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XavierBlue:
Ladies love to marry early, but men will go for the opposite. Women wonder why they have to wait till they are older before possessing such thoughts. Ladies may marry as early as 20 but men is a rarity.


1. The commitment thingy.

The whole commitment thingy is scary. Don't tell them they'll have to commit their whole life to one lady when there are millions and other varieties out there The thing is, it easy for a lady to make a commitment but not for a man.


2. Scared of their decision.

Men always get scared of marrying the wrong person. He still posses doubt even when he's sure of the one he vouched.

3. An end to his bachelorhood.

Once you're married, your free life and fun get cuts off. Guys are scared to leave that in a hurry as being a bachelor can be fun. They want to enjoy lives so that once they're married, they won't cheat. So they believe


4. Hustling or making money first.
Men want to be more than comfortable before looking towards marriages. They want to make money, have more cars, houses and wealth before going to the alter.

5. Polygamous in nature.

Men are naturally women lovers. And commiting to one for the rest of their lives is not a decision that will be hurriedly taken. They want to sow their royal oats before before settling to one , perhaps a virgin

6. Their friends.

Ladies Marry early because their friends married early or want to marry early. Men don't want to hear of such words, money and fun maybe the thing on their mind. To them marriage na future sontin


7. Who to trust when they have the money.

This is another reason. After making money and acquiring wealth, they don't know who to trust as every female that comes their way might be regarded a gold digger who only comes for his hard hustled money and not his love. They don't know who to trust or stick to. in their quest to find a trustable partner, they end up marrying late.

Feel free to add yours


XavierBlue

The highlighted shows this is a moronic fuuktard compilation.

This was the corruption soldiers were complaining about that they were being sent underarmed to fight Boko Haram while the military leaders loot the budget. Instead of the moronic cretin called Jonathan to do this, he supported giving the complainers death penalty.

Moronic fuuktard of Otuoke!

vapid:
You are really daft.

You are a cretinous fuuktard!

So this is just another "fact" you pulled out of your arsse?

Freemanan:
Nothing is absolute in the real sense... I said that theoretically.... I believe gay right is as important as right to heterosexual marriage...

You just believe, so it is not a human right?

Freemanan:
I don't follow

My definition of an absolute right is a right that is non-negotiable and untouchable.

You said those were not an absolute right but yet said they cannot be taken away.

How can something that is not non-negotiable and untouchable, not be negotiable and touchable?

Insidous:
SMH

What are you?

I am Sagamu's finest.

The Don Handsome of my village.

The fuku faka fuku faka horse.

Freemanan:
Of course no... But it must be respected... It's a human right meaning it cannot be taken away... It can only be restricted.... Just like natural right to life.

You think it cannot be taken away but yet still state it is not an absolute right?

Okeikpu:
Take it or hang on..... Yekini isn't a player....he ws a footballer by chance... Just dat sometimes he got lucky wt goals...... Rashidi is just like baba 1chance.... now u knw what am talking abt

He got lucky with goals?

Next time, if you know nothing about football, it is better not to give your opinion.

Okeikpu:
I watch him live during d time he ws playing for Olympiakos. We also attend clubs 2gether.....

So how did you come to the conclusion he was an opportunist and did not understand offside?

stan241:
What you don't understand is that some folks only saw highlights of yekini but never got to fully watch him play, i never understood how good his link up play was till i saw Drogba years later...yekini was pure class

And that is where you are on point!

Yekini I think had the highest goals for any African national team (bar Hossam Assam) until Drogba came into the frame.

He was our most prolific striker who was very intelligent in front of goal and out of the box.

He had the muscle, pace, positioning, speed, dribbling [at pace], shot accuracy and aerial power.

The worst thing is that looking at him, you will never refer these attributes to him.

Extremely intelligent player that only Okocha can claim to be Nigeria's best player before him.

No other Nigerian striker has matched up to that since.

He was such a prolific goal scorer that when you hear he is on the team sheet, you will be like "at least I know we will score, let the opposition just not score more".

