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Village people have sat on her certificate.after 4 years + in school and within that 4 years you don't do a soul search,create time alone for yourself to discover who you are and what you can Excel with.nigerians are yet to understand that degree is not to give you a job but to sharpen your intellect in other to show you where you are good at and how you can make money out of it

But if after 4years plus you are yet to know whether you are going to be self employed or employed in an organisation you need to check yourself.4years plus is enough to know where you are good at by virtue of the courses you observe you do well in

The Lecturer's duty is to show you the way and sometimes open the door to your soul to show you yourself but there comes a time you should ask yourself ok after project defence what next? How do I not make a waste of my 4years of my life in school and all the school fees because it is sheer stup1dity for you to spend 4years plus in school,go through the rigours of assignments,exams and project, spend money in printing project, giving Lecturer money, printing for assignments and at the end of the day you end up a native doctor, Yahoo boy,419, prostitute.you only made a mockery of yourself,devalued your 4 years labour,sweat and certificate

Cloutina got more than what she bargained for

Even if the gown is ₦5000 she has to add extra zeros to hype herself

Always think before you act

Other male thirsty whores and cloutinas I hope you have learnt a fundamental lesson

NwaAmaikpe:




I have a cousin whose wife birthed all females and he refused to train them through university...and I am sure this is the same reason most of my uncles also did not train their female children.

The things these traditional men see sitting down, some of us who claim to be super enlightened will never see it even on top of an MTN mast.
But now I see some of it and in retrospect; their decision is so wisdom-driven.

Anna Banner won MBGN in 2012, became a babymama in 2015 and finally became a graudate in 2020.
But she's been living lavish since 2012 without a fvcking BSC degree.

The moral of the story should be very clear for women.
God created them with everything they'd need to excel by themselves in this life.
A rightly utilized good kpekus will take you to places light years ahead of where a university degree will take you.

Please emphasis on "rightly-utilized". You can't be sleeping with Kebiru the welder and expect to have breakfast on a yatch or marry and stick to unemployed Nurudeen the ex-corper out of love hoping one day he'd become the GMD of NNPC.
That's waste of good kpekus in the name of love and love does no good to females.

Who degree epp?
Research and experience has thought us that extra degrees only makes ladies too enlightened, less desirable and ends them up as frustrated feminists.

for once in your life be reasonable.youre implicitly encouraging prostitution and babymamayism yet bashing them.why are you so lousy? Shey you no see anybody train you as a child?

BadBradley:
a sperm donor is way better than a male whose relevance is just on censor board.

a sperrm donor is only useful for the 3seconds he released his sperm into the mother, the father is relevant for life. Moreover the girl had chosen her father as family is not always by blood but who was there for you in your seasons of life

Case dismissed!

Next!

BadBradley:
listen, I don't know how old you are but your mental growth is still baby stage.

I do not support the father. I do not endorse the man.

Whether he is responsible or not isn't my business and I'm not saying the talkative girl should accept him.

However she should try to know if this man is her BIOLOGICAL father and acknowledge that , not necessarily accept him.

She will understand herself better, piece some puzzles better and know herself better.

Whether she likes it or not, that man's traits and DNA are in her. She may call her mother's husband father but there's nothing of him in her. No matter how she rants on media, she's dying to know the truth, if the man is truly her biological father. With that closure she can go and move on and even have a dialogue with the man aloof

Now internet-distorted people like you aren't wise or thorough. You go through life in a haste and zigzag manner like your android phones with no pause for deep reflection.

Mentally lazy
Psychologically porous
And intellectually limited
You're as simplistic as children's rhymes and you think you've got the world's answers in your empty skull.

Ode.

lmaoo are you an slowpoke or just willingly stup1d?


What closure does she want to have with a sperm donor who is a stranger? What do they want to be talking of aloof? You've not heard the latest or you didn't get the memo? Family is no longer by blood now,it is the person that was there for you in your highs and lows that can be recognised as family now so go back to school and learn or better still go on a self enlightenment study


This is the effect of ASUU strike.all these young students IQ will just be dropping with the speed of light.
Anyway I can understand.its not really your fault


Meanwhile if a woman just came out of the Blues,you have no relationship with her,no prior discussion,no intimacy, doesn't know your birthday, the primary, secondary or university you attended,doesn't know your teachers or how much your school fees cost, doesn't know your friends or favourite food, doesn't know the course you studied and why you studied it, didn't know the issues you had as a student, wasn't there in your little wins and loses but suddenly and on impulse just comes out of no where without discussing with you or the person who you know as mother and she's now claiming she's your mother,what will be your reaction? Jump on her with a big embrace? Discuss with her aloof? About what?your girlfriend or wife or career , buisness or siblings? Don't you think?

BadBradley:
quit taking cheap crack so your comprehension won't be hindered further.

go and sleep.

Sperm donors everywhere defending their kind

BadBradley:
you're either bearing your mother's father's name or calling your mother's lover father.

There's a reason people trace their biological fathers, it's not always to reunite or recognise them as father.

Sometimes we don't find or understand ourselves until we know whose seed we are.

You're a human waste , one of the lifeless shallow souls wondering without depths.

Go look for your father.

yawns

Another boring and senseless tirade


Newsflash; if you still had the IQ of an adult and read through you'll knows her mother's sperm donor however she didn't recognise him as a father because she was not part of his life.

She knows her roots but doesn't want to be identified by her roots because her roots is of no use

School fees he no pay
Text book he no buy
Fatherly care absent


So why is he coming out of the blues? Na now he remembered say he get pikin? If she was a prostitute or criminal he go come out and claim rubbish?

