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They no tell blind person say rain the fall naa 😀😀

Survivor2020:
My 17 years old brought shame to me last year she got pregnant, I have disowned her and sent her packing. She is staying with her boyfriend in his family home.

She gave birth 5 months ago she has been sick ever since she had the baby and the boyfriend doesn't have any money to take care of her. Plus the living condition is not suitable for her in her condition.

I have forgiven her and I want to take her back home so I can take her to the hospital for treatment but I don't want her to come with her baby. Please note there is only me and my 7 years old son at home. I work and my son goes to school till 5pm.

I don't have time to babysit the baby.
I want the father to take care of his child while I take care of mine.
I hope my decision is not bad?

Whether u accept her or not, she's your daughter and the child is ur gran child. Is at your own negligence that ur daughter fell into a bad company which led her to where she found herself today. Go n pick them out.

The group is full, that's what is showing when I tried to join.

Some relatives sha, just using opportunity, is her husband dead ni? If not because u did not forsen this coming. U should have rented apartment for them keep them with nanny who will be taking care of them. Is better than this one that your own sister want to run u down.

Jennyclay:
It's not advisable my dear! 100k is way too small. Haba!!

God forbid!! I reject it IJN!!

Let see your account balance ���

If anybody trust this guy is at they own risk, how many times has this guy pretend to have embrace peace? And after some time again he ran back to the forest again to continue his criminal activities.

Congratulations, God I'm also expecting.

20 human beings gone like that ��hmmm

I don't understand you can't cook two food a day, if u know he does not eat moi moi as you said but u cooked it basically for the children, why can't u just prepare want you know he will like to eat to avoid creating issues where there's none?

You are going to spend money before this case can be drop against you if not you will be charge to court. Just look for one of they staff that's reliable, he will tell u what to do without involving police, if not they may arrest u.

[quote author=Ezendimmuo post=112608448]Good day guys...
I am a Corper serving in Rivers state...
My girlfriend has been asking me when we would get paid as of last month...
Well
We got paid on Thursday..
She was asking me when I was going to give her her share...
Mind you..
This Rivers state government doesn't pay corpers..
Even my PPA doesn't pay...
I have to manage 33k in a strange land...which I why I actually ventured into side hustles...
Just this week alone...
I have sent her like 3k...
She became upset when I told her we'll discuss how much I'd give her later...
She said she didn't wanna talk tor and started giving me cold answers...
I respectfully hung up..

Am I selfish


Is she a student? If she's not a student ignore her. Even though she's a student, what about her parents? Some girls are liability instead of asset.

When couple hide certain characters that he/she never reveal during courtship but later reveal it after marriage. That's where lost of interest begins.

Enjoy the money while the trouble last �� shebi you and your girlfriend wan run her mama shop down abi? ��

She was release by the kidnapper yesterday morning around 3:am, that's after spending two days in they custody. she was later brought to brekete family program, where her Families and friends reunite with her.

May 15th ✌✌✌

Despite the fact you already know the custom officer involved, why didn't u report the case in his working place? Abi he also charm u ni?

I still don't understand if the president office is reserved for only Tinubu reason why his supporters are calling Osinbajo betrayal.

��� your village people are really after you.

Good day everyone

Spiff20:
Bring 2 people every damn time. Once you tell me to bring even one person I'm out. No matter how legit the business is. I'd rather go and bring 2 people to the church if I want to do evangelism not for one mlm fraud.

God bless you, I hate hearing that word bring one or two people.

Truthlord12:
Good evening people please I need your advice regards to this, I got separated from my ex girlfriend last year because she told me her travel plans abroad I was a bit sceptic About the nature of job she’ll do there, she’s the type that’s ready and willing to do anything to help her family.

After everything I told her not to embark on the journey that she should be patient with me, once my business picked up I’ll care for her and her family, she refused and traveled last year, few months before she left she gave me some money to add to my business I wouldn’t want to state the actual amount but a bit huge. Of recent her family really suffering because my ex had issue with the person that took her abroad so she’s passing through difficult time though she’s hiding some info from me since she’s not able to make money, she called me of recent that I should please do anything to help her family.

Now I’ve got a new girlfriend I told my new girlfriend about the issue but she said I shouldn’t give my ex family any money, because we ain’t together anymore that if I do she’ll leave me

Please people help me what should I do? My mind is really disturbing me and I still love my ex I wish I’ve a way to bring her back to Nigeria so we can start a family I don’t care the type of job she went there to do and I don’t mind what she has been through. She did so much for me, she made sacrifice that this my new girl won’t do, I don’t even know if my new girlfriend loves me or because of my money.

Though I love my new girlfriend but part of me is with my ex I don’t know if she’ll will be willing to return though I’ve not discussed it with her. And now my new girlfriend threatening to leave me if I assist or give back the money my ex gave me as support for my business before she travelled to her family I’ve been down for days thinking so much.

Despite she supported u with her money before she left the country and her family need help now u are now asking senseless questions or advice. Go and give the family they money jor. Thunder fire that ur new girlfriend.

drinoayo:
https://igberetvnews.com/1361873/2023-top-7-candidates-apc-presidential-flag-bearer/

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BlackAlbinoo:
This story is incomplete,they should also tell us what the boy did for the lady to have descended on him that way,as their is no smoke without fire.Some of the children of nowadays are something else and deserve such treatment.

You are heartless.

BossNation:
Alright bro I'll do this too but can I slice it before burning or I should just burn it as a whole?

Mix the onions and dry pepper together then put fire on it, drop it in those locations you know the snake use to stay. Give the snake some minutes, the snake will come out. But Make sure u lock ur doors oo.

yomi96:
don't be fooled, they only came for their own share of the 10k, huge crowd does not necessarily translate to votes

The same u guys said in Ekiti election and the revise is the case.