Opportunist my arsse!

Okeikpu:
Too bad u don't know me...... Never mind anyway why d insult?

Who you be?

Did you watch Yekini play?

How did you arrive at the conclusion he was an opportunist and did not know how to stay on-side?

Okeikpu:
which goals e dey bang Yekini is just an opportunist.... Yekini dat doesn't know wht's offside. Most of the goals he scored ws by mistake.....

What moronic stupidity.

Yekini was an opportunist?

Did you even ever watch him play?

arsetalks:
So you criticised Kanu's inclusion and ignore that of Mikel? And what f*ck the Kanu did at national team level?

Won African best for Nigeria, killed Brazil for Nigeria, was second highest goal scorer behind Oruma at Japan 1993, first ever golden goal? Helped Nigeria to 3 bronze medals and 1 silver at Afcon. Not enough?

What did Mikel do? Shall we do it?

What nonsense!

I already said the whole list is rubbish, I just used Kanu to exemplify it.

So why are you moronically asking me to defend Mikel?

Secondly how are the moronic "Won African best for Nigeria, killed Brazil for Nigeria, was second highest goal scorer behind Oruma at Japan 1993, first ever golden goal" relevant to him being the best?

Another of the moronic "pick from your arsse" selective methodology I was alluding to?

Let me join you in such moronicity:

Ifeanyi Udeze is Nigeria's best ever fullback because he reached the ANC final for Nigeria twice, he passed the ball to Okocha 49 times, he played in 3 different countries and he played in the inaugural UEFA-CAF Meridian Cup.

Can you see how "fine" the Nigerian ratings style is now?

Ediot is telling me someone is the greatest because he scored the first ever golden goal.

Nigerian are so reetarded it is shocking.

Mixty:
ignored..mr 'cretinous fuucktard'

You are a cretinous fuuktard!

So you wanted to lie to us before?

farano:
Here are some things that set these kinds of girls apart:

3. They don't avoid eye contacts. When it comes to attraction, eye contact does a lot. If a girl locks eyes with you, looks away, then looks back at you all within about 20seconds, she's interested .

5. They focus on their strengths and not their weaknesses. They spend most of their time using their strengths to get what they want.

6. Smile! Smiling is by far the most effective things smart girls do to attract men . It sends the signal to men that you're happy, friendly and approachable

These are the only ones that stand out that I can vouch for.

3. and 6. are two areas black girls will fail on miserably. Being able to practice those are powerful as it means the girl can easily make the guy she wants feel welcomed, comfortable and encouraged. These are things many black girls actually think is a taboo despite wanting a man.

5. Means she is highly likely to be sexy. Who no want sexy girl.

You will see a girl that is set die, absolutely gorgeous, but she would still be moaning about some little imperfection. Irritates the fck out of me.

Freemanan:
Gays are human and there is a constitutional right of freedom of association and marriage... So you see, the law is an ass, not the gays.

Are you telling me, from your understanding of laws/constitution, the "right of freedom of association and marriage" is an absolute right?

justmag:
If u belive in freedom to do whatever pleases you. You will let people make their own decisions as long as it does not affect u. Let people live thier lives. I can't and will never be gay. But if being gay makes another man or woman happy then I support their happiness on that level

So how does it not affect your life?

vapid:
That's what white people said about blacks not too long ago. It's also what nazi Germans said about Jews. And what ISIS terrorists say about infidels. The world is changing, but you refuse to develop with it. You are satisfied with your refuse infested cities, billionaire politicians, starving children, dying pregnant women, as long as two consenting adults who find happiness in means you do not agree with due to your religious beliefs are denied a chance at happiness? Really?

You are a cretinous fuuktard!

Explain the relationship between homosexuality and blacks.

