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meggy 11:
I've not heard of my babe for quite sometime now.pls update me and give me names of recent films she has featured.thanx.

Theblessed:
[b] Wish Beyonce' INDEPENDENT WOMAN could hammer into the chicken brains of our housewifery sister for life. No intelligent, ambitious, confident woman with high self esteem and knowing exactly where she's going and where she wants to be in this day in age, would want to sit around at home prepare cookies, eat babies leftovers and tidy up afterwards, no! There's nothing wrong in being married and having a career or even work part-time. It gives you a sense of SELF/RESPECT. Even men themselves would tell you, they don't like DEPENDENT women as they want their women to have a life and the fact that, you are contributing into the family money pot would accord you greater respect from both your husband, the inlaws and your social circle.

Am I harsh on these ladies? Absolutely! Someone on here said it's 'Choice', and I am saying no - it's has alot to do with self esteem, laziness, lack of ambition, the values they were brought up with, their social circle etc - otherwise why would an intelligent and educated woman end up in the home as a domestic slave even if her husband is BILL GATES. In fact, Bill Gates wife is a very busy woman - doing something all the time e.g. her/her husband's charity work - check her schedule!!

I'm only sorry for the men that hooked up with these layabouts but then, men don't realise the quality of women they ended up with until after the honey moon and first baby by then, skool don dismiss. Personally, in this situation I can only forgive those of them who could not read or write (the illitrates) but many of them are quite industrious - striving to set up small businesses of their own thus showing not only ambition but dignity however, their educated counterparts hide behind motherhood - an excuse for dependency mentality. Sorry for their husbands, though. [/b]

allboyz:
BTW - HAPPY BRITHDAY Affi . . ,   

Gabry:
Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. . . So u wre the on tryin to steal my penguin pikin and made her cry abi?

theolar:
I beg to differ on d definition of a real woman being a financially independent woman . A beta defnt is in d book of proverbs

xoxoxo:
Happy Birthday Affi

This song is for you. Enjoy!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XEfgW6i1a8A

chiogo:
They're fine. . .can rock 'em in the summer.

wonder where they're sold. china?

gen2genius:
Frankly, even if I became the richest man in the world, my wife would still use her degree to have a meaningful contribution to the society. What's all the fuss about a woman staying at home for the rest of her life, burying her talents, certificates etc because she wants to have a happy home? Sonya Carson (mother of Ben and Curtis Carson) was a single mother who worked tirelessly to feed and educate her children. Yet she still had ample time to bring them up to become responsible men. There are several other women like that. You don't have to stay at home all-day long to have good children. You can have a successful career and a successful marriage. It's a matter of being resourceful and being able to set your priorities right.

Which of the men advocating "full-time housewife" role would be happy to send their daughters to school up to Masters level only for her to bury everything in the name of marriage and family life? Can any of these men agree to be full-time househusbands? Was a woman created JUST to bear and rear children, cook and clean a house? If yes, why didn't God just give them mothering abilities without any other skills? Why are women created with the same mental abilities as men?  And why do we even have to send our girls to general schools? I mean we could just create a School of Mothering and Family Life and send all our girls there instead of spending so much money to train them to study a course like Mass Communication only to end up communicating nothing except lullabies and kitchen songs!

A woman could stay at home with her kids in their formative years, but anything after that, count me out!!!

Ogaga4Luv:
hearing from u again is my pleasure,our pleasure? my dear,Life must sure be great Forevermore for those that knows what it takes,Fewer trouble?,No!,iw need to help if you permit me,Sean i tell you everything around me has been swimming with Success,Satan"myself"-has been so helpful in my life,franckly speaking there is Wealth,Riches,peace and Joy in Satanism.i can be a proud testifier.

peace & Love as always

Hailz!!!!!!!

segyemaro:
Ogaga are you just joking or you are realy for the devil?cos all your contributions on this thread make u sound like anti- christ.so are you just joking or?

Gabry:
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U dont like that name? It got banned cause its a multiple ID.

I know u like that name now

Why multiple IDs naa?? why

platinumnk:
eh hemmm, sistawoman is leagues above the one. my friend u better join her night class. Ive been enrolled since May!

prittigrrr:
When I was married, I was a housewife. I also was a full time student. I loved being a housewife. I volunteered at my stepkids' school. I was in graduate school and I had time to manage the home and attend to my studies. On break, I would take a part time job, but most times, I only worked in the home. I volunteered at my church and stayed very, very busy. Most money came from my husband, but I was able to make pocket money doing a few things. I could easily go back to being a housewife because I know how to do a lot of different things. If I got bored, I could always open a home business or start working in my profession part time. However, I am glad I knew how to work and had experience and education since I ended up getting divorced. Even if a lady is a housewife, every woman should know how to work and provide for herself.

snappy:
[color=#000099]@SeanT why cant you see yrself in it?

@FL Gator u can have one if u want[/color]