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Raeheemwayne:
Let's just forget the constant sex for a second.
I think she's using me to fill a gap in her life and to also satisfy her sexual fantasies.

Ofcourse she is using you, you are rebound guy and don’t want that. At this stage you can’t be sure of anything she says that’s why I suggested another girl

You have a good thing going on bro don’t mess it up with love matter, as long as you get access to the pussy what else do you want? now all you need Is take your time and find another girl that is available emotionally while you enjoy the confused girl. When you have had enough you port to your serious GF

I don’t trust that chat some of these girls can do anything for attention

ChybuzzDD:
Ok, is this amount for a 30ton truck?
Tokunbo or Nigerian used?

It is tokunbo ofcourse

ChybuzzDD:
How much can I get a truck, and what ton is preferable?

Around 7m will finish everything and you can 30 ton truck

12AD:
Hi everyone. I have funds lying around, and don't seem to know what to do with it...
It's just idle and not giving me the yield and interest I want ; so I'm asking this question what business do I invest this in that'll yield at least 30% of the funds annually?
No forex or binary or whatever please. Thanks

If you are serious I can introduce you and guide you into the haulage business. It’s one of the most profitable business in Nigeria and one truck is all you need

There is no unconditional love from these ladies

Theconglomerate:
So I met this girl a while back while I visited my alma mater for some reasons.
So I saw her walking and it was windy and trying to rain.
I pulled over and offered a lift to wherever she was going.
She politely declined and continued walking.
So I parked and joined her trekking.
We talked,laughed a little while I walked her to her destination.
So when I got there,it started raining she laughed and asked me how I was gonna get back and I told her not to worry that I will find my way.
So I asked for her number and she said she wasnt gonna give me on that day but I should come by another time by her class and she will give me the next time we see.she just gave me her name and class.
I said okay and left
Then I went there after some days but looked for her and couldn't find her,asked around,then I met 2 girls that know her and I made them call her on the pretext that I was her cousin that just got to town and want to say hi but I lost my phone so I couldn't call her.
So they did call her and passed the phone to me,we talked and laughed and had a good time on phone and I asked if it was okay for me to get her number from her friends and she said okay so I took it.
Only for me to get home and call her and she started ranting on phone that how low could i go to the point of having to lie that I am a relative of hers to her friends.
I told her they wouldn't have called her If I told them who I was but she was having non of it.
So she says we can't be whatever no more and blocked me on all platforms and hangs up whenever she finds out I am the one calling
So I am wondering,could that simple lie be the reason for her sudden strange behaviour or perhaps those friends of hers told her something else or what?
Because I don't want to believe her strange behaviour is simply because of this reason

You have a car and you Dey dull yourself, maka why? Don’t you have no self respect. Anyways I will teach you how to get girls with your car, hope it’s a fine car sha. Next time all you have to do is act like you’re lost and need a direction from any girl you like on the road, you can even tell her you’re new to the area. Collect her number and friendship don start be that, never you get down from your car to chase anyone, if she doesn’t stop move on to the next that way you keep your dignity.

Lalissa:
I relocated to Ibadan not too long ago and i would love to meet good people around. .....You can be male, You can be female....Preferably from age 26.

Sexually starved men....please stay away
If u have nothing of value to discuss, please stay away.
Married men forming single .... please stay away
Come to my house geng....please stay away

Not all relationships should be sexual...There are still great minds on nairaland you can share ideas with and learn from....so who needs a friend in Ibadan. just pm me, and I'll reply you.

Welcome to IB city, I stay in Ib let’s chat

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There is nothing wrong with you yet after all your young so that’s expected. By the time you start hitting menopause and single your brain will factory reset. My advice try harder to keep friends by making little chats and calls that’s if you like them ofcourse.

@Op how much did he fraud you

Why is this thread even needed , you just want to disgrace yourself. It’s a non fact that Africans do get lonely abroad that’s why we associate more with Africans than white or black folk.

I don’t have any ounce of pity for that guy except for the part where he lost his job every other thing that happened he caused it. This is what happens when you are too nice and naive to ladies they will surely take advantage of you.

I keep telling people relationships has rules and they need to know them very well before starting any serious relationship otherwise you will end up like that OP.

That’s women for you, that’s y I laugh at guys who go looking for working class women thinking their bills will reduce opposite usually happens because now they are used to the good life.

Events like this make atheist believe there is no GOD and they are not far from the truth. as for me I believe in a higher power but I know he doesn’t intervene in our daily activities.

IamNotATroll:
So, I am what people call "MUMU" and this crosses across all genders. But since I would not marry a dude I'd talk about my relationship with girls.

Whichever girl comes my way we get talking and if she just seems to be very nice I fall in love immediately. Now before you start saying it's infatuation blah blah... I know what I feel and whenever they end it I get hurt. Not hurt for 1 week. I am still hurt by girls that broke up with me 10 years back.
Whenever they come, whatever problem they have I get so worried and try to source out money to get them out (yea, almost all of them). I always want them to be comfortable.
When they wrong me I say sorry, when I wrong them I say sorry.
I dont get too protective, I give them their freedom and also call them out when they're wrong and I still end up saying sorry.

Even the ones that hurt me when they send me a message something in me just ignites and says "could they be thinking about coming back?" But, it never happens, it would be just a "hi-how've-you-been?" Like they care

I am not rich but, I try my best. As a matter of fact, I am below average financially (maybe that's the problem)

The Last girl, I emptied my account for her just cuz, I felt I am at home and she needed it more cuz she was in school. One day she stopped responding to my messages or picking my calls.

I hear girls like rough guys that dgaf, I tried that and then still ended up apologizing. Clearly that ain't my thing.

Before they break up with me I see signs but, I choose to believe I'm just being too sensitive and then, it happens.

