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Islam for Muslims / Re: Islam For Muslims: Side Talk Station by Saucyxo: 7:34am On Sep 16, 2019
Empiree:
Case Closed. You have said it all. From your write up i see no difference btw humans on the bone of contention. They are all guilty.


Modified

Chai, I realized what you considered "insult" for calling "you" stupid. I was wondering where I called you stupid. Kindly return to the page and quote me on its entirety. If you read in context I didn't call you stupid. Stupid in that sentence was universal and not specific to you.



Yep. You a real one. We cant give out to muslims for pedophilia because Catholics do it too. Why didnt I think of that cheesy

You did.

Empiree:
Bro, so you dont think too?. I asked a question the dude can't answer and you followed his stupidity, too?

You said I didn't think. You also said I followed his stupidity meaning I'm stupid. Anyways, I dont need you to you to manipulate your grammar. It's not my business. Its between yourself and your God. We are both muslims. We know the power of intentions wink. I've done my part of asking you apologise so I can forgive you, so God will forgive you.

You can play grammatical mathematics with God if you want.
Islam for Muslims / Re: Islam For Muslims: Side Talk Station by Saucyxo: 12:17am On Sep 16, 2019
Empiree:
not interested in your essay but this. Were you there or you relied on online data?. You said it is prevalent in muslims countries yet Vatican is inundated with child abuses which we read online everyday and heard on the news everyday. Yet, you picked up on muslims to justify your position. Whether it is true or not is none of my business bcus i can't control the situation. And I have personally not met any muslim man who married "underage" girl. I did prove to you earlier that there are false information online displaying little children (girls) who accompany grooms during marriage ceremony. This is culture in some parts of arab world. It is this kind of thing media made up and tell you that muslims married young girls. I posted screenshot saying muslims are allowed to rape young girls but we know for fact it is not true. So this is online nonsense you relied on for saying majority of muslims countries practice pedophilia?. This is pathetic you know.

Lol. I'm not talking about the Vatican. Okay the Vatican have a reputation of pedophilia. Those priests are disgusting. They're terrible. They shouldnt do such disgusting things. I dont understand, where did I say only Muslim men have an issue with pedophilia. Like I dont understand.
Even if its 10 muslims doing it, I will pick on them!!!! Absolutely. Even if it's one!!! I'm a muslim. I will call it out.

I cited the United nations. Please honest question. Didn't you learn about primary and secondary sources of data in primary/secondary/university/college?

The united nations do their own research. They are a primary source of data. They even have data on child marriages in your favourite USA. Over 100,000 disgusting child marriages. Not compared to the over 10million in muslim sub saharan Africa and Muslim asian countries.

Btw stop citing random tv shows and random articles as fact. You're a grown man, use articles from highly reputable websites or research databases. Come on.
Islam for Muslims / Re: Islam For Muslims: Side Talk Station by Saucyxo: 12:08am On Sep 16, 2019
Empiree:
What did i accuse you of?. You accused me of pedophilia or promoting it when in fact, i am not. Have you apologized for that?

Another false accusation! They're piling up oo. Looool.
I've never accused you of being a pedophile.

If you need a refresher.

Demmzy15:
Empiree has a right to air his opinion, it doesn't concern me. But yours is plainly stupid and silly. You obviously don't have shame, so you'll allow your mom, wife and daughter go topless? Wooow!!! You must be a proud dayooth, and unfortunately, a man who doesn't have protective jealousy over his women is a pussssy and a joke!

Saucyxo
It kinda does concern you. If you stay quiet and stand in solidarity with him then you agree with him. Pedophilia is disgusting and should be cautioned. We are our muslim brothers keeper x

I never said you were a pedophile. I said you advocated for it. And I said you've made many insinuations that it was okay. Which you have. smiley.

You called me stupid. And you said I dont think. Both of which are negative and not in my character. Apologise.
Islam for Muslims / Re: Islam For Muslims: Side Talk Station by Saucyxo: 12:01am On Sep 16, 2019
Empiree:
oh no. Address the issue. You called me pedo because you failed to acknowledge my point. This is bcuz you and other fellows probably didn't pass reading test in high school.

Let me use this opportunity to briefly tell since you so failed to get it. What I'm doing is to EXPOSE double standards across the board on the issue of underage whether it happens in the Western world or Nigeria.

My point is you guys tend to quickly accused or object when it comes to muslim but if it involves Western world the only thing you guys would say is, "just because it is done in the US doesn't make it right". Why don't you say the same when it involves Muslims?. You are hardliners when it involves Muslims but "softliner" when it involves Western countries. This is double standards I tried to exposed but you guys freaking misunderstood all the time and I am tired.

