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internally, less fear,less conformity to authority and more responsible for ones life

Kobojunkie:
God never preached that we obey our parents abeg!

God said to honor your father and your mother
.. that is the command. Honoring your father and your mother is not same as obeying them. Teaching that they are one and the same is dangerous especially where children are concerned.
God commanded that we obey Him and Him alone.

I was about answering her until I realised she was a woman.

THE DAY YOU START DISCERNING THE BEST TIME TO DISOBEY YOUR PARENT IS WHEN A BOY START MATURING TO A MAN.

KEEP OBEYING YOUR PARENT AND YOU REPEAT THEIR. MISTAKES

“ABOUT CHURCH TESTIMONIES.
So, this particular woman was finding it difficult to get pregnant or carry it to term when she does. After four years of marriage, she confided on my mum who then took her to a very good doctor.
It was observed that her PH level was not conducive enough for a baby (or something like that. Not sure but that was about how the doctor explained it to them in lay man's terms.)
She was placed on medication. Since that was the only medical reason she couldn't carry a pregnancy to term, she got pregnant shortly and had a baby about a year after she started her medication.
Her testimony: She went to Church to testify that after the "revival" of the last year when the pastor layed hands on her head, something told her to have sex with her husband, so she did and she got pregnant and carried it to term.
I also know of a woman who had her baby through IVF, but told everyone that she went to see TB Joshua, and she got pregnant and had her baby.
A family friend who had been denied UK visa more than three times came to me to make enquiries. I told him what he was doing wrong. We tidied up everything and he reapplied and got the visa.
He went to Church to testify that he planted a seed of faith in the life of the man of God asking God to give him a visa. So, after many refusals, he finally got his visa because the seed is now germinating.
Trust me guys, I have seen and heard too many testimonies from people who I know their stories, and some of whom I lived their stories with, but they come up later to give twisted testimonies to the glory of their pastors.
There was this time a church member who was helped by my Dad mentioned his name during a testimony. My pastor then announced that the man was giving glory to human, that all glory has to go to God. So, no matter the role any human must have played in whatever you are testifying about, that members shouldn't mention names to thank them during church testimonies.
False testimonies can also be DANGEROUS.
I remember a woman with a health condition was adviced by her doctor not to eat certain foods. She came to Church to testify that daddy in the Lord prayed for her, so she has been eating anything. But she was actually on medication.
Another person with similar health condition did exactly as she had testified, and it almost turned out fatal.
As a result of these and many more, whenever I hear a testimony, I assume it's half truth.
Some christians will come on this post in their stale line of defense like "miracles still happen. It's still a miracle because it was God that used the doctor and your mum to help the woman to conceive. God used the people in the IVF clinic. God used you to help that guy with his visa...."
But here is the problem.
One of the main purposes of testimonies is to bless people.
How do you bless people?
Mainly by the details of information in your testimony.
Do you know that there might be other people in the congregation with same problem you had who could do with the actual information in order to also help themselves too?
If you testify to taking olive oil instead of talking about the tablet prescribed by your doctor and dispensed by a Pharmacist, another woman with same fertility problem might start taking olive oil thinking she will get a solution.
If you don't tell them that you were missing out something vital in your visa applications hence the refusal, another person who has similar issues will go and sow seed faith thinking that will be the solution.
False testimonies are MISLEADING. They are wrong! Doing it in the Church does not make them any less evil than they are.
Stop it folks, just stop!
Even God will not be happy with you.”
Written by N. Bianze

IS there a law that prohibit doctors from showing happiness after a successful surgery. Is it a ploy to show that one is an expert.Like putting a serious face shows it is a normal thing and the doctor is perceived as a professional.



ordinary prayer, Pastor will jubilate with you.

Foolishbuhari:
They are the D in disfunctional!

LESSON FOR SINGLES: TRY to know the family of your boyfriend first....ask him ". what are the thingsvyou wished would improve among your family members
get close to them if possible
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BlongTrendies:
Nairaland is a wonderful place for seeking solutions. I cant count how many things I have gained from this platform. It is indeed a life saver.

Before I met this Litigator, my life was plagued with unending battles.
1. My dad's property was at stake to be taken away unjustly.

2. I had a very manipulative mother in law who went through extra lengths to make my life unbearable. Her son and I moved far away when she started sending dead threats to me. We had a piece of property we told no one about. We found out from my husbands elder ones that my mother-in-law was about to claim the place as hers. She was able to do this because she got help from the agent who helped us with the land.
When we asked the agent she denied evergthing. She was trying to resell the place to my MIL. We were at the verge of losing our property. She even arranged the kidnap of my kids twice.

She tried to manipulate my landlord to eject us from where we lived.

How does one go into legal battle with one's mother and mother-in-law?

3. A hacker cleared my bank account. The bank said I will not get my money back because they couldn't not trace the transaction.

My life was messed up. So I needed help. On nairaland, I found this thread
https://www.nairaland.com/5943150/having-trouble-settling-issue-just

I have met lawyers. I have even gone for therapy. But what this person or agency offered me was out of this world.

The litigator and his team are wonderful people. I have sought paid advisory services and I was told I cannot do much about my case.

The litigator repaired and helped me recovered my life. I added his number on whatsapp. He listened to me for 2 days as I chatted and narrated everything to him because my life was ending and I needed help.
He advised me for free.
He was willing to represent us to fight our battles. He has offered me solutions just for free.

He is well connected.
He has resolved most of the cases I brought to him. After using his services, I had to run some legal documentation and processes which are of course not free but I was happy I was getting all the help I needed.

I am thankful to God I have my life back in full track. My dad's property is secured. My mother-in-law's case settled without raising dust.

I am on the process of recovering my money from the bank.

Life is full problems. Always speak out when you feel overwhelmed and drowning in a sea of problems. There are people who are willing and ready to help. Thank you Nairaland and thank you Litigator for getting my life back.

Despite doing it for free, go and give him something as thank you. the time spent listening to you could have fetch him thousands.........

Masturbatuon is lifesaver during lockdown......

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howvtrue

Have you noticed that most girls want to marry a God fearing man but not a pastor.


date them for several reasons
1* women are possessive. But a pastor has to be there for his memberz. Male and female young and old.
2* women want special occasions in their lives to b celebrated. But a pastor has so many issues in mind and doesn't think those things should be considered important.
3* a pastors wife will have to accept d members of d church but not all women are accommodating.

4) Most Pastors I'm those highly moral church are so focused on Bible that they spent no time of their youth dating girls.As a result,they are poor in women affairs. they only know missionary style.Ask them to suck kpekus and they will call it a sin.Wife is emotionally unsatisfied

5) Too many rule,less freedom......
do not wear tithe , church member may visit any moment, you must also help him in ministry even when that is not your calling


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the video self na movie..................blood is scarcer than oil

4 asking this question, I will withdraw your admission. you are lacking the intelligence required to go to school

did someone compare the brain of a dish and that of a girl

prevented me from reading law so I will.not challenge him,cause I argue to much

In China

the bladder is fake,made in china

Why did God give me this unfortunate child







said during morning devotion

Hack her phone

e Neva tell u e mind

I discovered my life purpose and she did not fit in

There are other ways to beat her, Bleep her brain, ignore her etc

WHEN YOU GET BLIND, YOU WONT HAVE TO WATCH ANYTHING INCLUDING PORN.THANK ME LATER

I am no longer addicted to women thanks to lockdown. no joint, no ashawo.

commitment phobia

lies lies lies lies

Leave the girl na