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Nairaland / General / Re: Just Found Out My Dad Watches Porn. What Do I Do? by sanbells(f): 9:58pm On May 23, 2018 |
HarunaWest:I think the way guys reason is different from the way we girls think. We're very sensitive to things so please don't blame me if I sound corny |
Nairaland / General / Re: Just Found Out My Dad Watches Porn. What Do I Do? by sanbells(f): 9:58pm On May 23, 2018 |
HarunaWest:I think the way guys reason is different from the way we girls think. We're very sensitive to things so please don't blame me if I sound corny |
Nairaland / General / Re: Just Found Out My Dad Watches Porn. What Do I Do? by sanbells(f): 9:56pm On May 23, 2018 |
ShyCypher:You can say anything here,curse,do whatever you like buh calling my mom irresponsible is what I won't take. Be sensitive to people's feelings. I came here to seek ideas,not to have you insult my mother. You don't even have to type anything,you could have just passed on if you had nothing important to say 2 Likes |
Nairaland / General / Just Found Out My Dad Watches Porn. What Do I Do? by sanbells(f): 9:32pm On May 23, 2018 |
It was last Saturday. My dad left his phone to go barb his hair outside. I was with my mom in the parlor. I found my dad's phone placed on the table. I picked it up to go through it. Suddenly,out of curiosity (I'm a very curious person) ,I decided to go through his browsing history (I thought,lemme see wah the old man browses about). And then I saw it. I wish I never got that idea to go through his phone. Buh I did and now I regret it. Several kinds of porn site ranging from porn hub to unimaginable things I don't want to think about. I was shocked to find that 90% of his history page was visited porn sites. Even more shocking was the fact that the most recent one was visited that evening,few hours before I saw everything. Then I thought (lemme check his downloads) . Oh lord! 98% of the old man's download was porn! I also noticed he deletes them immediately after watching coz all the files were missing. I really don't know what to feel or do. I've been disturbed and traumatized since Saturday. Now whenever I look at his face,all I can think of is ( You watch porn, gosh!). I even saw in his history page where he was asking " how to quit porn", buh after that he still continued visiting the sites. Even as at yesterday. I feel disgusted when I see him now. To worsen the matter, my dad and I never had a pleasant relationship,despite that I always wished we had that sort of "father-daughter" relationship,but it wasn't him. He's always been the mean kind and I've sort of gotten used to that. It's so bad to the extent that I find it awkward calling my dad just to know how he's doing,that's so not us. He's the kind I only talk to when it's really really necessary. So to find that my dad, who's always so mean, always acting like he never makes mistakes and rains down on me when I make a common mistake, always acting responsible outside and pushes me to act responsibly too just so I won't embarrass him, the man who makes people think that he's a good father outside buh doesn't really know anything about his daughter or any of his children...Is that kind of a person really gets me even more mad at him. It feels like I just caught him cheating on my mom though that's not the case. I feel like my mom doesn't deserve this (I'm so protective of her by the way,I sometimes feel I can die for her). She's so strong and prayerful and tries to draw us together through prayers buh to find that my dad does such an immoral act makes me hate him more. Some of you guys might say porn is not bad. Well your entitled to your own belief. It doesn't change the fact that I feel disturbed and traumatized to find that my dad is a porn viewer. It just doesn't feel right. Please guys. I need your opinions on this issue. 1 Like |
Religion / Re: "Mountain Of Fire Allows Wearing Of Trousers In UK & US" - Daddy Freeze Reacts by sanbells(f): 8:44am On Mar 22, 2018 |
FRZ will always react. That's all his known for and he's not even good at it |
Politics / Re: Freed Dapchi Schoolgirl Speaks: How We Were Kidnapped, Treated by sanbells(f): 8:42am On Mar 22, 2018 |
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Politics / Re: Freed Dapchi Schoolgirl Speaks: How We Were Kidnapped, Treated by sanbells(f): 8:39am On Mar 22, 2018 |
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Romance / Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by sanbells(f): 11:09pm On Feb 17, 2018 |
Shankieboy:Seems you already made your decision even before you asked nairaland. Homosexuality is bad. Matter of fact,anything that contradicts the law of nature is bad.You really need help 1 Like |
Romance / Re: "My Boyfriend Jailed For 15 Years Abroad, Insists I Wait For Him" - 29-Year-Old by sanbells(f): 2:01pm On Feb 12, 2018 |
