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Toplap:
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Shalaye master, you no marry her because fear catch you and because of your insecurities which you always show here. She had a steady income, was earning higher and better than you,also from a wealthy family. You are a trader with a struggling buizness and dwindling funds of late, from a broken family background. You were no match for her, who are you deceiving? Nonsense and ingredients man with inferiority complex

I am a trader,yes.Never denied that,but trading get levels.
Wealthy family means nothing to me,the people that own me made so much for that to make me intimidated.
Dwindling funds or struggling business of late? Something dey do you for head
I never see where person with struggling business or dwindling resources dey expand operations ooo.
Aunty rest,at the end of the day every man knows who he'll marry,so save your rants for those that care.

Toplap:
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STFU. Too much nonsense and ingredients men on this thread like you. The thread is for Nigerian women but your aproko and chuchuchu will not allow you shut up. Have you married that your pharmacist or doctor girlfriend that is making more money than you and you were scared of because her earning power passed yours? This loud mouthed and basket mouth simp that cannot resist shalaye on nairaland

I no marry am because her taste and wants pass wetin her income can cater for,so definitely the cost of that taste and desire will be heaped on me if I make the mistake of marrying her,and I am not that person that'll sacrifice my wants for another's.
There's no way a Nigerian doctor or pharmacist practicing here that isn't some kind of badass specialist or own a practice income will supercede mine,no fucking way!
Now you STFU.

Women rise and be independent this,strong women that...Na only for Internet I dey see am.
But if N200k problem come now,all the males for their contact list go know about am,running from pillar to post with shaved pubes looking for who to lobby into solving the problem in exchange for her warmth.
Think say to make sustainable money na like mixing bleaching cream.
Posterity ....

tommy589:
Informant

Smart man.
They bought cfa at the borders out of desperation to secure more goods(forex) when they return to their base before they sold their dollar,one of the punks who bought it from them went behind to tip off customs.
Else how did they know?
Another angle is profiling.Sometimes they take wild guesses when they see foreigners and do some rigorous search(luck).

udder:
Money Laundering.

If investigated properly, they are probably connected to a terrorist organization but they always make sure there is no direct link to the key players.

Money laundering and they are bringing the money into Nigeria abi?

realstars:
They must be investigated and the money sized.

Those are currency smugglers making dollar available for Nigerian parallel market for small profits.!
If not for freelancers like these supplying Nigeria BDCs forex which satisfy most of the imports outside CBN exclusive list,I'm sure your purchasing power would have halfed by now.
You think the fx used to satisfy lagos,Onitsha,aba markets comes from all those travellers bringing chicken feed from overseas at the airports?
They didn't steal ,it's their money or their oga's money who deals on currency.
So why should the money be seized?
Highest they'll pay duty on the funds and keep the rest,
Which the duty and penalty for this is always very huge sha.

Tranquility2345:
Snap a picture of your room key in its jacket that says Lagos Continental Hotel or I don’t believe ….

Whether you're convinced or not,I wouldn't care.
And I never said I was still there ,airhead.

TheOldGods:
you don't need to show me. from the type of car you drive we can tell. And you drive a corolla which are for startups. So just shut up

A corolla amongst 5 others,all of which can buy your car qnd remain change,including the corolla

TheOldGods:
you're a fool actually, I own a Mercedes 2013 c300 sport luxury 4matic. Luxury is in the name of the car I drive. Yes it's over 5 years of age, but not upto 10 years yet, however it's still more expensive than your 2015 corolla in terms of market price and even fixing of parts. A broke man like you wants to flex me in porthacourt as if, you can afford what I tell you to buy. Get off from Mercedes Benz thread broke fool and go to your cheap corolla thread and do that nonsense. Find your cheap class.

I don't need to come to porthacourt, just buy your parents if they are still alive a brand-new 2022 Toyota Corolla or even your sister and come and post it here for us to celebrate with you.

Na stranger you wan flex. Mumu

I no want flex you,I just want take you around,show you how I live,
So that you go know say you no suppose open mouth talk rubbish to anybody because we dey NL.

