JESHAL: Women have an unfair advantage because they peak early and understand their worth very early, they are taught by their mothers and the sisterhood early the power pussy has over men, they are ruthless in pursuing their mating strategy alpha buccs beta bucks/ cucks, at a young age men approach them giving them enough time to learn about us and adapt, they are evolutionary hardwired for manipulation, ask yourself when has a woman apart from your mother giving you something you needed without you benefiting her in on way or another with your attention or resources. When you were sexually hornny , you tried your best by gaming them via cold approach and we're even friendszone, women innately know about our sexual urges but don't care to reward us even with our efforts, how many women have offered you money or favors, how many women have giving you insightful ideas to navigate the harsh reality of life,how many women have shown you compassion, when you were down and depressed which gal was comforting you, when you were going through tough times which gals was there
Women are mercenaries, it's only when things are going well for you in terms of security( finances) that they will want to share the blessings with you but in dark times, when you are broke and lonely, you will never feel the warmth loving breasts of women, you will never see their kindness,you will never see her mercy and compassion, and you chase money, pushing boundaries, overcoming all the odds, only to pedestalize and supplicate to a narcissistic entitled self seeking hoe who treats you like thrash, gives you attitude, is very lazy, she's cold hearted and very ruthless in exploiting you, you can see all this butt you blinded by hopeless romanticism, you tolerate all her nonsense because of scarcity, they tear down your esteem and you are ok with it
It's well
How can I like this 100000 times? This post right here needs to be printed on the front page of all national dailies for at least one week.
You really wrote well bro.
Words on marble. Let those who have ears, make good use of them.
adambeatz: Gentlemen of this platform, what in the world would make a man feel he could dictate the course of destiny.
Probably this could be as a result of programming received during your early years. Brother lemme say this “THERE IS NO NOBILITY IN POVERTY” there never has been & never would be.
If your in doubt let’s meet you in IKEJA, I’ll show you a 18 year old boy who you would not be able to speak unless spoken to by him. Drop your location make 18year old boy clear your doubt. If you don’t start addressing him as sir within a few hours I’ll credit you 10k Instanta no long cap, Wetin I Dey talk sef, na en go credit you
Op was such a sick simp. Trying to play Mr Nice guy to the new girl just to get into her pants. Yet he didn't achieve hsi aim and the girl was also amongst those that laughed at him.
This is what happens when guys refuse to learn. Stop playing nice to these girls. Well, y'all simps will continue to learn the hard way.
Mystery2020: "They finally employed you. I hope you have a strong shoe", she said. I did not understand what the teller meant.
I had spent about a quarter in this new generation bank, I was ridiculed, insulted and bullied by the head teller and cash officer who is a Unilag graduate, the branch manager (BM) who once accused me of stealing, and my new supervisor who just got back from maternity leave.
This new supervisor, Fatima, was a curvy ebony naturalised Hausa-Fulani woman. One day, she asked if I have a lover. Then told me to come along with her for a drink. She wanted to take me out after the naming ceremony of the head teller's new baby, but I refused to attend. The following week, she began telling other staff members that I am stubborn. This was the genesis of my problem with her.
A lot of flirting used to happen in that place. Only two of the women out of eight were spared; one Yorubanised Hausa woman and maybe the CSM. Even the CSM gave me flirty looks several times. One of the tellers once called me gay. Asking if I don't have erections.
A new girl was hired. She was an introvert like me, but from Enugu state and a graduate of ESUT. Coincidentally, one of the Yoruba staff and a Business Administration graduate of OOU served in her village. This young lady, an Anglican, can be mistaken as the daughter of the Nollywood and Yoruba language actress popularly known as Lanre Hassan.
She made it known to management that she prefer to be in operations. However, she was brought to marketing. She said they told her point blank at head office HR that all employees in our cadre must first work as a marketer regardless of their qualifications. She had no choice but to accept the offer, so I decided to help her adjust and settle down.
