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TravelRe: South Africa Home Affairs In Musina Limpopo 40 To 50 Nigerians Are Arrested by samtol4(m): 7:15am On Dec 20, 2014
Tumisang:
Why seek asylum in ordinary SA when your country is the GIANT of Africa huh huh
don't start ....
TravelRe: General South Africa Visa Enquiries by samtol4(m): 7:01am On Dec 20, 2014
Dhikrullah:
I need info about south africa schools for my masters in microbiology.... is there a room for work while studying?? huh huh thanks in advance and please i will prefer my inbox so i can ask couple of disturbing questions shittudhikrullahi@hotmail.com
ask your questions here so that others can learn.Bros remove your email .
RomanceRe: New Survey Ranks Nigerian Women As Top Most Unfaithful Wives In The World by samtol4(m): 3:54am On Dec 20, 2014
khia:
Yes it was kicked against by men who wanted to have their cake and eat it too.
Only praying to God will not prevent these things from happening people pray everday all day and these things still happen, you have to put in the work yourselves and say no to temptation. The bible says God help those who helps themselves.
I believe in the word of Jesus/God above all others and that includes the word of man which most of the bibble was written by.
Anyway this is a topic for another day.
which bible says"God help those who help themselves"where is it written Ma? Over the years people quote this phrase without pointing to where it is written. Above all it is fallacy to say "bible says God help those who help themselves"because it is not written in the bible.
RomanceRe: New Survey Ranks Nigerian Women As Top Most Unfaithful Wives In The World by samtol4(m): 3:55pm On Dec 18, 2014
quivah:
classic example of beauty and a dead brain...!
TravelRe: General South Africa Visa Enquiries by samtol4(m): 4:12am On Dec 17, 2014
drealsheggs:
Hello All, please i want to inquire if it is possible for someone with no knowledge about nursing from nigeria, travel over to SA inorder to learn and become a nurse assistant or even beyond, and also get to be working in SA after a completed program of Nursing?
100percent possible .check the requirement and cost implication before making further plans. Nursing or nursing assitant is a very lucrative field in SA.
RomanceRe: Some Ladies And Long Throat by samtol4(m): 5:29pm On Dec 14, 2014
onihaxy:
Well, the guys are to blame. Like my dad will always say. " When you want to impress a girl with money and eatery" remember that you would need the same money and eatery to sustain her".
Whenever I planned meeting a girl in eatery. I make sure I get there first, look through the glass to watch her coming. When I noticed her and "friends attachment", I simply use the EXIT door
lol "use the exit door"
TravelRe: General South Africa Visa Enquiries by samtol4(m): 12:10am On Dec 14, 2014
Verostef:
@TYPOP
do u mean i av to go visiting once before i can relocate?
what happen wen i av no one to invite me over?
apply for tourist visa no need getting invitational letter for tourist visa
FamilyRe: Do Yorubas Still Refuse To Marry Omo-igbos? by samtol4(m): 3:09pm On Dec 12, 2014
obongproff:
Bros I be akwa Ibom oh, but d yorubas call us omo-igbo. I guess dats d general term day use for the south-south and south-easterners.
am from Akwa ibom also I usually correct people when they "call me omo igbo "so tell them u re not omo igbo
TravelRe: General South Africa Visa Enquiries by samtol4(m): 5:48am On Dec 11, 2014
Waleabimbola:
the documents should be signed and courier to you NOT to the embassy
.Once documents are Certified by SA police the host can send via email ,posting by courier is just mere waste of money and time .
FamilyRe: My hubby want me to break my sim by samtol4(m): 2:31am On Dec 10, 2014
Famouspecky:
he's simple jealous
.He is not jealous but insecure and not trusting .Love without trust in a marriage/relationship is like a beautiful house without a roof. Marriage is all about 1.Trust 2.sacrifice and 3.submission .That is both of you have to abide by these 3keys.The marriage has not started already your man is showing high level of distrust demanding for sim destruction . His request now a problem disturbing you .Do you have secrets in that sim or any special contacts? apart from your relatives and female friends? Ofcourse I assumed yes what is the big deal in destroying Sim? Is like you sef get cockroaches in your cupboard he knows you very well for him to demand sim destruction but that again shows d level of insecurity and distrust in a marriage that is about to start.What happens if you get a fantastic offer(job) in another state?Will he follow you everywhere ? For the sake of peace and joy in your marriage destroy the sim but be ready to destroy other things because your man will show his true colour with time .Above all if you can't trust a woman u ve no business to marry,a woman that is not ready to be submissive has no business in marriage .Marriage is not boyfriend and girlfriend stuff but it is about 1.TRUST 2.Sacrifice 3.submission
FamilyRe: My hubby want me to break my sim by samtol4(m): 1:59am On Dec 10, 2014
Lumpyy:
Its not right calling another woman's man foolish ma,if hes asking her to change d sim,he must have his reasons,do u knw where/how they met?if am ex called wch triggerd his demand?she knows better why he is asking her to!
