₦airaland Forum

emmanuelewumi:
If you must marry avoid leeches and in-laws with an entitlement mentality if you want to go far

Poseidon000:
Sup guys. I've something that have always earned the acme of my discountenance. And that's how men crudely jump into marriage in other to conform to societal dictate or for some selfish satisfaction.
This have gotten me pensive and I'll make no ado in getting to the nucleus of the issue.

Yesterday, I was headed toward gwarimpa, and on my way I noticed a disheveled young guy around Efab estate trekking by the express.
As a rule, I always give such guys 'lift,' because i was once with a female colleague in a lonely path that seldom have cars coming our way, suddenly one private car stopped and when I tried entering after my female colleague boarded, the SIMPson bounced me out and zoomed off with an empty back seat.

That incident birthed in me a sense of solidarity and understanding of what men go through just for being men, but yesterday, I was so incensed by a botch job my mechanic did that I drove past. After about 4 hours when I had everything sorted and was heading back, I saw the same guy heading toward my direction again(it's a dual carriage way) and he was sweating profusely, so I beckoned on him to enter. We got talking and I inquired why he's trekking such a long distance. He said: he went to look for a job that wasn't successful and he's going back to Arab road.
But this is just a miniscule of the guy's travail. He grew up in abject poverty.In fact, they gave birth to him and his sister in an uncompleted building. His dad died in that building, his sister got pregnant for some riffraff and they started what we call "abuja marriage", his mom subsequently fell sick and died in the same uncompleted building. Then the owner of the building decided to complete it, and drove him away.

Now, this guy was able to get another uncompleted building to stay, and as I'm typing this, he's with wife and kids. This is a person that don't have food at home and can not afford N150 to and fro.

I gave him 10k but I was so mad with him; I mean, I was disconcertingly appalled that this guy will think of marriage in his privation. Why not be a little bit comfortable before considering marriage, instead to face life with the dignity of a breadline.

Sadly, this is the same mistake lot of guy's have been making thinking they'll fall into some stupendous money as soon as they marry, and this is mostly perpetuated by religious charlatans who say; a man's destiny is predicated on his future wife, that as soon as he gets married, the special blessing tied to marriage will start opening way for him.

That's a mendacious twaddle that will leave you in a precarious situation. Please guys, have 'comfort' afoot before you dabble into marriage.

What's your take on this?

kenzysmith:
The truth about the process of choosing BBNaija housemates. I fell for their scam by obtaining their form for two years in a row 2018 and 2019.

When I went for audition, if you see crowd. I went to the venue by 5am, the place still full. I was taken to a room and was asked stupid questions like do you have bank account, instagram accounts, Twitter acctount, how many followers do I have?

What is your plan when you win the money? I told them i never enter you done dey ask my plans. The girl wey dey ask me i just dey look her boobs dey salivate.

They told me if am picked, I should not tell anybody in my family and friends that I should not annouce it on social media. For my mind na so i wan use take turn celebrity. They said I should keep checking my email if i got their message so a lady asked me to sign in a register and put my number, mail address and my manager number.

Money I go use buy confirm food for house na use buy their rubbish form. If u see the gator wey i put for my new long sleeve is enough to peel an orange. Chai Ebuka and co if i call ogun now una go say i wicked.

Zooposki:
He was already dead by then. Aunty Kemi hinted us a few weeks back.

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright
What if he still fulfill his promise of calling
Probably call from the other side!


Anyway .. we should always enjoy ourselves... tomorrow nor sure at all
. I spoke to him just three hours before his reported death, and he promised to further call me tomorrow

That is it
Our tomorrow is never guaranteed

sarrki:
That why I marveled at those see acquiring wealth as a do or die

Those who do evil and harbor evil intentions against fellow being as dumb

pocohantas:
I hear say the olosho there na semi-premium. Na my colleague tell me o. How him take know, I don’t know.

seunmsg:
Death is inevitable and nobody is sure of tomorrow. Stop wishing death on others. So many people who wished Buhari dead in 2015 had since died and Buhari is stil very much alive. Be guided.

TooMuchStuff:
Giamm....!

Buhari is a foreigner from Niger Republic.
We know this fact since 1930. Same for almost 70% of all Hausafulanis Muslims politicians in the North. No diff between Northern Nigeria and Niger Republic people.

Bekool:
You write as if you are the governor of cross river state.

GboyegaD:
It is well. The report NAF released portray it to be a mistake. Why then do we need publish his pictures?

SAMBARRY:
Smh


The holy book says a fool and his money are soon seperated


If you are a fool and you have 500 billion,if you have poverty of the mind and brain, you will loose it


Hushpupi lacks wisdom.a rich man without wisdom will still go back to square one

Another issue is that he was not a giver.how can a woman who was good to you during your broke days just give her a paltry ₦5000


If at all you're stingy you should have helped her renovate her shop and give her better equipments for her buisness since she was a kind buisness woman

This days how many food sellers sell food with compassion?