Now look at this screenshots. This was the case I talked about earlier. Read yourself. Judge didn't even make any big deal about age. It is their people commenting talking about age.

If you fail to understand my point after this I'm done with you like dinner. More comments like these are still there.

Ah another false accusation!!!! Dont let them pile up oo. I've never called you a pedo. I said you advocate for it and I stand by my point. English was one of my best subjects in school actually.

Nobody... was... talking... about... double... standards...
I accused you of advocating for pedophilia. It's for you to tell me no saucyxo, pedophilia is wrong and disgusting and no one should do it. Or give me excuses you've been giving lati aro.

I did say that... I literally said just because muslims do it doenst make it right. Why do you care so much about western world? Like I dont get it. Nobody is talking about western world. I'm saying a high population of muslims do something, it is wrong. Let's acknowledge it is wrong. I dont care if they do it in the US. I've said like twice already, no matter where its done or who said it, it's wrong.

Lol are you alright ? Breathe babes breathe loooooool grin grin. Drink some chilled water. Relax.

We are not discussing double standards. Are you two years old. I have a lovely 3 year old cousin everytime I do something and she wants to do it and I say no, she says buuuuuuut you did itt. If I say a bad word and I scold her for saying it she says buttttt you said itttttt. Come on. You're a grown up. You can decipher between what is proper and what is not. If pedophilia isn't proper then US shouldn't do it and nor should Muslim men. I highlighted muslims because 1) I'm a muslim and 2) it is something that is prevalent amongst muslims and in muslim countries thus making it something that is important that we acknowledge and try to fix.
Islam for Muslims / Re: Islam For Muslims: Side Talk Station by Saucyxo: 11:45pm On Sep 15, 2019
Empiree:
Stop giving me bullcrap excuses. I have said like 3 times in this thread that a guy appeared on Judge Judy with his baby mama and he is much older than his babymama. Judge Judy is very strict especially when it come to money issue. Why not call authority to arrest the guy?. All the cases i cited here the men are not on the run. Again, please go to previous pages and read about a lady who was a yr or two older than her husband on paternity court. Many comments on youtube said why was she not arrested for having sex with underage?. Her boyfriend was 12 at the time they had baby together. Stop your emotional nonsense. Authority would persecutes if it is in their best interest. Again, the lady on paternity court who is older than her husband was not on the run.

"Anyone who falsely accuses a believer, male or female, of what is not in him on the Day he will be raised he will remain in ‘tinat khabal’ until he is released from it.” Someone asked: “What is tinat khabal?” He (a.s.) said: “It is a kind of pus that is secreted from the sexual organs of prostitutes.”
“Backbiting is saying about your brother what Allah had hidden for him; but if you say what is not in him, then it is what Allah said in His Book: ‘He indeed takes upon himself the burden of a calumny and a manifest sin.’

Me I've done my part by asking you to admit fault and apologise oo. If you sleep and dont wake up (God forbid) without my forgiveness, its between yourself and God. smiley x
Islam for Muslims / Re: Islam For Muslims: Side Talk Station by Saucyxo: 11:38pm On Sep 15, 2019
Empiree:
Stop giving me bullcrap excuses. I have said like 3 times in this thread that a guy appeared on Judge with his baby mama and he is much older than his babymama. Judge Judy ia very strict especially when it come to money issue. Why not call authority to arrest the guy?. All the cases i cited here the men are not in the run. Again, please go to previous page and read about a lady who was a yr or two older than her husband on paternity court. Many comments on youtube said why was she not arrested for having sex with underage?. Her boyfriend was 12 at the time they had baby together. Stop your emotional nonsense. Authority would persecutes if it is in thier best interest. Again, the lady on paternity court who is older than her husband was not on the run.

Oh stop flaunting your ignorance. You know we used to be friends. I'm disappointed in you. So you advocate for pedophilia, apologise. I was right and you wrongfully called me stupid. We both know the rulings in Islam on falseful accusations and lying. smiley. Otherwise, let's leave it to God. We will meet on judgement day na. Lol. wink.
Islam for Muslims / Re: Islam For Muslims: Side Talk Station by Saucyxo: 11:28pm On Sep 15, 2019
Empiree:
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Oh my God. I'm actually so heartbroken. You put lines on my comment. Someone call the ambulance, how will I go on with my life ??
Islam for Muslims / Re: Islam For Muslims: Side Talk Station by Saucyxo: 11:27pm On Sep 15, 2019
Empiree:
unfortunately she deleted it. You are becoming nasty now. Very nasty. I am taking A, you are saying B. The law will persecute if it in their best interest. I'm not pervert and I don't do nonesense you posted. This is very silly of you. Swear now that they are no 30 yrs old grandma in America?. You said you went there before. Swear they don't exist?.

