Business › Re: Bill Gates And Melinda Gates Divorce After 27 years by Sanctecosma(m): 10:57pm On May 03, 2021 |
That can only tell you how strong African tradition is when it comes to marriage. dapsoneh: Dangote go soon overtake Bill Gates ooo But on serious note ,there is a spirit of marital failure In the west or na our people here dey too endure for marriage ni? Why will aged couple be thinking of divorce? At what age? Whatever they have endured after over 27 years of marriage, why can't they continue? Why is it now they just realized they couldn't tolerate each other anymore? more questions beckon for answers |
Business › Re: Bill Gates And Melinda Gates Divorce After 27 years by Sanctecosma(m): 10:51pm On May 03, 2021 |
Hmmm!
uwa nke a self |
Romance › Re: Are "30+ Men" Really The Hardest To Date? by Sanctecosma(m): 11:56am On May 03, 2021 |
Lol. Mosdii my man. Akpo aza.
mosdii: Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them |
Politics › Re: Unknown Gunmen Kill 12 Cows In Akwa Ibom As Herdsmen Flee by Sanctecosma(m): 8:50pm On May 02, 2021 |
Confucionist
gaetano: Ungun known men
Unmen gun known
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gaetano: Ungun known men
Unmen gun known
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Health › Re: NAFDAC Approves Pfizer-Biotech COVID-19 Vaccine For Use In Nigeria by Sanctecosma(m): 8:59pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
iamyemiakins: You think say na m'ókóle and dem herbal bitters ba? |
Family › Re: How Do I Instill Boldness And Confidence In My Daughters? by Sanctecosma(m): 6:03pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
Ah swear. That way they will gain confidence the way even without him doin any work. Lol Mutemenot: Relocate to Ajegunle or Borno, u 'll thank Me later |
Family › Re: How Do I Instill Boldness And Confidence In My Daughters? by Sanctecosma(m): 5:59pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
Wow! This is so me. ... The keyword is "being deliberate" in every action CalmElder: Criticality and honestly analyse yourself and make improvements accordingly. You will have to be deliberate. E.g I use to be very very timid and careful to not offend anyone, most times to my own detriment. I'm more open about my feelings now. There's now a limit to what I to tolerate, I'm now very conscious of the right thing to say and do, when to say, and when to refrain from saying anything or taking an action and be respectful. Most importantly, I'm learning to truly let go, honestly forgive. I'm a very bold, but more quiet and reflective person now from years of practice. Keyword : DELIBERATE ( Know why and what you're doing) |
Family › Re: How Do I Instill Boldness And Confidence In My Daughters? by Sanctecosma(m): 5:50pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
Ah ah! Oga 3 years is still tender now. Besides science says a child begins to develop retentive memory at age 3 so cut your kids some slack and let them grow and adjust naturally. All you need do is groom and guard them along the right path, also strive to instil the right values in them as role model to them. You can be sure they will never depart from it as they grow and mature. Even if they do wander (as they often tend to especially in this android age), never hesitate to draw them back via lenient and loving paternal corrective measures. May the Lord be with you |
Family › Re: How Do I Instill Boldness And Confidence In My Daughters? by Sanctecosma(m): 5:31pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
OP better heed to this advice. Barbiturate: Leave her alone the way God made her. She's the quiet type. Don't make her aggressive. She will not be timid through out her life time, she will adjust as she grows. Concentrate on giving them the best in life. See them as important as a male child! God bless them and make you proud of them someday |
Politics › Re: Insecurity: Uzodinma Takes Refuge In Abuja by Sanctecosma(m): 11:30am On Apr 30, 2021 |
Indeed my brother! Afterall, He is the MASTER of the universe. OyinO: It's by God's grace we got the big problem in our hands. What God doesn't allow, will not happen. |
Politics › Re: Insecurity: Uzodinma Takes Refuge In Abuja by Sanctecosma(m): 9:52am On Apr 30, 2021 |
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Romance › Re: How Many Persons Have You Dated And Slept With ? by Sanctecosma(m): 11:36am On Apr 29, 2021 |
Alright thanks bro. Mcslize: It's possible but not easily. I recently met one and since then I just kept her as a friend due to her liveliness. I just quickly made her my chat buddy.
