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Ramanto:
I'm not convinced I can marry her but her mum is getting me a job now. Should I decline the offer please? I seriously need your contributions. I need the job, but I don't want to be indebted to the family

ellalina:
My male bestie confided this in me too. He is also a Nairalander.



I run a sharwama and agent bank outlet for over 3 years and it’s been a good business experience for me expect trust issues with my sales Girl. I have sacked over 6 girls in space of 2 years for attitude and fraud related cases.

One of the days when I have to stay at the shop because my sales girl did not come to work, a young lady walked in with her CV. She said she saw my vacancy outside, I collected her CV and went through it. She is a 22 years old ND holder who studies communication.

I asked her why she would not return to get her HND. She replied that she wants to continue at the National open university where she can work and learn.
I have her 1 week trial and that is the beginning of good things in my business.

She is so consistent, All customers I mean all of them always leave a good remark about her and why they keep coming back. When ever I return from my office to the shop, I notice how people keep giving her tips and she declares it everyday but I don’t collect it from her. Sometimes she makes up to 5K daily in tips.

Fast forward 1 year, I have taken another shop and expanded my business. I cannot remember the last time we recorded shortage in the shop. My business has become so profitable that Am thinking of quiting my job to expand the business as my salary is like 20% of what the shop now makes for me.

To reward her, I picked interest in her education, I bought her the direct entry form at the open university and she has started.

These days I noticed she has suddenly changed towards me. She doesn't ask how my day was, she avoids me and don’t look into my face when we talk. I was really worried because I have grown fond of her. I have admired her as a lady but I maintained a professional relationship.

There are times I want to ask her to follow me to events and outings but I keep controlling my urge. She called that her mum was sick so she would not be available. I decided to surprise her by paying her a visit, she could not believe her eyes when she saw me at her door step with a bag of provisions in my hand. I greeted the mum. The woman prayed for me a lot before I took my leave.

On getting home, I could not understand myself anymore. My experience at her home further boost her interest in my heart. I could not sleep that night so I picked my phone to chat with a random friend online. I saw Lucy was online too. So I called her at about 12:30 am. I asked her why she is not asleep. She said she has an emotional support that has been bothering her for days. I tried to convince her to tell me but she declined, I figured it’s about a guy although I never saw her with a guy or call one at work.

I told her I was worried too and she is the cause. I told her how she has been of immense blessing to my life and how I wish she would play a bigger role in my life. She went silent. She later hung up and turned her phone off.

She called in the morning to apologize for cutting the call. By evening, I was back at the shop. I opted to drive her home but she refused. This was very unlike her so I insisted. As we approached her neighborhood,I parked under a roadside tree. I asked her to open up to me what the issue with her was.

To my greatest shock, Lucy confesses that I was the cause of her issues. I went quiet for a while trying to figure out what she meant. I asked again how am I the cause, at this moment her eyes were laden with tears Lucy told me she could not stop thinking about me and can’t control herself around me. She said she is confused because the feeling she is having for me get her scared.

While I sat and steer at her, I knew I felt exactly THE same way for her. This time I was the quiet one. I just drove her home and back.

I am 29 and she is now 23 going to 24. I have a job and a good business. Why can’t I marry her.

She has helped me grow my business. She is adorable and well trained. I want to ask her to marry me any moment. I am strongly convinced that we can grow together and build a good business network.

What do you guys thing. Is this a wise move?

fruitfulnathia:
Varicose vein

misB:
Hello. Please does anyone know how much Nipost charge to send a parcel of about 12kg from Nigeria to Melbourne, Australia. How long it will take to be delivered? Thanks

fruitfulnathia:
Hi everyone have really missed this place I just wanted to give myself rest from TTC. Its so difficult when the prob is from hubby you have to beg, cry , coarce, and pet before they take action. But I thank God he is now actively doing the needful. Praying that God shows us mercy.
Big congrats to all who had their BFP and well done to all old and new mamas including our beloved daddies who have been keeping this trend alive. I pray God visits each and everyone of us here in Jesus name Amen.

