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Why u Dey use somebody else picture, are u that ugly that you can’t use yours

Chai old men with money are enjoying ooo imagine he was broke now he world be at home thinking of how to soak garri but with small money my guy man to rock yansh

prettysassygirl:
Goodday y'all
In the light of the season and the spirit of Christmas,Santa is here to grant two wishes only.
Rules
1, Its gonna run from now till 31st and on the 31st night I would choose the two wishes to hon our.
2, The choosing is totally at my discretion and no person is allowed to judge my choices.
3, The sentence making up the wish should be no more than ten words.
4, No one is allowed to make more than one wish .
5, Nothing outrageous
6, Your wish shouldn't cause harm or have the intent to cause harm to others.
7, On 31st night,I am at the liberty to choose no wish,make my two wishes and honour them. But hopefully that won't happen cos I would be in the best of moods.
Alright then,the floor is open.Goodluck guys.

My wish is to be ur man, inbox me your number

She does have a banging body and a nice face how about you work on ur insecurities and life goals

First off why should you be telling your new GF everything about yourself, don’t ever do that again always hold off information that will make her jealous. She is insecure because u run ur mouth like tap water now she thinks ur still in love with ur ex.

The recent lamentations is caused by love the truth many of those guys already know the right thing to do but because of love they seek second opinion to validate what they already know is right. You always have to guide your heart from these heartless hoes otherwise OYO is ur name

First off Inmessage is the headquarters on olosho online, that her excuse I don’t buy it. It’s always a big mistake trying to change a hoe you should have bleeped her and keep it moving. I don’t think you made a mistake in your decision it’s your first decision that was wrong.

��� if nah me I will do more than cancel the marriage what nonsense. Obviously they are steadily fucking and believe me it will continue after marriage

You won’t see them slay mama here ooo. There is one called @Ginaz then go avoid here like kilode

Young man the love in your eyes is affecting your brain really bad. Focus on your business and you will find a girl that is pocket friendly and doesn’t drain all your resources. Women come in categories this one pass your power

Midas01:
There is not "pained" about what you person you quoted wrote. When y'all lack proper arguments, you resort to the "you sound pained" rhetoric.


Learn to condemn what is evil regardless of gender. How can a man use a lady for years who stuck by him through thick and thin only to dump her later claiming she has no vision? When he was fvcking her he didn't know?

Look who is talking, she is pained because this her second comment condemning the op. So because you have sex with a woman then u must marry her. Did anybody put a gun to her face to stay with him. People who reason like you are nothing but male apologist.

This is what happens when you love her more than she loves you. I hope Baba has learned his lessons

Ginaz:
Some people will just come and be writing rubbish . That’s how you give men the right to just do anyhow things and get away free.

Which man in his right senses would watch his girlfriend grow up with him with no dreams of her own or even if the lady doesn’t have dreams, he can’t build her up? That means the guy doesn’t care anyway and he is just using the girl for sex.

Girls I would advise you to follow men who have visions, aspirations and a future cos even if you were the most dumbest girl in the whole world, their dreams would rub off on you to make you become better.

Na only empty and wicked boyfriends na fit do that . They are building their lives , they know the girl isn’t making any steps to build hers but would hang around, f***k her for years only to dump her like a trash. If she didn’t have plans, why not leave her ? Why hang around and use her and dump her? It’s very painful .

There is no excuse whatever in the planet that justifies that. It’s very painful and I sympathize with any lady in that situation.

The man simply would have left her since she wasn’t good enough than to dump her at the last minute.

Nawa ooo you seemed so pained abi what the op said is absolutely right about you? We all see things through different sides. The op is not totally wrong as there are ladies who act that way but obviously not all

quexhub:
I am Sarah from Ghana though my momsy is a Nigerian, please i want someone to help me because some people come to this place just to find who they will destroy there private life, but the person will stumble and fall, am not here to seek for attention am here for a serious matter my mother died when i was very young and i use to have this inmate problem i don't know if i will call it spiritual or physical i don't sleep at night any longer i have visited serials of churches but it is getting worse, i gets angry at any slightest provocation next year i will turn out twenty seven but i don't even have any affection for man, though i have had some friends but when it wants to turn out to a serious one i will change my contact, i don't know what to do any more is really given me a lot of worry. I use to think that changing location could help now am in my maternal side but nothing have changed. I can only sleep two to three hours in the night then the remaining hours i will be awake, and am afraid of death.

You need to go see a doctor, sleep apnea has a lot of effect on the body that’s y u get angry easily because your body is not getting enough rest.
The recommended hours of sleep each night is 8 hours.

Zaneykid23:
Hi all my name is Zane, am 33yrs old , working in Dubai, I am from South South Nigeria.

Pls if u re in a serious relationship, don't pm ok!

Let’s see your photo first

Liliyann:
If I may ask, what happened to you the girl you were dating before service?

A man that don't know how to keep quiet and not nag ends up being a wife beater, ordinary dating and you are already causing the babe heartache work on yourself Mr.

How do u know he’s the one to blame for most fights

Spiritfun:
That's my dilemma!! I don't want to have anything to do with white ladies. As for the girl in question, I've proved it beyond reasonable doubt that she can be trusted with anything I leave in her custody.

