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After forfeiting the money to FG, what happens next?

The FG will dash the money again to Bagudu.

dollytino4real:
u guys misunderstood my words

Make us understand, sister mi

MARKone:
The number of treads that hits the front page condemning masturbation is far more than that condemning fornication and adultery. Is it that the wages of sin associated to masturbation is far greater than the judgement you'll get when you fornicate.

They're all the same: BAD.
However, seems those who have been delivered from formication and adultery don't want to open up and share their stories.

dollytino4real:
something must kill a man

Is that all you have to say to this?
You're simply HEARTLESS and WICKED.

morgan100:
Sorry that this might be lengthy, but that’s just the only way I can cover what happened.

Around March last year, I needed an accommodation where I can bring in my wife because we were getting married. I use to live in one room self-contain, but due to the fact that I was getting married, I needed a flat. Just within my area, there is this apartment that I really love, the house is just 4 flats, so I decide to make inquiries about the house. On that very day, I went to the house, I met a man who claimed to be in-charge of the house and also claimed to be an occupant in the house.

I asked if there was any vacant space he said yes, how much? He told me the price, but asked if am the one that wants to secure the apartment, I said yes, He told me he cannot give the house to someone who is not married and someone who is a yahoo boy. I don’t know why he thought I was a yahoo boy, maybe because I looked young to be looking for a flat to rent, because I was 31 years old then and I really looked younger than my age. I told him though I was not married at that point in time, but it’s because I wanted to get married that was why am looking for an apartment, that if not for that reason, what will I want to do with a flat, only me? And for the issue of a yahoo boy, I told him am not and that he can make more findings about me, thank God the area is a student area, and that I use to be a part time lecturer in the campus close by, but now I own an ICT outlet that handles any ICT related job, so he can go ahead to make all the findings that he needs.

Fast forward…. I secured the apartment, paid and I moved in….

THE PROBLEM
The very first day I met the man, from the way he was talking, I knew he was going to be a very troublesome fellow, but I just felt, this is a flat and everyone should be able to mind his or own business, so I never mind. First thing I noticed was that, this man that I never knew, was beginning to tell me bad stuffs about the people living in the house, I was like is this man ok? Is it that you don’t want me to take the house because of these people or I should avoid these people once I secure the house? I actually don’t know, that was the first sign. Again i discovered that that the man and the other tenants don’t relate at all.

When I moved in, the man want to be bossing me around, like screaming my name from outside, something like “MARK !!!!!!” come down here, when I get there, he will just bring up some useless issue, he address me in a very rude way, just for me to know that no matter what i think i am or what i own, he is older than me, and he always makes it look like he did me a favor by linking me up with the caretaker of the house to give a house. But I was not bothered by that anyways, I just do ignore that.

To the other tenants in the house, I introduced myself to them, they were happy to see me, and that they can’t wait to meet my wife when am married, they seems to be nice more the guy I first met, and they mentioned something that, “WELCOME BROS, YOU WILL SOON GET TO KNOW EVERYONE IN THE HOUSE.

After the wedding, my wife moved in, the other neighbors came to say hi to my wife, but I noticed that this man and his wife never showed up, even with the fact that I told him and the wife before travelling for the wedding. Even when they saw me and my wife together, they just acted as if they didn’t see us, toooor, that's their problem, me will just greet them my own and move on, and never introduced my wife to them, because I was not even bothered self.

He begins to get more hostile for no reason, like shouting my name like he used to do, telling me didn’t I see this, didn’t I see that, talking to be like his 5 years old son, complaining about how water was dropping from kitchen, that the water is disturbing his balcony, you need to see how hostile and rude he presented the matter, as if I was the one that caused the dropping of water from the kitchen, you actually need to see the water he was complaining about, the water can’t fill up a small milk can in 3-hours, and not that we make use of the kitchen every hour. In order to avoid problems, I went to block the water that goes out from the kitchen, so that it does not drop anymore, we do go down stairs to throwaway dirty water from the kitchen outside, I told the caretaker who is also a plumber he came to fix it, it was just a leaking pipe.