PentiumPro:
This is obviously not true and can’t happen. No terminal operator will willfully cut off supply to the refer containers at the terminal. Each of those containers carry temperature reading device and the point of drop in temperature can easily be read, such terminal operator will pay seriously for such

You guys should stop sounding like illiterates, this is one of the thing killing this platform, people with barely any knowledge of an issue trying to confuse people

freshgbedu:
After five hours of interrogation, Senator Elisha Abbo who attacked a woman inside an Abuja adult toy shop is still in custody and may likely spend the night with the police.

Reports say he has been in custody for more than five hours but has not been detained.

Senator Abbo voluntarily surrendered himself for interrogation following an invitation from the Commissioner of Police of the FCT Command, Bala Ciroma.Read More:https://freshgbedu.com.ng/2019/07/05/after-5-hours-of-interrogation-senator-elisha-abbo-still-in-police-custody/

Shootingdice:
I'm doing one online business that requires PayPal. So if you have one call me let's make a deal. I will be sending money to your PayPal while you help me cash out and take your % if you wish. Meanwhile, I recently worked with someone who succeeded in scamming me. If you scam me because of $30 or more, it's a big loss for you because you are going to miss a lot of things. Call my no ...o8114939234

Whatsapp o8o74015241 but I may not be online now

obama30:
Always deceiving public, how can 21 containers of fish spoil? Which country ship the fish without export quality check. Nigeria officers think they can deceive everyone. The real truth here is that the particular importer is not suppose to import the fish because there are already known big importers in government that believe the frozen fish business is reserve for them alone. Instead of you to import and make big profit, you should come to them and buy the one they import and make penult as profit, that way the NAFDAC and custom can guild the containers till you finish selling all. This is real problem that hinder average youth to grow economy higher, because they can use union to make you remain in one level by stealing money you suppose to go home with at end of your business in the name of paying union fees, then if you raise money somewhere else and import the goods they send signal to custom, nafdac or other agent to ceased your goods or container to make sure you remain slave in the business or you quite. This is reason many youth fall out of many business and become jobless.

Starboytwo:
Why would you import table water

Are the importers maad Chinese Table waters ? Na real wa

SageMK:
The problem with some ladies is they are too loyal.
I like her spirit though. She's not mad about it at all.

Almost like she knew she was a side chick all along.

chinochizzy:
Should I said d truth that they try bringing me in but I refuse or I should just deny that I know nothing about it

mecury21:
Hi Everyone, I need your help as I feel my girlfriend is really loving another man.

A usual, she denies it. She says she does not like the guy. But I've seen the tone at which they are having a conversation and I know she probably likes the guy.

We've been dating for over 4 years now. And we are planning on getting married in Sept. I have already collected the list. But yesterday I noticed something unusual. I saw her WhatsApp chat and I was shocked at the kind of conversation going on there.

This guy subscribes for her. There is another time she sent him her account number. But that's not the shocking part of the conversation. The guy always says "I love you" I love you dear and that kind of words. There is nowhere she told him that those words were inappropriate.

Surprisingly, on a particular date, she called the guy "Sweetheart" then "how was your day" then "wanted to see your face."

When I asked for an explanation she said the guy called in the dark. She only said those words because she could not see his face. But it does not make sense. She also said there is nothing wrong calling a friend sweetheart.

I know most of you will say IM not married to her yet and I don't take care of her bills. Yes, I do take care of all her bills. I mean everything. She is in school and I take care of everything.

For months now she has been against our planned marriage. She requested I shift it till next year. I refused.

See, I am not perfect but I know I have been faithful for over a year now. I'm a doctor by profession and I hate being fooled around which is what seems to be happening.

I have intentionally avoided other ladies only for me to find myself in this shit. Right now I can't guarantee the next pu**y that comes around won't be fu*ked.

Being sincere is a choice, and if I feel someone is taking me for granted, being my old self becomes necessary. I need your help cos I've gotten so far and the devil is just tempting me with all options.

lereinter:
One day they will come out that they were raped

Pepperoniq:
Whites and the lifestyle.
Nawa..ooo
I trust my Africa peep, do this in Naija, you're a goner.
And we will be hearing another multiple Rape accusations

Fertilemum:
@fruitfulvine17..Please can I send you a personal message?..we were also diagnosed with azoospermia..i feel that we need to talk