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HRSweetness:
Ahn ahn, small poke and you went off on me. just joking with you mahn

I didn't go off on you,thought you asked a question and was just responding to what you asked.
I'm sorry if you feel that way.

thebosstrevor1:
How will a career woman help towards the wellbeing of your family.

Do you understand the meaning of a career woman?

a woman who is devoted to pursuing a professional career.

These type of women will emasculate you, once you don't meet up in terms of earning

Not just earning sef,you can be making way more than her in earning but if you too aren't in that professional scheme of things,it becomes a problem.
You might have to deal with someone who makes a yardstick for being succesful as belonging in that professional career clique as hers and idolising and making a big deal out of professionals,leaving your efforts unappreciated and your true worth in the mud.

HRSweetness:
LOL. Is this why you've been running away from me? Cos I'm a successful career driven woman?

First off,I didn't runaway from you.We went pass small talks obviously, I think we were curious to know more of each other, I asked we talk on phone,you weren't sure about it,I could also not keep talking in public,then things got hard.
I didn't and still don't know what exactly it is you do,so there's no way I will run from you for being a succesful career lady.
And if you notice,I didn't say all career women are bad,was looking at things from my experiences and want to know from other people's experiences.

MrBrownJay1:
why would a man want to put unnecessary stress in his life, and NOT have a career woman to help towards the wellbeing of his family? no matter how a man looks at it, 2 salaries will always be better than one, for the family.

the catch is to make sure you dont settle for one lazy money hungry olosho... et voila!

I was talking of men that can comfortably run a home without a woman's input.
You don't need a career woman because her contributions she will make to run the family will be insignificant to you,so much so that you can't let go of your sanity cos of it.

Raalsalghul:
Now that you've mentioned it, I think this classcism of a thing stems from lack of an open mind. I see such individuals as myopic.

I come from a corporate back ground too in maritime and having dealt with consignees, agents, shippers, haulage operators who are well loaded even with their lax appearance, I now know better than to judge individuals at first sight.

Having said that, I remember about four ladies at my former place of work who were single parents. This is me not saying all career minded ladies are bad but maybe who knows these set fit your postulations.

Yeah classism comes from being myopic and inexperienced.
The people who pull weights and make numbers happen most times don't look like the weight they pull cos honestly where's the time to do so?If they aren't occupied physically,then they are mentally.
So an inexperienced person will easily judge these people a certain way till it gets down to numbers and you now see who's boss.
It's a great mistake to judge a person's ability via superficiality in my experience.
Yeah that attitude that comes with women in that category most times leave them only to the option of being single mothers as very few men who can pull their own weights will want to have them as wives.
They'll want to date you and sleep with you for the fun and spice,but marriage?not really.
The set of men that'll be comfortable with that kind of settings are dependent men and these women don't want that,neither can they afford to keep dependent men.
So they just birth kids with no father figure and convince themselves that they're better off alone.

TheOldGods:
the funny thing is that someone like you is actually a broke person. Driving a car doesn't mean you're rich

Trust me ,you really don't wanna go there bro,you really don't
But I can go that low if you want to be stupid and stretch hands into things bigger than your comprehension and reality.

Raalsalghul:
Touché

There is something about business minded ladies that makes them humble especially having had transactions with people from all walks of life. They'll be the last to judge you based on education, diction or appearance knowing that you could be a potential customer. Hence, they are quite open and friendly.

True,have experienced this a lot.
The majority of classist people I know is mostly from corporate world.Both male and female.
Funny thing is the people that command and possess the real yardstick for classism are always the humble businessmen and women.
I think with abundance comes humility,people always make up for what they don't have by bringing up false standards and mouthing everyone else down.
Sad situation really.

TheOldGods:
it's not insultive, but insulting. You sound like an illiterate. Like I said it's a 2013 model which ofcourse is a w205. So thank you for your stupid input, which makes no single sense.

