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seunlayi:
https://punchng.com/nigerian-officials-athletes-clash-over-samsung-phone-gifts/?amp

HonNL:
The Cable

Pecoleee345:
Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/6653469/another-marriage-crash

So over last weekend.... I called family meeting my mum, elder brother and I went to my wife parents house... her family members were present.

They wanted to resolve things between us but no one gave a Bleep about me....they asked her to speak and she said alot of things both truth and lies.

I was lambasted from both sides and I let them finished properly before dropping the bomb......I looked into her eyes straight up and told her am divorcing you.

They were all stunned.... they were now interested in my side of the story.

I decided not to say anything.....am not the type that bad mouth people to score points or look good (my ex-wife is very good at that)....I just told her family to demand the truth from her.

My advice to young men.

1. Make sure u know the background of the lady u wanna get involved with....the way of life etc.

The mistake I made was not evaluating her background...... We came from completely different backgrounds....eg where she comes from people talking crazy and shouting at one another isn't a big deal but me it was a Taboo infact in my parents' house u can't talk with high tones for normal discussions.

2. See forget love and looks...... Make sure you know the main reason she wants to marry you.

I know she loves me but she had another motive which is am meant to give her everything she wants in Life.... She had that mind set of her responsibilities is totally dependent on me.

She told me she can only spare or borrow me money towards doing anything in the house but it is my duty to provide anything she wants even the riddicules ones.

3. For your peace of mind stay away from most ladies raised by single mothers because most her poison to hate men right from teens by their mother.

They are mostly insecure....they believe all men cheat and can never trust.
Comes with mad jealousy

They mostly have anger issue.... they will tell you I don't take shit... trying to show they are strong and can't take what their mother took despite you not doing any shit.....they want to have say in everything just to show you are equal.

They are always quick to be on the defensive
Just to mention a few

I once told my wife am not like your father when I couldn't take the policing, sneaking and threat anymore.

See as a man no one gives a shit about you..... people are sympathetic towards the female and expect you to take whatever she throws at you but you need your peace of mind.
The society has made it possible for women to get away with lot of things.

If you found a woman you want to marry please put love aside and get to really know her background well......cohabit with her for 6month......lastly even if you don't have money, please borrow and go for comprehensive medical check up with her.... (check your sperm count and the state of her womb) please.

HonNL:
Previous thread:
https://www.nairaland.com/6669998/soldiers-bello-abubakar-oyediran-adedotun#104115938



SOURCE

Mokason288:
I was expecting him to disappear

HundredWays:
This useless Afonja clown will live to regret his stupid actions..
Mumu illiterate man with zero intelligence
SEND the MF back to Nigeria to answer his crimes.. who gave him order to acquire firearms and become a nuisance
Shoot the Bastard by the balls if he misbehave

Bastard!

Mokason288:
I was expecting him to disappear

adenigga:
Source: https://guardian.ng/Low-turnout-of-
voters-mark-LG-election-in-Lagos

FutureIsFemale:
https://dailypost.ng/2021/07/23/man-nabbed-in-adamawa-for-allegedly-beating-wife-to-death/

BadRadio:
https://www.goal.com/en/news/nff-vows-to-unmask-man-who-harassed-super-falcons-in-austria/


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=54LA_lzFXmo

KillIgbohoN0W:
I just dey feel DSS as dem just keep mum. No sound. Nothing.

Next, will be a shocker.

I personally shovelled sand full into a barrel at Bar Beach this morning and double checked the ropes so I know what I'm talking about.

Oduduwa Bulletproof Monk don turn to ordinary Bushbaby

jaybenugo:
Taraba Emir gives Herders 30-Day Ultimatum To Vacate Forests (Video)


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=utR5nurnH88



https://www.google.com/amp/s/guardian.ng/news/taraba-emir-gives-herders-30-day-ultimatum-to-vacate-forests/amp

jaybenugo:
Taraba Emir gives Herders 30-Day Ultimatum To Vacate Forests (Video)


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=utR5nurnH88



https://www.google.com/amp/s/guardian.ng/news/taraba-emir-gives-herders-30-day-ultimatum-to-vacate-forests/amp

fergie0o1:
SOURCE

naptu2:
http://saharareporters.com/2021/07/19/exclusive-yoruba-freedom-fighter-sunday-igboho-arrested-cotonou

Zeal0000007:
Guys I need your help here, me and my gal have been together for 6 yrs now, I was convinced that she's the one for me, so I decided to engage her late last year, at least to show that her position in my life is not taken for granted , we have really been through hell for each other even when there was nothing she was there for me, but thank God today I'm working now.

