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I love farming so much |
Thank God for their rescue |
You already have the answer to your question, once you become rich and your friends are still poor, jealousy and envy start growing which can even lead to hatred. So once you make money, you move to a better place but dont cut your friends away, the ones you know are very genuine with you, you can carry them along, teach them ways to make the money too but one thing you should do before teaching them is MAKE SURE you have make a lot of money from what you are doing. A saying goes "you know who you like but you dont know who like you the same way" Reason for this is some friends can spoil your source of income or even start spreading what you are doing or some people just have bad luck and once you introduce them to a business, the business collapse. So even if you are helping your friend, always know it is 50/50 even if you feel this friend is genuine never trust 100% to protect yourself, if your friends make money from you, all of you guys will be rich together and maybe help each other in the future. My point is you can move from the trenches and you can also help your friends move from the trenches too but make sure you are already well established first. |
Rip |
Typing:Stop creating stories in your mind to justify abuse, from the OP write up there is no place she wrote she was corrected before or she had done such thing before. The OP is an adult, the Bf mother have no right to hit her period |
This is Sad Rip |
Chimarto:Sorry |
People still dey get Crush this Tinubu era, anyway be a man and send her a Dm and ask for her number |
Maybe it's Night guards, when I was staying in Benin Night guard will be hitting metals and making noise to drive away any Theif and to announce they are around for any wannable thief |
Everybody victim blaming the OP but did she commit a crime even if she was Right handed, does the BF mother have the right to slap her ![]() The BF mother could have corrected her and tell her she didn't like her using left hand to give her things but choose to disrespect her because she is dating her Son. What many Nigeria elders dont know is Respect is reciprocal, many elders expect the youth to worship them just because they came out of the womb early and they feel entitled to talk and treat someone younger then them badly because they are older. I am sure the Bf will tell the OP to lockup and even relatives will tell the OP to leave the issue alone because the woman is older, some will even tell the OP to apologise to the BF mother, they dont know what they are doing is affecting the OP. Anyway I hope we learn to respect each other regardless of age, if I enter a place I greet everyone, I dont look at their faces to see whether I am older before doing the bare minimum. |
Happy birthday |
This is funny so the students will remain with him during those hours |
Ok is this story some kind of lesson because nobody knows tomorrow the Chiyenre might ends up getting married to someone who is X10 better than you. Just face your marriage and stop looking into her life like you are still obsessed with her even tho you are married. If u don't move on, when she eventually get married to someone way better than you, you will surely become depressed because all i am seeing from your writeup is you feeling you have WON over her because she hurt you but life dont work like that just because someone hurts you doesn't mean she won't live a good life, you wishing her bad might even make God to bless her more. The ultimate revenge is living a good live and moving on |
It's obvious you are a very ambitious person and your girlfriend is not. She is not bad, not everyone is goal driven and some ladies grow up with the mindset that the man should provide all their needs and no matter what you do, you can't change that. From my perspective I think your girlfriend will hardly change, you will keep pushing and pushing until you are tired and even if she does something now once she start giving birth she might use that as an excuse to stop doing any work so if you want to be with her just know you might take 100% of the responsibility and if that's not to your liking you can break up now. Ask yourself whether you like her enough to take care of all her responsibilities or you just like her because from your post she is a virgin and she loves you. |
Congratulations |
Really lol |
For me personally I prefer you stay in Nigeria and invest, if that bull run works out, you can start a business and travel abroad for vacations. When you make bunch of money, you can still relocate and if it didn't work out you can come back to Nigeria and continue your businesses. The honest truth is Nigeria is not really a safe country if you dont have investments you can just Japa but if you are doing well here dont take the risk. |
Go for Checkup at the hospital |
Space booked |
Number1benue:Why are you so unnecessarily angry. Did I hurt you, sorry I didn't mean to. I know you are angry with girls for breaking your heart and not finding you worthy to love but my darling it's not that deep |
Number1benue:Why are you so unnecessarily angry. Did I hurt you, sorry I didn't mean to. I know you are angry with girls for breaking your heart and not finding you worthy to love but my darling it's not that deep ciao |
EmptyGarden:there will be no money involved jeez. |
FERNANDEZISBACK:just chatting and talking online with no interest of meeting in real life and just having fun with no possibility of falling in love. |
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Ok |
Takeit2017:To cook better soup |
WTH |