W205 in 2013?What you own is a w204 facelift.
If it was a 205 you won't be facing aging problems this early.
We no dey English class,I focus on things that will make me afford proper luxury,not old ones.So forgive my poor use of English but I really don't care.
Yes I'm an illiterate,one smart enough to avoid old luxury cars by all means.

Raalsalghul:
By independent, do you mean career, business minded or both?

Your writeup seems to indict career minded women.

Career women.
From observations it seems women in business aren't as cocky as career ones.
And I'm not generalising,I know there are exceptions.

TheOldGods:
young man you're an Ignorant fellow, it's my security. My alarm won't beep if I hold the panic button, and thus the EPS light doesn't beep. However my technician doesn't seem to be too versatile and I need a more experienced person. He said either he removes security and I'll never use panic button or alarm etc.

I've been conversing,you've being insultive.
I tried to ignore your tantrums but it keeps happening.
You have to work on this behaviour of yours,else you'd be greatly limited from getting to the good things of life as a consequence to your bad attitude,like you being stuck with a 12 year old Mercedes for instance.
Nice day.

In light of all what's been happening and from experiences,I am beginning to think our predecessors were right in always picking women way lower than them in the food chain for marriage or the homely ,younger ones to be complete housewives for sanity reasons.
All these independent women come with one barrage of problems or the other(my experiences).
Some of them are;
Too much experience.
Barrage of exes.Their exes no dey finish,everyday new name.
Age .Before a woman or any person can achieve stability,time don go well well.
They can actually do without you and in the long run,this becomes a big problem like it or not.That feeling of having someone need you?forget it with these set of women.(they already have mechanics,artisans and all contacts throughout their long years of being independent).
Prone to cheating.They've got jobs so it's easy for them to cheat on you with colleagues and associates and trust me,you'll never find out if she's good or don't want you to.
Highly opinionated,trust me you'll have a lot of clash of interests with them and confrontations,especially with the rude ones.
Pride. I need not say much about this but its real,they feel way above their heads most times.
Etc...
These are my observations, I'd love guys who've experienced different or similar circumstances to throw more light from their experiences so we can discuss about this .
What Compromises did you make for peace to reign and enjoy your union?
PS;Please all those rude kids with penchants for disrespecting women and insulting them should stay off this thread please,I am not in the mood for your shenanigans.

Acidosis:
Many people (women especially) cannot handle rejection. Those of you that want to share bills or want your woman to prepare a table before you, I hope y'all are taking notes?

I think you're right.
Na to avoid all these so called independent ladies completely and look for homely girls abeg.
Their wahala too much!

kingreign:
Don’t you actually get tired of all these baseless highly questionable things you spew online?

It may interest you to know I’ve had to rebuild or replace more than 17 W205 and W213 engines.

Please be guided, some very old luxury cars still perform excellently well abs would outlast a lot of newer cars.

An engine is a mechanical unit that fails most times due to inputs(service history,drive pattern,foreign bodies that found its way into them) and its failure have little to do with aging.
So that's a wrong analogy to even make to justify your point in this case.
How many times you don hear W205 SAM just seize on its own or some similar problems with no known cause?They're still relatively new so things like that will hardly happen,give it time and it'll start all these aging problems like this guy's W204!
I know you'll try to defend obvious truths,after all you make a living off people's automobile ignorance .
More random failures will still happen and I hope his pockets are deep enough to cater for sudden ,reoccurring costly expenses on old ,valueless German cars.

Nna ,why me sef no get this kind experience na.
I still dey look for one correct lady weh go dey molest me steady like this
Make I finish her puna for am.
Had such experience just twice,one with one of our neighbour's daughter(my agemate) and I reported her to my older sister immediately,as a "nwa mummy" I be that time.
Second experience was in nursery school with one useless senior student called Josepha,we didn't Bleep but she always took me to the back of our classroom block to thoroughly study my prick,like she's to write a book on child dicks or something.Serious examinatiin like this almost everyday.
Didn't last long though,stopped in like a year or less.
Then third experience is a dude whom I grew infront of ,always asking me when I will come and visit him,that he always sees me in his area when I go to visit my gees and wondered when it'll be his turn for me to visit him too
Bros haba na,since when men weh no be friends dey visit each other?Anywhere this guy see me e dey always asking when I dey come visit am like say I be girl.
Funny enough I am a very huge guy ooo with plenty height,bros no fear ,e still want scatter My yarnsh.
I just ignore am,later heard the guy has HIV or so,always coughing dry cough all the time.
Was already a teenager sha so I don already code all those his gay advances,just dey use idea dey dodge am.

