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Kanwulia: Why must the emphasis be on the 'married woman'?
Abi did she phock herself?
Was the doctor 'single' or 'underage'?

I taya o.awon hypocrites
msjewww

bellong: OP,

In an academic thesis, what does "ACKNOWLEDGEMENT" means?

it means any man or woman, boy or girl who has contributed directly or indirectly to the success of the thesis e.g indirectly- a lady, friend or anyone cooking for him or helping him with his domestic ishh, encouragement etc


directly-helping with text books, photocopying, financial support, moral support, technical advice to make the work turn out well



which one did op do among all I have listed. Did she call to say how is lectures, don't forget to read, have you checked the time table for this. Don't forget I am praying for you. Which man or woman will do any of this and his or her name will not be acknowledged.

MizMyColi: Insecurity! Unrepentant Insecurity! OP, Take a break already joor! its no use going through such emotional abuse, seeing as you're not mentally and/or psychologically prepared to handle her

that's all

Aisha don talk am finish



Nothing more to say

Kanwulia jas nailed it perfectly. Nothing more to say

Repulsive woman




mshrweee




tomorrow she will be flaunting herself in ovation magazine

Mr man do what you gotta do. If you want to greet; greet, if you don't want to greet, don't. Never let nobody put you on a guilt trip

Gbam

Kanwulia: Ojoro!

How many topics I open before SEUN/MUKINA2 and their hackers clean them all?
Goood! I don't kia either!
I do what interest moi and can NEVER be on NL payroll! I work for myself ON OR OFF NL!
THEY WERE ALL ORIGINAL.

I ain't gat time for regurgitated topics.
I will not be starting any either.
Done with that department!

But!
What is worth doing at all is worth doing WELL!
Originality nor dey kill!
Period!

Na suggestion I make o. . . .TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT!
NL is super borrrrrrrrrrring enough!
Amen!!!

Ok since you have made up your mind about what you are going to do ir planning to do, why are you publicizing it.abi you need permission or go ahead from nairalanders to keep yashin the girl. Ok, since that's what you want to read, go ahead

simbaddsailor: I can be crucified for sleeping with the gal, but all I care is that I love the gal from the depth of my heart and she has been returning the love back to me. She is matured to the earth than gals I have dated in the past. Its upto 1yr and 6months now that I brought her, she has never given me any concern to doubt her sincerity. I have already left her with my daughter in the care of my immediate younger sister. I will be sending her money for der school fees, provisions etc. By God's grace I plan to come back when she turns 20yrs to officially propose to her, if everything works out, I will pay her dowry. If she still want to further her sch, I will enrol her, if she does nt wnt, I will open a business for her cos she has proven to me dat she can become a successfull business woman. I don't care wot people think.

I am telling you

tpia1: true talk.

most nlers seem to be functioning at the level of pre-adolescent children, yet if they reveal their ages, they are mostly between mid to late twenties to mid or late thirties to forties.


and if you say low iq, they catch feelings.

lobatan

Kanwulia: I don't know how to explain 'OTURUGBEKE' o!
It is an exclamation you make when your mouth nor fit tok!
But I recovered quickly.
I wanted to know who Beverly Osu was. . . .
And what I found on youtube was a SOLID BLAAAAAAAACK NICE IGBOTIC BUTT. . . .groooooooooooooovin' on top one 'PO-TO-KI AFIN' Angelo SA dude so inside one sardine can tub bath like so!

Na you sen me message o!

Chai!
Chai!
Chai!

Diaaarrrrrris SATAN O!

jideomowunmi: Aw can u marry someone based on her stature... who r u..?wa were u thinking...? dat her body will not change after giving birth to ur own children...oniranu agbalagba oshi....commit adultery for all u care and stop looking for some flimsy excuses dat r not close to being relevant...

preach it some body

Lol kanwulia you won't kill me with laugh :what does oturugbeke mean? (

Kanwulia:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HxfpYU70Xqc


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mu_NPx5Ps_g


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nMLXO-PWDTg


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mSIxDYCc1bs


Oturugbeke o!
Seeeeeeeeeee SOLID IKEBE.
I love her toned skin!

The 'tub' too small na! No room for 'coming' and 'going'. . . .
WOW!

