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You guyz should stop watching English league. Thatz a very week league.

You guyz need to watch other leagues esp spain and italy b/4 u can give a full analysis, imagine comparing only 4 English managers and teams and asking the most exciting team in the world, jeez

lexfrosty:
The years will teach what the days never knew.

I guess it should have thought 95% of the world that.

My Boy do what u want. People have individual choices based on what is suited for them ok. Stop trying to tout your idea.

Anyway can i even figure out a reason for debating this? Itz ur life joooooooooooo

My digression was just to show u the importance of sex in human history cos u were trying to down play the importance all in a bid to look 4 answers to ur view.

Feel free to express ur views ok but what u like might not be what i like. I grew up in the midst of virgins and i have my reasons 4 not wanting one. Dont ask cos i wont tell. Its just that people talk a whole load of immaginary 'noble' things but i personally dont feel that way about them ok.

One sure way a lady can make sure i break off from her is 4 her to come around me blabing sh!t. I am not waiting 7 yrs 4 anything. I will still be forking the same lady 4 50 to 60 yrs even though il be tired of that same old stuff. I guess marital loyalty would call 4 that. so il get tired anyway. we r gonna start now cos we will still get tired. Besides we are going to enjoy the good while it lasts. Dont give me that sh!t about heavenly and magical nights. I dont buy it. It might excite u but it dont cut meat 4 me.


More digression yes but,

lexfrosty:
Isn't it funny how you shoot yourself at the foot.
read your post again and you will discover that inherently you know the truth but don't want to see it.
After you do that, go and check the history of those battles/wars that were caused by this new found GOD of men called SEX, and you will find out that they happened because someone of some group of people wanted to have the "act" illegally(pre-marital/extra-marital).
That should give you a deep insight on what i am saying

or are u the one doing that?

Labelled marriage or anyother relationship in any form, the primary purpose men have wanted women is to fork them. If that were removed, trust me hardly any man would want to laden himself with a womans problems. All this getting to know someone is bull crap, and a whole load of it at that. Men are mainly physical.

But anyway i stated my whole hearted opinion, state urs. Dont think urs is better. Everybody has his own reasons

Yeah let me add one other thing though i might be digressing a bit.

TO ALL YOU WHO ARE SAYING SEX IS NOT IMPORTANT, U R THE ONES DECIEVING UR SELVES.

PEOPLE HAVE BEEN KILLED 4 IT. NATIONS HAVE FOUGHT OVER IT. KINGDOMS HAVE COME TO AN END OVER IT. MIGHTY MEN HAVE FALLEN BECAUSE OF IT. IT IS THE PRIME REASON MEN WANT WOMEN, WITHOUT IT I DONT THINK ANY MAN WOULD WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH A WOMANS TROUBLES, PRESIDENTS HAVE FALLEN INTO TRAPS BECAUSE OF IT, MEN CHEAT AND MARRY MANY WOMEN BECAUSE OF IT.

NOW GUESS WHAT? ALL THESE THINGS THAT I MENTIONED WILL STILL BE HAPPENING. THE WORLD WAS LIKE THAT 5000 YRS AGO AND WILL STILL BE LIKE THAT. YES THAT IS HOW IMPORTANT SEX IS.

A digression, yes but i deal with facts.

Those people with their 'noble ideals' should keep it 4 themselves.

IN LIFE EVERYTHING IS NOT 4 EVERYBODY.

lexfrosty:
Its funny how many some of you ladies on here say u want your boy to be "experienced" yet you say you are a virgin.
so who do you wnat him to disvirgin as an experience before coming to meet you?