Angrygoat:
I can't imagine how much 04 model crv was at that time. Highest 1m toks

1.1-1.3m toks, unless all those Japanese converted which sold for like 900k then.

TheOldGods:
w204 2013, and not 10. 70k miles, is a fair drive for a car that is over 8 years. Like I said, if you have nothing to say just shut up and stop insulting yourself

Well,I don't know of anyone driving a W205 that's having all these aging problems as you,that should tell you something.
W204,W204 facelift, same cars with the latter just having a few cosmetic difference and in some cases a different engine(M273),same old drivetrain and electricals produced almost same time that have existed long enough to start wearing and tearing.
All boils down to age brotherly.Not insulting or talking down your car but luxury cars do this a lot.
The moneypit syndrome as they age us beginning to show its ugly head,now us the time to dump that car and protect your savings.

TheOldGods:
car only has 70k miles and it's a clean car. No accident / Salvaged history . If you have nothing else to add, except from typing this nonsense, shut your mouth.

70k miles is really a lot for a luxury car.
Clean history or not,there's something called wear and tear.Its worse in luxury cars as there are a lot of things to fail or wear in them.
And btw,a W204 probably 2010 is an old car chief,12-14 years is a long time man.
Well,you'll soon realise this as you grow .

TheOldGods:
Guys, I just had a minor issue with my car. My car won't start with the starter relay pushed into the front Sam, however, if I bypass this relay by connecting two wires, the car starts but the security system is messed up and thus I won't be able to drive out unless I unplug the battery head, but the alarm won't work and the security beep keeps beeping untill my battery is drained. What could be the problem?

Old age.
Avoid any luxury car older than 5 years for your sanity!

Whiskey and tobacco.
Miss all the things I use to do to relieve stress as I no longer go to those places often due to distance.
Miss the beach so bad in a particular central African country.

W203 to W204 conversion.
See wetin person dey seriously use his youth for

Night sailing, lots of near misses on the roads and late Night voyages.

Raalsalghul:
Why Portugal?

proximity.

HausaIboYoruba:
thanks I will look into them butlst of these countries are so racists

Not if you get money they don't have.
Racism flies out the window.

MarryWhiteasap:
Why going far when you can find plenty in West Bank of Africa Continent Cape Verde. Ask Oshomole

Portuguese girls,and also old mama whitey on sex tourism in Western Africa
Carry enough lubes oooo and spit cos it's gonna get dry.

Eastern poor European countries if you are good money wise ,
Ukraine,Albania,Hungary,Bulgaria,Romania and all those poor places.

Cc 9icetoo

Lekan1o1:
Wow... thanks for this bro.
But what are the side effects like..
Any idea?
I heard horrible things like u can be seeing images.
And having terrible nightmares even in the afternoon.
And also many other stuffs
Can u confirm

Yes,they are true.
Also extreme tiredness and weakness.
Also before I forget,don't sleep with any lady immediately after shaving thinking you're having protected sex.
Contact of her fluids and sores in the place you just shaved can still transmit HIV,though by a low percentile.But it can happen!

Lekan1o1:
Nawao...Exactly what i heard bro
So do u think its wise to rushto it and srart taking it bevoz of broken condom ?

