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^{'Our children have been very supportive of this. They have understood': Benno, far right with Crisina, Sierra (center) and their three kids insist the family have no issue with the setup}

'It's busy. There are lots of hands everywhere. The beauty of what we do is that we can have a very active sexual life and it's completely safe and it's with people that we love.

'I don't ever have to worry about having a boring sex life 20 years from now when other couples or monogamous couples are. We have a lot of intimacy between all three of us.'

Since moving into the family home, Sierra has become the main caregiver for the trio's children, staying at home while Benno and Cristina go out to work.

Benno said: 'We had talked to our children before this and let them know we wanted to adopt someone and bring somebody into our relationship. Our children have been very supportive of this. They have understood.'

Now Sierra says she feels as much a mother to the children as Cristina, and the children even call her 'Mommy'.

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^{Chemistry: Benno, right, says there has not been a single night where the trio have not 'involved each other in some sort of sexual activity' since the trio officially got together}

Sierra said: 'I absolutely feel like their mum. I hope now, they love me, they call me 'mommy Sierra' and I love them just as much.

'I'm not jealous that the children are not biologically related to me at all. Just because I didn't birth them doesn't mean I can't love them and they can't love me. That doesn't hinder my love at all for them.'

Despite the unusual dynamic, Benno, Cristina and Sierra insist there is no jealousy in their triad, but admit they have problems like any other relationship.

Sierra said: 'There is really not jealousy in our relationship. Sometimes we have a hard time communicating because there are three people instead of two, but we always work through it.
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^{Benno said of their unusual setup: 'We had talked to our children before this and let them know we wanted to adopt someone and bring somebody into our relationship'}

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^{'Every one of us is different,' says proud dad Benno. 'But before you judge, take a look at our lives and see the benefit of it. I couldn't imagine my life any other way'}

'We have always been the best in every situation and we always work through our problems.'

Benno added: 'We share all of our feelings with each other and we don't hold anything back.

'Everything is equal, so there is nothing to be jealous of. We are very happy with all three of us together.'

Last year Benno and Cristina took the decision to file for divorce - with every intention of staying together.

And once the divorce is finalized later this year, either Benno or Christina will marry Sierra - although they are yet to decide which of them it will be.

Cristina found what she was looking for at the local shopping mall in Las Vegas, where she met Sierra, who was working in a pet store.

The pair went on a few dates and to Cristina's delight, Sierra was willing to join her marriage - and shortly after Benno was introduced into the mix.
Sierra said: 'At first I was very hesitant about getting involved with a married couple.

'I was worried that I would be disposable and that this was a phase they were going through. But when I spent time with them I realized what they wanted and feel this was a situation I could work with, so I jumped on board.'

The relationship progressed and the three decided to take the next step in their 'three-lationship'.
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^{Three's a crowd: The trio are adamant that their 'permanent' relationship is for keeps, but Benno admits their lifestyle 'isn't for everyone'}


Benno said: 'Sierra and Christina and I all clicked and shortly after our first date we knew that we were meant to be with her and that this was something we wanted to pursue.

'It was just the natural course to take - to have her move into the home.

'My feelings for the both are equal. I love them both without question. They are both very much part of my life and I couldn't imagine living my life without either of them.'

And Benno says that the sexual side of the relationship is also equal - and adventurous.

He said: 'We share a bed together, we share everything together, so since we met Sierra we have not had a night that we don't all involve each other in some sort of sexual activity.

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^{Benny says of his two partners: 'My feelings for the both are equal. I love them both without question... I couldn't imagine living my life without either of them'}

But eventually Cristina, who is bisexual, began to feel something was missing from her love life.

Cristina, also a legal assistant, said: 'Initially, it was my idea to open the marriage. I brought it to Benno's attention and told him I would like to introduce women to our relationship to see where it goes.

'Other than that we had everything going for us. Three kids, a great relationship and adding Sierra into our lives has just made it a hundred times better, I feel like I'm complete.'

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^{Cristina and Benno Kaiser on their wedding day 12 years ago. The pair married after just four months but Cristina, who is bisexual, began to feel something was missing from her love life}


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^{Of the early days of their marriage, Cristina, left, said: 'We had everything going for us. Three kids, a great relationship and adding Sierra into our lives has made it a hundred times better'}

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^{Cristina, right, with Benno and Sierra, said: 'Initially, it was my idea to open the marriage. I brought it to Benno's attention and told him I'd like to introduce women to our relationship'}

Happily married couple who share a GIRLFRIEND reveal they are divorcing after 12 years so that one of them can marry her – and give her legal rights to their three children

-Cristina and Benno Kaiser, from Austin, Texas, are parents to three children - Isaiah, Rebecca and Brianna
-Bisexual Cristina, 31, also introduced Sierra Kuntz, 21, into their relationship
-The 'poly triad' family are now planning to officially marry her into the family
-Benno, 37, and Cristina have not yet decided who will marry Sierra

A couple who have been married for 12 years and have three children together are getting divorced so that their 'girlfriend' won't get jealous.
Cristina and Benno Kaiser from Austin, Texas, haven't yet decided which of them will wed their 21-year-old lover, Sierra Kuntz, so that all three can have legal rights to their children.

Benno, 37, a legal assistant, said: 'Cristina and I decided this was something that needed to be done in order for Sierra to understand the depth of how much we love her and want her to be part of our family.

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^{Left to right: Son Isaiah, 11, daughter Brianna, six, mother Cristina, 31, Sierra, daughter Rebecca, seven, and dad Benno, 37, in bed at home in Austin. Cristina and Benno are planning to divorce so that one of them can marry Sierra - giving her legal rights to the three children}

'The benefits of one of us marrying her are going to be on many different levels. She is going to be legally considered a parent to the children and, more importantly, it will show her that this is not a temporary thing.'

