesco with one hand and baby perched on his other hip while trying to read the shopping list in his mouth cos he has no free hands left meanwhile wifey is doing her nails at the nail bar and calling him every minute to add more things to the shopping list

Awon yes ma yes ma three bags full ma . . . . we know your type  o!

For the right woman . . . . . . . . . . . . a possibility.

But such women are rare and I am a hot catch. I no go sell myself short.

queensmith:
@jaybee how did i not see it!

*saga added to 'inthecloset' list*

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chaircover:
. . . . .Meanwhile some wives are cheaper to run than girlfriend’s o!

Look how long I have been asking/cajoling/begging and all other 'ing’s for this ever elusive jeep from my sweet hubby, yet you see all these aristos driving round in the Range Rover Evoque’s. Kai married women don suffer o!  

She's right you know. Sheeeeeeeee's right!

jay bee:
We need to start questioning oga saga's sexuality sef.
You can only ever find him on two threads, either women vs men superiority contest or gay bashing threads.
What gives oga saga?

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Kai, this was the guy that created soul train back then when I entered university and was wearing my funnel trousers and afro. He helped create the soul that I used in chasing all those 70s university girls on the dancefloor o.

I was the one carrying the book here:

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chuks49:
Arabians re blood tasty.

daroz:
Muslims again!!!!!

chuqudy:
muslim Hausas in diaspora

melomelo:
Egyptians- generations of brutal King Pharaoh (The greatest enemies of children of living God-The Isrealites). Egyptians will still kill more of themselves, then the Red sea will perfect it's job again,embarrassed them and wipe them off even their brothers in Nigeria Boko HARAMS,

You are all certified cretins!

I have always believed in shooting on the spot people that act violently, overly threatening or riot at football games.

This has vindicated me.

Not everything called civilised is pragmatic or good.

If you join a marauding mob that are a danger to others, you have signed for a bullet to the head. Lets protect innocent people and ensure only the animals die.

Now some innocent people have died all because they want to watch a game while some animals want to harm people because of football.

queensmith:
@harakiri cos it aint trickin if u got it!

saga- the millionaires you are crying for are not complaing. after paying one woman they still go and marry another so it goes to show they are more than fine.

if your wife is richer than you how much can she milk you of during a divorce? if she can milk you at all?

yes yes- you cant hold a decent female, live alone die alone dont marry, do whatever you like just stop blaming women for your issues.

Another of her "common sense".

I would rather die alone than end up with a product like this. This is an epitome of what we are trying to avoid, the type of women I was describing earlier and the type that contributes to the current level of marriage failures.

harakiri:
I wonder how you came to that conclusion.

It is her "common sense".

In her world, arbitrary formulated conjectures from thin air are "common sense".

Try and understand her "common sense".

Her lame conclusions are "common sense".

queensmith:
Sagamite
All millionaires do not HAVE to date millionaires; did they tell you it bothers them?
Most people partner up with others from the same social background as their own, even a fool knows that. Harvard students marry other Harvard students the list goes on.
None of you here are millionaires yet you keep crying over women that want to steal you pennies.
Now back to the fantasy success you all claim to have, are you trying to tell me you alone are successful in your own little worlds? You don’t have colleagues? You were the only person in your place of education? You alone succeeded in this world? Even a social recluse cannot claim such nonsense.

So it is now "most"?

And which common sense did you use not to realise even millionaires or Harvard people milk their partner during divorce?

So how did you conclude (based on your data of "most" that people talking about being milked must be people that are not successful?

queensmith: Its very obvious none of you are actually that succesful otherwise you wouldnt be surrounded by women that are soo poor the idea of sharing cyber irks you.

Was that your common sense or your nonsense?

queensmith:
and dont get me wrong, im not saying marriage is the truth way and the light- i don't believe that. the question asks if its worthwhile. To those that hold traditional values yes it will be. But there is nothing wrong with an alternative lifestyle.

The only problem is that rather than admit, most of you cant actually hold a relationship or most of you are undatable. Your shifting the blame claiming women want to steal your money.
If you really believe that then marry someone richer than you. stop lying to yourselves.

Is this your new conclusion another of your "common sense"?

debrief08:
Na wa oh? Na who dey force anybody to marry? Different strokes for different folks, some men prefer to marry some do not, live and let live every man get him own. No be by force, being married or unmarried doesnt gurantee happiness, pple both married are unmarried can be old, alone and miserable. You can be married to someone who makes ur life miserable, you can be a widow or widower, you may get married and not be blessed with kids, you can be unmarried and have kids. The fact that marriage works for some doesnt mean it is a one size fits all. If they no see any sense in marriage free them abeg. Enjoy ur marriage make them enjoy dem single life

No min dem.

