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Moezzy:
thank's man....pls follow back.., i wanna dm you on some serious mata

aii no p

Moezzy:
wow! You're good

Naa will learn every day cus this girls their eyes too day chuk and they bring new style everyday

misspicy:
you are really not getting this are you?

okay if i was in a relationship with you,ad i have other male friends, if we eventualy breakup and i think i should date again,i will surely pick one of my male friends that has been asking me out which i must have been conversant with and know his weaknesses and strong points right....i for one will go for someone better than you,in the aspect i want my man to be better which you lack.....

it could be looks,money,education etc


for example my ex boyfriend was one very clean handsome guy,if am to date again,my next should be more handsome or more intelectually okay or more comfotable than him...

my love i get you o....but i will still say it, if you find another just know is another schema u found plus if is not panadol it can never be panadol ..what makes you think he will be single? or u think s every thing a guy tells u that's true.....le me giv u a tip s a guys code,, i know some guys il b mad for letting this out....we guys generally except the ones wey never jasi,, we tell ladies what they need to hear not what they need to know reason s cus, u ladies r emotional and words get to you faster than anything.

misspicy:
lemme call schumastic to help you

am here sweet

Moezzy:
Romancelander's, please help a brother, i don't know how to woo a girl, anytime i want to talk to a girl my hearts beats faster and i always feel feverish........

Any advise?

my brother the type of wooing that will work for a particular girl might not work for another mean while this are the basic three i guess..

1.being her friend and try not to fall under the friend zone cus if u do i swear u il hate d day u said hi to her.

2.be yourself,dress SMART, SMELL good and v some funny pick up lines..if ur sure u il see her again don't ask for her number the first or second time so u don't look desperate.

3.this final one is the father of all fathers...''MONEY'' (Ego,Owo,Kudi) if you have cash i bet u, u won't say hi they will start telling u their history to that of their forefathers..just a lil hang out n some shopping spree and you il hear her tell her friends (that guy is too caring i think i like him)

misspicy:
kikikiki lmao @ wait well...i like that you are so sure of yourself but sorry to burst your bubble,af you heard of friendzone,side nigga etc before,guy if am really in the mood to get engaged again,its so easy as swallowing eba.......besides its not pride some of us got them flocking around you know ....no reason to wait at all.

same no ni.. sare wole sare jade..reason y i said u il rush n meet d guy n end up crying that ahh schuma s better than this guy oo if u know wa i mean ...but wait o, do you think v am dating any girl i il think am d only guy tarrr, le me bend if i hear am d only guy...i know every lady v a friend zone guy and a back up guy just incase thats y i il v a rebound girl n a said chick as well..remember what s good for the goose s also good for the ? complete it

halfrica:
Wicked guy see his potatoe head

i prefer the potato head to yam head but seriously why babe go they vex like say her name na vexpar..mean while if Hot water like make e boil for 1 yr e no go take 1 yr too cold back if possible that same day so le her calm down cus soon she will b missing the D oops sorry just saying though cus i know she won't want curb web to grow there

spicy244:
Sure naija guys made them hypocrites. They believe if they are real and outspoken on issues like that, they are bad.
Don't forget everybody wants that very good gal

some of us wants the bad girls cus the good girls will still turn bad, so was the point waiting for a good girl when she will turn bad later on

misspicy:
and you are so sure

dude you are hilarious...kwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwa....

okay lemme tell you a little about myself,i believe in upgrading,i mean after a phase of life i believe i should do better than the previous ones,eg i do a business makes some money,close the business,i will surely do anoda business but a better and more profitable one.....

thats me

bruhahehheh i laugh in hebrew i swear u never jam or v u not heard of the saying? when two iron jam one must bend...
well n u expect me to downgrade as well obviously i would stand in a better position cus am a guy also i can get a gf n won't settle for less but you being the lady not praying o cus i would wish u well after moving on but u might end up his side chick cus am sure u il wait well b4 u see a better guy than i am

halfrica:
Grow up for wat??

U av no human feelins dats it
Niggas like u are d ones with a cheatin gf

A true nd sincere girl wud tink like op's gf

Lemme tink like dat happinesss above any other thing abeg

There is nuffin honest nd loyal wit wat op wrote there nuffin!!!!!!!!!! If m d gf i will do more i only felt sorry for op wen he said its takin away his happiness after dat i see nuffin else to support op wit

was this one saying self ...so a guy should keep begging you till thy kingdom come or what?
ladies like you are the type i like to date cus if i do you wrong and apologize and your still make a drama out of it, will just let you be till you have calm down and if you don't want to calm down will still let you be..wont let any lady kill my self esteem when am sure they are no saint as well..

pelij18:
Hint me on this please.

there is a thread i wrote on some of the things i learnt from my last relationship and one of them is this.

"NO woman wants to date a man that NO OTHER woman wants, finds attractive or places some sort of value on"..so since you have pleaded with her and if u continue, you il seem like a pest in her life, you il make her feel your life s not better of without her and most of all you il push her to the arms of another...i know is hard cus have been there b4 but just act normal, greet her when you see her and move on..stop the calling and texting you il only make her head swell..she will end up calling and accusing u of seeing some els...thats when you let her know you wanted to give her the space she needed, works for me though

misspicy:
you did not get my point did u?
lemme explain
see am the forgiving type just a sorry is enough no need whining and begging but if it gets to a point that i eventually lockup(stop caring or giving a Fck) then no turning back and yes i have met people like you,we just go our seperate ways life continues,funny thing is they always come.back even if its 5 years later by then i must af moved very far on and no i dont roll with wussy's


no one hurts a forgiving woman crush,she lets go

funny how they keep coming back as if their money lost there mean while il just durst my legs n move on after wishing you best of luck cus am so sure you won't find some like me n il come back begging