TheOldGods:
some cars are not meant for broke people. Cut your coat according to your size. My mum recently bought an Acura mdx2018, but I kept forcing her to buy Benz ml, she refused that she can't maintain it. As a salary earner, she already knows how much I spend to ride mine. She cut her coat, no need to talk down on anyone, buy your cheap corolla and drive and allow people who can drive luxury drive them.

Your 10 year old Mercedes don't fall under luxury sir ,I for no talk if na W205 you dey drive.
I still wonder how person weh dey maintain 4 pick up trucks and fuel all of them simultanoeusly since they're all working won't be able to afford to run a 10 year old relic,cheap second hand C300 .
50k lol,this pikin dey craze for head.
If to say you dey PH I for like make we link up,make I show you levels,
Hungry buffoon.

ariesbull:
is t corolla that has stabiliser linkage issue, is it the same corolla that my guy has changed the engine due to knocking sound or the one that has rust issues...

Wheew smh.m

ariesbull:
so you drive an old 2015 car
.. So driving a 2017 car is old... Be it luxury or not but you drove an 8yr old car

I pity you

Corolla na luxury car?
Since I buy am,I no even know where the fuse box dey,neither have I done anything on it more than 50k at a go.
I just changed fuel pump na yesterday, dey there dey zuzu.

Havesomesense:
What's your height

1.93m

115kg

Badboibipo:
Do you know that when you touch your first 50 million naira you will have zero urge to wear designer clothes?

You most likely will just wear short nicker and palm sanders because who you want impress when you’re already a multi millionaire? But toast women with that dressing and see their reaction then you will understand the purpose of my thread.

A mumu girl just missed out of a Chance to date a multi millionaire because he didn’t wear senator kaftan to toast her. You get my point now?

The bolded is so true ,but for working men sha.
A man with no focus who landed on 50m naira by chance without going through the process will most likely be very superficial.
Working men no get that kind time,it's all about growing their networth and nothing else matters.

DontBullshitMe:


Thank God say you distance yourself from that leech.

Omo them no dey tell person.
I don't think she's a leech sha but na all these girls weh dey like to overvalue themselves,because I don't see what somebody in her income bracket is doing in a five star hotel on her personal expense.
When you ask them ,them go play the Nigeria is not safe bla bla bla as excuse,
Who want kidnap you before?
Whether they think kidnappers go around to pick just about anybody is what I don't understand.

DontBullshitMe:
100% on point, as always.

Too much experience in these things brotherly.
There's this lady I work with,big girl by all ramifications.
So we suppose go on a trip together for work and we were the last two people to leave for that work trip as every other person don go.
We suppose go in the same vehicle according to plan from my partners she work for,but however since we were late for schedule as arranged by my partners,every other expenses we incur while waiting for logistic arrangements will be born by us since my partners don already provide the first ones we missed but we no use am due to lateness.
So she called me and said since as we dey go together ,say make we stay same hotel so that logistics go dey easier and to avoid chances for another mixup.
I say no wahala,go ahead and book.Na there I Bleep up thinking say na me and human being dey talk.
Na so this girl go land me 4 nights for 5 star hotel for VI ooo,pay already ,sent me the details and bill so I can refund her
To her na normal thing,but to me street hustler it means a lot since I know I can have similar services for way cheaper and we didn't grow by spending carelessly.
The thing pain me ehn!
Now imagine someone dating this kind of person up to the point of marriage?you'll find out all your resources will be expended on catching up to someone's unrealistic,classist lifestyle for pointless reasons.
Since then I stopped being friendly with her because even before then I be don dey reason to enter the girl but I just run abeg.

ariesbull:
So people driving 2017 Lexus, BMW, Benz, and infinity, Chrysler are stupid...


So 5 Yr old car is old... Abeg which kind car you dey drive

People like you no even get bike

Don't mistake me for yourself @ bolded.
I drive a modest 2015 corolla LE,
And a host of pick up trucks that I own.
I said don't buy a LUXURY car older than 5 years,but I don't think you're capable enough to understand what that means.

