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TOPE2000!:
Only if husband promise to change his ways else na hin dead body his family will come carry
self defence - what!

Chaiiiii. . . . .I pity your husband.
What kinda husbands do you women seek these days?

A mumu husband or a smart one?

TOPE2000!:
ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh . . . . . . . . bite me
one gotta keep warm in this cold winter one way or another

Then go back to husband number one and [i]s[/i]hag till the cows come home.

ibkaye:
Lol, you're enjoying yourself aren't you

Just yanking your chain.

TOPE2000!:
Wateva . . . . . i wud rather be alone than unhappy

This is where the problem lies.
The truth is no woman is entirely ALONE. . . . . .It's a fraud.
Women who claim to be alone still entertain Benson, Michael, John and David in their beds thinking these things won't affect their kids.

i guess all chics shud analyse the dude they choose to marry . , u don talk am finish

MINT!!!!!!!!

ibkaye:
1) No I didn't

and

2) Eldee is not a 'yahoo' boy

What about SLY?

ibkaye:
Lol, I have no doubt about that.

I, on one hand, wouldn't  

But you dated Eldee.

bettes:
That's very upseting,take that back

The truth can be BITTER.

TOPE2000!:
That is a different issue and even for a woman to walk out of her marriage
alot must have happened in that marriage, she prolly cudnt bare the pains anymre

Or she couldn't be satisfied sexually anymore.

So i am suppose to keep a man that beats me continuously?
cheat on me and show it to my face?
abuse me physically, verbally and mentally?

U must persevere.
Marriage has never been an easy venture.
No one chose the husband for you in the first place. . . . . . .Out of 400 suitors you musta had, you analysed em and chose ONE.
It is imperative you keep him. After all. . . . . .U signed FOR BETTER FOR WORSE.

Some guys are just not worth keeping and only few are worth fighting for

And if the next man shows the same attitude, you move to the 3rd man?
How many step fathers will your kids have by the time you find the perfect man? 50??

hermosa:
i know, i know. that hurts, and i'm not trying to hurt anyone w=by saying this but it's true. all men who've been in a sexual relationship with a girl has been involved in despoil incident, (as the rapist). .
i've done countless of probing and semi interviews with countless of men (mostly my guy friends and their friends) and without knowing this they've despoiled 1 out of 3 girls that they've been with.
how? well, one of my guy friends told me that once he was kissin this girl that he went on out on a date with and they got back to his place, but in the car she already told him 'no sex' and he agreed but that in his head he was already envisioning takin off her clothes and didn't really think she was serious, so then as they were kissing, he got seriously turned on and kissed her with intensity and when she reciprocated he saw it as a green light and his fingers started going down, she took his hands and removed them, this happened like 3 times but since she didn't stop the kissin, in his head he figured she probably wanted him to be more forceful and the next time his hands went down, she tried to remove it but he used his free hands to hold her back, well long story short they had sex. on the way home she was quiet, when they got to the front of her house she opened the door, thanked him and he's never heard from her since then. later as i was telling him my theory that all guys have one point in their sexual life, despoiled (harsh word, but true) a girl, he was quiet for a very long time, he said that when he sat down and thought about it, it seemed she didn't really want sex cos she really did try to fight him off, and that at one time,she kicked him in the tummy but it only fuelled his hunger for sex and the fact that he was strong and that after a while she stopped fighting made him think she wanted this from the beginning. plus while he was moving in her, when he looked down at her, there was nothing, no emotion absolutely nothing.
i'm not trying to hurt anyone, but think back guys,  i'm only trying to help you, so in the future you'll know that when she says no she means no.

May Amadioha impregnate you with a dozen epileptic midgets for generalising all men as [i]r[/i]apists.

ibkaye:
Isn't it a slang in Nigeria, for internet fraudster?

Ohhhh, i see.

Haha, but letz face it Ibkaye, most women would still date a Yahoo boy out of the perks they stand to get every now and then.
Naija babes are too hungry to pass up the opportunity of free recharge cards every other day.

TOPE2000!:
Rofl . . . . . . . 
If the babyfather didnt dump the mother of his child, she wont be a single mum wud she?
u guys are still the ones to blame

What about marriages where the woman walked out?
The men are still to blame too?

A woman must learn to keep her husband in marriage no matter what. . . .
Our great grandmothers learnt these skills and they had more successful marriages than the calibre of young women we have today.

ibkaye:
Date a yahoo boy? Why not date a rapist, or a murderer?

Enjoy for now, but when they get taken down, they may take you down with them

Tread carefully.

Who is a yahoo boy?

TOPE2000!:
so what happens if your wifey start having babies?

My wife!
She is my wife. . . . .I did the damage so i must be ready to bear the brunt.
I won't bear the brunt of another man's damage.