The BM is a Catholic, who once forgot to attend Ash Wednesday mass despite always wearing a rosary. He is the temperamental type who takes first impression seriously. He is the first child of his family, and was often tasked with carrying the ladder up and down the streets of Nnewi for NITEL technicians when they're trying to fix the family's landline. His first car, a Honda "baby boy" Accord was stolen at gun point.
The BM, owns a shell company with address in Lekki where proceeds from dubious deals are laundered. Some of these proceeds he shared among the operations staff headed by one pretty lady; a charismatic Catholic & graduate of Ekpoma. I was told by a teller that this lady (CSM) once approached the manager to give her and the boys 'something'. This teller lives in a 'selfcon' in Surulere, which he inherited from his grandmother.
They tested me withing my first week of resumption. They sent me to a customer; a Micro Finance bank in Ikeja, with a t-fare double the required amount. When I returned, I wanted to return the balance but they all ignored me. They sent me to the MFB again the following day. I simply used the balance from the previous day. I thought I did the right thing, not knowing that they only wanted to know whether I came to Lagos to "count bridge". A question the 'Surulere' teller eventually asked me rhetorically.
They lied to me that I can not request for a t-fare lower than what I got previously again, because they will be queried by internal control. A lady in the customer care unit who attended FGGC Calabar, tried to ginger me not to answer them, but I gave in and continued to accept the bogus t-fare. Months later, the OOU graduate told me to stop behaving like a saint, that even my then supervisor who is married to an Mbaise woman collects double of that figure.
Just before the ESUT lady resumed, the manager withdrew the branch car from me, then gave me a target to open 80 accounts, sell 40 cards/POS, and mobilise ₦40 million, all within a month among other tasks. He was also using me as his P.A. and 'man Friday' for his exportation business & family Charity.
The manager refused to give the ESUT girl targets. He played a smart one by asking her, "Do you know what your target is"? She answered "no". While walking away & pointing to me, the manager said to her, "Ask him". I responded like an imbëcile; 80 accounts, 40 cards/POS, ₦40million monthly. To add salt to injury, the branch car was made available to her most times.
She was given tasks that will make her develop faster as a banker. While I was left to roam about the streets of Lagos on foot like a lunatic, who is possessed by a legion of vagabond spirits recently rendered homeless by D.K. Olukoya of MFM. Three months later, our mate in another branch told me he never go on errands without their branch car, and that he even took driving lessons with it. Na dis kind people fit the industry. Lol.
This new girl almost made the same 'first impression' blunders I made that earned me the title of "the laziest staff the manager as ever seen". I was there for her at every step, mentoring her and teaching her how to deal with them (other staff members). I will defend her in her absence whenever they speak ill of her, and always advise her on how to correct these bad impressions. I never knew that I myself had become the topic of their gossips. They gossip me even with cleaners, drivers and security men.
There was a day I came late due to an accident in which my knees were bruised. They were still in the morning meeting when I got there. The BM queried "why are you just coming? who died?". "I will make this place unbearable for you if you don't sit up".
Then the scheming against me began to heat up. She joined them to gossip me. There was a time I caught three of them by the elbow; Fatima, ESUT girl and CSM. The Ambrose Ali lady (CSM) quickly lied that the manager was asking of me. I knew she was lying but just had to leave the room. I was thinking the ESUT girl will gist me later. I am still waiting for the gist as I type this föölish epistle.
Then ESUT girl started mocking me codedly. "You are going again?" She will ask with a sadistic smile whenever I am about leaving for marketing.
For six months they tried to destroy me psychologically. I will save what they did for later. My mates in V.I., Apapa, Nnamdi Azikiwe, and somewhere else in Lagos Island which I won't mention got similar toxic treatments, but with different flavours.