Just keep an opened mind, you might be lucky to meet one that will take things serious with you along the line. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Undergraduates, Which Skills Are You Learning Now ? by Sanctecosma(m): 1:48pm On Apr 28, 2021 |
You better start rejigging that mindset of yours. Start making plans on how you can get one skill while in uni or immediately after graduating, cos once you graduate and go for nysc, OYO na your name. You will have no one to depend on again plus the thought of going through another training without any means of sustenance will all the more be discouraging. So you better utilize this opportunity you have now while in school and rid your brain of the mindset of "there will be job after school" except you know you have one waiting for you. My one cent. design104:
 None oh. The school is stressful enough |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Undergraduates, Which Skills Are You Learning Now ? by Sanctecosma(m): 1:38pm On Apr 28, 2021 |
Omo I don enter Domestic/industrial wiring o. I have one month to complete my training. In fact, having been on this training so far, I couldn't help but regret wasting time studying petroleum engineering in uni. Anyways, still to God be the glory. |
Romance › Re: How Many Persons Have You Dated And Slept With ? by Sanctecosma(m): 11:50am On Apr 28, 2021 |
It's alright charlito94: Because it's not worth the A-Z list. Just pick someone and be instead of numerous uncountable persons you can't even recall their names again. |
Romance › Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by Sanctecosma(m): 11:25am On Apr 28, 2021 |
kushme: You big bro is indeed a wise man.
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Romance › Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by Sanctecosma(m): 10:52am On Apr 28, 2021 |
one of the most cherished advice from my big bro:" Marry a woman who will give you peace of mind. A woman who rarely gives in to fits of anger"
Bro, the red flag has never been so glaring |
Romance › Re: How Many Persons Have You Dated And Slept With ? by Sanctecosma(m): 10:43am On Apr 28, 2021 |
This I have figured out, the reason am still keeping on. But as for finding a virgin to marry, bro do you think it's possible nowadays? Even my first was sincere enough to tell me she isn't. Though we're no longer together. Mcslize: Lol. It's good the person is holding himself. If u can hold on. Cuz once u taste the forbidden fruit it will be hard to stay celibate. It is easier for those who haven't to be able to keep themselves.
But once u taste it, I tell u, you will keep tasting it even when u try not to taste it. So, it's definitely easier for those that haven't tasted it to be able to hold on longer than those that have tasted it.
So, I commend you if you are. Just look for one virgin marry if possible. |
Romance › Re: Advice A Man That Is Been Compared To Other Men. by Sanctecosma(m): 9:59am On Apr 28, 2021 |
chatinent: Wait, define “my woman” first. Nice question. |
Romance › Re: Woman Enslavement by Sanctecosma(m): 9:56am On Apr 28, 2021 |
That's the way it is right from adams. laiperi: You are right about the double standard. But it is not only in Africa or Africans. Usually after dinner or visits, all the ladies closer to home including the wife visiting help to clean up and do the dishes together.
While, I mean while the men gather together in the living room, family room or basement to watch soccer or football. Sometimes they play other games while the wives chat and laugh in the kitchen.
The one that I cannot stand are the children, especially the boys leaving the dishes. Mothers would watch and clean up to the boys. But never, I mean hardly for the girls.
Why? [img]That's the way it is right from adams. laiperi: You are right about the double standard. But it is not only in Africa or Africans. Usually after dinner or visits, all the ladies closer to home including the wife visiting help to clean up and do the dishes together.
While, I mean while the men gather together in the living room, family room or basement to watch soccer or football. Sometimes they play other games while the wives chat and laugh in the kitchen.
The one that I cannot stand are the children, especially the boys leaving the dishes. Mothers would watch and clean up to the boys. But never, I mean hardly for the girls.
Why? [/img]That's the way it is right from adams. laiperi: You are right about the double standard. But it is not only in Africa or Africans. Usually after dinner or visits, all the ladies closer to home including the wife visiting help to clean up and do the dishes together.
While, I mean while the men gather together in the living room, family room or basement to watch soccer or football. Sometimes they play other games while the wives chat and laugh in the kitchen.