Yes ooo,don't take chances with your health.
If you ever get a condom burst ,take it!
28 days of side effects is better than a life time of ARVs that come with their won side effects too.
Also,don't Bleep like a IndecentStar to impress anybody with condom,
Slow,steady and watch your condom.
Also be very careful how you take out the condom so the part that has been in her don't touch your bare dick and make way to your ureter.
Also look out for sabotages in the condom if it's the girl that put it on for you.Some of these girls are crazy.

Lekan1o1:
Sound advice bro.
Wait i thought they dont take PEP drugs anyhow.
Heared they are very powerful

Yes,very strong side effects .
To he taken for 28 days only in case of emergencies.

One thing I am really scared of mehn,this HIV of a thing.
I live a very healthy sex life.I always use condoms on girls other than my partner and I don't sleep with any random girl,neither do I even do them often.Been like up to half a year I slept with someone else.
Hookers are a complete no!no more for no reason!
I also have PEP in place incase of any condom burst.
There's only one person I have unprotected sex with,that was after proper tests have been conducted and I told her plain that i will buy a 45 magnum and shoot her in the face point blank if I ever catch any disease Cos I know it'll be from her,Cos who else right?
I guess she knows the kind of person I am who doesn't bluff and it's surely keeping her in check.
There's lots of diseases out there mehn,bumped Into an ex yesterday at the mall,very pretty girl then that I use to reminisce about her but seeing her yesterday has killed all of such thought.
She looks dilapidated, bleached, worn out and tired and I'm not playing!
Fast life doesn't pay especially for women,work hard and build something meaningful of your life Cos very few women succeed with their bodies.Those little cheap things such as phones,cheap dead 10 years over cars and furnished apartments will look like big deals to you till your body dilapidates and you can no longer sleep your way through bills.You will then know you wasted your youth sleeping with men for little things!
Be wise and careful younglings.

Ibime:
Too much shalaye.

Gazprom is already mandated by law to convert 80% of its earnings to Roubles so this decree is just window dressing and does not move the needle on foreign exchange conversions.

People hold your currency on Trust, reliability of behaviour and for trading a variety of goods. All this shalaye won't change the fact that people cannot trust to hold Rouble but I bet you have held dollars before and will continue to do so.

Any country is free to set any terms they want. EU contracts stipulate payment in Euros and nobody is shouting about Euros trying to replace petrodollar. People accept what they can trust to hold value, that's why dollar was already used before petrodollar and became merchants currency of choice when there was not enough gold to back all the currency in the world. I would rather hold something that keeps its value like Dollar or Euro than Rouble that dances upandan like Naira.

People hold the most reliable currencies that hold value and where most of their trade is done, and that is Dollars and Euros. They would hold Yuan but Yuan pegs itself to the dollar so that's the same as holding dollar, but nobody will hold a schizophrenic currency like Rouble with unpredictable Govt as an alternative.

People can hold rubles cos they have a commodity to back it up with great demand,which is oil and gas and they produce huge quantities so what are you talking about?
So long as Russia can guarantee trade devoid of sentiments and official equivalent pricing,people will hold ruble

SIRTee15:
We talking gas here and not oil.

Besides the largest buyer of Russian gas is EU- 155 million m3 per yr. The closest to it is china with 38 million. There's no replacement for Europe's demand. That's way too much what china needs.

Even if China and India decide to take the slack, it means they will drop other suppliers. Then EU can pick off the excess elsewhere. The price will balance up.

Commodity trade is a zero sum game. It's a tight market where demand strictly meet supply. Those saying EU will pay more for gas elsewhere don't know anything about commodity market.

China tried that nonsense with Australia last yr regarding coal and farm produce. They failed woefully.

Take that huge demand anywhere and price goes up immediately whether they lose other customers or not.Trading isn't theory.
Secondly,can you compare pricing for a product that is piped from Russia to EU to that of other suppliers that you need ships to go and convey?especially for a volumetric product such as gas?
EU will play ball,just watch!otherwise it's citizens will protest or its gas dependent industries will take a hit and the subsequent effect is inflation.
Russia also can pull another trick,give discount to EU based on existing infrastructure. Tell me,who will resist that?