I provided evidences but you snubbed. Case closed. Go to previous pages, read and learn

Yes. Just like there are serial killers that haven't been caught. Just like there are rapists who walk free. Fraudsters. Armed robbers. It doenst mean if to decide to go rob a shop the US dont give a damn. They do.

Since we've determined now that you advocate for pedophilia. Apologise. Say you're sorry for calling me stupid and I was right. C'est fini. I pray your 20 year old daughter wont bring a 14 year old and say that's who she wants to marry wink. I'm sure you'll change your opinion them.
Islam for Muslims / Re: Islam For Muslims: Side Talk Station by Saucyxo: 11:19pm On Sep 15, 2019
Empiree:
madam, when exactly are you gonna read btw the lines?. I am honestly tired of how you reply sometimes. I have never said a grown man married underage in the US. I said and I have given practical examples here several time but you chose to ignore delibrately or not.

I said there are old guy who have impregnated what the law considered underage and the side was never arrested. I didn't say they married. I see you to go to previous pages. If you can't it is fine. Ofcourse, court will not honor a 25 yr old guy marry 13 yr old girl. Every case I cited evolved around baby mama baby daddy. .


Now, bcuz of what you said, I will go to my friend's fb page and screenshot her profile. I didn't want to do that but now I will as long as she hasn't deleted it. She briefly profiled herself back in 2015. Give me time to go and screenshot her page. I will be right back

Listen. Go on Twitter, write I am looking for a 13 year old to sleep with, I am xx years old. Arrange to meet up with a girl and then call the police. Finish. Be brave. Are you scared ni.

I've heard your example. You said the US dont care if about pedophilia. Do it. If you get away with it, no trouble, no warnings at all. I will send you £10,000. Simple.
Islam for Muslims / Re: Islam For Muslims: Side Talk Station by Saucyxo: 11:06pm On Sep 15, 2019
Empiree:
I showed a NAIRALAND member on WhatsApp about friend of mine who was 14 at the time she had her first child. Outside of wedlock ofcourse. Her baby daddy then was much older. He was over 18 at the time. This lady in question is about my age. At the time she got pregnant, to be honest, I didn't even know what bo*ob was like about the same age.

You forgot that women matured quicker than men 95% of the time. Now, whether she knew what she was doing or not which I believe she was, facts is the dude who got her pregnant should be jailed bcus the lady was minor by law. Now she's 40. Her baby she had then is now 25. The lady became grandma at 36.

Nigerians, I beg una, wake up. The reason you are saying all this is bcuz of Nigeria environment. US doesn't give a flying fvck. There are grandparents at 30yrs old. I am giving you 1st hand experience. But in Nigeria before you see a grandma she's probably 50 or over. It is different in US.

So now tide is charging in Nigeria in the past 17 years. You are now seeing single mothers syndrome. Why?. Because Nigerians are stupid

Please let's not lie to the general public. I've been to the US several times. After the EU it has one of the strictest child protection laws. If not, I would pay you £10,000 to marry a 13 year old and tell any law enforcement Officer. smiley. Or simply just ask one for nudes. I will pay you.

Don't quote me when you refuse. Thank you x
Islam for Muslims / Re: Islam For Muslims: Side Talk Station by Saucyxo: 11:03pm On Sep 15, 2019
Empiree:
We really kinda dragged this unnecessarily. Initially I'm not concerned about all this. My concerned was when the constitution says adulthood starts at 18, and children are having sex below 18 and having babies and law does nothing, this includes nija and Western world. I cited many cases and adults involved were not are arrested or persecuted. This is what you guys have overlooked all along.

I further said that US recognized it is impossible to prevent teen pregnancy 100% this is why they have social benefits in place due to 1960s sexual revolution. Not many guys are persecuted for having sex with underage. In case you missed it, I would advise you to go to previous pages and watch videos if you can. Read screenshots and look at screenshot pictures. I provided some details but you people turned this to pedophilia issue. How many pedos Nigeria even persecuted?. None I guess because even in igboland, old men legally married to young ladies.

I also cited a case on Judge Judy where a guy was 25 and his baby mom was 16. Judge Judy made no big deal about it. She only said just because she's big doesn't mean she's 18 and above. That's all she said to the guy. But we have Nigerian local champions online ranting about underage this and that.

However, it is highly likely that a teacher in US who is 25 and having sexual affairs with 16 or 17 year old will be persecuted because her or his profession is too exposed compared to average person out there

So you guys have been missing points all along due to hatred for anything about Muslims especially that gay atheist guy who supports his wife to go out topless and yourself supports this in the name of "right".

Let me ask you a question.


Because you said previously that "there is no universal right or wrong", what if a girl at 15 consents to marry 40 year old man?. Does she knows what she's doing or not?. If you say no she doesn't, how do you determine that?

