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Abikoko9:
How poor man go de get Erection

MALIGNANTGuest:
... na normal thing Abroad naaa
BRO, calm down you will save more money.
Abroad reduces your LIBIDO and makes you a Real Man. We have been through it. U won't die.
That's the reason most abroad based men are not moved by women. They are very careful with them. They avoid women at all cost. They rarely do the bidding of ladies especially if they have Legal residency permit.

Bro, I'm Disappointed in you but here is my Free Advice for you;
Avoiding Trouble Abroad starts with keeping Ladies at Arms length. Get good Cameras installed in your apartments. Get HD Camera installed in Caps and shirts.
The public rushes to believe them first especially when they start weeping. No one asks if they are lying or not. Avoid them now. It pays. How many weddings have u attended since u got dia?
Better ask questions before proposing!

Only the Pirate of the Carribean has won his case against a lady in 30years. He shared his secret.
Make ur MONEY! EASY MONEY, in hard currency!
Avoid them now. I have warned you!

swarley75:
This your opinion will only ginger some women the more, a few married women i have as friends always say that as long as their husband is dropng money for food they dont care if he keeps malice with them for a year. Them go say if he is tired he will come and beg them. How will you feel as man if you are dropping at home yet your wife is sleeping around and she doesn't allow to sleep with her?

As a man you need to take charge of your household or your relationship.

ecolime:
We can now see the true racists between Democrats and Republicans. I love GOPs that are racist, they will let you know straight up and you avoid them. But the evil Democrats, they form woke, all-inclusive but all na wash. They are snakes & hard core pretenders.

Biden and his cohorts are a sham. They act like they truly love non-whites whereas it's only their votes they need.

Their stupid excuse is they don't support the Durban resolutions which includes reparations to former colonies by colonial masters.

China that we much malign even voted YES

This is an eye opener to we asslickers of these Western folks. I love and prefer them to the east because opportunities abound there for everyone irrespective of your origin but the truth is they are RACIST and hate people of my kind of colour.

Our children will always be treated as inferior because they are blacks. I don't see this changing in generations to come.

Sad reality

CaveAdullam:

DAY 283, REDPILL 2022

Women don't have love to give, it is men trying hard to force it out of them.

Handle them according to their nature and you'll find peace.

Authority: Positve masculinity.

Montaque:
The sum of all marriage is compromise. From the beginning of it to the end of it, you must compromise, withdraw or let go of some of your standards. The issue is if what you are forgoing is fundamental to the existence of the marriage itself - like genotype, religion, upbringing or temperament. There are other fundamental issues tho.

In your case,
1. That she comes from a poor home may not be an issue. Almost every person who is rich today wasn't born with a silver spoon. What can compensate for it is whether the girl thinks profitably, not being poor and comfortable with poverty. Is she good with making money? Can she survive with you? Has she suffered poverty enough to hate it with all she's got? If she is a hustler, go fo her, the rich kids may even discourage your enterprise because she has a backup.

2. Education. My brother, these days I don't rate education that much because it sometimes make people dull and regimented especially those who carry certificate on their head like it's the sum of their being. Most uneducated women are doing well in other ventures. Does she look like someone who can make money unofficially? Salary isn't also the glory now like it used to be. Infact when you start giving birth with her, you will appreciate an unofficial business woman to a corporate wife.

3. Poor background. Read again what I said earlier. You fear her siblings will depend on you. It's a normal apprehension. But you can draw lines starting from now on how you want your marriage to be. Mind you, your in-laws are family and you can't run away from them. But you can draw boundaries they won't cross, as long as you carry your wife along on this. To even shock you, the rich homes have the most burdensome inlaws. They will camp at your home providing food for your but controlling your affairs. The poor ones will thank you for removing one extra load and will leave you so as not to be an extra burden. I am speaking from personal experience here

Beauty. This may be a fundamental issue depending on how you see it. What I mean is if you put a high price on beauty that on intellect and "bedroom beauty". Yes, there is bedroom beauty and their is social beauty. You see a man glorify his wife so much but the woman is not attractive to you outside. When she undresses, is she beautiful? Some people get beautiful as they age. Height can be compensated with yours, in your kids. But if her beauty will be a problem to you in future, in thinking you made a mistake, that is a serious issue.

PhantomThief:
NEVER LOWER YOUR STANDARD FOR ANY WOMAN
But you can keep dating her till you meet the real LOYL and then dump her because this woman will do the same thing to you if they found a better option than you without any form of regret. Never date or marry someone that will become a liability to you. It is that simple.

For the part where you said she is a virgin. All I have to say is LOL!!!!! Don't fall for that scam

jeromestarks:
Disvirgin her sharp sharp and see how you will come to like her standard.
Oga, go and marry that girl and take good care of her. She deserves it.

No matter the attitude she put up later in your marriage, never let her go. I repeat, NEVER LET HER GO!
Love her, teach her with love, care for her, defend her and cherish her.


As for the siblings, you didn't marry them so don't kill yourself over their matter. Do what you can do for them and leave what you can't do.