MrJanuzaj:
SOUTH EAST: IS IT NOT TOO LATE?

I have read the recent transmissions by Senator Bukola Saraki directed at my Igbo tribe. I have deliberately kept mum on this as I had earlier resolved to speak less on Igbos as regards the 2019 Elections and 2023 Presidency having said quite a bit.

However seeing as some of my brethren have swallowed the cheap bait, I will chip this in just to keep the reality before us, at least for posterity sake. Truth is bitter but it's still the best medicine.

My people say; 'He who does not remember where the rain started beating him, will not remember where it stopped'.

REWIND TO 2014.
A new National Party was being conceived. Political Parties, political players and Regions were being wooed to the new alliance.

'We' Igbos (read South East) vehemently refused to touch it even with a long pole. We packaged, sold to ourselves and bought the baseless propaganda that it was an Islamic alliance that would birth an "Islamic" and "Hausa" Party. Simply because those our brethren heavily invested in the PDP at the time were afraid of losing their vested selfish interests.
Till today I'm still trying to fathom the basis for that wicked and twisted deceit especially as many of those Igbo elites who sold that dummy have since ported to the same APC.

We failed to even identify with that new Alliance. Hence the Party, APC was birthed without any remarkable input from us or presence. The few amongst us who aligned were called all kinds of names and abused to high heavens by us even when they were proven right afterall.

Thus the few Igbos who were part of it were at best fringe players as they didn't have the required clout to make serious demands and do the necessary political wheeling and dealing required in Politics to strike the hard bargains since politics is all about interests and numbers. They were even suspect, so much so that it was only their personal political sagacity that gave them whatever they got.

That Party went on to win the Presidential Election which in truth, most of us never believed it could or would, because of our half baked permutations and poor understanding of Nigerian politics. But it did.

Curiously we turned up at the fore front of telling this same Party how it should share it's 'spoils of war'. We became hypocritical moral champions with an over bloated sense of entitlement. Who does that, in all political reality and practicality? But we did, even while vehemently and vociferously still refusing to shift our position, style and rhethoric.

We dug in. Supported every bad thing and person against the Party, the elected President and the Administration while denying any and every good done to and for our Region.

Fast forward to where we are today. Almost four years after the 2015 misadventure, we have stayed put at 2015, refusing to move forward, refusing to shift grounds, refusing to play pragmatic politics, telling ourselves the same lies we cooked and bought in 2015 and some more.

Now barely 5 months to another election, we have started again saying "APC cannot give Presidency to Igbos in 2023". "Buhari cannot hand over to an Igbo man because Buhari hates Igbos". "APC is deceiving you", bla bla bla.

Of course. We will believe Saraki, who has only but a fanthom dream of becoming President and whose only known record is selfishness but we can't believe Buhari who's already President and who has a record of voluntarily picking two great Igbo sons as running mates in the past? Chukwu aju.

It is interesting and vital to note here that the PDP which many of us still proudly support and adore was in power for 16 solid years and in those years there were 4 Presidential Inaugurations and on none of those was an Igbo man found worthy by the PDP of even Vice Presidency and we are still bold to say it is the APC that has not even finished one tenure that doesn't want to give power to Igbos. Odi nma.

NOW; Seriously, let's be sincere. As things stand today politically, why would the APC even hand power to us Igbos in 2023?
On what grounds?
On what records?
On what politics?
Is power given to anyone?
Is it an appeasement or a gift?

The APC is a political party. The main focus of a political Party is to hold power and keep it to enable it deliver on its agenda. So if the APC reads that the SE does not want the Presidency or does not have the capacity to help them win and keep power, they will stick with the regions that can and work with individuals who are interested.

Make no mistake, I have always said, I do not blame us Igbos for the decision majority of us took in 2015. It's our right. But continuing to pretend that it was other regions, Buhari or the APC that made us do what we did then or remain where we are today is purely self deceit and I refuse to play that ostrich game.

As far back as 2014, I and many others made that argument that Igbo Presidency was very feasible in 2023, ONLY under under the APC, ONLY IF we did a couple of things right politically. I personally continued to speak loudly on that even after the 2015 elections until when I realized that we were not ready to play the politics that was required and now I dare say it may be too late. Or is it not? Time will tell.

For now, we can continue to tell ourselves that we cannot hold the Presidency of Nigeria. I heard and read many of our brethren go from PDP to Biafra/seccesion (read IPOB) to Referendum to "Igbos do not need Presidency but Restructuring" etc forgetting that all that didn't lie squarely with us alone. We think other regions are not reading our body language?


I really don't care what Saraki writes or says because they've all come to realize that it's very easy to play us like a flute. So like Saraki, like Fani Kayode, like Fayose, like Atiku, even Jonah Jang of all people, they keep playing us.

I've learnt not to bother myself anymore to avoid unnecessary abuse from nonentities . As some of us have said, it's good governance we want, even if only one village will be producing the Presidents. So be it.

Ka Chineke mezie okwu.

(c) Dr Uche Diala

U spoke well, he/she that has ear let he/she hear. I personally will support Igbo presidency come 2023, on condition that they should also support the current administration to finish they tenure because u can't put something on nothing and expect it stand.

May the celebration of this year Eid-el Kabir bring more Joy, happiness and peace to our various home. And may we also experience peace all over Nigeria. Eid-el mubarak.

Katsina State, May the celebration of this year Eid-el Kabir bring more Joy, happiness and peace to our various. And may we also experience peace all over Nigeria. Eid-el mubarak.

we don hear...

Good, please Bless me with this type of favor.

What Ameachi fought for then that you and your mama peace frustrated Ameachi effort, is now clear to you abi Wike? The law of Karma is at work.