A for whether what I posted is true with respect to 11 year age of consent, you and I got both information online. There is no difference here. You are only trying to "protect" kids that Nigerian govt doesn't care about

Why do you care? Like I dont understand. We are talking about A you're talking about B. I accused you of advocating for old men marrying young girls. You said you never did such and here you are... advocating for it. smiley. Quite frankly, I think it's a shame you have disposition but your morals are yours to have. Just apologise for calling me stupid and admit that you advocate for pedophilia. C'est fini.

Why are you so obsessed with diverting the issue. Its wrong in America, it's wrong in Dubai, its wrong in Nigeria. It's wrong if white people do it, if black people do it, if green people do it. Its wrong if muslims do it, Christians do it, Buddhists do it. Acknowledge that's it's something widely common amongst muslims and just say agree with it! Simple. I said you advocate for pedophilia, just use your chest and say yes I do. I dont hate muslims ? Im a muslim. I'm not perfect. If I do something wrong, I expect you to call me out not use the fact I'm a muslim to defend me. Muslims are doing something wrong, call them out.

There are tons of articles about teenage development and the brain of a 15 year old vs a 18 year old. I'm not getting paid to teach you cheesy. Honestly! Pick up a book and educate yourself. You said you're in the medical field ? I wouldn't let you anywhere near my child lol how do you not know that teenagers and adults have different brain functions. cheesy. Did you train in Nigeria?

We didnt get the same information online. I got my information from the nigerian constitution, you got yours from a random website. smiley.
Islam for Muslims / Re: Islam For Muslims: Side Talk Station by Saucyxo: 10:10pm On Sep 15, 2019
Cheers01:



I'm a slave to no one.

By the way, I'm from Wakanda. I'm neither a slave to Nigeria or white ideology.


As for you......you proudly call yourself a slave to Allah.

Number 00000000001 slave. Humble servant. At His constant servitude.

Wakanda ko. Kmt. Imagine being a slave to white ideology. Could never be me.
Islam for Muslims / Re: Islam For Muslims: Side Talk Station by Saucyxo: 10:03pm On Sep 15, 2019
Cheers01:



You are a slave. An Arab slave.


No shame though. Some of Muhammad's wives were slaves.


Stop facing Mecca kiss

Bring evidence of the slavery. How can you even tell me I'm a slave. You're a slave to your mum. To white ideology. To Nigeria. To your wife. To your kids.
Islam for Muslims / Re: Islam For Muslims: Side Talk Station by Saucyxo: 9:40pm On Sep 15, 2019
Cheers01:



Age of consent in Nigeria is 18. Those of us that accepted secular laws have always seen it as 18. Pervert

You didnt reply me again? I expect an apology for calling me a slave kiss
Islam for Muslims / Re: Islam For Muslims: Side Talk Station by Saucyxo: 9:37pm On Sep 15, 2019
Empiree:
later gave you rush answer not details. Don't me what a ghost lawyer says. I screenshot what Nigeria constitution says as if 2003. Marriageable age is what your do called lawyer said which is 18. But they can have SEX at 11 according to Nigeria constitution

Islam for Muslims / Re: Islam For Muslims: Side Talk Station by Saucyxo: 9:36pm On Sep 15, 2019
Empiree:
See bolded, you are just telling me how you feel why i expressed facts on ground. I said before and will say it again. No one in his right mind would support forcing anyone to do something against thier wishes. I also said that it is your opinion to think that a 13yrs old cannot give consent bcus in your opinion she is not capable. I object to this bcus nigeria constitution says 11 is age of consent. So why did you have to called names or advocate pedophilia when your govt already paved way for such?. Didnt your govt know enough that a 13 yr old could or could not give consent before signing that Bill Of Rights?. Do you know better than them?

It is not my opinion that 13 year olds cant give consent. It is literal fact. Please in your mind. Rewind to when you were 13, when you wanted to grow up fast and be cool. I'm sure if Aisha showed you some boobs and asked you to follow her to the corner and touch them you would consent. But at whatever age you are now, if Aisha did the same thing, would you consent? I don't know if you're in a relationship but you are literally a different person. You're not overly controlled by your sexual urges and hormones and you are able to make intelligent decisions. Not to say that there arent 30+ even 50+ men that wouldn't follow Aisha but they are fully aware of the consequences. They know to use and condom, they know to pull out if not. They know if their wife catches them its gobe.

