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elpaso:
hey guys . i would never never never marry a non virgin. to think how many CO*** she has eaten until now. ouah.

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@ elpaso
guy you're back. remember to cut out your tongue which u have used to lick many diffrent bullshit b/for you try to kiss her. Dont try to kiss anyother woman with that same tongue o. Cut your d!ck off too, uve put it into bullshit too. When u get married, get a guage and a key and padlock plus a camera to make sure no other d!cks are around. Follow her about, and use those instuments to make sure nobody else comes 50meters around and padlock her pussy every morning of your life. Bring a mouth indicator to show if she had given a Mouth Action b/4 but did not have sex

How do you plan to go and kiss a girl when u have already used your tounge to lick the bullshit coming out of another girl? How do you want the girl to kiss u on the mouth then


Sometime ago on Nairaland some ladies said they could not imagine a 20yr old lady trying to date a 20yr old boy because the boy would definately be so immature.............................................. i think to a very large extent they are right.

I reply the way i do coz i know my own love is not conditioned  by

Much shakara= More appreciation (my lady would alwayz have my respect. Shakara and hard to get not called 4)

Sex=Lowering her worth (sex can be an expression of our deep feelings towards each other, its a two way thing)


In the context of what we are talking now, the lady should pls look 4 a guy that will accord her the respect she deserves (unless she is the one feeling that its b/cos they have had sex)

hmmmmmmmmmmmmnnnnnnnnnn

The first time ive seen a guy behave like that. I wonder what the problem of some guyz is?

Does sleeping with u increase the money in his bank account, does it brighten his future, pay his living expenses, take care of his family, make him educated or what? Does it do anything 4 anybody? Has all his problems in his life now been solved?

He is just beign childish and immature. But again it showz that too much shakara does not do anything 4 anybody either, but in this case, since infidelity was the case i guess he never had any respect 4u. Do u really think that such a person would be good as a husband? He would still go around sleeping with all the women coz he has no respect 4u.
And guyz that do this how would u like it if she went about telling everybody that your Pepe is small, or that you're a one minute man, or a complete novice? That don't sound good either does it? A responsible guy would not use the special moments u guyz had to turn around and belittle u. Afterall many women have met guyz who can't last one minute in bed but have helped them to improve their performance and their self esteem rather than go about telling other people of it or belittiling them with it

IAH:
Please people, be easy on the poor girl now. Beautifull, I think you need to move on. He's not the only man in the world and he's definitely not worth a second chance. Keep doing your shakara but always remember that you can only do shakara to a guy who has not seen your 'yansh'. So don't give in to the next guy, ok? That way, you can do enoughhhhhhh shakara and he won't be able to insult you.

hmmmmmmmmmmnnnnnnnnnnn.
@IAH it has all to do with the maturity and love of the people involved. Even if u don't give the guy anything and then got married to him (like she said she said she could marry the guy), would u really want such a guy as your husband?
For a full flegged adult to turn the lovely and endearing moments u spend together into something 4 insults its just plain childishness

There is only one answer now that is valid

YOUNG JEZZY aka THE SNOWMAN
This guy is hotter than hell men, hotter than anything hot, even hot itself.

I like D4L though

Who cares................................ i 4 one never did.

I did not want to contribute to this but then

cnimo4love:
wearing trousers by ladies I believe is not right. I f we say we are true believers I believe we should stand the doctrines and not try to weaver to suit our own desires . To be like him in all things we have to be staright in our believes so do what is right cause you know what is right

I want to ask this guy that made this comment...................Is men wearing trousers right and if so where does the bible say that?

Did God manufacture trousers 4 men and then call it mens cloth or was it not the white man that developed trousers as a model of cloth 4 both the men and the women?

Did his grand fathers wear trousers................... if not why is he wearing one today?

If the african mans dress evolved about 100 yrs ago to include trousers (from tying wrappers like the women), y cant the women mode of dressing?

4 me this topic is completely irrelevant

Chxta:
Gray is a shadee of black or white depending on which side of the fence you're on

The gray shades represent the dark colurs of Milan, then the white and black in the Milan jersy too .


Anyway, i feel its like that because the mode of defending is now changing. Its now done more colectively rather that depending on single individuals as was the case b/4

I feel u men. The era of great defenders is going by (and exactly y my Milan cant see a world class defender in the market to buy ) At times i wonder if the caliber of defenders that we used to have can ever be replaced. Going back even just ten yrs ago (not even mentioning the beckenbauer era), or the invincible italian backline of the late eighties and early nineties), the likes of Maldini, Stam, Thuram, Cannavaro, Nesta, Cafu, Carlos, Fernando Hierro, Paulo Montero and many no-nonsense style defenders have come to an end or slowly coming to an end.

If i ask somebody now to pick out what will be the worlds tightest backline, its now very difficult to do. Its hard to see who is extremely standard 4 each wing.