Why do you think so little of yourself, you have proposed to someone twice and she NO and you’re even thinking of doing it again. What makes you think you can’t find a better girl with more wifey qualities than her? I believe you have been friend zone and there is nothing worse than that my friend. My advice don’t propose to her again but keep your friendship the way it is if she finds you worthy in the future she will give you green light. That way if you’re not in a relationship
And still want her you can go ahead. As a man you need a little EGO that saves you from childishness and women who think their shit don’t stink

lavylilly:
Mention those things you can never do for love , no matter how much you love that person
I can't sacrifice my savings for love, i can't have a child out of wedlock for love, I can't turn my back against my loved ones for love and most of all I won't take a blood oat cuz of love fighting my fellow girl because of a man
sharing toothbrush
MouthAction (Abeg no give me head I won't give u BJ) I don't like it
Anal sex

Eayah you obviously have never been in love I can assure you that when you meet that special someone, you will do 90% on that list

Hope ur loyal doesn’t come with prerequisites

Redlord2:
"Shackles of Pussy"
That's my next redpill post.
Typing...

Nice one keep the education coming

Liberating young men from the shackles of pussy. Watch them fight you instead of trying to learn a thing or two

jackals:
Most of them are even broke ASF. One decided to take me out last week Sunday after consistent begging from his side. He started complain about how he's been meeting gold diggers in the past. he was trying to manipulate me. he took me to a place. The idiot couldn't afford to buy wine of #18,500 and claimed to be working o. In this age and time, you can't afford to spend 30k on a woman you want to impress, shame. Had to block the idiot before he waste my Time. and I conclude in my mind" no pussy for him"

Maybe he thought you’re not worth #18,500 wine, nah coke Dey rush you

Especially those who are sexually active that’s how they deceive themselves

nanauju:
Don't feel soo much of yourself as a man. As a matter of fact, this topic is still centered around woman that should strive to be more financially independent and successful, so that when they (women) the start thinking of how to settle down, they will look beyond money (which as much as is a necessity shouldn't be the only thing they look out for), and start looking at the behavior of the man, and how he shows leadership skills, reactions to issues, and overall manner of approach.
Or do you really think it's only men that look out for a woman that will respect them? I'm sorry if you are not respecting your woman too, especially one who is financially independent, you are not ready for something lasting yet. Let it be mutual.
If a man is always screaming about being the head, deserving respect, then there's a problem. He probably hasn't put himself up to the position to deserve such from his woman. A woman will always submit to a man, who has proved beyond doubt that he posses finesse leadership qualities, respect himself and his woman, and every other thing will fall into place. You cannot give what you don't have

You’re not understanding my point, your post says “being financially independent is the only way to get respect from men” am telling you that’s bullshit that’s not the only way unless you marry a poor man then you can use your money to bully him but if you’re married to an average or well to do guy OYO is your name if your aim is respect.

nanauju:
I made a post as relating to women, and the only replies so far have been from people who probably still trying to find their way around life

Yes you are right to an extent but you are also very wrong. You see money is important but not everything men look at when married. If you don’t have sense or respect your man or let him be the head regardless of how much ur making there will be big problems in that relationship. So if you like make all the money you want the result will be the same.

Dbullofficial:
Attracting them is never a problem. It seems am too logical for them. Aside business I loose interest in any other topic of discussion

That tight there is your problem, how do you expect to keep them without effective communication and attention. You know women love for attention especially from a person they like so u just need to adjust

I doubt you will find serious girls here but goodluck sha.

Guy if you love her marry her and grateful she told you the truth. Some go say nah 2 or 3 and never had abortion.

What an accomplishment, she is so happy to be loved she can't belief it.

Aren’t you too young to be thinking of marriage. Go and read your book and leave relationship for grownups

lavylilly:
He is your boyfriend and not your husband!
So.Stop.Giving.Him.Husband.Privilages.

What are husband privileges? You ask. I will tell you, just keep reading. Boyfriend and husband privileges are NOT the same. Almost all the ladies here have MISTAKENLY given their boyfriend 'husband privileges'. If you are guilty of this atrocity, don’t sweat it, you can still redeem yourself.

Here are the difference between Boyfriend and Husband Privileges.

1. Husband Get Sex but Boyfriend DO NOT.
Giving up your VAGINA and doing very intimate things with a man that may not end up marrying you is improper and downright NASTY!

Instead of allowing random men access to your precious punany, it is recommended that you build a connection outside sex.

2. Husband Get Home Catering But Boyfriend DO NOT
Cooking and cleaning for your boyfriend is a total TABOO.

Many have cleaned and cooked like pros yet they were jumped and forgotten. If he wants you to cater to him, let him first “put a ring on it”

Disclaimer
I strongly encourage you to stop giving your boyfriend ‘husband privileges”.
Note, doing so will most likely cause him to flee, but don’t worry, you are now in Nl and can easily find a husband material.

Say NO to Boyfriends that wants Husband Privileges.

Its all good but don’t forget to reciprocate too. Don’t expect a dime from your BF as well because that’s wifey benefits as well.peace