Some of them are trying to pass their fear of being lonely and pathetic in old age to men because they are scared of the concept of men not wanting to settle down with them.

They are doing probability calculations of rationing of men and what will be available to them if some men choose not to.

One has to know the way women try and operate with words. 

freecocoa:
Because before you know what hit you,you'd be old,lonely and miserable without a loving companion or any companion at that.

Do you honestly think the average man is that desperate?

Sorry to disappoint you, it is women that are usually desperate for companionship.   Evident in the way it is mostly women that are hyperventilating at the thought of men not wishing to settle down.

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-11595715

As a man, I would still have some minuscule of attraction up to old age more than a woman can ever dream of. If I have money when old, my attraction power will be even more intense. Go and fine out who Heidi Klum got pregnant for before Seal. She did not do it because she was looking for money o.  

You all know I am not one for laying it softly. I drop facts like it is hot.  


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RaCodgL9cvk

If you want softly softly, go and find Siena.

queensmith:
i dont know what your reading, I do conclude succesful people (in my definition) will be surrounded by like.

Its probably easier for you to believe millionaires only know tramps, of course, since it will give you an excuse to live a lonely pathetic life pretending its due to there being no succesful women.

you can go and dig through journals to further justify this delusion and present them to whomever asks you why your soo lonely and pathetic.

Where with your common sense did you hear that all millionaires date other millionaires?

Lonely. pathetic life? Why? You think everyone is desperate as you for permanent companionship?

Where with your common sense did you arrive at the fact that someone not interested in marriage will live a lonely and pathetic life?

Unmarried people don't socialise?

What is lonely and pathetic about dictating easily when and who you want to socialise with and for how long?

Since when did availability of choices become a lonely and pathetic thing?

What is wonderful about being with people like you? You think or hope your threat of "lonely" or "pathetic" will somehow make someone like you any more appealing?

RSA:
It is a lot of money for an aging player but PSL is trying to build a brand that can compete with some of the big european leagues.By attractiing players like Boa Morte they hope that in future younger Africans,Europeans,South Amerians players will see PSL also as an option.

I know Benni McCarthy is making noise about targeting to be the first player to win Champions league(EUROPE) and Caf Champions league.That itself could be a good motivation for players to play in the PSL,more so if they're paid well,infrustructure is top class,league and clubs run professionally.

What I am just worried about is the currently useless ANC running your country.

I am dreading they will bring your country down to the level of Nigeria with the way they are letting corruption build up while some of them get rich.

AjanleKoko:
I hope people are smiling now, and enjoying the 'Fresh Air'.

Some of us told them right from time the man was dumb and utterly uninspiring.

freecocoa:
Moremi and co,ya'll should go and make money and then get married,forget all these long talks joor.

Why?

queensmith:
^^ on the basis that our definitions of success will be different yes.

on the point of you asking me whether 'succesful' people will be surrounded by men and women of thier kind. . . . . . really? i mean really? seriously?

Your 'scientific' conclusion seems to conclude all successful men date (or are surrounded by only) successful women.

Now use common sense to evaluate that conclusion and how you arrived at it.

ow11:
I am enjoying the banter and haven't picked anyside yet but I want to think 12large1 is leading on points so far.

What points?

It would be interesting to know.

12large1:
you are not even a system of failed educational system. you are a system of poor health and a product of lack of condom as you were born by mistake ur prolly a bast.a.r.d in real life so i really cant blame you instead i should pray for you

Cretin, apart from not equipping you with the capability of backing up your arguments, is this the grammar your failed education taught you?

A dickhead saying a player that has only played 3 or 4 league games in the last 3 years should be invited to play for SE. Bloody product of a failed education system.

A dimwit wants to come and bullsh[i]i[/i]t a whole SAGAMITE with a bunch of lies for his moronic argument. YOU ARE MAD!

Bow to your intellectual GOD and never commit such blasphemy again! FOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL!

debosky:
Do you single out those with a different orientation to make fun of, and broadcast it on the internet? If it was a ‘societal norm’ as you claim then there wouldn’t have been a fuss about it. As a public figure you are held to a higher standard of judgement .