I loveeeeeeeeeeeee her self-esteem!
I wish more AFRICAN WOMEN WOULD BE LIKE THIS!

That's life!
When the going gets tough. . . .THE TOUGH GETS GOING!!!!

I love her to for her boldness. She's one self confident chic



btw does it mean that you know or hear of the popular Beverly osu till I mentioned the name?

cc don para. Abeg make una no vex my sweetus sister o

chaircover: Speak for yourself please


How come its about only his desires? Or doesnt she have a say or right to determine her own marriage or the type of man that she really wants just becasue she is poor and a househelp to a man that chose to exploit her situation?



No need to try and score cheap points. Stick to the argument!

I ve said it a thousand times on this forum; Look very well before you leap so as not to end up telling stories that touch.

If you read betweeen the lines, you will see that I am actually telling him the exact same thing; i.e to think very carefully about the relationship becasue he is about falling into the same problem again. His wife grew up and changed on him and he is about to make the same mistake again.

Let that girl go to school and go and serve and then if she is the same girl he knows now and she is still interested, then he can marry her.

If he is in a rush to get married, then let him go and find a "cooked" woman who is ready.

Anyway I dont pray for such for my daughters and I dont think that anyone saying its ok here prays for such. Omo lomo lo she lu pa

Rape rape rape.abeg I don taya for all this kain tory




if they dig deep into the matter them go see say she dey collect money for recharge card, money for bra and pant, money for phone from him.msheeeeewwww

MarvellousGod: Just look at the attributes the op counts as being a wife material. .."she washes my clothes, irons them, polishes my shoes, serves me food and takes the plate immediately I'm done"

She no dey brush your teeth too

Mtcheeeeww

Sorry for calling you agbaya.it is the work of transferred aggression






the issue is that whether she is 17 or 18, the mere fact that the girl is babysitting your baby and taking care of your home tells you that you should dress go front. Abi you nor dey pay her for services rendered





you wan join pay in kind too






n.b : agbaya means an adult who sexually takes advantage of a child in his care because he has the opportunity to it also means any man or woman encouraging him in such acts is also an agbaya

cococandy: Why are you calling me agbaya?

I don't support child abuse and I already blamed the OP for sleeping with her before her 18th birthday. Actually it's crime to sleep with an underaged person. Sadly I don't see anyone prosecuting him here.the girl's parents may not even press charges.
If I were to give him the names he deserves for sleeping with her already,the thread will go downhill fast

But the deed is done and he's looking for a way forward. Leaving her won't undo what he's done. Not saying that marriage will fix it either.

If she was so far away from the consent age,I'd be spitting fire now. But she isn't and he's not the use her and dump her kind of dude,so I believe he has better intentions than those who are just out to prey on young girls.

As for your question,you must have read where I said he can try to let her reach 20 before proceeding with marriage rites.by then she must have had a chance to decide otherwise if she changes her mind.

As long as he doesn't get in the way of her education and mental growth,and as long as he doesn't marry her when she's not yet of age(which is 2months away BTW)

I know some older guy-younger female marriages that are thriving,so if they put the fact he's done wrong by her behind them,they can still make it. Or not

Just being realistic.

And stop calling me agbaya(whatever that means)

What does celiene dion or kanu nwakwo have to do with the matter. be reasonable. No one is saying she should get married at 50 or 60 but it is abuse of position to take advantage of the girl's nativity that is the point. The way to showing gratitude to her is not marrying her or having sexual inter course with her. That's repulsive the way to show appreciation to her could be helping her pay her school fees if she wants to go to school or help her into learning a skill. She is a little girl helping you to take care of your baby and instead of seeing her as your older daughter, your pjheenese is rising for her.



Chair cover has spoken like a mother and professional. How can you even think of marrying her.God put your brain in your head and your phenees in between your legs for a reason. If he wanted you to think with your phenese he will have put it in your head and put your brain under your abdomen

ITbomb: I wish you were with Celine Dion before she got married or better still Kanu Nwankwo

@OP, my only fear is that the girl maybe lack experience in male and you being the first, we may never know how she will turn when she enters the University and finds out that younger guys have more swag.