You boys on here e.g jogego, virea, sage,whitelexi and others, are quite funny.
You talk about "experience", and that one can't get it except he/she is sexually active prior to marriage. This meaning that the person would probably have had sex with quite a number of people to get that EXPERIENCE you lot speak of.
I will ask you now, the girls you must have used to gain the so called "experience" you have now, can you recommend them to your friend/brother/cousin for marriage?
if NO, why?
I wonder most of you boys/gals believe in the "experience thoery", its all a BIG LIE just like the BIG BANG thoery.
whats the experience you ask yourself as you read this? This "experience theory" is the biggest lie that is circling the world today deceiving many of our youths into promiscuity. Just because they want to be experienced/feel among they loose one of the biggest gifts of marriage.

as for the ladies screaming "experience/leader/president" and so on, how do you feel when you come face to face with his past girlfriends that taught him the "skills" you claim he has?

Some of you said you don't support pre-marital sex and wouldn't mind a virgin boy/girl, others say they would mind a virgin boy/girl but don't support pre-marital sex, the rest support pre-marital sex and mind virgins.
what does this depict? , CONFUSION IN THE MIND OF THE YOUTH/YOUNG ADULTS OF TODAY.

it all boils down to the fact that certain factors are now ruling the minds of the people of today that is causing all the perversion we see and act thesedays.
IMPATIENCE, SELFISHNESS, LISTENING TO LIES and LOW MORAL VALUES some of these are the things deceiving most people.

SEX , SEX, SEX everywhere u turn its sex. what has it got to offer you apart from the few minutes/hours of excitement.
how do you feel after having sex with someone whom you know you're not going to marry?

Some of you that have come on here to post in support of pre-marital sex have never had sex, as in real d**k to p***sy sex.
What baffles me about web forums and topics like these is that most of you that come on here to front and support negative valued things like pre-marital sex and all don't involve yourself in it. So why come and mislead some innocent "others" all in the name of appearing "hard,tough and seen it all" , whereas, some of you have only watched and read about it?

if someone was raped(even by 10 men) or lost hers through sports or something, i do believe she is still a virgin as its the willingness to spread your legs that matters. In a case whereby you intentionally popped your cherry proior to marriage, u don't expect to be seen as a lady with dignity/self pride, WHY DO YOU THINK THAT PLACE IS "SEALED" WITH THE HYMEN?

There is so much to say about this topic but i want to believe we are all adults or at worst teenagers in this board, so i will rest it here. , I am not a saint, but i know RIGHT from WRONG, do you?

Guy no de yarn dust. You sound funny to me. Dont tout that 'all too good' sh!t 4 me. Talk 4 ur self.

Weigh ur options Guy. If it pays u more to stay or go then ul decide.

What will i do in ur shoes?, that i know 4 sure that i wont go back even if the heavens want to fall if i stay.

Cases differ so what i choose to do might not be the best course of action 4 u.

Dont mind all the 'patriots' talking about going home while they stay where they are,

but the most important thing is that the decision lies with u and ur circumstances.

If you go back to naija, u might not get a visa next time, and that is something i dont like thinking about personally.

Anyway guy, u r wearing the shoe sooooooooooooooo

Barca had over 60% possesion in the first half. Chelsea just had a little over 30% even with delhorno on the pitch sooooooooooo

i thought i had said it all b/4

tasteguy:
sage , the question is among two girls which is of the same character but only that one is a virgin and the other one is not,which one will you marry .you can state your reasons.PLEASE DON'T COURSE CONFUSION

Guy pls go through this thread b/4 asking questions

Most Nigerians are third class citizens in a third world country(nigeria) so people should stop talking bullshit about nigerians living in other places and making more than all their mates in naija. In fact most of those talking that bullcrap are playerhaters.

Hotstepper:
@elpaso, am confused

He is just a confused 20 yr old boy see

Dont think it matters anyway. 4 the next 50 yrs its not going to solve any forking problem.

A guy that has such a problem really has a problem. What kind of love was he claiming to have?The only thing i have about it is that she lied.
But that might have come from a misguided idea that her husband would love her less. There is no rationale behind that kind of thinking unless he is thinking of her as primarily a fork material.

