₦airaland Forum

TwentiesGirl:
What do you have in mind?

Djreloaded:
Very poor month on Upwork.


Targeting 20k before the month ends.q

Zeddyzed:
I wonder why Nigerians think every leader that resigns is a "good" leader. You have no idea what happened behind the scene but you are jumping for joy over a PR piece.

SpeedyPuff:
Hello guys, please help me out.

I created an Upwork account recently with a US location. Now it's time to verify, how do I go about it?

Should I use a Nigerian ID or a fake US ID? If I should use fake, who can help me do the design?

Silentgroper:
But most times, d woman who wants us are not the one we want.. Has happened to me twice..

Ekomatrix1:
I have this girl I have been dating for 4 years and we are planning to get married to this year. But I notice she does not like to sacrifice. I mean, she is kind of selfish.

she is studying and i send her money aside the one the parent gives to her but if i request for a video call, she would ask me to send her data, if she comes to my house and i don't give her TP not minding that i gave her money some weeks/days back she would be angry.

Yesterday i booked a ticket for her to come to lagos from anambra, after booking she asked me to also send her some feeding money for the journey. I refused and asked her to take from the 20k I sent to her last 2 weeks, she then said " WHO PAYS FOR TP AND NOT GIVES FEEDING MONEY?  

Long story short, I had to cancel the ticket. I have constantly complained about her selfishness  but no improvement .

what should i do?

SmartPolician:
That guy is more than 28 years. He should be in his early or mid 30s.

Ceenachi:
Even Kenya league is far far better than Nigeria every one can attest to this
Nigeria league doesn't give our young players opportunities but the so-called muchroom clubs in Europe do
I have a first-hand experience of this my friend brother plays for Malmo ff fc in Sweden . Back then in Nigeria he never had opportunity to play in our local league because we don't have anybody
Fortunately he moves to lillestrom fc in Norway and today is Malmo ff fc in Sweden

What is pinnick saying !
They should not go to muchroom clubs, when players have not been paid for months in our league. Have a re-think please

addictiv:
What people forget is with power comes responsibilities, Patriarchy gave men power because men had to go out and build the society, fight wars, invent things, create government and kingdoms and some of them abused it. However the heart of this system was not to subjugate women rather to create a world where women and children could thrive and become better versions of themselves and enjoy the freedoms that they do now. However Women want power not because they want to build society, not because they want to create a better world for men and children, but rather they want power for themselves. But like I said with power comes responsibilities and its the responsibility part that leaves an unsavory taste in the mouth of feminists because they only think about the benefits without preparing to be held accountable for the responsibilities that come with power. So now you have women become the major income earner and head of the house and yet complain about their man that sits at home all day taking care of the homefront. You have women wanting to be given top critical corporate positions and yet want maternity leave that will see them out of duty for months. You see women wanting to head government but want the position to be offered to them on a platter rather than contesting like men do for it.
Men have done an excellent job at shielding women from the harsh realities of life and bearing the brunt alone. However time has come for men to let go, and allow women hold the reins and bear the weight and see what's its really like to truly be in charge. It's only then can both genders truly appreciate that we are not the same and that we need each other to play our different roles in order to survive as a species.

HappyCanadian:
Hey Guys,

I created this thread to thank and update you guys how my strong closeness with the single mother ended after receiving advice here....
Previous thread: https://www.nairaland.com/6477303/how-leave-single-mother-without

Before I start I want to correct the negative impression a lot of you had thinking I was chatting with her in Nigeria> FYI me and her live in the same city in Canada but I met her through a popular dating site.

So after the brilliant advice from the previous thread which I remained grateful to everyone that contributed. I messaged her two days later on Instagram to come let's talk. She arrived at my apartment and called to tell me that she was trapped in the snow mud with her car and I had to come out and labor that night in a wicked cold weather to make sure I brought out her car which I did and she went gaga the more heaping all kinds of romantic praises on me . Later on, we started discussing and I told her respectfully that I needed time to think through our friendship as I wasn't ready for something serious/relationship which she is gunning for, since I noticed she became too obsessed and close with me that a day does not pass without her thinking about me or messaging. As I talked to her she remained quiet of course I knew she was disappointed and didn't look happy cause that was not what she expected. Then after, I jokingly told her a family friend saw her photo on my WhatsApp (false) and became interested in knowing her she was quiet and kept listening till I finished and then one hour later she said she was going.

When she got home she wrote me that she has seen I needed my space and time and that she would move on with her life but saying she doesn't like the idea of telling her about someone else when it was me she had feelings for.. which I apologized.

Since then she became quiet kinda saying I friend zoned her though I didn't, hardly writes me and does not think of visiting me or whatsoever. But I recently called her to "extend an olive branch" since she wasn't cool about my friend I told her, and she was rather interested in knowing why I called her to appear saying she thought I would define what we are or ask her for a relationship having known for months and all that which I maintained my stand . At the end, she mentioned everything I said boils down to her distancing herself from me so I will have my time and do my thing. Few minutes later she stood up to leave and I walked her down, she entered her car and left.

I felt for her then but I know she is fine now. The thing is that I do not likely see myself settling with her as I have my reasons, plans and spec in a babe.. yes I liked her and we vibe and crack sometimes but I got to be honest with her as was advised here.. again she is so sensitive probably her Canadian lifestyle.

Thankfully its over and we are free.. most importantly I have learnt some lessons but above all I wish her well.
When next I see one I will recall this incident and keep calm

#Respect to the Mods & Nairalanders

akin101:
I am curious as to how developers and other career minded people source and keep remote jobs. I would like to ask remote job workers what their experience has been like getting and keeping remote work especially with different time zones, internet and other experiences.

If you are a remote job worker commenting on this thread, please do provide relevant information and include the following;

1. How long you have been doing remote work

Slightly over 12 months
2. Time Zone of Work/Nigerian Time
7AM-12AM (excluding side gigs)

3. Current Pay

$100-$200
4. Type ie permanent or temp worker
Freelancer

5. Duration of Work if temp work

6. Your Area of Specialization(Your line of work):

Copywriting and content writing
7. Remote Work sites you got your job:

Fiverr, then I've also gotten a number of connections off Twitter
8. Your Nigerian Internet Experience

Was a good till the turn of the year, it's been particularly poor since February
9. Recommendations for those looking for Remote Jobs

Use your social media tools wisely, remember they are tools and you should use them as such. Also, you'll do a lot of learning and unlearning, so never feel ashamed when you don't know something. Always try to learn more and read more about it.

Juliusmalema:
Signed with Jersey Number 7 and here he is wearing 9...


Ndi ala

DEMZEE:
Please don't marry until u are in ur 30s

Don't have onetitis for that bitch

Maximize ur potentials now and think of marriage in ur 30s

Onyenna:
Mine ain’t a liability..... She doesn’t even demand and she can give me...... She knows how to manage money eeehhnnn.....

I’m most definitely getting married to her.....

Dreyton36:
My girl's dad used to give her 100k monthly

Once she gets credited she'll find my account with 60k out of the 100k because she knows I've got more needs than her
I fund her as well too so it's a couple thing

And today she's my wife , a damsel in all aspects
She's willing to give up her life for the family that we've both build , so I call her my treasure


Lights up my kpoli in peace

Uyi168:
...
Leeme just drop this.

Mateen1000:
4 goals and 2 assists in 35 games??

Anywayz, Congrats to him.....