Ejadamen: Where should i start? I have been reading this thread for a while and I have come to the conclusion that a lot of females (and some males) are either unreal or just plain hypocrites.
Who ever said a housewife must sit at home and do nothing? That is a silly generalization. It's just like saying all ibo people are , or all yoruba people are , . Come on! Yes i agree some women sit on their butts and do nothing to contribute to the home but for goodness sake that is THEIR CHOICE. A lot of females running their mouths here saying they cannot be house wives or stay at home moms seem to me to be either unmarried or don't have kids yet and even if they do and they want to leave their kids with helps or family, again that is THEIR CHOICE. Why sit and judge?
@ Fhemmy, a child raised by a stay a home mom will not necessarily grow up clingy. Have you seen Margaret Thatcher type housewives? You go fear fear.
Circumstances and situations contribute to a woman becoming a housewife or stay at home mom. That does not mean they have suddenly become lesser females. A woman can be a housewife AND earn an income. It has been said over and over but some are still saying God forbid like it is a sin. Raising children no easy o! Housewife work no easy o!
But to each his own. As for me, yes i can be housewife but i must have something doing. I[b]n fact I have my own business that gives me cool money and flexible hours [/b] which is what every mother desires so she can spend time with their children and ensure they grow up properly and not MTV raising them.
@ Chaircover, you are real and make plenty sense @ Consultant a beautiful example of a real woman who understands life and priorities change when one has kids.
Being a stay at home is not the end of the world and it is not a bad thing I salute all correct housewives
[quote author=*dhtml link=topic=284508.msg4104583#msg4104583 date=1246232951]Well, Affi, it looks like my resignation was rejected[/quote]U were 2 good to be let go!!
I am happy with that news. He grew up a Jehovah Witness, Converted to Islam and If he did accept Christ into his life a few weeks back then I am happy for that.
chiogo: Wow, never heard of that disorder till now. googled it and the amount of incidence is about 1-2% so not a lot of people have it. Depression and mental health issues are common symptoms of its sufferers. Now, I understand MJ's plight. you said it happens to darker races of people; Michael Jackson was not that dark. Guess he was just unfortunate to suffer from that disorder. The surgery/bleaching didn't do him much good either. Well, I feel better knowing it was a skin disorder not inferiority complex which made him change his skin color. He was really cute when he was little.
@Sean, I will watch the video later and get back to you.
[quote author=player_007 link=topic=286868.msg4079907#msg4079907 date=1245838751]Why is there bush fires in California yearly.?[/quote]California is a very hot and humid place. Fire is quick to start and spread!!
chiogo: Well, I don't know what to believe anymore. what about the recent news which claims MJ actually died about 18-20 years ago but the one who died is just a clone who's been impersonating him all this while? It's all creepy.
And why did he change his skin color? I'm yet to understand it. Did he feel inferior or what? some said it was a skin disorder, what was this disorder called? why isn't it known and being tackled by experts? too many questions. All the same, RIP Michael Jackson, his life was a really troubled one. Don't think he ever knew true happiness even with his success as a singer.
fyneguy: Hmmm the whites MJ sought to be identified with by doing plastic surgery and all what not, were the same people who ensured his fall through media and judicial wars.
Just as he was retracing his root back to the Black world by involving people like Rev. Jesse Jackson and others, in his comeback bid, one might not rule out his dogged adversaries' involvement in his sudden death.
RIP Miko
MJ was not trying to be white. He had a disease. Get a mind of your own and stop believing everything U read in the media!!
girl22: google "chandler admits led michael jackson"
yeah they father was caught on videotape dmitting that. news also got out that the mother of the pther child got paid and offeref a deal.
i feel sorry for jackson because people misunderstood him. he loved children because he was innocent and he felt he could trudt them. people were usiing him for his money. i belirve lisa marie presley married him just because he was micheal.
the thing that got me was, why didnt get rid of the ranch and stop letting children spend the night at his house?
but he loved children and was trying to relive his childhood.
I hope MJ's family sue these bastards for defamation of character.For the love of money they destroy a mans life.
savanaha: I googled the information and couldn't find anything but I found something similar on youtube. Something saying that the boy now 26 says his father abused him. There is an actual tape on youtube on the Father saying he will destroy Michael Jackson. If Michael Jackson wasn't such a confused fool I would have felt sorry for him but he was too old to not learn. I realize he had emotional and mental issues but wow. . .
Siena: Taylor, as long as the fried snake you're sending are rattlers, that's fine by me! Have never tried any other specie, not sure how they'll taste.
NOO, Its a big,roasted anaconda.It just arrived in london.I hope you have your fork and plates ready.
I still can not believe it. Your music will live on 4ever.I am sad U are gone but I am happy that U are in a better place.~~Thanks for the memories MIKE~~
mohawkchic: ~SeanT did it say if they eventually took their vows? The article i read Only mentioned plans to wed on her dying bed. . not so sure if they did wed or not!!
That's the sad part. She died before that happened. Life is 2 short.I wish he would have done it sooner.
wanville: According to research conducted by. . . [s](don't ask me who!do I look lk a nerd?)[/s] pre nup and common law, these are both good recipes(if you want your marriage to hit the rocks).
Which is the bigger tragedy, loosing your soulmate or a trustfund? [s]Micheal had d trustfund but i can't attest 2 d fact that he led a happy life[/s] I'm keepin ma fingers crossed that I don't have ma priorities mixed up.
Anyway all these dudes dat are cryin prenup, I know their type. Its all talk!!They'll be advising their friends" kill the bitch man, she is disrespecting." Meanwhile they treat their galfriends like cow egg.
Pre-nup or not,a marriage is gonna hit the rocks if its not build on certain things.Pre-nup is just there to stop your money from leaving with the devil.If U get married without a pre-nup and U live in the states, the law is gonna make sure U take care of your ex-wife for the rest of her life. Most girls now get married to rich men,persuade them to not sign a pre-nup,divorce him and go away with his millions.No marriage is guaranteed.She can be an angel now but years from now when U divorce her the government is gonna make sure U send her a big fat check every 2 weeks while she sits on her ass and do nada. I am trying to protect you guys out there.Some females are evil. [b]I am an angel though. [/b]
If U are a millionaire please sign a darn pre-nup. Not all marriages last forever. You may think your partner is an angel now but years from now they might turn into the devil and take U for all you are worth. Let me clarify my statement, If U are a millionaire and live in the US please sign a prenup.