He added: 'We both love her and it's something that's meant to be permanent.'

Cristina, 31, and Benno, met 12 years ago when they were both serving in the military police in Virginia.

They married four months later and a year into their marriage they had their first child, Isaiah, now 11, followed by, Rebecca, seven, and Brianna, six.

Adebowale89:
politics is a game of mind and the Igbo are still yet to understand that. fayose is one of this game player, using Igbo weakness in politics to play a game of 2019

drake2000x:
I don't mind sharing a country with Yorubaa Christians but Afonjas/Yorubaa Muslims?Capital No. They are the problem of Yorubaas...can't let go of their Hausa-Fulani brothers in religion.

As our tradition demands, the newly married bride sees off her Aso ebis and return in the evening same day to welcome visitors. But alas, my wife went and never came back till Friday evening.

Firefire:
Obama directly addressed Nigerians in the days to the election, that is the height of interference.

Anyway, he too was booted out of White House in a disgraceful manner.

QuietHammer:
Then the people who will stand surety for him will be arrested if he fails to appear in court once his trial starts.

gberra:
Ama say what? .. He shall never be free. He has a covenant with slavery.


IPOBS are doomed

Nwodosis:
That one is not bail but rather they want to put end to his struggle. Is better he goes back to jail than accepting such bail conditions!

However, Kanu is expected to meet the following conditions before and after regaining freedom:

Ø One of the sureties must be a senior and highly recognised Nigerian of Igbo descent

Ø The second surety must be a highly recognised believer in Judaism

Ø The third surety must be resident with landed property in Abuja

Ø Sureties to deposit their international passports with the court

Till conclusion of trial…

Ø Kanu must not grant interview

Ø Kanu must not be in a crowd exceeding 10 people

Ø Kanu must not hold rallies

Ø Kanu's health report should be made available to the court monthly

The bail terms were described by lawyers as multiple and stringent.

During his official defection at his country home, Ugbawka,‎ Nkanu East local government area of Enugu state, Onyeabor said he was cross carpeting to the APC because‎ the PDP was not likely to survive it’s present leadership crisis.

SonOfAfonja:
God forbid more men be like him, Imagine how the world would deteriorate into "mumuness".....hehehehehe

PianoWizard:
@ shafiiimran99 well like I said I may agree with you.
I don't really if know Hagar was a legal wife to Abraham so I can't say much about this.
When she decided to contend with sarah,, she was sent away. Even God sided with sarah. I don't think she and her son Ishmael got any from Abraham.
well at least according to the bible.

So really don't know.

PianoWizard:
@ Sanchez01 if at 17 you cannot use your head to reason logically then I pity for you. I have told you sarah gave hagar to abraham as you have seen in scriptures.
Abraham did not run after sarah begging her to give
her Maid to him.

[s]It was sarah that brought hagar to abraham.[/s] You said women were bounded by the law and men were free to chose as much wife as they can doesn't that appeal to you that you are dumb.

Abraham could have chosen to marry other women and even take hagar as wife so he could have a child. But he decided to wait for God's promise.

Go and ask your pastor(if at all you have one) whether what Abraham did was adultery. And I pray he is trained enough to give you enlightenment and wife off the cobwebs of ignorance from you.

Shafiiimran99:
The question is for u. Abraham did not commit adultery because Sarah willingly gave her slave to him to be his wife

Shafiiimran99:
Now Sarai Abram's wife bare him no children: and she had an handmaid, an Egyptian, whose name was Hagar. And Sarai said unto Abram, Behold now, the LORD hath restrained me from bearing: I pray thee, go in unto my maid; it may be that I may obtain children by her. And Abram hearkened to the voice of Sarai. And Sarai Abram's wife took Hagar her maid the Egyptian, after Abram had dwelt ten years in the land of Canaan, and gave her to her husband Abram to be his wife. And he went in unto Hagar, and she conceived: and when she saw that she had conceived, her mistress was despised in her eyes (Genesis 16:1-4).

PianoWizard:
You see why I say you lack knowledge of scriptures. Even at that it wasn't a sin because there was no law. Law came through moses not Abraham.

Stop coming to display your ignorance go acquire biblical knowledge.

felixomor:
You are the only illiterate kid here

dragonking3:
The apostle is right. We all know that David mum is Nitzevet but she was a prostitute that's why David was despite by brothers and his own father.

http://www.chabad.org/theJewishWoman/article_cdo/aid/280331/jewish/Nitzevet-Mother-of-David.htm

PianoWizard:
He wasn't,, she was sarah's maid.
Sarah gave haggai to Abraham.

PianoWizard:
Another ignorant one,, please explain how Abraham committed adultery.

PianoWizard:
Another ignorant one,, please explain how Abraham committed adultery.

dragonking3:
But the apostle is right.

https://opentheword.org/2013/08/09/king-davids-big-dark-secret/

felixomor:
Keep quiet.
You have reading problem?

felixomor:
Funny enough the man didnt mention "Harlot" in the video

But trust the gullible Nigerian youths on social media.
Mscheww

NOETHNICITY:
Christians re found of insulting prophets of God.
They say Abraham committed adultery
Now dey say David's mum was a hoe

Jaideyone:
smh we Christians are the only group that can islamise Nigeria. too many conflicting doctrines and beliefs.

majalisa:
Unfortunately you are not built for wahala and believe me initial wahala is needed in such a situation before amicable dialogue.. He doesn't have horns at such confront him directly and if he won't heed your pleas give him a federal warning

Ishilove:
Sweetheart, you are such a sweet person. Wish more men were like you

udatso:
Sanchez01 where are you. I told you victory is ours