Besides i might as well as ask women why they keep claiming this and that? Whatever u are is no kind of plus whatsoever if you are dealing with me so what the forrk?

HAVING STAYED IN THOSE 3 CITIES

Onitsha and Aba, i dont know the one that is worse but il give 1 and 2 to the two cities. Lagos third

I have one thing to ask all these blind optimist who think they are patrotic. What good is beign a third class citizen in a third world country doing to you? 90% of nigerians are third class citizens in a hopeless country. I hate it when ungrateful bastards enjoy all the good cormforts of the west and then say they are third class citizens in a firstworld country. Maybe they are(and would remain like that) but the biggest problem naija has is people who dont want to acknowledge that the problems facing naija and keep saying bullshit. In as much as i love my country, i know that emotional feelings and reality are not the same. Naija is forked up big time and the bastards at the helm are even forking it up the more,
Guys pls stop comparing the west to naija 4 any reason.


Besides, in case u are relocating to naija, dont reside outside ur ethnic group. if yawa gas like the one now, ur family would all be slaughtred with knives in front of you and u will have an urge to call 911 and get a response in 5 mins. Then ul appreciate what the west has been doing 4 u-providing law and order.
Foolish people complain about working hard and paying bills but is that not the way a smooth system should work? What will u prefer, a mess like the naija system. Pls work hard and pay ur taxes and eat all the kinds of food and drinks in the world that u want, a privilage not enjoyed by 80% of nigerians.



Meanwhile, let the whinning begin from the "patriots"

Amobi 1:
you"re right! This place we are slaving for them. No body has respect for black men. All you do is pay bill and talk about sex. No cultural identity. No Moral. etc. They are the best for shore but it sucks over here. Sure i won't like to go back to Nigeria but America sucks. 60-70% divorce rate. May be i will try some other place. You guys are complainig about naija political problems;not caring about the poor and etc, But here is the same. The media does there best to degrade people race. "In God we Trust"? Please, tell me one Godly thing about the U.S. of A. That the problem with nigerians, i will pay taxes to a white men but not in my own land. How can a country build if the ones with international experiences doesn't want to share it with his folks. Look at Inians, Majority of them go back to contribute there experince. China has the bigest nuclear attack 2wice in world history. But they believe in themselvse. When i was in Nigeria my cousins use to drag about america. They will critisize my dad beautifull house, when i can here they all felt ashame of the mess up house the leave in. Not to mention drugs and the other stuffs. here is definetily messed up. That's how you differentiate local African, The ones that think America is Heaven are local. Well, for those of you that forsakes naija, we are are moving forward and it will all be alright. Afterall Rome, U.k the so call U.S were never build in a day!!!

Guy sorry but y de yarn dust here.

CAN U FREAKINGLY TELL ME WHAT IS GODLY ABOUT NIGERIA APART FROM PRETENCE? NIGERIANS IN NIGERIA AND ALL OVER THE WORLD KEEP PRETENDING, THATS THE ONLY GODLY THING ABOUT NIGERIA. Most of Nigeria's problems is manmade so if it is a country full of godly people in a godly land i guess then godly is not a good word.

The U.S and other western countries are far better than Nigeria and thats an understatement infact.

Infact My Guy what are u still doing in an ungodly country like the U.S? Why are you still in a country without morals and ungodly while enjoying what it has to offer? Why have u not freakingly packed ur bags and gone back to ur Godly and impeccebly morally upright Nigeria and stayed put there?

ONE SOMALI PUT IT THIS WAY, U HAVE PEOPLE THAT COME BACK FROM THE WEST AND TELL THOSE AT HOME TO STAY HOME, BUT THESE SAME PEOPLE DONT COME BACK HOME AND STAY PERMANENTLY WITHOUT GOING BACK TO THE WEST. IF THEY LOVED THEIR COUNTRY SO MUCH WHAT ARE THEY DOING OUTSIDE WHILE STILL COMPLAINING.