There was a day, he shouted my name and I even thought something serious happened, when I got down stairs, he was like, he saw a guy now that left my apartment, I said yes that's true, hope no problem, he was like, he don't want to see him in this compound again, I was like, why? he said the guy is rude, that if the guy sees him on the street, he don't use to greet him, I was like for real? He said yes, I told him i have heard, and I just smiled and left.

One day I and my wife was coming back from an evening outing, as we were about entering the gate my car battery just went dead all of a sudden, and it’s an automatic car, I had to go and lend a battery to start the car from someone close by, when I got the battery, I used it to start the car, and I returned my battery into the car, left it working so that the battery can charge a little, I went to return the battery to the owner who was just like 2 houses from where my car broke down, not even up to a 2 minutes-walk, before I knew what was happening, this man has started shouting my name all over the house to come and put off the car, that am disturbing him, you need to see where his apartment is and where the car broke down, I almost lost my cool that evening, but I was calmed by my wife. I was like, I can’t just leave the engine running for no reason, and he should have even asked what the problem was for me to have left the car engine running, since he has never seen me do that before.

I was not around one day like that, my wife called me that there was light in other flats, but there was no light in our own apartment. My flat and his flat shares the same wire from the electric pole, funny enough, he went to disconnect my flat from the wire, claiming that the wire he just bought the wire from the pole and since the wire belongs to him, I should connect my flat from elsewhere. I told my wife to go and meet the other neighbor in the other flat to see how they can help, in-fact when my wife told the guys in other flat what happened, my wife told me that I need to see the way the guys quickly rose up and help her in connecting the wire to theirs, that she should not worry that everything is alright. (THOSE WERE THE PEOPLE THE MAN TAGGED BAD PEOPLE OO).

I drove into the compound one day, and about that time, NEPA brought light and I went down stairs to put on the pumping machine, as I was about going back to my apartment, this man called me like he used to do, and asked me to come and see something, I knew it won’t end well, because he always have this rude and hostile way of talking to people, he took me to the place I drove in with the car and told me that didn’t I see that I used my car tire to dirty the place, I was like seriously? Haba, am not the only one passing through this place, the other guys have cars too, and this place is not even dirty because the last time I checked, I was even the one that sweep this place, and not that my tires were cover with mod, He was like he is going to deal with me, that he was going to call the landlord so that they will chase me out of the compound, I was like deal with me? For what? Already the noise from him and my voice made my wife came out and the other guys in the other flat came out too, before I know what was happening, he HIT ME ON MY FACE………….

I was so mad, in fact in my life I have been mad like that before, the fact that there were people outside, I said to myself I won’t hit back, at least I have witnesses, I was going to report him to the police, but I gave him the piece of my mind in a very disrespectful way. I went upstairs to grab a shirt heading to the police station, but my wife refused me going to the police, that I should just let it go, that she don’t want police wahala, but the other tenant in the house refused, they said I most get him arrested, but on a second thought the guy (the other tenant) said, in as much as he would love to see me arrest this man, but “GUY, DO WHAT YOUR WIFE WANT”. I tried as much as I can to calm down, because I was so angry. Not even knowing that the other guys in the apartment has got him locked up before, had it been I got him arrested, I will be the third person to do that in that house.

I reported him to the caretaker, the guy told me that I should have hit him back, that nobody made him to be in charge of the house, that we are all tenants, at least he the caretaker was the one I paid the house rent to, that the guy only deceived me when I first met him, that he dare not call the landlord self, because the landlord has given him series of warnings, that the landlord has even locked him up before, it was people that begged on his behalf, that I should just ignore him. The next morning funny enough I still greeted this man, but he didn’t answer, from that day henceforth I began to ignore him, but the wife, when she is not with the husband, she greets me nicely and I do respond, even if she didn’t see me, I greet her first, but when the husband is there, she dare not, so as to avoid beating. But everyone begin to mind their own business.