Anyway I don't expect anything commonsensical from you.your IQ has already given you out as a Dumbo

Opeyemi4real:
The girl resemble the real father. Whether you like it or not, you are a product of his sperm. I hope she will say this when dangote comes to claim her.

Na una dey encourage the man Abi? Until she calls him Mr ABC without affection or connection instead of daddy thats when you will know the difference between sperm donor and Daddy

BadBradley:
Daughter talks too much and is Foolish.

Something tells me before the man went to social media, he had tried every other means and failed.

The daughter is not very wise.

Na you wise Abi? So you expect her to jump on him with warm welcome with pomp and peagantry .alogoh

abimic:
He is highly irresponsible, when he should even be remorseful and be off social media, it is not even easy for a child to be nursed to adulthood by their parents, talk more of one person, now helper came, he still has effrontery to be claiming paternity after many years he disappeared, highly irresponsible of him, he is only going to be a father by mouth.

exactly

BadBradley:
No one is robbing her of her right to choose a father. But biology isn't subject to emotions!!! No matter what happend, blood na blood. She will understand herself better if she knew her real biological father.

She should first of all determine if the man is her BIOLOGICAL father first or if the man is lying or clout-chasing. No matter the social media blitz, a part of her will never connect until she's certain she isn't thar man's seed. Going on air with careless abandon without knowing the facts isn't smart.

Substandard humans like you are either a product of broken homes or just victim of leftist propaganda.

You're just nature's purge, a very dumb one.

And you will pretend you're smart when your existence is still inferior to cow grass .

abeg shut up with all your senseless ramblings.an unintelligent adult pretending to have Sense

There is a difference between a sperm donor and a father.the biological one is clearly a sperm donor while the second one which the girl recognised as father is a dad

Even yorubas say taba fomo weomo,amalukanpa

This is a lesson to you senseless men that when your pen1s stands,off your senses Go.maybe this will make you receive Sense

Awi talayi wi Oni leftist agenda


Sho gbadun?

BadBradley:
Daughter talks too much and is Foolish.

Something tells me before the man went to social media, he had tried every other means and failed.

Tgei daughter is not very wise.

grow up

So the girl doesn't have every right to choose who her father is? A graduate and an adult? It's either you're a child and if you are an adult you're really a dumb adult

agborodun:
I really don't support the changing of the girl's surname to Alabi.
It is sacrilegious

what's sacrilegious about that?

abimic:
Exactly, the girl is of age, and can decide who she treats as her father, and can choose to severe ties with whoever she is not comfortable with.

Don't mind him.hes an ignoramus And a fool at his age

He didn't even go to the girl or her mother to have prior diplomatic discussion,he just went straight to social media to disgrace himself and show the world how irresponsible he was

Badadvisor:
Money he should have used to buy like 10 goats and 5 fowls and start a small poultry business so he can have investment so by December he can sell them and make like 200 thousand naira profit

so it's you that'll tell an adult how to spend his money?

Won't you share money for your fellow dirty wretched cultists roaming around the streets? I Heard you're an NBM member,go share money for them maybe the senseless violence in their body will reduce

Dchampion65:
Did you read through at all.

he's either an unwise adult or an underaged child

Dchampion65:
Sperm donor. You got it.

he too wants to quickly eat out of tope's money.

Shamelessness

Dchampion65:
No need of DNA.
No dispute as to who is the father of the girl.
The question here is he was not responsible for 22 years and suddenly woke up and went to social media to claim fatherhood.

Is that a means of reconciliation?

he's not wise.apparently wisdom is not a function of age

abimic:
This is kind of challenge having kids for men out of wedlock brings, i hope they mend fences soon. Why would the man be coming out of nowhere after this long to claim paternity? what a useless father, who wants to reap where he never sow. I am sure the young girl would not give him the attention a father would get, and thank God she is of age to determine her company. Like she said, the only place to see with him is in court.

the man is coming out because he heard the child is now a graduate

He too wants to famz.it will shock the sperm donor that when the girl is ready to marry,it is the man she recognised as her father that will walk her down the aisle and take his place

blackgold90:
Will the daughter say her current father is her father if her real father is a billionaire?

it's a man that the child grew up to KNOW AND SEE THAT THE CHILD WILL KNOW AS THE REAL FATHER

DIFFERENCE

One is a father

The other is a sperrm donor


Moreover the child has concluded the matter,case closed

dawnomike:
Not enough proof... A father that failed to be present for 20yrs is questionable.

don't mind it.after it Heard the woman he impregnated 20 years ago the daughter is now a graduate,it now decided to creep in to show it's fat ugly face.

School fees he didn't pay
Fatherly role he didn't perform

He's now coming to claim what it didn't labour for

Shameless fat slob


Assuming the girl ended up a prostitute or armed robber, will it rear it's dirty ugly head

Continue distributing your black dirty PEN1s, maggot infested holes are Kuku surplus where you can insert it in.useless man.oniranu.agbako okunrin

Anything for nigeria Na chop

Even rat, cobra and wall ghecko them go chop

Smh

wisdomkid:
*Whinning* and I know you still got the message. whining and winning spellings, according to you, is the intellectual test to know someone's IQ? You certainly must be living a meaningless life for someone so busy who can't "waste" his time on BBN stuffs.

Since you want to lament

wisdomkid:
This is news, and it includes Juventus, not just BBN. Stop with the unnecessary WINNING, as if your time is important.

even Bbn fans don't know the difference between whining and winning...chaiii see what Bbn has done to your iq

Maga must pay for that Yash

Xmas is around the corner,bills must be paid

When father's are raping and impregnating their mothers

Mothers are sleeping with their sons

Some even do 2 some in their house i.e mother and daughter sleeping with the mother's husband so which home manners you wan take teach that kain pikin!