CHOICES IN LIFE ARE SIMPLE, IF THE WEST(EUROPE, AND NORTH AMERICA) IS TOO UNGODLY 4 U, STOP FORKING COMPLAINING AND PACK UR BAGS AND GO BACK TO RIGHTEOUS NIGERIA


Chekena.Guys isnt it that simple?

pendelite:
Sage, you sound like a woman hurt you real bad,
pips will learn that revenge is not about another person. It hurts the revenger too.
That said, waiting until you are married is an ideal not a bad thing, we seem to have lost all decency in this society. We should learn to appreciate people that still have moral desires, Life is not about sex sex sex, relationships are not about sex sex sex. even the sex, one day you will get sick of it and find the rest of your relationship is empty. I have seen lots of women say I want sex sex sex, I need sex sex sex, then when they get it they either start to run from it, or look for something more fulfilling.

People with empty pantries are also hungry,

Maybe, u never know. things like that happen ( so should i say   to myslf  ) (not saying it happened to me though )

Yeah we will get tired of the sex one day i agree with you so lets start now, no long story of in 10 yrs time. ( but then only somebody that is sick would want only sex in the name of any form of relationship).


In this case, like in most other cases ul discover that most girls that yarn dust about virgin this and that  and magical wedding nights are primarily gold diggers. They would eat from the guliiable bobo and any aristo and yarn them dust at the end of the day.
 The major diffrence is that while the Guy is a mugu in the name of good boy, the aristo aint no slacker or duller. He will fork the dust yarning biyatch and leave her to give the poor boy who has time 4 such yarns those kind of yarns.

  appologizes 4 any offensive comments. Just cant help hitting the nail on the head at times

so its familiar to u Seun. Wanking is a no go area. I have many religious friends caught up in the vicious circle and they can tell you how bad sexual fustration is 4 a man.

Do i have any sympathy for the guy in question? NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

Serves the slacker right

but looking at it he might have been shagging plenty of other girls and then thinking he is "saving" his girl and thinking he is smart , he might not be hurt that much. But if the guy had been spending all his cash on her and then spent the majority of his time wanking himself into a deep world of extreme fustration (trust me i have had friends who have had the same mentality and experienced the same things b/4) then if he does not fork the biatch real badly even in twenty years and as a married man, he will be still living with it.

kenniy:
let us divert a little bit, does it mean we shouldnt agree with our babe about making our first love after marriage for any reason?

Feelz me, I feelz you. No long thing, no long story. We will still get tired of forking each sooner or later in marriage anyway so don't give me a crap of waiting 4 a glorious and heavenly day. Thatz some long bullsh!t.

I have guyz who go by the same mentality and the end of the day start to whine about the girl. Thats bullshit too. Like i always tell them, don't come around me whining, i don't need to hear all that.

Return to naija to live? yeah i will do that only in a coffin.

I live in a country where things work smoothly and i cannot exchange it 4 anything. Fatherland my nyash. I can only return to that chaos called naija to live permanently in a coffin.

At least i don't see dead bodies everyday everywhere on the streets. since i left naija, ihave been able to sleep in peace.

I strongly believe in law and order.

The west provides that

Stop dashing pastors money. these thieves in the cloaks of pastors are defrauding the poor masses

A nightmare situation

but what can u do...........

u just have to accept it that way

B/4 i sign out on this topic, il like to say that a lady lived in my family 4 like 7 yrs. A guy came and wanted to marry her. He said that he only wanted to marry a virgin and that anyother thing will destroy his eternal happiness. He kept shouting the same thing everyday saying that marrying a virgin is the ultimate price. Funny enough there were many ladies (working class) who loved him a lot then and were willing to do anything 4 him. Guess what? He was sleeping with all these women even a few days b/4 his wedding. Non of them knew his plans about marriage. Some Ladies were even sleeping in his house a few weeks to his wedding and all along he kept decieving them. HE EVEN HAS KIDS FROM SOME OF THOSE WOMEN. The lady he wanted to marry lived in my house, was 26yrs old and a virgin. He said he was so proud of her and that the other girls were useless and that if he ever married anyone that is not a virgin, his eternal happiness will be destroyed forever.