The government didn't pave way for anything oo.
Islam for Muslims / Re: Islam For Muslims: Side Talk Station by Saucyxo: 9:29pm On Sep 15, 2019
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Just to relax your muscles at bit. Dont want you to have high blood pressure.
Islam for Muslims / Re: Islam For Muslims: Side Talk Station by Saucyxo: 9:28pm On Sep 15, 2019
Empiree:
Who reads this tinin stuff. And who takes nigeria serious when it doesn't respect its own constitution?. Whatever they wrote on this about "children shall not be used" for this and that is ineffective bcus they now have many children being abused in nigeria in forced marriages, sex traffickings, underage marriages etc bcus constitution is complicated. I posted clear cut screenshots. Why did you ignore those?. Are those screenshots not true?.

Let me repeat it bcuz you dont seem to want to comment on that. It says age of consent to involve in sexual activities in nigeria is 11. But marriageable age is 18 which means a girl as young as 11yrs old can have sex all she wants with whomever she wishes as long as it is consensual. As far as i am concerned, let me make myself clear again. I am not given my daughter to grown man old enough to be her father to marry except a guy close to her age even if both of them are 14. Clear?

Yes they are not true they are false.

This is literally the NIGERIAN CONSTITUTION. You sent me a random article on google. Even wikipedia have updated their sources. You said you are in the medical field. I would assume you had to go to university and you learnt the difference between primary and secondary sources and quotable references. I dont understand how you can dismiss the NIGERIAN CONSTITUTION and replace it with a random website that literally says "AgeOfConsent.net is a free public resource site, and cannot offer legal advice. All information provided AS-IS with no warranty of accuracy." As in..... make it make sense.

What if your son tells you daddy, I slept with Laura because I was Hot. I don't want to marry her. We were out and she was looking fine and we slept together. I'm not ready to get married. You'll say no then stop sleeping with her. When you were 14 did you obey all your parents rules? You weren't eyeing Fatima at mosque?
Islam for Muslims / Re: Islam For Muslims: Side Talk Station by Saucyxo: 9:19pm On Sep 15, 2019
Empiree:
what difference does it make when the same kids are given licence to have sex at 11?. Maybe you need to watch YouTube video above. The guy and the lady are 14 and 15. What you are saying is abuses which can happen in any form or shape.

Babe. The same difference it makes if arsenal was a womens football team and they played against man u and it was a mens team. The same difference it would make if in a quiz 50 year olds were put against 12year olds. The same difference it would make if heavyweight champion of 200lbs were to fight against light weight champion of 130lbs.
Islam for Muslims / Re: Islam For Muslims: Side Talk Station by Saucyxo: 9:16pm On Sep 15, 2019
Empiree:
okay, we seemed to have digressed long ago. I'm not here to talk about pedophilia. My point on this issue is kids have sex and babies which is now universal epidemic. What solution do you proffer to curb this?.

I gave numerous evidences but you guys failed to give solution. I cited American young kids having babies and Nigerian constitution allowing kids at 11 to have sex but you guys turned the other way and started talking about pedophilia.

Yet you agree there is no universal right or wrong. In that case you have no moral ground to condemn Muslim Man who marries young lady bcuz it is right thing to do according to him.

Abuses however is another topic. Nigerian constitution already abused children by making it legal for 11yr old to start having sex. This opens the door to all kinds of sexual perversion.

No my dear. We ar exactly on topic. I accused you of advocating for pedophilia and you called me stupid and said you didnt. smiley. We were never discussing how to end children having sex.

Am I losing the privilege of your attention sad. Again. He can think it is right to marry kids. Theres no universal wrong or right. The problem with excuting his moral stand is that theres another party involved that doesnt have the capability to give consent. There are some men that love the power that raping a woman gives them. They think women are beneath them and its right for them to take their womanhood because it belongs to them. The think its right. That's fine. The issue is, unless consent is given you cannot go around raping women because you think it's right. Some woman can give you consent to do so and then it's okay. You're free.
Islam for Muslims / Re: Islam For Muslims: Side Talk Station by Saucyxo: 9:08pm On Sep 15, 2019
Empiree:
later gave you rush answer not details. Don't me what a ghost lawyer says. I screenshot what Nigeria constitution says as if 2003. Marriageable age is what your do called lawyer said which is 18. But they can have SEX at 11 according to Nigeria constitution

When you have time please go through this document. Nigeira signed this in 2003 and brought this into their constitution. smiley.

EDIT: Unfortunately the file is too large to send please create a temporary email or give me your email to send to you. smiley

Islam for Muslims / Re: Islam For Muslims: Side Talk Station by Saucyxo: 8:41pm On Sep 15, 2019
Empiree:
how do you know 13 yr old doesn't have mental capacity to give consent?. You are following your whims. Nigeria constitution says age of consent to have sex is 11.