Some few months later, I and my wife went to church that Sunday morning, before we came back, this man brought out one dilapidated cage that used to be beside the corner of the house fence and put it right on the spot where I do park my car, when I saw that, I was just smiling, I just jejely parked my car elsewhere in the compound, seems he want to start trouble again, he can eat the space, since he is jobless, early morning when everyone even including the wife are going out to look for one or two things to do so as to get money, you will find him under the tree at the street junction with like minds, arguing about politics that does not concern them. Had it been I know this guy to be this hostile, am not sure I would have paid for the accommodation, because I don't have the mind for trouble.

I told my wife, the day he will try that same rubbish he did by hitting me, even if my wife go ahead to call all my family members and hers to beg me, I won’t listen to them, I will definitely get him locked up, and really deal with him according to the law. I would have moved out of the house, but getting a nice accommodation like that is difficult around, so I have choose to ignore him, but the day he will cross my path again, I won’t take it likely with him.

Ignore him COMPLETELY. Even if he uses a megaphone to scream your name, just ignore him. He is a jobless control freak.

maasoap:
A post from the supposed 33 years old man could be best described as childish and incoherent. He's by no way related to her, just an impostor

Lol

daddio:
Let's celebrate this your FTC bro

Thank you Sir

Charleys:
So you are calling Hanan Buhari a sleeping dog.

Shege banza.

We say make una go school, una no go gree. Now, you can't even understand simple English. Haba!

Froshloaded:

Mr FTC you sure say the post go reach Fp

Dey there. It's these kind of posts the mods like pushing to front page. Quote me once it makes FP. For now, I'll be sipping coffee

Hmm. The guy's English is even somehow. It runs in the family oh

It's FTC again. My second FTC in a day, in less than an hour

FTC mode activated

Show me some love Nairalanders.

But to be the first to comment on this kind of thread is somehow oh!

nigeriainfo:
Hello, Let me advise you and I want to tell you nothing but the truth. I am here now in the United States presently and I am really advising you to stay back In Nigeria and invest that money in Nigeria. I am telling you this because I know what is actually going on here. Please stay back in Nigeria. Thank you and please heed my advice for your own good

Wow! I can feel a note of regret in your voice.
Is America really that bad?

StreetFight:
PDP - People Deceiving People.

Bros, it's not about PDP or APC. Just look at the usefulness or otherwise of the bill.

72Morale:
It will be foolish of any sane person to believe this crap.

Once a woman start using "Because he asked me out and I refused" as a defensive line in any case, Just know that she's telling lies.

Does it mean that in all cases, the woman is telling a lie?

hisexcellency34:
Except his foreign wife

When last did you see him with his foreign wife? E be like say she don run

Offpoint:
If you're earning is legit, send your money to my American bank account let me get it down to you here in Nigeria.


NOTE: I'm not doing it for free

Hmm

Tissue:
Dammmmn Nigggaaar

I thought it was patience ozorkwor

Are you the original Dammmmn Nigggaaar guy?

Romeo3:
Cheat on him with a married man

That's wrong.

Akinowon123:
I just me this girl two weeks ago and I already liked her. I made my intentions known to her that I like her and we can be friends, because I believe from friendship we can take it to the next stage.

So, two days ago I asked her how Val will be and she told me she doesn't know the plan yet. I said if she would be free, we can go out. Immediately I said this, she told me she's not going anywhere and she will be available.

Fast forward to today. She told me she's ready around 12pm and I got the address of where she was. I met her with her friend, I immediately asked what's up with the friend. She told me she was going to somewhere else and we are heading towards her direction so we can all enter the same cab. Not long as I made attempt to stop a bus or bike, the friend waved us good bye that she is no more following us. We got to the eatery and I ordered food to be eaten but the girl said she won't be able to eat there that it should be packed. So mine too was packed, I told her we should head to my house so we can chill and enjoy what Val has in-store for us.