Explain where you have seen people "satisfied" with their life in Africa, cretin.

trapQ:
no he's right and you are the insane one. humanity is faced with a risk of extinction by this act. if every country legalized it, world population would a declining population. and oh do you know the health risks involved? HIV is more prevalent among homosexual couples esp men, and that's not just it, they at a tripled risk of contacting the deadly virus, and imagine how it can freely spread to straight people.

my point exactly is that this act is to humanity what Ebola is. bye!

What is wrong with world population decline?

Lets for a moment assume this stuupid scenario of world extinction because a "portion" engage in homosexuality. That is, assuming their homosexual sex would affect the others from procreating.

What is even wrong with human extinction as long as it is not through grand suffering?

Mixty:
Say something sensible and intelligent without yelling 'cretinous fuuuktard'. Then I will start to take you seriously. You are a joke

You are a cretinous fuuktard!

Tell us when you got offers and started working despite the fact you were struggling for a job last year.

vapid:
Who's this idiot. You sound like a broken record

You are a cretinous fuuktard!

So you are too daft to back up the claims you made?

So why do cretins like you like to pull out opinions from their arsse then?

sweetgala:
Yes for freedom of association and self determination but an absolute no to LGBT marriage or a right to adoption.

The 14 year prison sentence has not detered underground homosexual behaviour.

How do you intend to support it for "freedom of association and self determination" but not support it for "LGBT marriage or a right to adoption"?

Explain what you mean.

jrerico1:
How can I walk at night safe?? Please I don't want it I can't wear Pampers.

What a profoundly stuuupid statement.

Freemanan:
I will support human right.
Gay rights fall under that category.

How does it fall under that category?

gsalvatore:
Supported!

That L'ORÉAL Line got me laughing.


Over blown sense of worth it..

To add to the thread, I think these single 30+ are partly more responsible for the breakdown of marriages in Nigeria. The pool is large and they are readily available making it easier if you know what it mean.

That guy stole that line from me.

I was laughing when I saw it because I have been using it for years on NL.

https://www.nairaland.com/396243/how-maintain-control-woman/34#19405950

https://www.nairaland.com/1568999/why-nice-ladies-get-dumped/5#20480174

https://www.nairaland.com/1457494/qualities-make-not-date-him#18452165

Insidous:
Ewww, I will pass

You don't know what you are sacrificing and missing out on.

You'll not have many great stories of accomplishment like getting a Sagablowkiss to tell your grandkids.

mans114:
Nigeria’s top five rated players of all time

By Mansur Abubakar

Since the formation of Nigeria’s first national football team in 1949 which was coached by the famous Fulham star' John (Jack) Finch, the country has went on to produce some of the brightest players in the history of the game. From the Christian Chukwu inspired side that landed Eagles their first African Cup of Nations trophy in 1980 to the immensely talented ‘dream team’ which took the world by storm in 1994 (many also describe it as the best of all time).

All manner of stars have adorned the green and white before going on to achieve stardom, international recognition and trophies alike, these five players are the most highly rated as far as football in Nigeria is concerned.

5 Stephen Keshi- [/b]present coach of the senior national team who apart from guiding Eagles to their third AFCON title in South Africa two years ago also enjoyed a sterling playing career with both Nigeria and a host of clubs in Europe.

A no nonsense centre back who was occasionally drafted as a holding midfielder, Keshi got his debut at the age of 17 in 1989 and went on to captain the team to both the Tunisia 94 AFCON triumph and their first FIFA World Cup, gaining over 80 caps on the way.

His record with Belgian side Anderlecht is also admirable having being part of the team that clinched the league and cup double in 1993, today Coach Keshi is one of the most decorated and recognized ex Nigerian players.

[b]4 John Obi Mikel- came to limelight during the 2005 U17 World Cup in Holland where he almost eclipsed arguably the greatest player of all time, Lionel Messi to the coveted Golden Ball due to his mesmerizing display at the tournament which made many rate him among the three most talented footballers in the world at the time.

Apart from being part of the 2013 AFCON winning side in Johannesburg, Mikel’s Eagles career can best be described as average but Chelsea FC of England is where the midfielder has really made his name, being part of the team that has won three EPL titles, four FA Cups, three League cups, UEFA Champions League and the Europa League.