If you want, I am willing to send you neurological studies as well as psychological studies about mental capacity of minors. smiley.
Islam for Muslims / Re: Islam For Muslims: Side Talk Station by Saucyxo: 8:39pm On Sep 15, 2019
Empiree:
how do you know 13 yr old doesn't have mental capacity to give consent?. You are following your whims. Nigeria constitution says age of consent to have sex is 11.




I actually had this conversation with a very well accomplished lawyer. The age of consent in Nigeria is 18. I actually went to go read the entire constitution relating to the issue. And you're actually punishable by imprisonment for life if you penetrate anyone below the age of 15 I believe.
Islam for Muslims / Re: Islam For Muslims: Side Talk Station by Saucyxo: 8:35pm On Sep 15, 2019
Empiree:
becareful of your choice of word. You said epidemic which means majority of Muslim men marry young ladies.

Tell us percentage of muslim men who married young ladies in Nigeria?. I am sure it is less than 1%. In that case it is not epidemic.

It is rather a rare case. If you think it is only muslim, then, what do you say of igbo men married to young ladies?.

Even outside Nigeria in Muslim majority countries the percentage is low. It is media that hyped the nonesense for their selfish interest. Some 5 years ago in Palestine, it is their culture during nikkah ceremonies for groom to be accompanied by girl child just like soccer games, young boys accompany soccer players. But media portrayed those little girls as the grooms. We later found out it is a lie. See screenshot.


Modified

See headline again. They changed headline to Muslim men are allowed to rape.

Before I give you the statistics, can you acknowledge that even if only one muslim man in the entire world did this, it is wrong.

According to the united nations. "The 10 countries with the highest rates of child marriage are: Niger, 75 per cent; Chad and Central African Republic, 68 per cent; Bangladesh, 66 per cent; Guinea, 63 per cent; Mozambique, 56 per cent; Mali, 55 per cent; Burkina Faso and South Sudan, 52 per cent; and Malawi, 50 per cent." I'm sure you dont need me to tell you these are predominantly muslim countries. So I would call it an epidemic.

I'm not trying to say the media dont portray muslims in a negative light. But this is something we know is happening. Why are you more concerned about the media. The reality is, our muslim sisters are trying to BURN THEMSELVES ALIVE because they are too young to be married. They go through the pain of a first attempt burning and they continue to try to burn themselves in order to get out of a marriage that is unfulfilling. They are children. I don't know if you have kids but I've a little brother and I see the way he reasons. Like a child. Things you cannot even scold them for because you know that's just how their mind reasons. Kids that dont even know the proper ways to take care of themselves after childbirth. I still have to remind my 12year old cousins to brush their teeth.
Islam for Muslims / Re: Islam For Muslims: Side Talk Station by Saucyxo: 8:16pm On Sep 15, 2019
Empiree:


See another double standards. If there is no universal right or wrong, then, those older men who married young girls have the right to do so. You have no right to determine what's right or wrong because they think they are doing the right thing too.

If you can support housewives or even single girls walk around topless, and you see nothing wrong with that, then, what gives you right to condemn older men marrying underage girls if it is mutual?. I am only going you your dose.


Again, let me re-emphasize your position. You said and I quote.


"There is no universal right or wrong. Some people like it that way"


Your massage is clear. Therefore old men who marry young girls also see it that way. You do not have monopoly over right or wrong. Simple.

Absolutely. Where the lines of autonomy in terms of moral standpoint gets drawn is when someone is being hurt.

Some people do like it that way. The issue with them liking it that way and it being an issue is because 13 year olds do not have the mental maturity or capability to give consent.

Anything can happen between any independent consenting adult. I would argue that some people like to get poo in their mouth and some people like to be peed on. They have every right to feel that it's okay. They are two consenting adults who have agreed to what they want to do.
It becomes an issue when one party is unable to give consent.
Islam for Muslims / Re: Islam For Muslims: Side Talk Station by Saucyxo: 8:11pm On Sep 15, 2019
Empiree:
can you please get over this and answer the question?. If you can't it is fine. You don't need to reply but stop diverting attention with unrelated silly things.

Thanks

I wasnt talking about little kids getting married anyways. I'm talking about the epidemic of older muslim men marrying young ladies. Its wrong in America, it's wrong in China, its wrong in Nigeria. Its wrong when Christians do it, it's wrong when muslims do it and its wrong when Hindus do it.

That's where I've seen you insinuate that it is okay. smiley.
Islam for Muslims / Re: Islam For Muslims: Side Talk Station by Saucyxo: 8:09pm On Sep 15, 2019
Empiree:
can you please get over this and answer the question?. If you can't it is fine. You don't need to reply but stop diverting attention with unrelated silly things.

Thanks

Empiree, breathe. Relax babe. It's honestly not that serious. This is a faceless forum with a bunch of strangers. Dont give yourself hypertension oooo.

