₦airaland Forum

JOemmy:
Unfortunately ur opinion is totally irrelevant and inconsequential mr onosike is a full grown man to know exactly what is good for him and what makes him happy.

Wazobia2216:
Is that not Emeka Ihedioha at the traditional marriage

JOemmy:
Why not end ur miserable life? Who are you to tell anyone what exactly to do with their lives?

anungangampu:
What are u even saying? She contributed to his success and you still saying that he wish he never met her.
Some of you young boys are so confused.
When a man hit 30 and 40, their perspective changes from looking for glam or love to search for direction and it doesn't matter in which lady they find it ; older or younger .
I still think you are below 30. I am 100% sure.

Nwachi22:
Says by first class poverty stricken sadist.
Even if they auction you, the money realized won’t be enough to buy a pair of Rita Dominic hubby’s shoe.
Anuofia.

Ikillbrokehoes:
That guy that you are insulting is richer than your whole lineages.

Shame on you nigga.

joyandfaith:
Your assertion is not totally correct
Macron, France president married an older woman. You don't understand purpose of marriage. It is not about control. Modernisation is changing a lot of things.

Kriss216:
The parents of the boy should sue the girl and her parents. The girl vehemently raped that innocent little boy yet no one is saying anything.

Gravatar:
Here we go with the unnecessary and usually quite ignorant comparisons.

"This would've been a piece of cake had it been a Japanese car"

This statement says a lot more about the poster, than he thinks it does about Japanese vehicles.

The poster is a tight fisted individual willing to compromise on good service, and if he can save a penny in the process, he is very willing to accept cheaper, lower quality alternatives. And all of this noise the poster is making is over an ancient vehicle.

Keep living in your imaginary and delusional world where these old, beat up German contraptions are the best thing since the coming of Christ.

Cuddlebugie:
Op, with this fine CV and "recipe" of yours, you shouldn't be single.
Oh, wait!
Single by choice?

anthonyuncle:
he is building the team, they won't be perfect in one day.
he will still be around for the main time.

you really need that school on cost analysis

thesicilian:
Not everyone who wants to leave the country is doing so for greener pastures only. In fact agreat number of people are leaving because of insecurity, better education and prospects for the kids, and most importantly, better quality of life.

thesicilian:
It's the same fear I have as well. But you can't really base any long term decisions on that, because if she's going to misbehave in what ever form, she'd do it whether you're there or not

Dagreeen:
Thanks so much for this. I have thought about this also but I was just afraid of leaving my wife abroad and coming back to Nigeria. I've heard of several cases of nurses getting abroad to start misbehaving. Although I don't have any reason to doubt my trust for my wife but you know some women can be very funny? And I love my family that's the truth.

ednut1:
Your wife should go to uk and work as a nurse with the kids. You can stay behind. Uk is 6 hours away so you can be visiting monthly easily

thesicilian:
This is what I would do
I would relocate my family first to a country like Canada, UK or Australia (I don't consider the US safe due to police wahala for blacks). Since wifey is a nurse she can easily get a job anywhere in these countries.
Meanwhile back in Nigeria I would focus on buiytge business to the extent that it can almost run on autopilot and I can monitor it from abroad, then relocate to join my family.

anthonyuncle:
start building a good management team in your business, and kick off your relocation plans

immortalmortal:
I dont do teens. I could manage late 20's. Na matured ladies sure pass

Oburu202:
You are absolutely right.

But with the situation of things. It looks like the independent woman are winning. So sad.

Kaymicheal852:
That's what happens when they watch Nollywood too much,it's almost next to impossible to focus on career and home at the same time , that's why a man needs a wife ,she is around the home taking care of your belongings and children and making sure they are well mannered and cultured and the home is peaceful,tidy and morally (Godly ) while you're away hustling so you can bring the good life home for them

Nobody says a woman shouldn't work but her work should revolve around her home or she should be able to abandon work anytime when she is needed at home

Men who things a woman should always brings money home are really getting it wrong ,they are really in a Dreamland as you have said

Kaymicheal852:
Looking from the nature's point of view ,woman are not naturally money makers ,they are more of nuturing, maintaining and multiplying,so whether a woman have money or not doesn't matter especially if the man have enough to take care of the home

Doing domestic work and taking care of kids if enough stress for a woamn so I only see men that wants woman to work or have lots of money as men who simply don't have enough money

Although is good if a woman works too but I'll prefer my wife to manage my business than she works elsewhere or better still she have her own personal business,but my woman having a corporate career is a no for me

Let's be honest,your woman life must revolve around you or she must need you for protection and survival and provision most of the time or else trouble looms

Woman are not just created to be able to handle their own shit by themselves and that's what education and civilization wants then to be (INDEPENDENT WOMAN )
and guess what,our society and moral values have degreded so much that almost every woman are uncultured or promiscuous more than anytime in the history of mankind

Aaaaarghmed:
When I dey my ND,I usually go and visit my bros in his lodge ,most time I meet classy ladies and I tell him bros it's like u go marry this one o.he go smile,years later when he wanted to marry,na one fulani man we dey sell cow for bush daughter he marry,most independent ladies are not submissive,they argue with you on everything, even things they have no idea about.they hardly listen.Now that am grown and have alot of experiences I now understood why my bros left all those ladies to marry a fulani man daughter who he sponsored to school after he wifed her.very good woman.

thebosstrevor1:
You made some good point.

I think these type of women are so isolated from the real world that they think their professions are only what exist.

Not to bash them but that is my observation when interacting with these type of women.

HRSweetness:
not gonna derail your thread okay...