TOPE2000!:
Sauron  
so relationship is just abt sex to u?

What else is there to it?
Your sex organs are there for a purpose.

Well if u think kissing n handling is sex then happy dayz then
atleast  the main is still intact

Abegggggi, fornication is fornication.
All those times you stared at ma 6-pac. . . . .U have fornicated with me.
A Virgin can still go to hell for fornication.

TOPE2000!:
So what abt men with kids?
we dont go all ewwwwwwwwwwwww abt it
men with kids are more risky to date with the babymama not that far away

The kids didn't come out of his [b]p[/b]enis in the physical sense.
I hope you catch the drift now.

TOPE2000!:
Tee hee hee
but marriages or relationships are not all abt sex

If it's not about sex then have a relationship with a woman.

it involves a lot more than that, there is nothing wrong with a yr or 2 of just kissing n handling without sex in a relationship

How is kissing n handling any different from sex?

TOPE2000!:
Must u make it sound more bad than it already is?

A woman with CHILDREN? Ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

TOPE2000!:
And what is wrong in getting married b4 having sex?

Like you don't try those jeans of yours in the mall before paying for them.
A man must test-drive before committing the rest of his life to a woman.

I don't want a log of wood in ma matrimonial bed.

TOPE2000!:
I knew it

Bad babes won't go about preaching about pre-marital sex nonsense.

OgaMadam:
guys just out of interest.

if you had to go for one?

- the single mum
- or the single lady (but has abortion in her history)

this is controversial and quite sensitive i know and sorry not to hurt any one or anything
i just wanted to know how guys' mind operate.

some of them say the would never date a woman with kids and then
what if you give them a lady who doesnt have kids due to an abortion?

thanks all.

I can never be with a woman with kids. . . . . .It's grotesque.
I will gladly take the woman who's had an abortion. . . . .

Bad babes are the bomb!!!!

TOPE2000!:
A guy that is clean cut n a bad a.s.s

Like moi?

texasguy1:
Anyways, the biggest truth is: 90% of hot babes are attracted to bad boys.
And the  remaining 10% are those who are so very F**'d up, only have Jesus to give their miserable lives to and keep hating and bitching.
So, no need to argue with those losers who call themselves good boys and girls. Shikenah!

Is that so?
Platinumnk, are you attracted to bad niggaz?

Emperoh:
Guardian of all places. . . . I can bet he was recruited from goal.com
This is the sort of article u see on goal or sun!!

Lets see how this season ends. . . . but i must say its not looking good at all!
We need form!!

BTW whats with Hargo's return? U know?

1) British journos all have their favourite football clubs in the EPL so most of their so-called opinions are tainted with bias.

2) There's nothing wrong with us this season. Injuries have murked us to the bones and that we are still competing in the TOP FOUR is a testament to SAF's managerial nous.

3) SAF wants to let Hargo loose on our UCL rivals in Mid-February.

Jacob's Cross.

All movie producers, script writers and movie directors in Nigeria should be ashamed of themselves.
I feel cheated watching any Naija soap opera after stumbling on Jacob's Cross.

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Yahoo boys are generous - This is what attracts 99% of the Naija babes!!!

Emperoh:
I wonder what this journalist would be saying seeing what Carrick, Ferdinand and Fletcher have achieved after 2006
I can't even believe people will write this about SAF geez!!!

Ol boi people dey beef oo!!!

But i wonder what gave him the impression that United had fallen apart?

I wish someone can actually make this particular guy lick his vomit!!

His name is Rob Smyth - One of the top journos for Guardian and trust me. . . . .The sharks are out to predict doom and gloom again.
United is going to CRUMBLE again, Fergie should go and Obertan, Anderson and Gibson are not good enough.
In the next 3 years, those players woulda worn league medals and European medals.

This is about the 10th time United's dominance in the EPL have been predicted to come to a painful end.

@ Emperoh,

The HATRED from the ABUs assure me United are doing the right thing.
Gloom and doom have been predicted by all the Sports Journalists in the UK regarding Man Utd and SAF.

The empire is crumbling, Man Utd has declined, SAF should be sacked, United in crisis and reh reh reh
We have been here before. . . . .

It was John Cleese, in Clockwise, who said: "I can take the despair. It's the hope I can't stand." Manchester United fans would beg to differ.
Usually, the best thing about pre-season is the hope: reality's incisors have yet to pierce the gums of optimism, and fans can live off the balmy, often barmy belief that this is their year. For supporters of most of the other 91 English clubs, that's the mood right now. For United fans? Forget it. After three seasons of papering over the cracks, it seems most United fans are awaiting the moment that the fault lines tracing a veiny path across Old Trafford are exposed.