Now for the past 2 yrs, It looks as if I have been struggling to keep her, cos we have been cohabiting since I came back from nysc. Since I came back over two yrs now she has been mishaving , she locks her phone constantly, something she never did before, even if its opened the apps are lock only her can open it, if complain abt that she will respond like why will I touch her phone, asking me who does that, to touch a woman's phone even to go to social media, and she has being subjecting me to that because I don't trust her, when we are about to sleep she put her phone on flight mode, and put it under her pillow and put her head on top. Her phone is constantly on silent mode during day time so if it rings she will determind whom to pick so I won't hear and know. We can't watch movie together as partners perhaps she afraid of who will call next ,because she knows I will give her hit.

If I manage to pick up her call she will be shivering,
We have had alot of issues because of her giving in to distractions , I'm tired of talking , I don beat her tire my hand don bend. I have told her if u don't want me again and you have seen somewhere better , open up and tell me instead of cheating that will be honorable thing to do. I don tire for this gal, if I drive her away she has no where to go. The school she's going I'm the one supporting her, her family is not giving her enough support because the don't believing in education all the know is business, and I'm the only one bearing her load and i'm not doing that because i want to marry her, i'm doing it because she needs help and she is my lover.
She doesn't want to loose me because we have really suffered together so she want to keep me as potential husband and still be playing games outside , what crime did I do to go for service so I can come back and make life better for us, cos that was when she got spoilt. I deflowered her and thats not how I left her.

I have resolved chasing her away, right now I'm in offshore , I never trusted her while I was on land is it now that I'm offshore I will trust her?

Kwanza:
https://dailytrust.com/photos-the-burial-of-army-general-murdered-in-abuja

Generalwoodz:
See earlier thread
https://www.nairaland.com/6650160/southern-kaduna-herdsmen-kill-100

Here are pictures

TruthHurts1:
[url]http://saharareporters.com/2021/07/12/how-department-state-operatives-dehumanise-only-female-among-13-detained-igboho%E2%80%99s-aides[/url]

Barbsamiin:
The worst part of it is that, The short and ugliest girls will always be crushing on you.
So sad mehn.

Ezeama400:
https://dailypost.ng/2021/07/12/open-grazing-ban-therell-be-no-peace-fulani-group-warns-southern-govs/?utm_term=Autofeed&utm_medium=Social&utm_source=Facebook#Echobox=1626078516

TarOrfeeek:
As a woman, why should you wait for a man living in this condition to approach you.

Why not approach richer and better men.

Why do you people like to poverty shame men. Why is the burden of affluence placed on men.

Carry this your rubbish topic and gtfoh

etokhana:
https://saharareporters.com/2021/07/07/breaking-many-feared-killed-boko-haram-attacks-adamawa-villages

Lewisjohnson:
Mtcheeeew,.
Sai Baba 4 + 4 =2029, PMB = Next Level
Haters drink sniper

West2019:
I just like hausa for one thing ,there not making noise before taking any action , Yoruba and Igbos .are not smarter .

SARSCoV2:
Dunces!
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Where is it done in democracy!

This fools we call governors don`t even know the system of government on which they were being elected.

Governors my foot! Height of trash, bunkum and balderdash.

Lost funalas
Hope u done bath with cow urine today

Like! who does that... swarms of fvcks!

Voiceofthestree:
Mumu people. Instead for them to talk about supporting each other and form southern Nigeria. They all know the best but because of their greediness all of them are thieves eating in the fail system.

milky3:
How has the meeting affected the masses positively? Let them keep swaving their Agbada here and there.

Igbojihadist:
thanks for the advice but i dont just know am getting crazy about her

vicdom:
https://www.channelstv.com/2021/07/05/bandits-kidnap-unspecified-number-of-students-in-another-kaduna-school/

thebosstrevor1:
Evidence that charms are fake.

People need to be growing away from charms.