Let her enter university first, if she is still consistent in her character and attitude then go ahead with a low key wedding and be happy.

Better be happy with someone who loves you than the working class that has tentacles everywhere

Largas:
Ade

hawa you

...

You better write your will before you go and don't forget to tell your wife and kids you love them just in case. .

Islamic extremists won't announce to you when they want to do their thing.e.g bombing

By the way kim was really cute as an infant. Chaiiii see as kim turned ray to a looser



for Africa The girl will be hiding but those who don't have issues with inferiority complex won't e.g Beverly osu etc.

I feel you dear
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Kanwulia: That is what life is all about. You have socio-pyschopaths who only prey on others because of the level of MISERY in their lives. The last thing you wanno do is give them the slightest satisfaction and let them continue to kill themselves on your behalf. No good deed goes un-rewarded and no bad deed goes un-punished!

Amen!!!!

No woman has to give juvenile-MALES the slightest satisfaction of emotional or financial blackmail.
I love the civilized world I tellya.
If na AFRICAN WOMAN. . .SHE FOR GO HIDE LIKE SAY SHE GET LEPROSY. . . for something she had no control of. Is it a woman's fault that a MAN is stuck in the mind and body of a little boy?
Tufiaaaaaaaaaaaaaakwa!!!!

*Psst psst psst . . . .kanye hit it last!*



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=63URr3SJNjY

The woman is an adult. She has made her choice and whatever repercussions that comes with marrying nollywood is up to her but my disgust is ehy will a grown ahrse man sleep with a teenager who came to render help . that's sickening to say the least. Aside the age difference even if they get married their priorities will be different. Once in a while she'll spring up some childish tendencies like a teenager would, then age factor that you think is irrelevant starts showing up.how can an 18 and 40 year old man reason together. Do you guys think with your brain or dheek when making life changing decisions. Seriously this beats me.
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I remember when my kid brother was 18 and he used to exhibit some childish tendencies. I wasn't even 40 then or now but I understood its part of growing up. But here we talking about marriage relationship and here is a man allowing his pheenees to take over his brain

luvablesam: Samberry, I don't c where u rebuked the woman's behaviour of followin a wealthier man,instead u are more concerned with d age difference.

My advice is simple,@OP an 18yr old still doesn't know wat she wants in life(relationship wise).
Ur tots are way apart. U think of building a house,she thinks of buyin something fancy to woow her friends.
U might not understand her later when she starts acting up. To her,she would blame missing her youth to u.

Its up to u buh Mehn its gonna be hard on her.

Nawa o.why the thread con dry like this


no customers ke.kiloshele?




Since morning just few people. I bet if it was about women abuse royal roy and t girl go see work do




make una con chook mouth for the matter o

Smh

You are a very stooped and annoying girl



it's so unfortunate you are my name sake. Your ignoble behaviour and idle chatter has wrecked havoc and now you are just apologizing. Stoopeed jobless girl

1 million likes.you have hit the nail on the head

hispinkolo: Abuse of power in my humble opinion.
When you are in a place of authority over someone,especially a maid who is obviously from a disadvantaged background you have no business having intercourse with her.
If all things were equal and she consented to having se x with you,it would be different..You took advantage of her.Why did you not go for women your age or at least someone old enough? Not someone who depends on you for her education and daily bread! She was doing her job for Chrissakes! What next? You'll say she seduced you? How could she say no to you when her survival is at stake??
If it were my eighTEEN year old sister that slept with a 40 year old freshly divorced cargo saddled with a child,I'd go ballistic.Most 18 year old girls in Nigeria are not considered adults in the eyes of the society.No parent with clear eye would agree with this sort of arrangement. They're doing it cos they are poor!

I feel awful for her and her parents.Na condition wey make crayfish bend.Cant wait for her to dump your shrivelled a ss when she enters uni..Who wants to be changing adult pampers instead of experiencing life?

This is all shades of wrong!

Thanks for that juliet.very awesome speech . I'm also equally upset as you because I don't also find such stoopeed broadcasts funny



meanwhile I enjoyed the movie number one fan

What's my business with that sh1t.if he like make he wear only boxers and singlet I care less. Just find a way to bring back those 200 girls because I know if your daughters were among those girls they will have been free since