Sports › Re: Wales Consider Changing Name Of National Teams To Cymru After Qatar W/cup by segzy17: 3:26pm On Oct 31, 2022 |
What impact will that have on them? |
Romance › Re: Man Dies In Ondo Hotel After Sex Romp by segzy17: 7:09am On Oct 28, 2022 |
Serves him right |
Nairaland General › Re: Whats That One Thing(s) You Wish You Knew Earlier. by segzy17: 10:03pm On Sep 17, 2022 |
Education is just a waste of the little precious time we get |
Culture › Re: Hoodlums Disrupt Chieftaincy Installation By Olubadan by segzy17: 7:53am On Aug 23, 2022 |
Let put the blame on Buhari |
Romance › Re: I Need A Very Intelligent Person To Explain This Please? Winner wins 10k cash. by segzy17: 5:27pm On Jul 26, 2022 |
calmness0: Its called The Spotlight Effect.
The spotlight effect is a term used by social psychologists to refer to the tendency we have to overestimate how much other people notice about us. In other words, we tend to think there is a spotlight on us at all times, highlighting all of our mistakes or flaws, for all the world to see.
For people with social anxiety, the spotlight effect can be much worse, to the point that it has an effect on your ability to work or feel comfortable around other people. It is not uncommon to find yourself feeling embarrassed.
For example, if you wake up late and go to work with disheveled hair, you may be convinced that everyone is noticing and secretly thinking badly of you. You may blush or try to hide from your coworkers, convinced that they are pitying or mocking you.
It is believed that the spotlight effect comes from being overly self-conscious as well as not being able to put yourself in the shoes of the other person to realize that their perspective is different from yours.
All people, but especially those with social anxiety, are very focused on themselves, their actions, and their appearance and believe that everyone else is just as aware.3 Being aware of the spotlight effect can help to lessen nervousness or embarrassment in social situations.
If you can get to the point that you realize nobody is really paying attention to you, then you will stop worrying so much about it.
However, for those with social anxiety, it can be much more difficult to recognize this fact and overcome anxiety linked to the spotlight effect.
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Sports › Re: Obafemi Martins Joins Wuhan FC by segzy17: 9:33am On Sep 21, 2020 |
edo3: Wuhan zali,, I love dt club ehnnn,, even though u dey beat them,, they must gv u a goal.. sure for their match ehnnn.. You be real OG, Dem sabi play , |
Science/Technology › Re: Kaavan, "World's Loneliest Elephant" Regains Freedom After 35 years in chains by segzy17: 6:54am On Aug 19, 2020 |
Freedom is Good |
Crime › Re: Father, Stepmum Chain 10-Year-Old Son To Animals For 2 Years In Kebbi (Graphic) by segzy17: 4:04pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
Heartless set of people |
Romance › Re: I'm Giving Out Recharge Cards To 20 People Who Can Get This Correctly by segzy17: 8:06am On Mar 22, 2020 |
4 |
Christianity Etc › Re: Why Do I Wake Up With Mysterious Marks On My Body? by segzy17: 10:04am On Jan 26, 2020 |
That's a critical issues that requires critical thinking. Tese Ile bo |
Politics › Re: Army Reacts To 'alleged' Collection Of N1000 At Checkpoints By Officers by segzy17: 7:33am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Nigeria is a failed state, with sorting here and there, how much will be left for the so call driver and their families. I think it's high time we live up to this challenge rather than waiting on God through prayer to solve our problems. WE ARE OUR OWN PROBLEM |
Romance › Re: I Feel Like Killing My Sister And Marry Her Husband by segzy17: 2:27pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
Devil in incarnation, she seriously needs mental check - up.
Awon omo irole ayee |
Romance › Re: I Need Someone To **** Me And Give Me Money For House Rent- Says Girl On Twitter by segzy17: 2:22pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
150k for ordinary pussy |
Education › Re: Undergraduates Allege Extortion By Lecturers On Campus by segzy17: 8:31am On Jan 02, 2020 |
I don't think this kind of things is happening in university of ibadan |
Sports › Re: From Hazard & Pepe → Xhaka & Lingard, Here Are September Flops Of The Month by segzy17: 12:48pm On Oct 04, 2019 |
Courtois, will have chose pepe but the guy is still trying to adapt to new environment |
Crime › Re: EFCC Re-Arraigns Fugitive Yahoo Boy In Ilorin (Photo) by segzy17: 7:24pm On Oct 02, 2019 |
See as the guy dey smile self |
Crime › Re: Woman Sets Man On Fire In Delta Over N200 Debt, He Dies by segzy17: 5:31pm On Sep 06, 2019 |
Eye for eyes........ Set the two of them on fire |
Politics › Re: #SackBuhari: Lai Mohammed Begs Nigerians To Pardon Buhari Over Certificate by segzy17: 5:28pm On Sep 06, 2019 |
I will read the contents later |
Crime › Re: SARS Storm Offa Polytechnic Shooting Sporadically, Stuns Run by segzy17: 7:16pm On Sep 05, 2019 |
Nigeria is a failed Nation.
May God be our source of protection |
Literature › Re: Matrimony Of Secrets by segzy17: 9:24am On Jan 28, 2019 |
Really love the way the story is getting to the peak |
Literature › Re: 'Lost But Satisfied' A Thriller By Akíntayo Akinjide by segzy17: 5:42am On Jan 18, 2019 |
The story was not only interesting But also enjoyable........ Pls don't forget to carry me along When the concluding part is out.
U are da bomb |
Literature › Re: Matrimony Of Secrets by segzy17: 7:51pm On Jan 15, 2019 |
Getting more interesting |
Crime › Re: Customs Officer Killed After Raiding Smugglers’ Hideout In Ogun. Photos by segzy17: 5:36pm On Jan 07, 2019 |
RIP sanni |
Literature › Re: ... by segzy17: 7:02am On Jan 06, 2019 |
more pls |
Romance › Re: I Cheated On My Husband Because Of N1500 To Buy Meat by segzy17: 8:04am On Jan 05, 2019 |
who wrote the script? |
Romance › Re: Is It Possible For A Brother To Have Sex With Her Little Sister? by segzy17: 7:59am On Jan 05, 2019 |
waiting man no go heard.......but seriously its an abomination |
Romance › Re: Zimbabweans Drown While ‘Having Sex In River’ On New Year, Family Blames Mermaid by segzy17: 7:55am On Jan 05, 2019 |
o n pe |
Sports › Re: Wenger's Resignation: Mourinho, Henry, Fabregas And Others React by segzy17: 3:37pm On Apr 20, 2018 |
Now I can watch my team playing with confidence |
Education › Re: The Ordeals Of Unilorin Students: How Lecturers Kill Students Slowly by segzy17: 6:19pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
In how many hours? |
Crime › Re: Man Cuts Man With Cutlass For Preventing Him From Beating His Brother's Wife by segzy17: 9:39pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
what a country |
Career › Re: Why Did You Become A Teacher by segzy17: 7:16am On Mar 01, 2018 |
I see it as a passion.........07034757321 |
Health › Re: Doctors Separate Siamese Twins In Bauchi (Photo) by segzy17: 8:36pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
At least one +ve news......... Thank God |