Their breakthrough came during an arranged MPR meeting where I was thoroughly mocked by all the staff. The BM even called me a slowpoke. ESUT girl laughed at their insults to my dismay. Then the manager noticed my mood has changed, & sensed the opportunity to go in for the kill. Stand up!", he shouted at me, I refused. They all shouted, stand up! even the ESUT girl. Then the head teller said in Yoruba, what the hell is wrong with this boy?" That got me really pissed off. I scanned the room, my previous supervisor was biting his lips and smiling slightly. The manager snapped his fingers at me, making the impression of 'I will deal with you'.
The CSM called me for a chat, she pretended as if she cared. But her opening statement gave her away. "What you did was very rude", referring to the MPR incident. She wasn't present. Her, the first teller who asked me if I have a strong shoe, the FGGC Calabar lady, and one other teller, a man from Kwara, left the room to attend to a matter before the attack happened.
She kept going round in circles, asking stupid questions like do I have problems convincing people to open accounts? Asking me if anyone in the branch offended me. Asking me to tell her what they did wrong so that they can avoid such mistakes in the future. I was now convinced it was an exit interview. I got to know they planned the whole thing a couple of months before.
By 12 noon I got a one-page query for insubordination and two other offences; the third was a serious one. He copied the HR Business Partner who was a graduate of English Language, and 2 other executives. I won't be surprised if he did a Blind Carbon copy to the entire banking group. I replied in three lines. Business partner said I should report to a particular HR staff on Friday of that week.
On Monday, I reported to head office, HR staff has gone on leave. It was another HR officer who attended to me. A short lady, she covered her ID card so I didn't see her name. She asked, "What did you do to them that made them write all those things against you?" I did not do anything, I replied. "And they wrote all those things", she said. "They can not all be bad people", she continued. She said I showed too much anger in my reply to the query. She then went on to give me a lecture on anger management. I kept looking like mumu.
Worried about my calmness, she asked me what the problem was. I told her I have become addicted to painkillers. She asked what my future career plan is, and I told her. Of course it was not banking. She said there are more mad people in that particular sector. She said they will get back to me.
My system password was about to expire the week of the incident, but I didn't reset it. I came around Tuesday morning to know my fate, nothing.
On Wednesday, BM showed me a letter from HR Business Partner dated Tuesday, indicating that I was done. "This is what I have been telling you", he said. He asked me to login and send my handover note but I told him I can't. He was trying hard to hold his laugh.
A month later, I was getting strange calls from unknown numbers. Maybe they wanted to know if I have committed suicide. By the grace of God I am gainfully employed.
Oga you were a simp. A big simp!! And that my problem with fools like you. You just don't have sense.
The new girl came and you tried to play Mr Nice guy by being an extra helping hand for her. What did you get in return? She still was among those that mocked and laughed at you.
I know you wanted to get into her pants and that was why you were being nice. But it backfired, as expected.
Mr man, stop being nice to girls. You will never benefit anything from that. Funny enough, it is the guy who doesn't give a shit about her that she will Bleep.. While you , white Knight in shining armour, gets nothing.
When are men going to learn that they'll benefit nothing from being Mr nice guy.
Even if uih wanted to Bleep that girl, giving her no attention and even being mean would have gotten you into her pants faster than being such a simp.
Mumu, now the girl follow mock you, still follow gang up against you. Tell me, wetin you gain, Mr simp?
McDuncan: The OP unwittingly proved men right for shying away from marital entanglement with richer women by alluding thus; "men need to realise that times are changing a submissive woman is an illusion, particularly one who has money with her senses intact "
Women are by nature rebellious and the only thing that motivates them is greed. Be it what they put in their mouths as food and what they wear as cloths. They're greedy creatures. The earlier men soon found this out and worked harder to win her. For the far greater part of our history and existence, and even to this present day, women in the most part have willingly designated themselves as prize/trophy for the most successful of men. From the most successful hunter, to the bravest warrior, to the richest man, women have for centuries lined up to have a chance to be snapped up by highly successful men. Whether the man is married is a distant irrelevant matter. So who can blame men for prioritising wealth? Only someone like the OP who's basking in self-deceit.