I've tried with high class girls and lowclass girls but, they all act thesame way towards me and I'm like "wtf is wrong with my emotional life?"

God knows I am good looking, educated, tall, not dark, smart, creative... the only thing I feel I lack is ability to socialize (clubs, bars, football, FB, Twitter etc), money, job and the ability to be a douché.

I'm above 30, so yes, I'm old enough.

So, I want to know if anyone has any clue to stop loving girls totally. Cuz, maybe I'm a sacrifice on earth, cursed not to ever be loved.
I hear girls don't like people who apologize, who are sincere, who are nice and seriously I can't be anything else so maybe this thing ain't for me.

As my moniker says I am not a troll but, I don't wanna be stigmatized so I used a different account.
You can ask me questions and I would respond, just need to be done with this
Thank you

Eayah I was actually feeling pity for you. Now listen you have to understand that relationship are games so you need to learn how to play them. That’s your problem right there, there are rules to this things, otherwise you just keep getting used even if you have a lot of money. So read up on ubanja and the rest to start learning.

Spman:
My bae have been acting strange which i don't even understand but am sure she is no longer interested..
Okay this is what happened

I was outside my home town when shs was admitted to the hospital Bcus of Malaria so when she was discharged i happened to came home that same week.
So she was eager to see me and requested i should come check her at home so i summon d
courage to go despite the shyness Bcus it was a
family house she live in..
So hugged me when she saw me and we got talking then since she was requesting for 1k since i said i will transfer it for her when i reach home...

The mistake i made was instead i should have said when she visit me she will get the money..
So that evening i sent her 1k which is nothing compared to how we spend dz days..

Then it was time for her to visit me which was last weekend then she lost her uncle wife which i understand then i gave her time,so she promised to come on Monday Bcus of her i stayed home all through then she didn't show up, i called her no answer...

Then i said i won't call her till my guy begged me to just call and know what's up then i called she picked it and was like she is sorry that it's Bcus she doesn't have call card and during the convo on phone she never gave me reason why she didn't come that day... Then i jokingly said what of 'pls call me back' code she hissed and cut the call then i still call her back and she promised to come on Wednesday so Bcus of her i stayed around yet no show, then again she promised to come today knowing fully well i will be traveling tomorrow, then i waited for her bcus she promised to come by 10am yet no show.
So i called between 1pm and 2pm no answer....
So i have made promise not to call again..

This is not the first time she act like this....


And i am tired of that shiit but at d end she will start calling me..




What i observe about her is that she has a cunning and deceptive attitude...

So i dont know if i should tell her bluntly that am not interested again or just leave her with her decision while i seek for another alternative....

She knows you want to chop her kpomo so instead of keep inviting her over to ur place, y don’t you take her outside have fun then bring her to your place for final match. You got to be cunning with these girls they are wise now.Goodluck young chap

SeunStats:
the reason is dat, i once bought an expensive fone for my first gf, guess what? We broke up d following week... I don't want d replica without me gaining something!

@Op you did well don’t mind those scammers up there insulting you. Next time don’t buy the phone but promise to buy it after you chop am wella. If she needs phone badly she can ask her papa,

Don’t you ever make that mistake, she wants to know how much she can squeeze out of you every month without you complaining. Be wise

Illuminated993:
Many do not understand that marriage requires the application of game for that man to be respected for as long as possible.

How?

Game admonishes you to be a man who presents himself properly at all times; nice clothes, being neat and healthy. Women admire men who do this, and you don't have to be so rich to do this.

A husband who understands game do not tell his wife his secrets. You don't give her details about the economics of your life; salary, earnings,etc. You keep her guessing for as long as possible. If a woman gets to know everything about you, she isn't excited by you anymore.

Game admonishes you to have a fun life independent of your wife. A woman who understands that her husband's happiness depends not on her, respects and is eager to please him.

Game admonishes you to marry a woman who can do things for herself. The extent to which a man provides for a woman, determines the extent to which he becomes vulnerable to her. Vulnerability kills attraction.

A lot of young men don’t understand it that way

@ fake it till you make it while getting the pussy, ofcourse so lies are necessary to boost ur chances with her but then it depends on what you want from her, if it’s to hit and run by all means lies as much as possible but if you’re looking for a relationship those lies will catch up with you.

So which one do u fall under

englishmart:
Not that she didn't want to jostle, she couldn't, she was seriously sick and shaky.

Well I am glad u came to ur senses by yourself. When they start to ask for money it never stops, now that u have experience just make sure to always set a limit to the amount you’re willing to spend every month because I don’t see how you will get a GF and not spend on her

Lol I can’t come and kill my self

Guy if she ask for 10thung only get her two tell her that’s what you can afford for now. If she loves you she will understand otherwise you need to breakup with her before she starts to cheat. And you need to learn to say NO it’s very important word especially when dealing with women.

Sugarrveiii:
wanna stay single for a long time!! Men should just leave me alone

Oooh come on don’t be like, I would like to be your friend though, follow back and I will send you a message

You already getting good advice here open up and tell your GF she will surely be heart broken. You have made your mistake learn from it and don’t repeat it again. If she has the baby you have to step up and take care of your child, don’t allow another to take responsibility of your child ooo be wise pls

nwachukwu9:
sex is not a gain. Both parties enjoyed it and by the way on a deeper level sex can destroy your destiny, depending on the person you have sex with. Sex is not a gain for both men and women. It is temporary pleasure that can come from anywhere

That thinking only applies in the western world in Africa sex is a big for our women and yes the man is the one gaining. I don’t give a damn about her love, who love help? She claims to love her main guy and yet cheats on him, pls if that’s her version of love I believe the side guy is the one who dodge a bullet but yet gets all she can offer which is her pussy and nothing else