As for your number 5,avoid all flamboyant women,whether hardworking,lazy,rich or poor.
At the end of the day ,their superficiality,classism ,taste ,sophistication and wanting to belong will alter your reality, modesty and of course your spending.
As one grows and get to understand reality and is no longer excited over meaningless ,unrealistic luxury,one begin to understand the ancient concept of marrying poor,groomable young girls and mould to shape according to one's taste and finances was never wrong.
Most women who've already given themselves some certain standards can only be domesticated by old money bag,peaked out men.These ain't terrain for young guys still building their dreams.
And honestly,this is why men avoid these women and I find it hard to blame them .

sonofthunder:
Nigeria became the poverty capital of the world, take it or leave.

Maybe Burundi has overtaken us now, I don't know for sure but yes, my point overall still stands. So many countries of the world, African countries inclusive, are better than Nigeria.

Don't confuse our potential and our brilliant minds or where we could have been with where we currently find ourselves as a nation.

Things aren't perfect here,but asides SA in sub saharan Africa,Nigeria remains the biggest and most prosperous place to be in.
No competition brother,forget.
This isn't cockiness,you can pick any one of your choice so I tell you how Nigeria is better than them.

sonofthunder:
Not just israel, most of the countries we are aheàd of via GDP are better than us and all the countries ahead of us via GDP are surely ahead of us.

We are the poverty capital of the world. We overtook India who have a population of about 4-5 times our own

If Nigeria is the poverty capital of the world,where will you now out Burundi?
Just dey talk wetin you no know with confidence.
And also know that all prosperity indices plaguing Nigeria today is the North and its large population of unproductive people.
Take that away and Nigeria index goes up instantly.

okoroemeka:
different strokes for different people I guess,but for me there is no thrilling experience that I will love more than driving a 2020 Honda Accord from Lagos to abuja,I won't even bother to service it or check anything,no need,that car will drive to heaven and back if there's road,the only thing I can do is get an armed army escort with ak47 and I will throttle that car and enjoy the adrenaline rush,but the rate of kidnapping these days on that Abuja road will make me think twice about embarking on such now,but my God what an experience it will be to drive such car cross country,it is an opportunity that a petrol head will hate to miss,

The armed escort too can kill you and disposses you of the car.
Better truck it and have all the adrenaline rush in the world at airport road,Abj.

buygala:
Get written assurance that your vehicle is fully insured while in their custody.. Also be sure an armed escort or two are escorting the vehicle.. . For 320k, u should get that at least

Trucking a vehicle in Nigeria comes with its own risk... Prone to hijacking due to slowness of truck (Vin Diesel and Paul walker style ).. Men will dismount your vehicle from the truck and drive off into the sunset

There is also the possibility of the truck being involved in an accident and throwing your property inside Bush,

In this Nigeria full of armed robbers, potholes that can swallow cars whole, and non-safety of even trains much less snail slow AA trucks, , better give a good driver to ride that car like a hired killer and deliver to you under 24 hours. .. Add an armed soldier with as an added measure.. All shouldn't cost more than 100k..

Your Car being trucked doesn't mean it cant meet a terrible accident..


I have seen brand new Lexus jeeps being driven in convoy from Lagos to Abuja.. Those guys won't stop for even Satan himself.. Na one pass, all must pass dem dey do... no slacking, no waiting, no one gets left behind.. And these are vehicles that each are worth more than 40m

In fact I can say that your car is more likely to meet misfortune if trucked than if driven to Abuja

Oga he is buying insurance in lagos to offset all of this.
If the vehicle like,make e fall off the truck,not his concern.
Besides,AA is too reputable for all these stories and I think what they charge should have an insurance package in it.
It's like giving FedEx your goods or DHL logistics and begin to imagine what if something happens?
They charge higher than street trucks for a reason(responsibility).
That's why big businesses use them despite their way higher charges than street trucks.

Direction and discipline, not necessarily money.

LordKO:
The fact that you expect me to start mentioning names of the men of timber and caliber I know that married their women primarily based on more important considerations other than their age isn't only laughable but also goes a long way to show how small-minded you're. Anyway, you and I know that you literally lack what it takes to know a man of timber and caliber, so there is no need to further a needless dialogue with you on this.

Bye-bye!

My friend Sharap,why don't you call the names of popular ones whose names are already in the public scene.
See his mouth like men of timbre and calibre in my circle.
Clown.