Now guess what? Few months after the marriage, he is now complaining about everything about her. the girl did not have a job and did not go to the Uni, but in his obssesion with virgins,maybe he didnot care. Now he has had his virgin(besides she is no longer one anyway) he seems now to notice she did not even have a cent when he married her and is now complaining.He even now wants her to go back and spend some time with her parents. From the look on his face and the way he acts, he is clearly sexually fustrated.
I lived with the girl 4 a long time so i know that she is not an adventourous type. Not the type that would go into MouthAction 4 any reason, nor try diffrent sex positions. For a guy who has dealt with experienced ladies, i guess he has now started to miss the oral and the exuberant sex and he is clearly fustrated. I wonder y the virgin is no longer his ultimate price.


MARRIAGE IS A LIFELONG THING AND NOT A ONE SIDED THOUGHT. WHEN YOU GET INTO IT AND UR SO CALLED NOBLE IDEAS IS TESTED BY HARSH REALITIES, IT COULD COME CRASHING DOWN ON YOU LIKE A PACK OF CARDS WHEN U REMEMBER ITS GOING TO BE THAT WAY 4 THE REST OF UR LIFE.

THIS ISSUE IS SIMPLE SO LETS STOP PROLONGING IT

IF YOU CHOSE A VIRGIN, THEN UVE FORGONE  WHAT THE ONE THATS NOT A VIRGIN CAN OFFER YOU4 LIFE AND VICEVERSA

DURING THE TIMES OF OUR GRAND FATHERS, MARRIAGES WERE RELATIVELY SIMPLER. THEY DIDNOT ASK THEIR WIVES TO SUCK THIER DICKS, BEND OVER AND GET DOGGY AND SPONTENOUSLY RAISE THEM IN THE KITCHEN AND SLAM THE HELL OUT OF THEM WHILE THEY WERE COOKING.

THE WIVES DID NOT ASK 4 THEIR HUSBANDS TO LICK THEM UP, NEITHER DID IT MATTER IF HE WAS A ONE MINUTE MAN. SHE TOOK WHAT EVER SHE GOT EVEN IF SHE NEVER EXPERIENCED AN ORGASM 4 THE REST OF HER LIFE. SHE KNEW SHE JUST HAD TO LIE DOWN AND OPEN HER LEGS AND LET HER HUSBAND USE HER TO SATISFY HIS DESIRES. WHEATHER THAT TOOK 3O SECONDS WAS OF LITTLE CONSEQUENCE AND SHE COULD NOT DEMAND 4 A MAN WITH BETTER PERFORMANCE. HER ENJOYMENT WAS OF NO CONSEQUENCE EITHER. SHE WAS THERE TO BE USED BY THE MAN.

THINGS HAVE CHANGED A LOT SINCE THE FORTIES AND FIFTIES.

BOTTOM LINE................... PERSONALLY AS A MAN IF I HAVE ALL MY MONEY I CAN EASILY SAY I WILL NEVER MARRY A GIRL UNLESS SHE IS A VIRGIN AND IT WILL BE THAT WAY(THATS AN ADVANTAGE I HAVE).

BUT WILL I MARRY ONE?...........................HELL NO

DO ALL MEN WANT VIRGINS.....................I FOR ONE DONT AND WONT

I should have said this at the beginig but this topic is irrelevant. Do what you freakingly want and live with the consequences simple. If u think your idea is golden and noble, do it and live with it.

FOR ANYTHING THAT HAS AN ADVANTAGE, THERE IS A DISADVANTAGE (NO MATTER HOW NOBLE YOU THINK THE IDEA IS)

Cheekena.

Look at my signature. (thats how life is)