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The question is if he asked you out, will you date him??
Because all you did was been nice to another human being which isn't supposed to be a big deal.

Some ladies find it hard to talk to guys they think is beneath them, sometimes the guys will just be friendly to them and still they will be looking down on them.

I would like to eat that Ridi

Who even believe all this stories??

Coronavirus1:
She is going to be looser because only married men will still date her

She will be happy, carry your bitterness away from here. In your imagination you think woman can't be happy without a husband

May should do what makes her happy, seeing so many comments here make me realise that men will always blame women for their mistakes.
Yul is the one that cheated and have a child out of wedlock but it's May that is supposed to accept it and keep peace because of her marriage, someone even said a Christian woman will remain in the marriage, didn't the Bible may one man one woman, if Yul marries another woman, doesn't that mean the code is broken and May can leave the marriage.

A lot of men cheat on their wives and thinks it's normal, they want to eat their cake and have it, they always gaslight the women to fight for their marriage when their husband is caught cheating, they will tell them to pray, go to the war room, don't let another woman win and take your husband from you.
So that is why this is paining some men because they are realising that many wives nowadays are ready to divorce their husband because of cheating and their actions have consequences.

Louis8796:
@sandralight,please u haven't responded to my messages on nairaland concerning the furniture u need?

Sorry I don't need furniture.
I was just curious about the prize

They didn't arrest the Cow na, they took for evidence

Offpointng:
I'm telling you fact, real fact. My elder sister is in this shoe to. got a good job and doing well for herself with a clean ride but no guy is coming at 28. Yes she's showing less concern atm but she can't tell me at her closet the matter no dey touch her oft time. two of neighbors here to living fine in a nice apartment but no Boy friend let alone Fiance and they are of age

It's crazy out there on you guys mehn

Ok if you elder sister is 28 that means you will be between 22 -26 age old.
Wow so this are the people talking about when a woman should get married lol.
You just reminded me of my cousin who is 18 and was telling me how his friend is dating an old lady, only for me to find out that his friend was dating a 24 years old lady.
My point is when someone is still young, someone older seems ancient to them, trust me a woman doesn't turn to an hag when she hit 30 or even 35, try to open your eyes aging doesn't work like that.

Also try to focus on yourself and stop worrying about when your Sister or other aunties around you will get married, marriage is not a Certificate to happiness.

I am not going to psychoanalyse you but if I did I could probably say, you have issues with women, maybe a heartbreak or something and you have a profound dislike of women, you try to console yourself that most girls are wasting their youth and once they get to a certain age nobody will want them anymore.
That you trying to give yourself hope that, that your ex girlfriend will regret leaving you, most of your past posts is about bashing women of been been old and unmarried, anyway I hope you grow out of this.

It's good to be good

Offpointng:
Broo...E don dey red for these girls. where I served, we were 9 guys and 21 girls and when I did my research, it'll shock you to know just 3 out of 21 of them were in a serious relationship. and the youngest of em singles was 25

The 31yrs old among them told me any guy wey ask her out now is an immediate Yes, tho twas said outta a place of Emotion and I couldn't laugh so it doesn't look like I'm mocking her but guy I pited her but the words were still funny to me

You guys always have ladies that are always desperate lol please change your environment

They now block you instead or let you call and call until you are tired

emmancipated:
I guess these are kids, because I don't understand why someone being single is a source of concern to them. Like, are you going to be in the marriage with them if they eventually marry?

What do you stand to gain because they are married.

Does it make your life better in anyway?

Some threads for this forum dey give me headache sometimes, I swear.

I like this your answer, like any time I enter the Romance section, most of the topics are about women getting married or single women above 30 that isn't married or they will call them evening newspapers.

The question I always wonder is what is their problem? How is a woman not getting married their concern, like will it add any thing to their life or bank account.
Why can't people mind their business, drink water and stay in their lane, life no suppose hard like this.

Men from 30 upwards should hurry up and get married o because time is not on their side anymore

One thing I have seen so far from many Nigerians is the Copy Copy attitude, they are not innovative at all.

That is why when some people are making money from a particular thing, they dont like announcing it because if they do, everybody and their mothers will start doing it.

In the place where I live, there is about 8 provision stores there and the stores are so close to each other, so one of the store owner packed out of the lane and the store was empty, I seriously expected anyone that took the store to sell something different but guess what last week something took the store and she was still selling Provisions, like the others selling provisions dont sell like that because the competition is too much and our lane is filled with working class people that don't really stay at home expect weekends so they dont really have customers but still someone is still starting a provision store there.
I fear Nigerians

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What is there to advice again, the husband obviously dont love her or even respect her, she should start planning her life because that marriage is over

braine:
Anty quickly insert disclaimer.

But in the bid of doing that, you are further stigmatizing women above 30.

Who cares if you are 30 or 35? What should people in that age range do now? Anyone who has any problem with a woman of any age can go blazes.

I tire o like they wont get to that age too even in this modern age there are people still scared to grow old, if you are a lady that is 35 and single, will you kill yourself because of what some guy in internet is going to say lol
Abeg make everybody live their life with what pleases them

onlybyhisgrace:
Crystallon, Sandralight, DapFroser, delugadou, qwertyboss, please send me an email via your profile to be able to verify moniker. Thank you

I have done it Sir

Offpointng:
Cuz we're tired of having kids with Autism, down syndrome and other associated kids illness that comes from giving birth at an old age. Y'all should have mercy on innocent kids and take your mind off marriage and child bearing once y'all clock 35 abec

Ok

Why is it that men are the ones obsessed with when a woman should give birth lol
Abeg let women breath!!!!

I am interested Sir

Mine is I

Theast pic looks photoshop.
What are the prizes of them

It's good to be good, if you are a bad person I am sure you could have been scared why those men were calling you.
One thing I have learned in life is that hood deeds always bring reward, it might not happen immediately but it will surely happen when you least expect it, so keep been a good person because it will always pay.

Tunde835:
When women get married they get someone who provides for them, they have kids that grow up to provide also till their old age. When a man is married he only toils, sacrifices until when the day comes to get paid all the love and attention is diverted to the mother that's why men die earlier. Society doesn't care about men. So my question is why would a man get married?

Most Men dont bond with their Children, that's why the children give more love to their mothers than fathers, and some Nigeria men are the worst, you will see in America where when the woman gives birth, the man will help in feeding and taking care of the baby but in Nigeria everything is left for the woman, even to change diaper the man cannot do it, they just think it's just to provide money but money is not love and affection.
The children grow up been more comfortable with their mothers even when the fathers comes home, all they do is Scold and treat the children like they are in a military camp "Have you done your assignment" " have you done this" " have you done that" the children can't even laugh with their dad or talk with their dad.
The child upbringing is left with the mothers so when the child grow up, he or she naturally focused more on the mother than the father because that who he loves more.
Fathers should remember that for love to be strong, it should be nurtured, just because you gave birth to the children doesn't mean they will love you like that if you dont nurtured the love.

There was one man that lost his wife and they had 2 little girls, one was 9 the other was 7, the man was working a very flexible job but still the man pack the children to stay with his dead wife siblings because he couldn't take care of his own children, so tell me if tomorrow the children are not close to their father, people will say Men dont get love and they are only money making machines

I like this part " With God we can achieve all things, nothing is impossible" Amen to this.
I thank you Lord for today