You have made an assumption he singled out because of different orientation despite the fact there was another poof there. He was most likely commenting on a mix of seeing a huge man that could be attracted to him. An imagination of helplessness

Secondly, a lot of jokes involves singling out. Be it fat people, men, women, disable, culture. All are societal norms that people don't lose their means of livelihood for as long as it is not extreme or hateful. Comedians do worse.

Nothing he said was extreme/hateful (even if he was picking on him) and I have given you numerous examples of such singling out that you cannot even say confidently people will lose their jobs if they did exactly the same thing. He was unfairly dealt with purely because of the culture in the UK that suppresses any opposition to poofs.

debosky:
Good - so he is ridiculing someone for being a muscular ga-y man. Even more discriminatory.

Joker!

debosky:
It implies he feels he will be attacked for no reason - tantamount to calling the big dude a despoiler without any evidence. Such baseless, unprovoked slandering is unacceptable. If his employers deemed it worthy of the sack, then that’s their call.

So if a woman said something exactly similar about a muscular man (as in, he is a potential despoiler), do you think she would be sacked?

debosky:
I don’t know that - let him post that on twitter in his next job and find out.

No, you know!

You know NOTHING would happen. This only happened because they will do anything to suppress any whiff of anti-poof opinion.

The minute you give poof rights, you have lost everything as you give grounds for them to be bold and start asking for protection which will lead to suppression. My point RIGHT from the start. 

debosky:
You don’t call someone a pervert unless you see them doing something perverted - same for stalker. This guy is calling someone a despoiler without cause.

Women call men/a particular man pervert(s) all the time and they don't lose their jobs.

Even if a man calls a woman pervert, he would not lose his job.

This just shows it is pro-poof bullying that took place.

debosky:
If no organisation will sack you for that then he should be able to claim compensation for unfair dismissal.

If I was him, I would fcking be. But a shame he does not have my brain, logic and stubborness.

debosky:
Suarez too could’ve been said to be making a ‘joke’ but got punished. When your goose is cooked, it is cooked.

I thought you said it was a heated exchange? Do you joke with offensive stuff in heated exchanges?

Chineke, Debo, why you dey twist illogicality on me just to keep a weak point going na?

debosky:
The logic may come from knowledge that majority of such attempts to ‘treat’ poofterism don’t work, and many end up making the patients depressed and suicidal.

Furthermore, it is widely accepted in the field that homosexuality is not a disorder but a natural orientation, so there's nothing to 'treat' in the first place.

No 1, I think it is safe to say it is inconclusive in the scientific society the reason for homosexuality. It is not widely accepted it is a natural orientation.

No 2, in science, because some attempts have not worked is not grounds to completely ban all attempts of solving a problem forever. Na science na.

No 3, if it is working for other [i]s[/i]exual orientation and pervasions, then it should be grounds to allow experts explore what works.

That argument does not wash at all.

debosky:
There are many studies out there doing research into homosexuality. That you don’t know about them doesn’t change the fact of their existence.

There might be but it is clear to any logical mind that in the most advanced countries that are financially capable of exploring it, there is NO POLITICAL WILL to explore. So it is extremely underfunded. Even experts will be too scared to broach the issue if the outcome is not "urban" and "progressive". Pure suppression of alternative views.

debosky:
Freedom of association for one.

No one said they can not associate but types of association can be legally limited just like "progressive" Canada and their likes have shown us.

naijababe:
  at comments here

@ Pro01, you can't be much of a player if you can't differentiate between se.x and companionship. Even players eventually tire of playing at so point and want more than casual sex.

True that!

I am not (nor ever been) a player , but nowadays, very very very few women enthuse me.

naijababe:
Sagamu, u berra turn all these money that's turned you loco into beds and mattresses and whatever the delicacy in Sagamu is so you eat as much of it as you want and sleep on the rest.

See this woman o.

Which money? I have used my penkere savings to order 500 bags of Ijebu garri that I have stored to last me a lifetime and I need to protect it from any women that wants half in divorce.

naijababe:
As if successful women don't have to worry about deadbeats and moochers ?! And since y'all like to liken yourselves to celebrities so much, wasn't it Eric Benet who asked for alimony from Halle Berry simply because she adopted his daughter from his first marriage?! Shio!!!

The Exceptions.

Lets not deceive ourselves that these laws were not created to unjustly benefit women. Most cases are men.