Gbam ! That is nairaland for you ladies always swift to dish out insult to someone hubby/BF as if they have good relationship with their men .
FamilyRe: My hubby want me to break my sim by samtol4(m): 1:51am On Dec 10, 2014
Sophyrocks:
You call him your husband when he is yet to marry you? Just call him your fiance o. Your fiance telling you to break your sim shows he doesnt trust you at all. It could also be a sign of a controlling attitude. Be careful. Who marries a person he/she doesnt trust? If you are marrying such, get ready for imaginary war over nothing in the marriage. He is even f00lish because all you can do is transfer all your contacts including that of Exes into your new sim. social media platforms dey if you wan cheat. So? will he always be there to monitor all your calls and chats? THIS IS WHY ANY MAN WHO ASKS FOR A CHANGE OF SIM IS F00LISH. if you know this lack of trust is something you cannot live with, better sort this issue now first before the wedding else be ready for War after the wedding.
Must you call him foolish before your points can be understood? That is someone husband you saying "he is even foolish"Learn to make your points without insults
RomanceRe: <<<....>>> by samtol4(m): 4:53pm On Dec 07, 2014
xynerise:
The number of years you date a person doesn't guarantee you will marry him/her.
100percent correct.You can date for 8years and never marry a lady while someone will date her for just 6months and marry her .
RomanceRe: He Knelt Down And Apologised!!! by samtol4(m): 3:46pm On Dec 07, 2014
2SWT:
l get ur point but am not angry cos he was with his ex. I have an ex but l told him dat we were still talking but when l asked about his, he said they no longer talk.but imagine he forgot to come because he was with thesame girl he said he doesn't talk with
Most ladies that suffered in marriages or relationship always ignore the danger signals.In your case the danger signals are clearer to a blind person to see .1.He forgot his appointment with you and hosted the ex while you are waiting.2.He lied that he is not on talking terms with ex 3.The pictures of the ex still on his phone 4.The ex visited him often. In summary ,his heart partially attached to the ex.Wisdom is profitable !
RomanceRe: Pregnancy:he Was Persuade To Marry Her Soon. by samtol4(m): 3:34pm On Dec 07, 2014
emmysoftyou:
my friend just want to hit and run but unfortunately the girl took in.
now she is pregnant and my friend told me she gave her drugs at initial when they had sex.but the drugs lost its effect on her.
But due to her young teen age of 18years,it seem her body is so active to any drops of sperms in her.
Now she is pregnant,he couldnt denied the pregnancy,and the people of the girl want to know if traditional marriage will commence soon.since she is pregnant for him.
So he has decided to accepts his fate to go on with her but the problems is that the love he had for the girl is not up to 50% out of 100%...
My friend is just 28plus....
he wants to know if the love for her will later grow in the future and if he is not taking a wrong decision to settle down with the girl he doesnt love upto 85%..
if yu re in this situation,what will be your right decision....
your view.........
I believe you are the one involved not your friend.when you had sex u didn't think of "love growing or diminishing"Please marry her !
RomanceRe: Why Are Single Mothers So Desperate And Dishonest? by samtol4(m): 9:31pm On Dec 06, 2014
Elantracey:
how many have you met?
TravelRe: General South Africa Visa Enquiries by samtol4(m): 9:25pm On Dec 06, 2014
tolma28:
But don't 4get dat even if he gets to the republic d permit can only be pasted on the expired passport. Den so if he can't how will he get his permit stamped since he is not in the republic?
y did he use old expired passport to apply for visa?
TravelRe: General South Africa Visa Enquiries by samtol4(m): 5:25pm On Dec 06, 2014
tolma28:
Manager007 am aware of kunletune case infact he is a friend of mine. But another issue with his case is that before he left the republic the pasport on which the visitors visa was issued expired and he applied for a fresh passport before he left south africa. He is thinking of applying for a visitors visa on that new passport from Nigeria. Because sending your passport to south africa and dhl it back toyou might bring some problems incase he wants to enta the replublic that how did he get his permit stamped when he is not here (as you all know southy immigration at OR tambo can be funny sometimes).
He can't have two permits/visa at same time
RomanceRe: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by samtol4(m): 5:59am On Dec 05, 2014
englishmart:
men are not scarce. At my age, I have about 6girlfriends +10crushes and many crushees!

But I have about 8 more years before I start thinking about getting married
.You are still a boy .A man don't need 6girlfriends.
CrimeRe: How I Was Duped Of N465,000 @trans Amadi, PH by samtol4(m): 10:27pm On Dec 04, 2014
Trendy247:
like i said earlier, i'm not here to convince anybody... Just to create awareness.