Immediately, she came up with a excuse that her friend will be waiting for her as they are going somewhere. I was disturbed and told her ' does that mean u will leave me just like that' . She left with the ordered food for both of us still with me and promise to come to my place. About 1 hour later she called and I gave her the address to my house.

5 minutes after she entered the room, she told me she won't stay long that her dad as been asking about her where about. I separated the food and drinks with other stuffs I bought and gave her her part. Few minutes later she stood up to leave, that was how she left for good.

I don't know if I am a mumu man for doing this or it's normal and I should give her time. Not like I wanted to sleep with her but just been together sharing memories and getting to know each other more better was my plan but I supposed she just acted smart to get what she wanted

What do u think guys??

Children of these days. I don't know where you learn all these from.

You met someone two weeks ago, and wanted to know her better. Good. Which memories are you "sharing" with her, in your house? What happened to all the eateries in town? What happened to all the public places, amusement parks and so on.

Again, buying food and drinks for her doesn't give you the right to expect her anywhere near your house. Besides, you're not the first guy that is buying her food, neither will you be the last.

Your purpose is already defined. You want to know her better and see if anything will work out between both of you. What if it finally doesn't?

As for the lady, I think she is wise. You can't place such demands on someone that is not your wife. I think she has her boundaries, and you must respect it if you want to maximize this friendship.

Finally, the headline of this thread is misleading. She didn't scam you. Today's atmosphere is already charged. It's not everyone that "celebrates" Valentine. Maybe she agreed to go out with you today just out of courtesy, while at the same time trying to maintain her guard, to avoid stories that touch

BlackfireX:
Fake news ,...


Bayelsa is APC , APC is bayelsa.



The supreme court was bribed

Ehen, what did you say about Supreme Court ruling on IMO Election?

Calculating:
https://todaypoliticsng.com/ipob-can-participate-during-nnamdi-kanu-parents-burial-on-one-condition-police/

What does he mean by IPOB members confining themselves to the venue?

ursullalinda:
Sincerely don't wish what happened to Lyon to my worst enemy.......the most touching thing was that he was even practising the swearing in......never you celebrate your victory as a politician till supreme court rules

How could he be celebrating when Supreme Court had not yet passed judgement? My only problem is that the ruling should have come earlier, not on the eve of swearing-in

deantimes:
Source: https://www.google.com/amp/s/todaypoliticsng.com/nnamdi-kanu-apologises-withdraws-threat-to-kill-children-of-police-commissioner/amp/

That doesn't sound like Nnamdi Kanu

Maxymilliano:
Most of them don't even know what Amnesty International is, they are paid stipends to look stupid as can be gleaned from the attached pic.

Las las, #1k or 2k each.

mrkings84:
My church decided to fix a fasting and a night vigil on Feb 14 which is Valentine's day. Is that right?

Foolish boy!

Is Valentine's Day a church calendar day? Does it have anything to do with Jesus' birth, death, resurrection and ascension? Why does your church have to factor it in when fixing it's vigil?

Just do whatever you have already decided, Ok? Stop bothering us, abeg.

#GoesBackToSleep#

Babacele:
God bless you sir, Your Excellency. This is the kind of mentality that would make us grow as a nation. I look forward to more of such days ahead when a T.A . Orji would extend such gesture to an Hausa speaking woman in Abia. God bless Nigeria.

Don't turn this to a tribal thread. Governor met the woman as the only person on ground when he came to the school. If she were Hausa or even Yoruba, he would have honoured her all the same.

I repeat: it wasn't about her tribe or religion that she was rewarded, but because of her dedication to duty.

Besides, TA Orji is no longer Abia State Governor, Ok?

AAA593:
https://leadership.ng/2020/02/07/ippis-operators-manipulating-platform-audit-report/

This is one of the reasons ASUU has been kicking against IPPIS and refused to enrol. Yet, the ignorant went ahead to call them names.

Una don see am now?

Davash222:
In that case, Good morning madridguy.

Good morning madridguy (7.5% VAT inclusive)