Nwachi22:
I wasn’t wrong afterall, calling you a poverty stricken retard with very low self esteem. You went to check my profile on nairaland. That is to show your level of reasoning, don’t worry, dial the number and contact me. I’m sure my boys will handle anuohia like you.

Won’t reply you again here. Just dial me. Ewu.

Why I go call you when I no want buy 20 plots for N4.5m with jara untop?
You think say I dey buy land inside forest?
She dey even claim say she get boys,untop plots inside forest they sell for commissions.
If madam don't even make enough,imagine wetin the boys them go dey make.
Those kind boys weh their belt for trouser dey go two complete times round their waist ,weh their head big pass their whole body walking like people from walking dead.
Only one roar them never divide like this?

LordKO:
I don't do name-dropping, but I'm being factual with you.

You can't call names because they don't exist ,quit pretending.
Facts without history to back it up isn't fact.

LordKO:
Eschew this kind of mindset. As much as I do not hold a brief for the guy and not trying to undermine the importance of youthfulness/consideration of age moderation, the age of a lady is one of the least things most men of timber and caliber do consider when sincerely considering a woman worthy of companionship.

Summarily, to each his own.

Until you show me that timbre and calibre weh marry milf in his Peak before I'll take you serious.
Africans please.Thanks!

Johnkay225:
That's a very wrong notion you have there. People fall in love for different reasons, don't think everyone who married older partners did so for the sake of money . So Mr P of the the PSquare group married an older woman because of money?? Dare Art Alade married an older woman because of money. Just be happy for people and stop all these judgements ... Even If he married for money , should that be of any concern to you

Here we go again.
Mr P met lola when no one knew what P Square was.
Lola used her influence as a giant in the media scene to secure gigs ,shows and the likes for P Square which contributed to the success of the music group.
Now ,imagine some boy in the trenches having this kind of woman as his girlfriend that is doing things like this for him,coming to look for him in the trenches with landcruiser and the likes.He go fall in love straight na and on request e don marry the woman.
But in the marriage,time passes and boom,growth happens.You begin to see clearly devoid of benefits.
When your mates dey enjoy their wives ,taking them everywhere,you the only time you get true freedom na when you succeed escape from house leaving her behind.
You hardly want to be seen with her but impossible,you want to leave the marriage and start again but a lot has changed.
You think you are the first person the woman is meeting?why did others not marry her?Of course she will cook one bs and tell you but the truth stands,
You were the only one hungry enough to throw away eternal happiness for comfort by association that you truly don't own.

Theflint1:
Macron was doing fine for himself before he met his wife though, and he was only 29 when he married her. Don't know what would have made him choose a MILF sha but some guys dey weird like that.

Good check well,na update e be dey find before e fall inside that trap.
Most times na wetin dey cause that thing be that.Its hard to believe its love.
We all love to bang milfs but marriage?na lie oo everybody go discharge all being equal.
Milfs know this and they always throw the things you stand to gain by wasting your life with them forever to bait you.

Nwachi22:
While will I stand face to face with you. You’re obviously not my mate in all ramification.

Hahaha you think so?
I for like make we see ooo.
Make I use my eyes see that person weh pass me for all ramifications
Asides age,I wonder wetin person weh dey broker real estate deals located inside deep all the deep forests in Nigeria with her phone number littered all over the place looking for clients to make commissions make she for no starve use pass me.Ha!
Even people weh dey sell real estate for premium locations no go easily open their mouth tell me this before na you lol

Kwestionair:
Shut up Mr.
Let me tell you something ehn, older woman are sweet, no stress to your life, I wish I were the one marrying Rita.
I wish them happy married life for sure.

When you complete as man your taste go change.
Why older women no go sweet for person weh dey no dey fit feed,no get house and no get no clear cut path or vision yet you can just marry one and have all these overnight without labor?
When you achieve all these things on your own,boom!story change.
Be content as a man ,grow at your pace and stop looking for who to lean on so that better things can reach you at the right time with little or no much life twisting compromises.
Elumelu,Cosmos maduka and Co weh marry maidens and enjoy them for long before them old no get two heads,
Than to rush marry wetin I no know because of hunger and still be chasing all smallies for street.