The one that I cannot stand are the children, especially the boys leaving the dishes. Mothers would watch and clean up to the boys. But never, I mean hardly for the girls.
Why? |
Romance › Re: Please I Urgently Need Your Advice About My Relationship by Sanctecosma(m): 9:52am On Apr 28, 2021 |
From your post OP, e dey obvious say na you cause everything you dey experience now. |
Romance › Re: How Many Persons Have You Dated And Slept With ? by Sanctecosma(m): 9:38am On Apr 28, 2021 |
Ah ah! Really? Me wey dey talk say I never get enough experience.
Mind telling me why?
charlito94: I wish I was you  |
Romance › Re: How Many Persons Have You Dated And Slept With ? by Sanctecosma(m): 9:34am On Apr 28, 2021 |
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Romance › Re: How Many Persons Have You Dated And Slept With ? by Sanctecosma(m): 9:29am On Apr 28, 2021 |
[quote author=Mcslize post=101162217]I got to know what sex was all about at the age of 25. Not so many men will be able to keep themselves to that age before eating the forbidden fruit. I commend myself for that. That was some handful of years ago.
@25 and you are talking while someone is clocking 30 and never experienced a first kiss let alone sex. Not that he doesn't have the opportunity o. |
Politics › Re: Reps Ask Buhari To Declare State Of Emergency Over Insecurity by Sanctecosma(m): 8:15pm On Apr 27, 2021 |
U dey mind am. And the fact that man has the ability to reason does not make people (like him) reasonable Nbotee: U are proof dat not all who come with brains have sense... |
Romance › Re: How Many Persons Have You Dated And Slept With ? by Sanctecosma(m): 11:55am On Apr 27, 2021 |
Dated just one |
Romance › Re: What's Your Biggest Relationship Regret? by Sanctecosma(m): 2:31am On Apr 27, 2021 |
O my! This is deep!! BlueAir:
thinking a woman can be selflessly loyal |
Romance › Re: What's Your Biggest Relationship Regret? by Sanctecosma(m): 2:21am On Apr 27, 2021 |
mosho2good: *Someone cannot just dial a wrong number in Nigeria an a politician or a celebrity will pick it.*
*Must it be only aboki?* � Laugh wan kii me  mosho2good: *Someone cannot just dial a wrong number in Nigeria an a politician or a celebrity will pick it.*
*Must it be only aboki?* � Laugh wan kii me |
Romance › Re: What's Your Biggest Relationship Regret? by Sanctecosma(m): 2:16am On Apr 27, 2021 |
Mustiboy: Intentionally impregnating a girl so that I'd leave her and she'd suffer. Ọmọ, my eyes couldn't take it when she was crying. I knew she was loyal and there's no way I could tell her to go find the person who impregnated her. My mouth just couldn't open to say such. I knew it was my handwork.
In the end, I took responsibility, and we went through an excruciating abortion process. I was drained financially, mentally, and emotionally.
I still regret that foolish act. I wanted to punish her, but i ended up punishing the both of us. As always, what goes around comes around. |
Romance › Re: What's Your Biggest Relationship Regret? by Sanctecosma(m): 2:14am On Apr 27, 2021 |
Chriswazo: Having only one girlfriend a time i should have had many to forestall what I am facing now I feel you bro. But just wondering what it is you're facing right now. |
Politics › Re: Imo: Okigwe Police Station Burnt As Gunmen Kill Five Policemen, Abduct One by Sanctecosma(m): 2:03am On Apr 27, 2021 |
... Same way I shouldn't believe this your attached quote. come to think of it. Was there internet during the time of Abraham Lincoln? Omoslim26: Mehn I no dey quick believe news for here again.
The fake news for here too much abeg�� |
Politics › Re: Imo: Okigwe Police Station Burnt As Gunmen Kill Five Policemen, Abduct One by Sanctecosma(m): 1:57am On Apr 27, 2021 |
MuchAdo: Is it until you guys are completely decimated that you will have sense
You have not recovered from the loss of over 2million Igbos between 1966 and 1970, you are asking for another!  Look, that was then, e nor fit happen now ok |