[quote author=chi-baby link=topic=859170.msg10099470#msg10099470 date=1328125629]Well then how will u be fulfilled if ur dealing with women who jus wanna hump on it for a nyt and dats it?
In dat scenario, u do not hve a woman 'along side' u. Notice I sed a woman not women[/quote]That is why I corrected you. Women, not woman.

If you mean men need interaction with a woman to be fulfilled. Biologically you are right but an unmarried man can have it with multiple women. They can change women at will and end things when it is no longer the best for them.

If you mean men need marriage to be fulfilled. That is utter bollocks. How many married men are fulfilled or even more fulfilled than unmarried men this days. They are divorcing in droves.

It is normally women that need marriage to be fulfilled because they biologically want company, protection, provision for their offspring and emotional security.

queensmith:
Probably, if you need to dig deep to utilize common sense.
Again i say, success if different for each of us so I retract my last statement.

You retract it? So you finally found some common sense?

armyofone:
marriage is a game, we each play our part and accept the inevitable. i wouldn't say cuz i fear the nasty guys (like dayo, Saga and Harakiri) and then not marry. i tell you, if you find the right person, your song will be different. till then, keep spending your money on the pretty ones as they spend on you too, don't they? I'm sure they do  .

hope you are planning for Valentine. Don't stay lonesome on that day  

Come on.

You know I am the shitzo. 

You know if you knew me in real life, you will want to husbandy me.

chika98:
Sagamite: I think we both know where YOU stand on the issue of marriage so going back and forth is like going around in circles.
We share very different views on it. I suppose you're extremely wealthy and would love to keep YOUR money should things go wrong.
Good luck with that then

Extreme wealthy?

No.

But I will be effing rich in future, baaaby. So I need to make it clear it is all down to my ability and not some lunatic assumptions of a court.

pro01:
SMH. These ladies are so typical. The sort of things they learn in pentecostal churches and 'fellowship': Optimism. Positivity, blah blah. . .and other such delusory and/or manipulative shenanigans. Lol. Skin-deep positivity.

Some of us value the ugly, cold reality much more than hare-brained, baseless 'optimism' and self-delusion. I'm sure the likes of Tiger Woods, Phil Collins, and very recently, Kobe Bryant foolishly went into marriage with zero thought of divorce, along with ultra-moronic amounts of positivity and optimism. What happened to these 'optimistic' guys afterwards? ? ?

Fact is, human beings (not just women) are mostly perverse and unpredictable. It is ALWAYS wise to presume them to be the devils they really are and take necessary precautions. . .rather than foolishly (in the name of 'positivity' and 'optimism') assume that they're nice and sweet by default. . . . only for them to deal with you so ruthlessly when your guards are down. We learnt from experience, primary and secondary experience.

Any one entering into marriage with a supposedly 'modern' woman (yea right), would be an i.d.i.o.t of exemplary proportions not to acknowledge and prepare for the possibility of divorce. If it were our grandmothers whose orientation was that of marital permanence and absolute endurance no matter what, then of course fine. But these supposedly 'enlightened'  wo(e)men (*clears throat*) of nowadays that are fickle and materialistic? Divorce is a reality that a sensible man MUST anticipate and take necessary measures to protect his interests against.

Nelly (Saga remix): He's right you know. Heeee's fcking right!

ronkebp:
^^^^^^^^ no need for ;long talk, you, marry today and divorce tomorrow, nobody will ask you any question,  nobody is asking Koby Bryant, Tiger woods and the rest why they are divorced today, at least it is not for the fear of spending their ''hard earned'' money with their wives.


Marraige is supposed to be forever, but definitely not at all cost (especially when it involves life), if you are wife beater, you would be dumped, if you are a serial cheat, trust me, your arse is alreday dumped, if you are lazy,  , that one has it's own answer already, now if you go to the village and pick a wife, she might manage your excesses , if you refuse to shape up then it pays to remain single, you cannot wish for a wife like beyonce and expect a village mentality in her brains.

You know you can stay single and have Beyonce. And when you get bored of her, you can move on to Kelly Rowland. Then Kim Kardashian, Amber Rose, Chessika Cartwright, Rihanna so on and so forth.

monex:
for me sha, marriage is not by force but i must get married. i also choose to stay with my village mentality about marriage. roll with the sophisticated chicks, marry the rustic but career-oriented chick. and surely get married in naija. cant remember Nigerian laws but it is like 200 naira per month you provide rite

I don't think such figures in itself is reasonable (assuming it includes child maintenance). I have no problem taking care of my kids. I even have no problem taking care of an ex-wife (most especially if she sacrifices) it should just be reasonable. I even have no problem being generous to her. I just feel any extras should be on my terms not some crazy, stewpid legal illogicality.