Almost everything about the club reeks of disarray. Owned by the Glazers, who push buttons from a remote hideaway like Dr Evil; run by a manager who shreds his legacy at every turn; almost exclusively represented by the inadequate (Darren Fletcher and Kieran Richardson) and the odious (Rio Ferdinand); unable to close a deal for West Brom's reserve keeper, never mind the new Roy Keane. The signing of Michael Carrick, a Pirlo when a Gattuso was needed, is a band aid for a bullet wound, and a ludicrously expensive one at that.

If anything, it's a surprise that United have bought anyone at all. This summer, they have been like a pathetic drunk lumbering across a dancefloor at 1.45am, trying to get off with everything that moves. No matter how many people they move in for - and if reports are to be believed, United have made offers for dozens of players - nobody wants to go near them. And the one person who surely would, Damien Duff, was allowed to slip into the arms of Newcastle for less than United paid for Patrice Evra. You couldn't make it up. You don't have to.

United finished second last season, but that as much about the deficiency of the Premiership as their own quality. Arsenal will surely not have a four-month blind spot this season, while all evidence suggests that Liverpool's gradient will continue on its upward trajectory. With Tottenham getting stronger, even with the loss of Carrick, it is conceivable that, if they start slowly and get significant injuries, United could finish fifth; in today's environment, that would be disastrous.

The problems are so obvious, so fundamental, as to be beggar belief that they have not been addressed. Just as the glory years of 1992 to 2001 will only fully be appreciated in 20 years' time, so will Ferguson's subsequent failure. It is particularly bewildering that a man who once exerted such an unyielding grip on every single aspect of the club that he had to be virtually coerced into delegating has let things slip to this extent. Take the Cristiano Ronaldo situation: Ferguson said recently that he had not even spoken to Ronaldo since the World Cup, a dereliction of duty that is in total contrast to the us-against-the-world protection that he gave to David Beckham - and for which, for a time, he was so thrillingly rewarded - in 1998.

Once upon a time Ferguson could play 'who blinks first' with fate and win every time, his iron will shaping his destiny exactly as he wanted. Now he is reduced to uttering garbage like "it's like having a new signing" of Paul Scholes, Ole Solskjaer, Gabriel Heinze and Alan Smith, the irrational if-I-say-it-enough-it-might-happen gibberish you'd associate with a serial loser like Kevin Keegan. These days, the man they call The Hairdryer is full of nothing but hot air.

Ferguson's squad, once so taut, is a baggy mess of has-beens, never-will-bes and Liam Miller. The simple repetition of 4-4-2, of Giggs, Scholes, Keane, Beckham, Cole and Yorke, has given way to myriad tactical and personnel changes, to a ruinous obsession with utility players and tinkering. It's a truly appalling fact that, with Ruud van Nistelrooy gone, none of United's outfield players have played in only one position at the club. A nadir was reached in the FA Cup game at Wolves last season, when nearly £60m of defensive and attacking talent (Ferdinand and Wayne Rooney) was used in the centre of midfield.

It is an increasingly inescapable conclusion that, unwittingly or otherwise, Ferguson is winding down, a prizefighter who no longer has the stomach or the wit for an admittedly enormous challenge which, once upon a time, he would have fervently inhaled. Like he did with Liverpool. Ferguson's almost maniacal yearning to "knock Liverpool off their bleeping perch" was arguably the single most important factor in United's 1990s renaissance. It makes it all the more vicious an irony that, 10 years later, he should knock United off the perch he had made for them through increasingly rank mismanagement.

Indeed, it must irk him beyond belief that United are making exactly the same mistakes that Liverpool did: lack of pheromones in the transfer market; laughable, fall-back signings at suspicious and ridiculous prices; deluded ramblings ("we are as good as Chelsea, no question" - and, worst of all, a dressing-room where playing the field seems as important as playing the game. Liverpool's Spice Boys were bad, but they have nothing on Merk Berks like Ferdinand, Richardson and Wes Brown.

Ferguson has taken this end-of-an-empire template and, incredibly, managed to develop it: he's added a sprawling, outsized squad chock-full of obscenely well-paid deadwood; insultingly obvious spin that a two-year-old could see through (the Van Nistelrooy saga); economy with the truth (Ferguson ridiculed a journalist for saying that Paul Scholes had been scouting for United; a few days later Scholes confirmed the story); a coaching set-up that had Wayne Rooney playing wide for a season and turned Ronaldo from the world's most thrilling off-the-wall talent into a run-of-the-mill winger when he plays for United, as was confirmed by his liberated displays for Portugal at the World Cup.

Ferguson, an essentially honourable man, is partly suffering because of the impossibly high standards he set, and he carries the fatigued incomprehension of a man who is out of time. When he cites his favourite United team it is not the Treble-winners of 1999, but the Double-winners of 1994: Schmeichel, Bruce, Pallister, Ince, Keane, Hughes, Cantona, Robson - a team that dripped masculinity, who bonded over blockbusting Saturday-night sessions, who embodied the old-school values to which Ferguson can relate.