Marrying a richer woman is going too far adrift into tempestuous waters. The truth is, marrying one even with a bigger ambition would surely land you in trouble with her insatiable greed. Humanity wouldn't have sustained itself this far if women had had the money controlled by men. The four corners of the world would have been plaqued by severe depopulation, bringing humanity and civilisation to a screeching halt. A survey rightly points that 4 in 5 women would choose career over giving birth and raising a family.
In yet another self-mocking allusion, the OP made another disgustingly dishonest remark; "you men should up your game and stop attaching your worth to money be something else be kind, respectful, caring, loving, talented, visionary, skillful, have good manners, neat, a team player etc."
Anything other than being rich and power (with his senses intact). In plain words, don't be an alpha male even though you're rich. But according to her, richer women should break free from all chains of submission. The only way women feel secure is when men stoop down to their level. Men are completely forbidden to assert their power and dominance. Its called abusive. But when done by a woman it's given a new name -- emancipation.
Let's take a look at the qualities she highlighted for men to strive for in the paragraph above; the 'hopeless' boy in the church choir, the guy living next street running a makeshift hair saloon, the N-POWER beneficiary, the corper she met during youth service all had those aforementioned qualities but she didn't bring any of them home as suitors. But she'd populate her Facebook and whatsapp status with pictures of a rich and affluent stranger she spent a one night stand with just for show-off.
Truth and women don't see eye to eye hence the make-up/cosmetic business keep thriving.
Jayzx: Well, she is gone finally. I summoned courage, wrote some heart touching messages, then block her. Now seems my strength is returning. If she is meant for me she would find a means to apologise and if not we meuve. Sometimes it is very necessary as a man to uphold our ego
Oga I will tell you what people here haven't told you. YOU ARE A HUGE SIMP. you are such a disgusting, irritating, weak and effeminate simp. Aren't you ashamed of yourself? Girl tell you make you wiay for over four months you dey dey wait.
The funny thing is, this is July and you probably have not found another girl . Even if you have, you're probably simping for her.
You exude too much feminine energy. Even after all the advice given to you here, you still went ahead to pen down what you call an emotional message to her before blocking her.
This shows you're such a weak and effeminate man.
Guy go check out the Redpill thread on Nairaland and start reading from page 1. That will be the only hope for you to ever quit your weak mindset.
You are still a simp and judging by your responses, you will still be easily preyed on and manipulated by other girls in the future.
You lack frame, you lack confidence, you lack an abundance mindset, you are sexually starved, you cannot control your libido, you yearn for female validation and above all, you lack common sense.
Reminderz: @ your first paragraph, this is why one of the greatest tactics redpill talks about is unpredictability. you don't get to use the same tactic or make the same movements over and over again. you shuffle it up. if you make the same movement over and over again, one of these things will happen. it's either she get bored of it since she knows what you can do or can't do, or you become too predictable (all talk and no actions)...
secondly, a lot of guys who's looking for the truth don't read to fully understand what a quote or statement about redpill truly means before they make their move.. a woman respects a man who can walkaway from a relationship doesn't mean when she does something insignificant (not cheating), you begin threaten her to leave the relationship, or you begin to use swear or threat words.. at first, she will be shaken, but if you continue using that same line, your words will no longer hold any power.. and don't forget, wherever possible, always say less than necessary... less talk, more actions... this is also the same as, women wants a man who's liable to cheat, or has plenty of opportunities to cheat or has many options.. (which they can see), but choose her.. it shows that he's a man of value and a kind of man people wants.. it's not the same as they love a man cheating..
secondly, men want peace and women wants drama.. love is war .. this means that, you have to be able to give her drama even if she's not a dramatic person (this is what modern women refer it to now like it's something to be proud of). you have to be able to give her drama because, drama brings emotions and emotions make her more emotionally attached to you and which thereby increase the pairbonding ability you guys share.. you have to be ABLE to make her cry (I did not say you should beat her ooo ), sad, happy, moody, emotional, excited and the likes.... give her these drama and also make sure she's able to give you the peace you wanted.. this is why men always retire to where they can find peace... don't trade your peace for any b!tch. you'll deeply regret it...