[quote author=chi-baby link=topic=859170.msg10099035#msg10099035 date=1328121521]@Topic

In summary of every point I want to make, A man cannot be fulfilled without a woman aside him. Therein lies ur answer Mr poster[/quote]You mean women aside him?

12large1:
like i told ur useless Bottom the story dey google but i guess ur time on the cafe don expire anyway i hope maga go pay for you so u dont join boko haram again

You are a cretin!

In the College of Education that failed, you make a cretinous argument and then tell you teacher to go and look for the facts?

armyofone:
IRMO (In Reading Mode Only)
Grabbing my 2 slice of crayfish and ejadudu/norway Mackerel moin moin and enjoying the side show.

Saga, you really need good food. man wey chic give better food and chop belleful won't get mouth to talk.  
back to eating jare  

See ya mouth.

You Sisis of the modern world, when I tell una make una go cook for me, you go say na my turn to cook and clean this week. Na 50-50 (except bills).

Yeye women.

hispinkolo:
To each his own,it's not worth it to some.To the others,they wouldn't have it any other way.For me,marriage is what you make it.If you go pick a girl that her convo is only about peruvian hair and gucci bags,what do you expect?You think that when she is ready to leave she will just go meekly without wanting to maintain the lifestyle?Every guy should be walking around with a gold digger or ho alert bracelet then.

Mate, let me correct you. It is not only this kind of women that will milk a man after divorce if he is wealthy. It is all kinds of women, even the good ones.

It is all psychological. As long as the law exists telling them being married to one is a significant contribution to the wealth the person makes, the more the person will convince themselves it is their entitlement.

It is akin to the problem of over-payment to IBers. The more they make the million dollar salary, the more they feel their work is worth the figure when it is pure market structural deficiencies that is making them rich enough to award themselves that. Whatever they do is inferior to the value of the work of a surgeon.

If governments continue to tell women they are entitled to half, majority will take what they can take (that they did not work for) under the law.

hispinkolo:
The good ones are plenty,unfortunately,they may not look as hot or as flashy as the leeches.

You are right there.

Normally the well-behaved, well-mannered Nigerian girls are not that great looking. The compensate for that short coming with great personality.

Most of the fine Nigerian girls are utter shyt heads, they are classless and not worthy. Rude and arrogant with disgusting personality. Only God knows how many fine Nigerian girls I have had to swiftly put in their place coldly.

So, all for the sake of marriage, a man should compromise what he wants and go with half bread?

Hell No! Take over the bakery.

pro01:
It is ludicrous how some ladies here (predictably) would have us believe that not having a wife is necessarily tantamount to loneliness. Maybe you need to realise that being alone is not necessarily the same thing as being lonely. Why some of you like simplifying everything into two extremes (black OR white) is something I would never understand. Certainly, life is more complex than that.

Hilarious isn't it? One would think that the above quote is actually entirely applicable to rich, single females who would eventually find out that their personal success is worthless without a husband or a Stedman kind of 'handbag' to validate them. But for a rich man? There is hardly such a thing as a 'lonely' old rich man. . .unless he has deep issues and despises female company.

No rich old man that loves women can ever be starved of beautiful female company - even without a wife. Ever heard of mistresses? Live-in-lovers? A million and one sweet women of all ages would be at a rich old man's beck and call ANYTIME he needs someone to ask him "if his feet [and 'third leg'] are warm". Not to mention countless beautiful maids, nurses, and female aides he can have around him attending to his every whim 24/7. He doesn't need to be officially married to any of his mistresses for him to get all the company he needs. Heck he could even have a harem for all he pleases. Let's not kid ourselves here.

'Loneliness' (especially for a successful man of ANY age) has NOTHING to do with lack of a wife. Only a psychologically or spiritually troubled man of that kind would be lonely (and that would even be his personal choice) - all the better for him 'cos he'd probably be dead anyway if he had a wife to nag the living-daylight out of him.

Nelly, one more time: He's right you know. Heeee's right!

chaircover:
If you don’t want to marry, then fine but state the real reason, which is fear or commitment. 

It makes me laugh when I see women choosing selective words to make you feel you have to do what they want you to do.  