Real men. The gentrification generation - sarong-wearing, pink champagne-swigging metrosexuals - are entirely beyond his comprehension. He could handle one, David Beckham, for a time before eventually giving up on him. Now he has a pack of them, for whom the hairdryer means only one thing - a trip to Toni & Guy. It is a different world. Ferguson probably doesn't even know what 'merk' means.

Everywhere, principles are being sacrificed. In years gone by Ferdinand - who for all his irrefutable ability is the type of character whose presence in a United shirt symbolises much of what has gone wrong with the club - would've been out the door faster than Paul Ince could say 'big-time Charlie', but now Ferguson can't afford to lose his only world-class defender. In years gone by he wouldn't have considered signing someone like Patrick Vieira, on grounds of age or character, but now he is left looking for someone, anyone, to appease the fans. In years gone by he would never have given a game to someone like John O'Shea, whose sole use is to put the podge in a hodgepodge midfield, or someone as meek as Darren Fletcher. In years gone by, he would never have sanctioned the mediocre football that, except for a few giddy weeks in the spring of 2003, United have played ever since Carlos Queiroz arrived in 2002 spouting gobbledygook disguised as continental sophistication.

And the thing is, it is only going to get worse: Liverpool, Arsenal and Tottenham have all made shrewd, cheap signings and are going in one direction. United are going the other way: they are hugely dependent on Ferdinand and Rooney, but no number of Carling Cup medals is going to sate their ambition. Then there is the Glazer factor, the full, inevitable horror of which is only just beginning to emerge. United fans think this season is going to be bad. It hasn't even started.

See what a lunatic journalist wrote about United in July 2006.
I wonder what the guy would be thinking after United won 3 EPL titles in a row with 2 UCL finals after writing this piece of applesauce.
British journalists are the most senseless, most useless sonsofbitches in the planet.

Krayola:
SAF takes his players to Africabecause he wants to make them tough like Africans. He thinks we are animals and wants his players to be little wild. the guy is a racist piece of igbe.

It seems someone is using your username - You are not making any sense at all.

SAF takes his players to Africa so the fans who support from Africa can see their darling club play footie in their backyard.
That is love and respect for the die-hard fans in Africa.

Barcelona couldn't care if a nuclear bomb erases Africans tomorrow.
Useless club, useless Catalonians. I hope the whole Nou Camp collapses in the next European Tsunami.

debosky:
Yaya T is still at the club, so is Keita - how has he sidelined them. You need to be the best of the best to play for Barca. . . .BUT if you are Catalan, you have a distinct advantage over others - it's the same in England.

11 starts and 3 subs in 22 Barcelona outings says it all.
Yaya Toure has been frozen out of the Barca team and it's a disgrace Barca FC have allowed Guardiola to get away with this nonsense.

debosky:
@ Sharon who bought Keita in the first instance?

Pep doesn't hate Africans - Txiki had it in for Eto'o over two years ago - it took Pep's insistence for him to even remain for a season.

Keita had been in the books of players to buy before Guardiola's arrival.
Of course, a disgusting racist like Guardiola would try and mask his evil deeds.

Do you honestly believe Busquets or [i]S[/i]perm Bucket is better than Yaya Toure?

tkb417:
Mint!!!!!!!!!!!!

ignorance can kill

Don't mind the hypocrites. . . . . .SAF hates Africans but he takes his football players to Africa every other pre-season.
Arsene Wenger the African lover has never taken Arsenal where African fans can have a feel of the club they religiously support and yet people go about saying SAF is racist!!!

SAF took Man Utd to ABUJA. Letz see if Arsene or Guardiola would match that before they retire/resign.

Krayola:
SAF hates Africans. . .  fukn racist organization   . I'm disgusted so many Africans support that club. Sellouts.

SAF loves Africans more than any manager in the EPL.
If you dunno your football, tape it shut.
The number one African hater in Europe is [i]P[/i]enis Guardiola. .The way he froze Etoo, Yaya Toure and Keita out of the Barca team is a disgrace.

Has a Nigerian ever played at that shitty club?   shior!!

He bought Mikel Obi, Mikel said he preferred Chelsea.
3 seasons later, Mikel missed 3 EPL titles and 2 UCL finals he coulda added to his young career and overtake Kanu's overrall achievement.
Whose fault?

SAF is the only manager in Europe that has consistently taken his players to Africa for pre-season!!!
How about that for a manager that hates Africans. Hell will freeze the day [i]P[/i]enis Guardiola takes Barcelona to Abuja for Naija fans.