All that meant this list would have been incomplete without including the former Lyn Oslo player who due to his talents was at the centre of a transfer tussle between Manchester United and Chelsea in 2006. Today he is no longer a first team player in the ‘Blues’ team but will go down as one of Nigeria’s biggest exports in football.

3 Rashidi Yekini- No one is yet to break his goal scoring record for Eagles having netted 46 times in 94 appearances. Was the focal point of Clement Westerhoff’s amazing team of 1994 where he scored vital screamers that helped landed the ‘Tunisia 94’ AFCON title.
Scored Nigeria’s first ever goal at a FIFA World Cup against Bulgaria in USA with his goal net celebration stuck in the minds of millions of football lovers till date.

In Europe, Yekini didn’t disappoint either, notching up goals wherever he went to from Boavista, Vitoria Setubal to swiss side Young Boys, the Kwara born star was able to achieve high international rating and stardom during his playing days, may God bless his soul.

2 Austin Jay Jay Okocha- He remains Nigeria’s most technically gifted player till date, he was able to do things no one could do with the ball. The great Pele once said of him “Okocha is the only African player that could walk straight into the Brazil national team” what a compliment from the legendary player.

Another player from the great 1994 team, starting his career with Eintracht Frankfurt in the Bundesliga (one of his goals is rated among the top three in the history of the league) by 1998 Okocha was Africa’s most expensive player when he moved from Fenerbahce to Paris Saint Germain after the World Cup.

His stint with Bolton Wanderers is still fresh in the minds of football crazy EPL fans where he mesmerized English top flight with his abundant of skills. Bolton fans just like Nigerians rates him among their best of all time having helped them avoid the drop several times not forgetting guding them to the league cup.

Nwankwo Kanu- What haven’t been said about this player, this week a pub in South London which celebrates a legendary hero every week, wrote this about their ‘man of the week’.

“ inspired Nigeria to Olympic gold in 1996, overcame heart bypass surgery to win numerous trophies with Arsenal including being part of the invincibles of 2004 not forgetting FA Cup win for Pompey, all hail King Kanu “ they wrote on their board

Kanu was already an Eredivise and UEFA Champions league title winner with Ajax at the age of 17 before engineering the miracle of Atlanta 1996 despite being close to death at the time. His inability to lift the AFCON is the only blip in the career of Nigeria’s most highly rated and respected player.

Nigerians and their stewpid ratings.

What metrics did this author use to come up with this junk?

People just pull opinions from their arsse and then say "Top", "Best", "Most" etc without explaining or it being obvious what their methodology was.

What the fck did Kanu do at National team or club level to be the most rated?

Nonsense!

Ekiti people are in for it.

I would enjoy watching them suffer.

Lesson: Never vote for cretins!

vapid:
Still 25 words. Should I get you a thesaurus?

You are a cretinous fuuktard!

Is this your evidence, cretin?

Insidous:
You do not have to sound so unfriendly . It might interest you to know that I find nothing wrong with the outcome..

I wasn't sounding unfriendly, I was sounding factual.

No intention of being unfriendly, you were not unfriendly to me.

You want a Sagablowkiss?

Insidous:
Why shouldn't it be acceptable for women to play around, focus on their careers and get married later to tall and gorgeous men. .

It is not about acceptable.

Anyone telling you how you live your life (within the limits of the local laws) can fck off.

That said, when you choose to live your life in a certain way, then be willing to accept the consequenses of your choice.

Accepting the consequences of your own choices is what it is about.

Basically, be "responsible" for your choice. If it works for you, good. If it does not, bad luck.

If tall and gorgeous men are into you after that, congratulations. If not, please don't start insulting/belittling them or screaming lack of fairness because they are making their own choice.

Insidous:
It is not fair

I don't understand what you mean.

What, or what part(s) [are], is not fair?