I didn't say you should find or date dramatic women (believe me, there's a difference; nothing to be excited about being dramatic/crazy ass or able to cause chaos), but be able to give her drama in any way possible as you guys get along together as the situation calls.... in order not to become boring, or predictable... in IM words, "if you can't offend her, you can't fvck her".. more reason women seems to love guys who seems toxic or able to initiate violence, because these guys bring drama into her life ... (not talking about domestic violence).
the moment a woman can predict what you can do or not do, you're done for!... redpill tactics like having other options, spinning plates, marrying more than one wife, calling a woman out on her BS, and the likes, is meant to eliminate oneitis mindset from men and make them remain at the top of their game, which of course make them stay unpredictable. never forget the keyword..
RedChiefPriest: Hmmm lol Some of you men are funny for real You don't believe you deserve good things but you sha have to slave for you to be a real man. Na why I like women,they sabi how to make you treat them well and enjoy life .
Buy charger every week because she's going to spoil her charger? Charge the powerbanks because she will just come and use anyone when she needs it? Does that even look sane to you? When mama spoil charger 2 times,she will start buying her own. When you use up the battery of the power bank,why won't you charge it? Na mumu thing be that. Helping out in the kitchen is cool actually, you talk and bond more self unless she does not approve. Helping out around the house is sane also,they don't have to tell you that one. With all the epistles written above, a man is to do this and do that,what should the woman do for the man? No gift for the man,nothing to make his own life easy from the wife ba? Oh! I forgot,as a man slave for the family and make sure your wife is happy or else you're not a real man . God punish the society definition of a real man.
Dj! Plenty kegs of palmwine for me and other people interested Barman! Play me "Manipulated Man" by Joseph Yobo and Kim Kardashian.
manuelkel: Let me tell you a short story that happened to me and my boss at Orlu, Imo state 2020 during lockdown. My boss and I went for Leave(Nigerian Brewery Company Amah,Enugu) We travelled to Orlu to spend some times,we hooked up with 2ladies and headed to a hotel. My boss's room was adjacent to mine. As late as 2A.M I could hear my boss shouting and pleading for life's mercy. The whole hotel was stunt, the manager had no option but to break the door. We found my boss panting and shaking with only his boxers on. We took him down to the reception hall, he stood still and dumb for roughly 4hours. At last he spoke to us "I tried having sex with her she refused, I didn't force her,late that night,I needed to cuddle her,I felt her skin very slippery and cold, I put on the light,it was faulty. I flashed my phone, lo and behold a huge python on bed with me, with mouth wide open. I shouted and started begging her. She confessed she was sent to get a male for another rituals of hers,but because I didn't force her for sex she said she'd not take me that I'm not a sex freak. She disappeared" the bed was wet like say na rain beat am. Pls, this is a true life story. The girl I was with that night got arrested, she was later confirmed not knowing anything about her friend. She too was stunned that her friend was a marine spirit. I'm still in touch with her, up to date she's still not heard from her friend.
JESHAL: No matter what you do for a lady,she will never appreciate it,that's why I tell guys to be STINGY.if you spend your resources on a girl,she will use those resources to upgrade herself and look for a better guy
JESHAL: You should be glad you lost love and the ability to develop emotional bonding with women leading to one-titis due to your redpill awareness because those ladies do not and will never love you whether you have money or not, money can only buy a lady's attention, women don't love at all, they only have lust which is alpha fuccs geniune desire, the remaining time they are looking for men to be used, on the bright side you will be able to control your feelings and sexual urges, you won't be delusional in your expectations from women when spinning plates, you won't try to woe over women by spending your resources, you won't give women unnecessary attention, you will only deal with high interest women.