I feel like you dont really read what people say. I feel like you press the quote button and you're typing your response as you read. Just for once, give me your privilege of your attention and just with an open mind, hear me out.

So I've read your epistle for the sixth time and I'm not sure about your question.
When I talk about pedophilia, I'm talking about older men marrying and sleeping with young girls.
I'm well aware that young people are having sex at young ages but they're having sex to fulfil sexual impulses. A 14 year old is in no fit state to be married. Biologically, scientifically, their brains are still developing. They literally do not have the capability to become a husband in Islam. The role of a husband is not a identifying status, it is an active duty role. We are both well learned in Islam and a 14 year old cannot be a husband. A 14 year old doesn't have the mental capacity to even fill the shoes of a husband.
14 year olds that are having sex are doing it for pure normal sexual fulfilment. This goes for both the boy and the girl. Its never going to stop its never going to end. Just like underage drinking or underage drug use. That's just the society we live in. Sex education acknowledges that this is a never ending problem and in response gives children the tools to have sex in a responsible manner. It's one thing to make a mistake and have sex. It's another to make a mistake, have sex and get HIV. They acknowledge it is wrong for underage children to have sex but recognise that it is an occurrence and there needs to be safety protocols.

Your solution involves 14 and 15 year olds marrying eachother. To be honest with you, I would argue that's a bigger sin against Islam. There are some hadiths that say whoever marries has completed half his deen. It sounds similar to accepting Allah as your God and Muhammad as your messenger is essentially what you need for salvation. But we as muslims understand that by me accepting Allah as my God, there are duties I have. Similar to, by me getting married, I have duties as a wife. I cant just do nikkah, consummate my marriage and be like that's it done! I've completed half my deen. Quran and Hadith has layed duties of a husband and a wife that qualifies for said status. You're not a husband by marrying or doing nikkah, you're a husband by the active role you play in your marriage. Which In my opinion, a 14 year old cannot play.
Islam for Muslims / Re: Islam For Muslims: Side Talk Station by Saucyxo: 7:44pm On Sep 15, 2019
Cheers01:



I am only asking questions. I never said anything about praying on your back.

Also, Qibla is not specific in the Quran. The Quran does not say that one should face mecca. It says to face the Sacred Mosque.

Do you know that the original Qibla was to face Jerusalem when praying? Google it.


Allah never told you to face Mecca. So, in this case, you are not Allah's slave but you are an Arab slave.



Btw, please dont be offended. I actually enjoy debating with you.

In what many muslims consider the first chapter of the Quran, even though we know its the second lol, is a beautiful verse that clearly explains the Qiblah.

"We have seen your face (O Muhammad) turning about the sky, and so We will direct you towards a Qiblah that you are content with. So turn your face towards the Masjid Al-Haram..." 2:144. Here's what I use to read Quran and practice my pronunciations. http://www.recitequran.com/2:144/w12 ( I hope your ears don't explode from listening to the word of God wink )

I'm well aware of the different Qiblahs in the past... because I was informed by the Quran, dont need Google wink.

So if I had prayed facimg Jerusalem, would I be a slave to Jerusalem? How did Arabs get into this actually?

Lol I'm not offended cheesy. At the end, you're athiest and I'm muslim and thats that.
Islam for Muslims / Re: Islam For Muslims: Side Talk Station by Saucyxo: 7:32pm On Sep 15, 2019
Demmzy15:
Read his arguments, he nowhere supported pedophilia. I've objected to him in the past on several issues, he can attest to that fact. But someone saying he would allow his mom, wife and daughter to go topless is the highest and the most stupid stuff I've heard in my entire life. Seriously mind-blowing

I have actually. He does support pedophilia. I recall him once insinuating that because in "western society" there evidence of older men having relationships with younger ladies, we shouldn't be hypocrites and judge Muslim men from doing the same.

Do you feel weird saying that? Allow his woman...
Why would it be stupid? We really have to learn to each their own. What if he likes his women topless in public? What if he met an amazing woman, who was smart and genuinely kind hearted and she enjoyed going out topless in public. Shes not your property you know.... Theres no universal right or wrong. Some people like what they like.

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Islam for Muslims / Re: Islam For Muslims: Side Talk Station by Saucyxo: 6:53pm On Sep 15, 2019
Empiree:
You don't need to worry about my approach. I am always disgusted by tactical a diversion of yours. You are reading online essay and concluded somehow that I am "aggressive". How did you know I am when you are not seer?

This is not the first time you used this tactic and it is not gonna work with me. If you want to answer my question kindly do so. If you can't, just say you have no solution.

You are aggressive to me. Most people here would agree you are aggressive. Maybe you need to be a little more introspective and evaluate the way you communicate that makes people feel you're aggressive.