So this is what Facebook looks like. Filled with senseless people. How can you advise someone that is 29 to wait another 15 years to get married. What if he comes out and decides not to marry you again. You have everything to loose. No one will want to marry you at 44. Some are even saying get pregnant for him. You think it's easy to be raised by a single parent.No child deserves that. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Why Are Some Girls Like This? by sanbells(f): 11:22pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
You probably said or did something at the start to show you're rich and she decided to take advantage of you from there. Buh this shouldn't stop you from being who you are . Not all girls are the same.The same way I believe all guys are not the same .When you say "why are girls like this " it means you've generalised. There are still girls out there who aren't after the money. |
Literature / Re: Ikeogu Oke's Dressing To Collect His N36m NLNG Prize For Literature In Lagos by sanbells(f): 8:40pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
He's proud of his culture. He's not ashamed of it. Real african.. 31 Likes 3 Shares |
Romance / Re: Report Card For "One Corner" Dance! Ghana Records 80% Increase In HIV In 2017 by sanbells(f): 9:52am On Jan 15, 2018 |
Ghana has a history of madness 1 Like |
Religion / Re: Native Doctor Exposes "Pastor" Begging Him Online To Make Him Rich. Photos by sanbells(f): 10:20am On Jan 08, 2018 |
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Celebrities / Re: Adunni Ade And Her Boyfriend All Loved Up by sanbells(f): 9:13pm On Jan 07, 2018 |
Because she's so insecure Some people said he is Nedu wazobiafm lol.Savages 3 Likes |
Nairaland / General / Re: . by sanbells(f): 11:26am On Jan 05, 2018 |
4kings:thanks |
Nairaland / General / . by sanbells(f): 10:38am On Jan 02, 2018 |
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Celebrities / Re: Oritse Femi And Wife, Nabila Fash, Share Christmas Photos by sanbells(f): 10:55am On Dec 26, 2017 |
Who else thinks this guy is getting uglier every second? 7 Likes |
Health / Re: Inside Phamatex Lagos As The Sun Management Visits Pharmaceutical Giant by sanbells(f): 8:56pm On Dec 22, 2017 |
keep it up |
Celebrities / Re: Adaeze & Joseph Yobo & Their Kids All Smiles As They Pose For A Family Photo by sanbells(f): 4:02pm On Dec 20, 2017 |
DrinkLimca:.Bad belle people. Enemy of progress. People like you only focus on tarnishing people's image. Better drop this attitude this 2017.Start being positive. Why is it paining you sef?Abi you're one of the organisers she refused to give? 5 Likes |
Celebrities / Re: Chiwetel Ejiofor And Beyonce To Star In ‘The Lion King' Remake by sanbells(f): 2:22pm On Nov 02, 2017 |
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Culture / Re: I Removed 800-year-old Palace Deity As I’m Above Idols –oluwo Of Iwo by sanbells(f): 1:56pm On Sep 02, 2017 |
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Career / Re: Use This ASUU Strike To Come Intern At Hotels.ng -CEO Of Hotels.ng , Mark Essien by sanbells(f): 7:58am On Aug 15, 2017 |
Very good idea. Hope the sensible ones will make good use of it. I wish I had the chance 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Literature / Re: Lucifer's Key by sanbells(f): 12:32pm On Jun 15, 2017 |
Matrycx:Thank you so much |
Literature / Re: Red Ashes by sanbells(f): 1:40pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
Chumzypinky:You're a great writer keep it up #crying.... Your story made me cry |
Literature / Re: Red Ashes by sanbells(f): 1:39pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
Very wonderful story. I almost cried after reading it. |
Literature / Re: Lucifer's Key by sanbells(f): 9:31am On Jun 10, 2017 |
Someone, anyone, kindly mention me when he updates |
Politics / Re: Niger Delta Militants Demand Return Of Oil Blocs Held By Northerners by sanbells(f): 8:32am On Jun 10, 2017 |
Bari22:I bet you don't know what you're doing now . Not until your children suffer from the rug decisions you took part in 2 Likes |
Politics / Re: Niger Delta Militants Demand Return Of Oil Blocs Held By Northerners by sanbells(f): 8:27am On Jun 10, 2017 |
It's getting worse everyday . They're really getting serious about this. Why is all this happening now, Buhari why 8 Likes |
Nairaland / General / . by sanbells(f): 9:49am On Jun 08, 2017 |
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Celebrities / . by sanbells(f): 1:06pm On May 27, 2017 |
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Romance / Re: She Wants Me To Deflower Her by sanbells(f): 12:47pm On May 25, 2017 |
Fashy the demon talk. Does are fallacies told to make you abstain. If you want to do it, there's nothing wrong. After all she's your girlfriend. If you feel you ain't ready, simply tell her in a kind way and make her reason with you. It's your choice now. Do you want it or not? 2 Likes |
Health / Re: Sudden Death: 4 Ways Sex Can Kill You (Pics) by sanbells(f): 8:10am On May 24, 2017 |
Experts say sex is good for the health. Experts also say it's bad cause it can kill. Which do l believe 42 Likes |
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