CaroLyner:
nigerian girls hold back when it comes to that kinda topic tho. dreyl

if you ask me, i would say most naija girls are hypocrites n no offense on that

PunkyVeer:
That's not my call to make. That's a grown woman & she's gonna do what she wants at the end of the day.

just saying cus that's the meaning i picked out from what you said

misspicy:
If your bae is someone like me....oga forget about her....because once i close my heart from a person,am so done with them

well that's for guys that have low self esteem, cus som1 like me If I apologize after I realize am wrong n Ur still acting otherwise ill just let u b n u il b d 1 to com n beg especially when u see me again happy.

pelij18:
I have pleaded, pranked her to be crying, and even cried real in her presence and yet she doesn't want to forgive me. The last time we spoke on phone she asked me never to call her line again, and that she cares less about me and hates me like ebola.

I know most folks do come in and throw lies here but wish you guys would realize how real i am asking for your advice on how to gain the heart of the only lady i love and really want to love for eternity.

Just a little mistake is costing me my entire joy and happiness per day, God why. I need you guys help please.

Thanks.

op you have done the best you can do which is realizing your mistake and apologizing but since she s still adamant then just let her be...my days of begging any girl in this life are over..when s not a mouth watery contract am begging for...the more you beg the more thwir head sweel n will end up in d arms of another guy...Mumu don get sense

PunkyVeer:
Whatever gets her rocks off.

hmmm so your asking her to hit it outside?

JustHere2Observ:
I could teach you a thing or two to make any man satisfy you...the instrument no matter, its how you put it to use. Contact me.

and here comes the teacher lol

CaroLyner:
see you.black american girls are raw.they say anything on their mind.

is called freedom of speech

KashyBaby:
Good for her that the tasted the sweetest fruit of nature

ah kashy you don spoil finish hehehe

They such Dick, Dick of destiny lol...

oginga:
Never trust anyone.

i agree to this 100%....there is this statement i tell friends but they always pick offense in it which is, "is good to trust but is better not to".

Fireson:
Nah.. not hating, I only discovered she was deceitful and pretending to be what she was not. Later found out and kicked her away!! she is still asking for another chance

Shoro niyen?

good thing you found out on time..some will hide theirs so well u won't even smell a dead rat but I believe their are good ones out there but the chances of meeting any s 1/100

Jolllyjoy:
I have learnt never to be too inquisitive,let things be the way they are.


I have learnt to put God first,never forsake God because of a guy.,



i have learnt to keep somethings to myself,even best friends can betray you.

keeping things to yourself in terms of relationship s good and helps alot..reason s cus telling your friends what your passing through can back fire most times especially those who are not happy or jealous of Ur relationship and il end up giving u bad advice.

Cutehector:
Neva been in any real relationship

Hector Hector...you can pick anyone of the female NL, am sure they will offer something good

Fireson:
Don't believe every words he/ she said..

hahahaha why now...is that how much you hated it lol

dachaste:
WOow. Looks like your experiences havve really groomed u and made u better. More grease

yeah you can say that again...been working on myself ever since...7yrs ain't easy

mizquote:
I didn't learn anything.

Meaning you didn't contribute anything to the relationship

kossyablaze:
E plenty o

i know but i just mentioned the major ones i learnt out of it and am sure there are some major ones you learnt as well

dachaste:
I leant communication is the key.





Learn to always communicate with each other no matter how little or in valid u tink an issue is, it might cos great trouble





when talking learn to choose ur words carefully. Cos words easily hurts






Don't talk wen u r angry. And don't let sorry be far from ur mouth.

your right on communication most especially for distant relationship.ladies are moved by words so i learnt to choose my words carefully and if possible say nothing self

vivianblog2:
http://www.pmnewsnigeria.com/2015/12/08/man-jumps-off-storey-building-to-evade-court-trial/

hahaha see the better slap awaiting him from the officer behind

There are lots of things we must have experienced in our previous relationships but the major things are the lessons we learnt from it, be it positive or negative.
Here are the things I learnt from mine.


I FIRMLY believe that NO woman wants to date a man that NO OTHER woman wants, finds attractive or places some sort of value on. At a point in my relationship I experienced this attitude from her because I felt, O well am dating the girl of my dream and what’s the point doing things that will attract the opposite sex not knowing it helps in sustaining a relationship.

Domestic violence – let me start by saying this, any guy who strikes his lady or any woman is not a man but a COWARD. I learnt this the hard way because I fell under this category but am happy I was able to stop that habit and speak against it. The bad part of it is that, once you hit your lady once it will be hard to stop because you feel it will put some sort of fear in her not knowing your driving her away. Ladies please don’t hit your man as well or put him to test by daring him to hit you cause out of anger he might end up doing so.

Taking decisions when you’re angry is really bad. There were times we would have heated arguments and out of anger we would say things or take decisions, which would not end well, and then we start apologizing. So try not to take any decision when you’re angry and there is this phrase I do say, the best decisions you make when your angry will eventually turn out to be the worst.

Pride – ladies do you know why your guy becomes mad and if possible breaks down when he finds out you cheated on him? Is simple, you’re his “PRIDE”. Most guys who love their lady so much sometimes end up boasting about her faithfulness to their fellow guys. So when you end up doing the opposite, you have only made a mockery out of him amongst his friends.

Finally what ever will be will be. If your partner is not meant for you just learn to let go don’t look at the years, sacrifice, pain and gain you both have spent. If you like go under the rain and pray if he or she wants to leave they will still leave but if you force it, you might end up regretting it.


You can add yours so we can learn one or two, it can be positive or negative things you learnt from your previous relationship.