About the swearing aspect, i can only say if wat i'm saying is the truth, let it happen to you also @least u'll com here and lie abt it too
Sorry for the incident ,God will replenish you.I totally agree with your story .Many years ago I got admission in one of the Universities in the East .I travelled from Lagos to school with school fees intact in my traveling bag,behold when I got home to remove the money everything was paper ! The only money that didn't turn to paper was those inside my jean trouser. IT IS REAL
TravelRe: General South Africa Visa Enquiries by samtol4(m): 6:37pm On Dec 02, 2014
Emasel:
Do you need such amount as BTA even as a student on study permit?
500dollars is enough and most times they don't ask you especially if you are coming for study purposes.
TravelRe: General South Africa Visa Enquiries by samtol4(m): 4:25pm On Nov 30, 2014
Aboderinkay:
She said she called several time and mail them without response. Please advise me
let your contact go momentum office .
TravelRe: General South Africa Visa Enquiries by samtol4(m): 4:24pm On Nov 30, 2014
Aboderinkay:
She said she called several time and mail them without response. Please advise me
TravelRe: General South Africa Visa Enquiries by samtol4(m): 4:23pm On Nov 30, 2014
Aboderinkay:
She said she called several time and mail them without response. Please advise me
Momentum takes just 1hour to be activated once you pay @times a day incase of internet delay .Tell her to go their office and collect evidence of payment ! Two weeks delay?that is seriously ridiculous .
TravelRe: General South Africa Visa Enquiries by samtol4(m): 4:41pm On Nov 29, 2014
qalifa:
Please I'll be training at wonderboom airport does any one know of any safe neighbourhoods around there that I can stay?
where is wonderboom?pretoria ,durban ,capetown ?
TravelRe: General South Africa Visa Enquiries by samtol4(m): 7:53am On Nov 29, 2014
FeyiDOT:
Good evening
I really appreciate everyones contributions and I ve learnt a lot from it. I got addmision to unisa for my phd program and I ve just completed the first year. I just got a 2 years study leave from d place I worked. I want to apply for a study visa. I got a letter from the school in april 2014 but d study leave was just approved 2 days ago. Should I still present the letter from the school? And concerning unisa some said they don't give them study visa. Pls advise me on what to do
Thks
Unisa remains the best place to find out if you can use their letter to secure study permit.
RomanceRe: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by samtol4(m): 4:22pm On Nov 28, 2014
emperorchedda:
Girls are avoiding this thread like a plague grin grin
1000likes! On point
RomanceRe: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by samtol4(m): 1:01am On Nov 28, 2014
MzNelly:
LMFAOOOO, YOU ARE CRAZY!!! cheesy cheesy cheesy
hmm
RomanceRe: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by samtol4(m): 12:40am On Nov 28, 2014
Peaceemerald:
I dated my ex for about 2 years, somewhere along the line i started cheating on him. It's not like i didn't love him then, i just don't know what came over me. Somehow he found out when he saw a conversation between me and the guy i was cheating with. I begged him, he forgave me. It kinda happened again, and the guilt was too much to bear, so i broke up with him despite his pleas cos i felt he deserved better. He invited me over, and begged me to have sex with him one last time,. I didn't know he recorded the whole thing. He later showed me the video, and some nude pictures of me on his bed. He didn't say why he did it, or what he was going to do with the pictures and videos. But I'm terrified, i can't sleep at night knowing that a guy that now hates me that much has my nude pictures and a sex video. Please i need help, what do i do? What if he starts to blackmail me? I have begged and begged, he refused to delete them. i know i am a bad person, and i regret everything i did please forgive me, i know you are on nairaland plssss
consequence of premarital sex!
RomanceRe: Please Help Me, He Has My Nudes. by samtol4(m): 12:38am On Nov 28, 2014
theplanmaker:
Lol u tink its everyone d police can just arrest and toture? Wat if dey find nothing on him? Or u tink he is so dumb? Judt let naughty lady pay 4 her sins jhor
she did bad but she can be pardon! She has suffered enough emotional trauma and internal pain . We sinned against God and he forgave us ! Talkless of mortar being ! This serves as lesson to many ladies that want to play games with the heart of men !OGA to err is human to forgive is divine
RomanceRe: Male Advice Needed by samtol4(m): 12:23am On Nov 28, 2014
numericalguy:
Lolz.. Is this how you have been arguing with him? No wonder the guy is having a hard time coping with you.

I think you are a nice person and straight forward too, but you seem a bit temperamental with the "I'm always right" feeling to go wth it.
You really do have feelings for this guy which s why I would want you to put in a little more effort in the r/ship to make it work. Besides, what is the posibility that the next guy you'll be meeting will not come with a baggage of his own problems.
Try and be more patient with him and every other person you deal with.

Cheers!!!
100likes ! On point

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