Now lets go back or maybe just 5, 6 yrs ago to the late nighties, if u had told somebody then to write out an almost invincible back 4 ul readily have

Thuram(Cafu)--- Nesta(Hierro)------------Stam(Desaily)---------Carlos(Maldini)

Now i realy dont know whatz happening to all the defenders

a chall:
Ronaldinoh is a great player and deserved to win the award.But i think Ronaldinoh made a big mistake when choosing bacelona over man united,he should of gone to man united the bigger and beter club.bacelona will not be good without him.i am a spurs fan and his carrer would be better in england,and the players man united have are world class.he will not win anything in the nou camp.he should leave in the transfer window.

I think somebody here needs a doctor or a medical exam real fast.

Ronaldinho not win anything at barca? man u the bigger and better club?

kenflavor:
Helly that's good. Please I will advice u stay away from relationship until when u are ready for marriage, because I guess is only a virgin, someone that matubates or a slacker that will go into a serious relationship with you after spelling to him what should hold in your relationship with him

Ah Ken my man, u know, ive seen so many guyz that spend all their money on a dust yarning b!tch, and then go home and spend all their time wanking (esp my overly religious friends, they are something else when it comes to wanking (real first class wankers)

ty4eva:
The problem lies with the guy, they often ask for sex as if it's a true test of LOVE. I'm happy for the guy who finds his girl asking him instead.
Sex is a spirit and shld not be misused.
Guys should not pester their ladies for sex, it shld be a mutual consent, otherwise, girls cut out from any relationship where you're being forced to do what u don't wnat to do.
It's a matter of choice

Exactly. Its a free world

elpaso:
yeah as bedone said. a misunderstanding with her husband and she will end up sleeping with someone else. thats y i would marry a virgin. my personal view is that, when a woman works, she isnt dependant on her husband, she can sleep with someone else just for having a shag. whereas a housewife would be scared to do that. all those people who had her **** in her mouth. but as you people say, every woman is different but let me tell u its much harder to find a woman of faith nowdays after what i mentioned , than at the past.

Oh my guy u r obviously young and a bit confused i must say. First u say that ul alwayz be thinking of the former guy's cock dripping and ul be looking at her like how many cocks is she getting, and again now u say ul think of her having something in her mouth, or other guyz having her in their mouth. Now u say that u dont want a working woman cos u think houswifes would be scared to cheat but a working woman will cheat. Next u start to talk of women of faith. Again u say u think a virgin will never cheat and u obviously go around in circles without making any tangible point.
With this mindset i dont know how many women would want to be with u anyway, but that aside
If u keep thinking this way ul have a heart attack b/4 u r 25 yrs. I cant help laughing when i read ur posts at times.

Let me see if i can help u out once more

elpaso:
how is it members? that all this time noone made me believe that is better to marry a non virgin than a virgin? why do i feel that there is more possibilities to suceed with a virgin? and how do i know once a virgin wont go for another bird afterwards ? for the same reason she waited till her ceremony to do her husband. make me believe that a girlfriend or a wife that was sucking another guy wont go back to what she did at the past?.

The answer to this question and all other questions that uve raised is very simple.

1 WHAT WILL STOP U FROM GOING BACK TO ALL THE WOMEN U HAVE BEEN WITH IN LIFE (OR WILL U ALWAYS CHEAT ON UR WIFE)?

2 WHAT WILL STOP YOU FROM GOING BACK TO LICK ALL THE WOMEN UVE BEEN LICKING THEIR THING B/4 (OR WILL KEEP LICKING ALL THOSE WOMEN FOREVER)?

3 WHY DO YOU WANT TO USE THE SAME TOUNGE THAT UVE USED TO LICK DIFFRENT SH!T ON HER TOO, EVEN KISS HER? (OR ARE YOU GOING TO MANUFACTURE ANOTHER TOUNGE)?

4 WHY DO YOU WANT TO USE THE SAME D!CK THAT U PUT INTO DIFFERENT SH!T ( SMELLY, YEAST INFESTED, DIRTY ONES) AND TOUCHED VARIOUS SLIMY DRIPPING SH!T AND USE IT ON HER TOO? (OR ARE YOU GOING TO CUT OF UR D!CK AND GET A NEW ONE)?

5 AND CANDIDLY WHAT MAKES YOU THINK U CAN SUCCEED IN MARITAL LIFE (DESPITE UR PRIOR SEXUAL EXPERIENCES) AND ALL THE LADIES U MENTIONED ABOVE WILL NOT.

6 OR IS IT BECAUSE WOMEN DO NOT SUBJECT GUYZ THROUGH THE SAME THINGS AND DO NOT CARE IS THAT WHY UVE NOT ASKED UR SELF THE QUESTIONS ABOVE (SINCE ALL UR MIND DWELLS ON THIS). WHY DOES THE SAME QUESTIONS UVE BEEN ASKING ABOUT WOMEN, WHY DONT U TURN IT AND ASK URSELF. I AM SURE IF U DO, UL SOON FIND ALL THE ANSWERS U NEED

What happens to all ur grand fathers, great grand fathers etc that were traditionalists?

this kinds of assumptions are not based on solid proof.