Theres no tatic. You wrote a long epistle, I just wanted to clarify what you meant by what you wrote so I can explain why I accused you of supporting paedophilia. It would be a shame to have miscommunicated at the start of our conversation. smiley.
Islam for Muslims / Re: Islam For Muslims: Side Talk Station by Saucyxo: 2:14pm On Sep 15, 2019
Empiree:
Bro, so you dont think too?. I asked a question the dude can't answer and you followed his stupidity, too?. Maybe you don't properly follow my posts and i will say it again loud and proud.

Firstall, me and tintingz have debated this issue. He did some research and came back here to say there are double standards with regards to underage marriage. That's why he no longer dispute with me on the issue. As for the other atheist clown, he seems to deliberately misrepresented my point. I asked him a question which he failed to answer. Now, let's look at the definition of pedophilia.


According to online dictionary, pedophilia (alternatively spelt paedophilia) is a psychiatric disorder in which an adult or older adolescent experiences a primary or exclusive sexual attraction to prepubescent children. See underlined, I didnt advocate this. Point to me where i said that?. What i have been saying is these kids as young as 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18 have been having sexual intercourse clearlessly. Many of them are out there have babies. I gave numerous examples by posting videos of related cases. I also posted videos of some older American dudes impregnated underage girls and they aren't arrested for pedophilia or sex with minor. It is sad that Nairaland doesn't allow audio feature. I would have posted many audios and videos without having to upload them first on youtube before posting them here. Or had it been you are on my whatsapp i would have sent you stuff to watch or listen to.


What I said was in a situation where these kids are having sex here and there with anybody, there is no way parents can prevent this 100%. I dont care about so called 'sex education'. That's fraud. United States and other western countries have realized it is unpreventable that's why they have social benefits in case it does happen. This way, mother and her child would be taken care of. Mother gets SNAP, baby gets WIC. So i advocated that you tell you Nigerian govt to work towards this social benefits instead of you screaming "underage" here and there which doesn't help in the least. From what I heard, it is said that under nigerian constitution, 11 yr old girl is old enough to marry. I dont know how true this is.

So my point was in the Western world underage is considered 18 and below or below 18. Yet there are bunch of 14, 15 year olds having babies. So i asked what solution do you guys have to stop this?. That clown talked about sex education and he knows the damn thing is a joke. Solution that i offered was that a 14 year old boy and girl who are sexually active should be married. I posted some details earlier that if my daughter is sexually active, meaning that she's attracted to guys and any moment guy may get her pregnant, I will step up and ask her to bring her boyfriend home to me. I am gonna get to know his family and lay down by rules to them. My most important rule is, are you serious with my daughter or you just wanna "shop and run"?. If I notice he's not serious with her, then, stay the heck out of my baby girl. Keep your friendship in the open and that's it. I am a man. I know what boys are capable of doing. But if he's serious, I work towards engagement and and marriage and In Sha Allah, I will support them financially, morally and emotionally. Marriage doesn't prevent further education. This was my offer but you guys offered nothing but to say "pedophilia". These teens getting married to each other is not definition of pedophilia. Now that i make my point clear, I advise you to please never ever misrepresent my position on this matter. But if you have problems with my preferred remedy, kindly offer yours.


Now, watch this video below and tell me they are pedophila. These are Americans 14 and 15 yrs old. Don't tell me they are hoodlums. They are not. This is a real case like other ones I posted. Again, my point is tell your govt to set up welfare because you can not prevent teens from having sex and having babies. They do have social services but it is immersed with fraud and it is pretty much defunct. Since you guys have been yelling about "underage", what exactly you guys achieved? This is the reality.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8xlgOcIMShE

I'm a lady. smiley. Why so aggressive lol the Prophet wouldn't approve of this kind of approach. I've told you this several times. I won't remind you. cheesy

It was really hard to navigate through what you're saying. I'm trying to really understand you here. Are you trying to say because there are lots of underage people having sex in the "western world", they should get married ?

The video is of a 14 and 15 year old having sex, your solution is that they should get married? I just want to understand, is that what you're trying to say?
Islam for Muslims / Re: Islam For Muslims: Side Talk Station by Saucyxo: 7:25pm On Sep 14, 2019
Demmzy15:


Empiree has a right to air his opinion, it doesn't concern me. But yours is plainly stupid and silly. You obviously don't have shame, so you'll allow your mom, wife and daughter go topless? Wooow!!! You must be a proud dayooth, and unfortunately, a man who doesn't have protective jealousy over his women is a pussssy and a joke!

It kinda does concern you. If you stay quiet and stand in solidarity with him then you agree with him. Pedophilia is disgusting and should be cautioned. We are our muslim brothers keeper x

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