He is irresponsible because he is not married.  

He fears commitment because he does not want to settle down.  

Are men suppose to do what you want to prove he is a man with balls that has no fear?  

Let me correct your English. Why not try:

"If you don’t want to marry, then fine but state the real reason, which is lack of interest in commitment."

"If you don’t want to marry, then fine but state the real reason, which is refusal to commitment."

"If you don’t want to marry, then fine but state the real reason, which is exercising your right not to commitment.

Which one be fear? You chose that word to make it be like our masculinity is challenged?

Wislet:
@ sagamite, I'll wipe ur behind if u dnt take time

I think you meant whip.

If you will wipe it, I will put a ring on your finger now. Good wife.

tenibaby:
There are several reasons why a man should get married
1) Cohabiting with several women is a sin, you are not to commit fornication by sleeping with so many women, for spiritual and health reasons
2) It is Gods plan for a man to leave his home and cleave unto a woman for companionship for them to build ideas together and nurture children in the way of the Lord
3)The role of men is very important in a home because most male children love to learn from their fathers and when they don't see their fathers at home they learn from outside
So, in a nutshell marriage is very important for health reasons, spiritual reasons and nation building because the man is the strong force that holds the family together and God the stronghold. We have been through hurt and pain, but we must learn something positive from all forms of hurt and pain and become better people.

Shut up with all this religious junk.

Sky Rider:
Any sensible man would prefer a wife's tantrums, the children's murderous yells to the 25yrs olds.

Who will make sure he supplies them with all the vain things of this world. At the same time he is not the only one logging into their websites.

Only for him to wake up one day, even with all he has spent and find himself lonely, cause they will be so gone for greener pastures.

Sky Rider, you never fail to display it.

What is this rubbish you wrote?

Wislet:
@sagamite, dearie wer u bin dey?

I dey, babes. Just been quite busy.

ssemire:
if you are true to yourself, you get someone that will be true to you.

get it out of your head that its all about what a woman wants from you. u should ask what u av to offer as well. can u inspire trust, can u be faithful, can u defend her, can u respect her?

don't let your 'success' do the speaking for you. there are many women i know that will rather not get married than marry your cocky self-seeking type.

and these women are properly educated, achieving women who work hard for their own money and are very confident of the person and gender. the question is are you smart enough to find one of them? the bible says you have to find the wife (he who finds a wife, proverbs).

Women don't know what they want until after middle age.

As per find, let her keep on hiding in the bush waiting for Tarzan to find her. I go dey restaurant sha.

nagoma:
Sahih Muslim: Volume 8, Book 'Kitab Al-Nikah', Number 3231]

Allah's Messenger (sal-allahu-alleihi-wasallam) said:

"0 young men, those among you who can support a wife should marry, for it restrains eyes from casting (evil [b glances). and preserves one from immorality; but those who cannot should devote themselves to fasting for it is a means of controlling intimate desire."

Salau ah koba, el-walahi, sal-binu, shibin kuna, wahelsalem kobina, allahu, shut up!

Claus:
Awon boys have wisened up and are no longer ready to settle for just a pretty face.

From what I'm seeing, the guys on here aren't really saying marriage isn't worth it. They just want the standard of the babe to be much higher than average. Boys are getting very picky, just like women have been for centuries.

Standing ovation, bruv!

To add, all the threats of "you will grow old alone", "you will be late in having kids" does not bother or scare me. They should try something else.

There are 4 criteria any woman I will marry will have to pass.

stayreal:
Marriage has become a scam in the states. For many men, getting married is one of the biggest mistakes they have ever made in their life. Men are crippled financially in many instances after marriage and treated as criminals if they cannot afford to pay child support and in some cases alimony.

Well said!

Only mugus and lambs to the chamber will marry without prenup in the West!

pro01:
Well, to each their own, but in all honesty, marriage favours women much more than men.

This is where I sing that Nelly hook again: "He's right you know. Heee's right!"

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-502120.96.html#msg6679405

opribo:
In my opinion, marriage nowadays is not worth it, it has lost its significance and meaning. A situation you call a woman your wife yet she goes about showing her Unclothedness to other men is that the sanctity of marriage. In every 5 marriages today at least four have been unfaithful to their spouses. At the end of the day marriage today has become money for stay, no money for go.

I am a bloke and I have many male friends.

If I start saying what some of them do with married women, jaws will drop.

Yet more people are rushing into the jail sentence.