. Anybody can die any time and under any cirumstance. It has nothing to do with percieving urself as beign good or bad

Nigerians..............ah they never seem to amaze me.

A nation in which the crash of a faulty, unmaintained, old aircraft is God's will. A nation in which religion has been used to supress accountability and the brain washed masses go about taking everything they are told as long as God is mentioned in it. Its such a pity. How can a pastor say he prophesyed about an event after it had happned.

You guyz should know that if most of these religious prophesying, and miracleswhere happening anywhere in the west, all these thieving pastors would be in jail right now.

As long as we becloud our common senses with useless sentiments, we will never progress

there are a few things that u can always bear in mind to help u deal with problems like these

1 your dream of today could turn out to be your worst nightmare tommorrow

2 Life is full of uncertainties and sudden harsh realities, there are no guarantees

3 You have to love and hold yourself in high esteem if you want others to do the same for you. Dont look down on yourself 4 any reason

4 Ur best friend today whoever that is today could turn around tommorow and use and abuse your trust in them.

5 No lifelong commitment is easy. It takes a lot of hard work each and every day from all parties involved

6 Two similar paths might not produce the same result. Check what is best for you

7 And my favourite, in making decisions in life,life is complex everything is not all white and black, there are some gray areas to it too

I don't buy any simplistic idea to the success or faiilure of a marriage. And if u are a good christian bringing God into your marriage helps a lot

ive seen so many cases where women tend to do themselves more harm than good by clinging at something that has already sunk. One of our family friends got married to a man 4 a few months b/4 the man started to abuse her and threw her out while she was pregnant. The girl and her family thought the guy would come back to beg but he did not. He did not even show up after the birth of his son. After a while the girls family decided to go and meet him. The original cause of the break up was that the guy was chasing and sleeping with other women and she wanted him to stop. He felt she had no right to tell him that and when her demands continued, he started to abuse her and then threw her out. The girl's family were schoked that he already had another woman in the house. When he was asked to state why he did not want her back, afterall, he had married her a virgin, the bastards cold blooded reply was "she no longer does it 4 me, i dont care what she was when i married her, i never cared, she simply does not do it 4 me and i simply dont want her in my life anymore. The girl and her family was devastated. They could not belive that this was the same guy that had come begging 4 their daughter b/cos she was a good and innocent girl and that he did not want any of the 'wild' girls that had been sleeping with men b/4. Now he was actually living with such a 'wild' girl and was planning to marry her.
The girl in question still refused to move on even after several pleadings (most of which my own mom was involved in) were made in her behalf to this guy. She let 5 valuable yrs of her life go by and refused to meet other people (i guess the feelings stemed from the idea that she was of less value now and had an extra baggage. She was one of the girls that dreamt of wedding nights, and happily ever afters. She could not bring herself to accept the fact that faced her. She didnot want to imagine that the guy probably decided to marry her just b/cos he wanted to sleep with her and then kick her out just like that as she had alwayz refused to sleep with him through out their dating and shatter all her life long dreams of spending her life together with the first man she knew). its now over 5 yrs and she has decided to start moving on again even though her feelings of less worth is still there

I dont see any reason why any woman should continue to cling to a marriage that involves an abusive partner just b/cos of the fear of the unknown. If it has failed, u can alwayz move on. There are people out there that would alwayz cherish u, even if ur present partner does not

Marriage is not as simple as most people at times percieve it to be. Its not what most teenage girls dream about bliss and forever after. It is an institution that requires commitment [i][/i]from both parties to progress. People in marriage alwayz discover that life still remains the same, the monotony and boredom is there, everyday problems to deal with but now accompanied with a complication ie involving another persons thoughts in all u do. I don't support physical abuse in any form so il advise this lady to discretely find a way out. Entertaining physical abuse just to preserve a marriage is not worth it.
      I can also understand her fears about getting married again. Most african women feel that way b/because they think no other man will want an already 'overused' article with a lot of baggage. Such a mentality is self defeating and usually does mostly harm and little, if any good. There are men out there who would love to take care of you in any case so you should feel free to meet other people. You are not alone in your plight, many marriages are undergoing the same thing today. You need to keep a strong mentality and a positive outlook. Ur outlook can help shape the way things turn out for you. Life takes diffrent turns at times and anybody that is sincere enough will tell you that your best friend today (i don't care if it is your husband, wife etc), can turn around and use and abuse the trust that u have in them and turn your worst nightmare. Its hard to move on i know but at times lingering behind does more harm.

it don't make much diffrence does it? I guess this kind of question stems from inferiority complex felt by women. I dont think a man would ask this kind of question if it is the other way round

life goes on. Any gain in killing urself over something ul later get more or less tired of?

can i marry a prostitute------------- no

can i marry a former prostitue------------------- possible