The government needs to start giving serious attention to Nnewi.
Its so sad that the town has failed to realise its potentials.
Nnewi is a major economic hub of Anambra State. But sadly, instead of the town to metamorphose into a city in its own right, it is retrogressing into a giant slum.
Nnewi, Onitsha and Awka are the major hubs of Anambra State and the government should do more to ensure that these towns grow into cities. Nnewi's case is just so pathetic. 80% of roads in Nnewi are bad. There are illegal structures everywhere, leading to even more narrow roads. There are huge heaps of dirt along major roads. Nkwo Nnewi is also an eyesore.
You can't even comfortably drive a car from point A to point B if it is more than 10 kilometers, because you are bound to get into bad roads
The street lights along the roads are not even functioning.
In fact, it is a necessity to own a motor bike in Nnewi as that is the only effective way to get around.
JESHAL: Keep the women you like for LUST, but the ones who like you, keep them for potential LOVE,but understand when a woman is desperate to settle down and when she has high interest and genuine desire for you especially when you are doing well for yourself, don't ever fall in love with a woman that makes it hard for you to get sex
True. Ubunja elucidated this in one of his miseducations.
Hanz1: Your brother is being manhandled by a girl and all he could do was run to you crying. You didn't land him a slap to teach him how to be a man?
And imagine, same girl came to your own house and and had the gut to disrespect you in your own living room - and you didn't send her useless azz out with d yeye boyfriend you call a brother?
But you are here on Nairaland asking how to help your weak brother chase out a bratty girl?
I think your brother took after you. I mean no insult, but both you guys are weak.
Nobody comes to your own house and insult you - what da heck!
That being said, if your brother can't deal with the issue physically, he can handle it mentally.
He simply has to go to d police and they will help her pack her tinniest baggages
This is just the truth. Both the op and his brother are disgusting weaklings.
I can't ever have such a moronic brother. Ever!
OP your brother is a weakling and a slowpoke. If he doesn't know what to do, he should keep funding a bully in his own house
God.. Mek these type of stupid girls mek mistake cross my path.
40fy: **In his quest to become a fûckin' "REDPILLER", after the díckhead emptied his fuckin' bank account for those hood little girls without seein' their fuckin' panties; mothafucka ended a bigger and better SIMP!!
**I know you're distressed!! Nevertheless, fúck outta my face, nigga!!
40fy: **Walkin' díck!! Poo-ass lickin' dumb-shít!! Who thinks callin' women "ho's" and "bítches" makes him a fûckin' "red-piller"!! Funny stuff, there's a hood lunatic like you out there addressin' your sister and prolly your daughter as "ho's" and "bítches" !! And that makes you happy??
**Can't you see that?? You are the REAL mothafuckin' simp here, nigga!!!
WatchYourSix: How many times have you heard from female nairalanders that "her past is not your business"
Una don see how olosho past dey become innocent man business...??
Make una Continue....you hear!! nor check well who you dey enter relationship with....Straff wey you no know whem them straff their self don become your problem...
Mumu said "what do we do"... as in "we"..?? u no tell am make she carry her wahala dey go...."her sexual past is not your business"
U better shine your eyes..e fit be say dem dey run you street...small time..u go hear..."baby please lets pay him to leave us alone"
JESHAL: Let no one lie to you about developing attraction,it's primal. Attraction happens within milimeters of seconds and you are either seen as a worthy partner or a betabox provider.If you're not attractive, women will turn you down over and over again or they use you to further their selfish motives.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by satandeterrible: 7:23pm On Jul 23, 2022
.. this means that, you have to be able to give her drama even if she's not a dramatic person (this is what modern women refer it to now like it's something to be proud of). you have to be able to give her drama because, drama brings emotions and emotions make her more emotionally attached to you and which thereby increase the pairbonding ability you guys share.. you have to be ABLE to make her cry (I did not say you should beat her ooo 
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