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GoodMuyis:
(1John 5:21 [KJV]) - Little children, keep yourselves from idols. Amen.

emerged01:
Lol! Questionable churches u said? That was the same way your dad felt. He has seen what you have never seen in your life that was why he was trying to show by all means where you should go. Deuteronomy 4 vs 9. Don't think he was being domineering.

GoodMuyis:
Ok Repent and Give your life to Jesus

GoodMuyis:
Before you waste your time on her check her profile 1st

Then you shall laugh with me

GoodMuyis:
The bold is not not True, God is super happy when parents insists that Children must serve the God of their Father. That is why He is proud to reveal himself to Israelite as God of Abraham ....of Isaac...of Jacob.

He is willing to secure the Kingdom for David's lineage ONLY is they serve him the way David did.

Do you remember what provoke God to secure covenant with the Children of Rechab? Yet the Rechabite did not claim to follow the commandment of God, but of their father.

Do you know why Ali was condemned? Figure that out yourself

Truth be told you lack Biblical knowledge No thanks to you for teaching the OP rebellion witchcraft against her father

emerged01:
Bros chill! Most of you that quoted me never read the posted I quoted. I wasn't referring to the lady that owned the thread. I was referring to the guy I quoted. He sounded harsh trying to justify his action against his dad.
What I meant by payback is near was that the journey of our own parenthood will be determined by our behavior toward our parents. He chose to go to gospel but his own daughter may choose to go celestial.

Dirkcoyt:
I remember telling my mama that I'm not getting married but I will bore children. come see emotional blackmail! she was like all her friends are doing wedding for their children say wetin make she talk? she said people will say because she's a single mother that's why he doesn't want her child to marry also.

I just dey laugh, I no gree ooooh, when she see say I no gree she begin dey soft. I also started pointing to some of her friends that were married but later left the marriage, I told her what's the point. I think parents are just funny set of control freaks generally in Africa.

luvablesam:
fine....mind sending me one then?

Dirkcoyt:
Me oooooo , person nofit manipulate my emotion, if person dey choke me I dey comot am for road. African parents need to take a crash course in child development.

Nairalanddist:
Be careful what you say or you will see the wrath of Allah.

Nairalanddist:
When you join Islam you will understand better.

archipelago:
You are a disgrace to womanhood. Being Nollywoid Actress does not mean losing your moral senses in order that you want to be professional. I cry for the womb that carried you for nine months and delivered you thinking a responsible child was brought to this world. If you are married to a responsible man, I think he must be lamenting by now. If yet to marry, I pity the unlucky man. You went unclad because of fame and money, this has shown the type of home that brought you up.

Nairalanddist:
Mind what you say. May Allah bless you

Nairalanddist:
This is why i love Islam. She ought to be beheaded to teach other useless women lessons.

Dirkcoyt:
The truth is most Africans suck at parenting

the truth is most African parents are afraid to ask questions

the truth is most Africans believe they know better because they gave birth to you

the truth is most African parents are largely ignorant

the truth is African parents don't know difference between when to love ,when to protect and when to respect

the truth is African parent pass down ideologies without knowing why it is so

the truth is African parents are religious slave

The truth is not all the ways of African parents are true hence not all should be followed through like zombie.

Imustreturn:
hey wadup
I've read all your messages and I understand you very well..most people quoting you don't realize that where in the 21 century. most of our parent's where born in the olden days. there thinking is so different from the current parents. they still see that power in doing everything and making every decision.

this morning I called my family for meeting because of my dad, and I told my mind because so many decisions he has taking has been bad on us and told him to his he should be ready because if I leave this country I will never return . they where all shocked.

I have been forced to that point. so many quoting you should learn from this mistakes of our parents not to give Strict rules to there kids because this kids where giving both.

AprilSmallWoman:
Same issue I discussed with someone yesterday, some deeper life parents take it to the extreme. I'm proud of my parents where ever I find myself cause we were not caged, threatened or forced to attend Deeper Life. My dad always made us understand that we have to have a right standing with God and not about church.
You haven't given your dad a reason to allow you attend another church, no matter his strictness. Stand on your words if you really want to leave the church.
Who deeper life pastor pikin help? Your dad needs to be disciplined sef.
I hate all this forced church nonsense, I love deeper life and if I see any genuine reason to leave, I WILL. Just have a right standing with God, no be only deeper life go go heaven ooo.

Alexas58:
Wow ur dad must be a great man,for him to be the lion of the tribe of sambisa forest

jacyhelen:
nice write up..My mother threw hatred at me cos i failed to attend church...I tire oooo

iceadonis:
Excuse me.... What do u mean by payback in this situation.... Is a kind of pay back attached to changing church.... I think we serve d same God....
My only point on this issue is dat the lady in question sud not use dis Avenue of changing church to backslide in fate and faith

Alexas58:
Ur father was a civilian..mine was a soldier..
Come nd tell him how to run ur life nd u wee know difference between sprite and water

luvablesam:
Ma binu...i barely comment on posts here....How is Wuraola?....i sent you a DM just now...kindly reply

emerged01:
Payback is near. You may later see reason your dad was trying to guard you but then it maybe too late. If you are old enough,you need to be under your roof to do what you feel like doing.

Nodogragra4me:
Same experience here. Got tired of the monotony of the church and just decided while in the mass that I wasn't ever going to continue this charade because of my parents. Got home and bought a strong decode to follow TB Joshua services, back then..... Problem was that while his choir were very good and ministered to me, he wasn't really a teacher and I wanted somebody to teach me about getting God and not just show me his power in the form of miracles.


I got bored until an old woman invited me to my present church and to be frank, the first day I entered the church could be described as the first time I ever listened to a life transforming message, from any altar.

My parents, particularly my dad was aghast but man, it is my life and I told them in a meeting that I don't like wasting my time and going with them to mass is like a waste of time because nothing stirs me during the service.


Today I read the Bible without any encouragement from anybody

luvablesam:
Easier said than done madam....

In Africa every family member is basically an architect to every childs life in that family...

Best bet for you @OP is to either to get married tosomeone who doesnt attend deeper life or get your own place with an excuse of work

mystiquemaestro:
I think you are on a totally different course from the poster's question. You are clearly talking rebellion and defiance of authority in all your submissions here. You aren't even giving ideas that would foster good parent-child relationship in any manner.

shadeyinka:
Careful Sis
I perceive you feel honestly justified until you reverse the table and see your own child doing exactly the same for you.

At that time, your views would be ultraconservative to your child. Like
"...Satan is a morning star: I want to be going to the Luciferian Church.

You will then most likely feel like your parent felt when you declared your independence

greatnaija01:
wow WRONG TIME o.... you woke up at the wrong time.... you will have to WAIT for marriage.... Most people even ladies have the vision of not going back to their parent's home but u didnt start planning early enough. SO marriage is your only option

Flourishh:
The thing is, I'm 24 and I'm done with school, done with Nysc, and I'm working at the moment. I'm still living under his roof.
But the whole pressure is still there and I find it hard to leave the church since I'm a pastor's daughter.