Best of luck son.

Owen247:
U said shes a good lady right, and here u are emotionally abusing her because of what? nce cert and co.

if she was the one telling you dat ur not her standard what would u say or do? Dont be emotionless and be doin to people what u cant endure.

maybe she presented herself wit ful innocens to u dats why u dnt value her. Pls leave her so dat sm one dat wil value her wil meet her.

last last since u cant compromise, f your standards.

kacglobal:
Never lower your standards for any lady. Remember she will not lower hers for you. If tables were turned. She would rather trash you.

Ladies are always loyal to their true emotions. And they will never do anything not beneficial to them. Hence the selfish attitude.

You yourself knows exactly why she's interested in you. Remove all those benefits that comes with you. She won't want to be around any longer.

placeofallure:
I pity you if that's exactly your thoughts. You'll let some trolls who had no control over their own life mislead you in life.

First and foremost, women do lower their standards for men if they're in love. Get that belief off of your head that they don't.

Secondly, to ba ri se, ma pe paddy e l'ole. What standard are you talking about? You sound like some pompous, overbearing slave master. Do you know where she's coming from? It's either you like her enough to share or you don't. You already even anticipate her family will be leeches and needy. Some people are poor but they keep their dignity intact.

I won't tell you to marry her, Lord of Standards, if she doesn't merit your aggrandized benchmark or calibre. Just let her know on time so she doesn't invest her priceless emotions where it'll never yield returns.

Good luck to you.

udomma1005:
This dude is not a rich fella, just a wannabe. Any person who's actually rich doesn't rub it on people's faces just like that. What's your definition of riches and what level have you attained that makes you so confident to throw tantrums of being rich. Most commentators on Nairaland ferry privates or business class on a daily or two but none sews agbada with the inscription "Richie" to make a point here. The topic you brought up wasn't to seek advice but to advertise your "Richie" brand. If ur fable isn't a fable, the poor girl will suffer with a dictator like you've portrayed yourself.
No hard feelings, just my two kobo

Ebenman:
I meant a lady, and we got talking. After we talked, she began to show interest in me, but she wasn't my standard, so I wasn't feeling the same way.

My standard is:
1. At least a graduate
2. Self-sufficient (earning something reasonable)
3. At most 5-6 age difference
4. Cool and understandable
5. Not short

This lady, in particular, is an NCE holder working as a teacher, earning little because of her level of education. She is just in her early 20s, almost 8 years age different from me. She is from a poor background and has 2 other younger siblings. She is also not tall and looks like an average girl.

She is very decent (a virgin) and loyal to me. I have told her severally that she is not my standard and I wasn't interested in her, but she refused to listen and felt very insecure. Maybe because I earn well and she knows I will soon get married.

She now comes to my house almost every weekend because I am very accommodating. Recently she has been telling me to delete the pictures of other females friends, in which I asked her on what grounds I should do that.

Note: I don't want to invest in a lady that is not my wife, and I am afraid her family will see me as a rich guy from which her other siblings can benefit if I proceed with her.

Should I block every contact with her, or should I forget about standards and risk and look at the good side?

Please advice

Adonisteve:
ontarioache, you desperately need this thread.

tiswell:
Don't be like OP's ex wife who would always tell op to summarize.

na the matter we still dey settle

Iykenuwa:
Forgive her if she reaches out to apologise.

Obviously na small pikin de worry her.

JESHAL:
The true litmus test for a redpiller is when he has resources that enables him to simp and satiate his libido, can he handle himself when money comes, most will abandon the redpill praxeology when they get richer, that's the painful reality, the think when they get money they become invincible, they think money will immune them to the wiles of female nature.

H0didon:
Why he no go dey get plenty money?? . All these girls are nothing but leeches. All girls have price. Na why most men dey always spend but if you get sense you go take without paying , afterall not all goods are bought.

Ever since i stopped spending on woman, i have been doing fine. Now i know why most men dey always broke, hardly moving forward. Because of WOMAN who dem wan impress.

As a man, you're only liable to spend on your family especially your mother. Even wives today sef dey do hookup for their own husband. No house keeping money, No sex... Very useless people.



As our Ancestors would say "Only a WonderFOOL man spend on a woman to impress her or win her Love".

tensazangetsu20:
Nna men Na wa o. Well, oil and gas was the raining career till 2015 ish. I don't think anyone considers the oil and gas industry as a viable career path anymore except the persons head is under a rock. Now computer science isnt even easy to get anymore second highest cut off after medicine whereas when I left secondary school they were dashing people the course to do people no wan do.

Seun:
How about now?

heartofcity12:
#trp

SandraIkuboR:
(smiles)i guess you don't know who you are talking to

SandraIkuboR:
Please Please and Please No one should come on here to start trying to bash me or whatever

Don't start thinking that cos this is a faceless forum you can now come on here to start bashing people and saying what you like

I'm only trying to pass a message
So please don't try that with me!!!!!

HARDESTNIGGAINT:
THIS BIG BASHIRU NA BIG FOOL