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Rabbi4real:
I work in a telecommunications agency, one of the best and biggest in the country. Most of the people who are my colleagues are are young and free spirited. The nature of our work as creative people makes the work culture almost very informal.

The COO is a young chap too, in his late 30s. Married but a confirmed womanizer. His good looks do not even help matters. Ladies throw themselves at him very regularly. I have heard rumors of his escapades but I mind my own business.

Last year, our HR Manager relocated out of the country with her family and there was a vacancy. A friend of mine who is engaged has been looking for a job so I recommended her for the job. After the series of interviews, she got the job especially because I recommended her highly to our COO.

Before my friend started working with us,I gisted her about how people relate in the company. That its an informal setting but she needs to distinguish herself. I expected her to really focus on the job and not get carried away cos that is how I have been working here for the past five years.

Soon as she resumed,....

https://livelystones.ng/2020/10/19/i-criticized-my-friend-for-dating-a-married-man-is-this-the-same-mistake/

La click La Bend

I love this thread ..the Op really make my day I swear

I respected myself alot so I maintain my Ego and if you pass your boundary I would let you know immediately and stay away from you jekanmo
#endsars
#endbadgoverment
#bubumustgo

Nicklaus619:
The guy said your husband funke is my friend
What an unnecessary upper cut

Na that things it take spoil jjc level ���

Me na 20 min or 30 min after drink Origin

funkmrflexx:
She always gives excuse like she's tired , she wants to sleep, she's not in the mood blah blah blah. We haven't had sex in a very long time . Sex creates a tighter bond in a relationship but now I'm no longer feel d vibes anymore. I talked to her about it but she said sex is not food and it's not important in a relationship. I even threatened to cheat on her but she's no budging. She does everything else well . Cooking and cleaning. But the sex part is dead . I don't even feel it for her anymore.
What do I do and she's not ready to get married now before some people say i turn her 2 slave o
She's in school and I'm basically the one sponsorship her . So she's gaining more than me in the relationship

Paddy me I don read all Advise people don give you on here but let me tell you the reality of it ... That girl does not love you anymore or she have already have another guy she dating and you are just Number 2 boyfriend and father Christmas because of what you are doing for her that's while she's still dey with you and dey doing all those house chores mafo ..she just manipulating you .... I felt bad when I heard guy saying he sponring her friend education or paying her bills ..., DONT QUOTE ME WRONG , you can pay your girl bill but know it's on your own risk because tomorrow she can dump you ...
Once you your Girlfriend is denied for a sex for long time believe me no love in the relationship again don't believe all those saying another girl's love sex pass guys but they are own sex is attached with emotion feeling so once your girlfriend or your wife didn't love you anymore them she denied you from Access her ...
MY SOLUTION FOR YOU NOW- As from today no ask for sex again and don't shown her any attitudes, But you have to Reason very well if you are doing something for girlfriend because all those hole are not loyal she can dump your Ass anytime ..If you need sex goto iMessage App chatted up girl meet for motel Bleep and you can take the girl as your FWB .... I drop my pen for now but you have any questions ask me

This question you ask me make me remember my mumu day ...it's dey pain till tomorrow ...

Like 8 years ago I still dey school for Ekiti I meet one girl for Facebook , she dey lives for Ibadan ..we chatted for sometimes and I ask her to come and greet me all the way from Ibadan to Ekiti this girl come and she didn't let me have sex with her ..I vex I told her second day make she dey go back .. I still buy slippers and give her money .. I have beautiful heart but the Girl mumu mi ...hin pain me eheheh and I don drink Origin bottle dat day

How much is this machine

etcme:
No Sir, I can't buy itel phone again. I am too young to die early

Itel can be so frustrated ehehehhe S 16 I bought within 3 months I go sell ham cuz it didn't sarve me at all at all...I wasted money ni

rowland545:
I'm actually enjoying my Gionee m6...although d phone heavy but d camera nah die...I love d phone ....


Only issue I have is that when turning d phone on...it doesn't display Gionee as d welcome message instead I see u.k mobile...nah tin day vex me

What about the charging it's very slowly or fast Rowland and how is the battery capacity

Donkelzy:
You bought a clone Gionee phone, so many fake Gionee are out there

I beg its true the Gionee m6 is very slowly in charging? I want to by one ni ooo

LiveTimesNG:
See what Davido posted about Buhari that can put him in trouble (See his tweets)


Read details in link below...


https://livetimesng.com/see-what-davido-posted-about-buhari-that-can-put-him-in-trouble-see-his-tweets/

La click na Bend

NiklauseFred:
See as that white cloth dey totori my body.

I must go to medical school ijn

Amen!!

Hope you are brilliant

Thank you mum I love you much more ...I know that's they reason you told me that I should not join Nigeria Army but that time I no understand

Dirty boy

I hope iPhone 7plus video camera is very bright like iPhone Xmas I need iPhone I can be using to take video camera for comedy skit or advert promo .

Bleep your daughter and Bleep you too for given birth to daughter that wicked you this much

Funtobewith:
Be sincere after all its an anonymous forum

My girlfriend said she have bleeped 12 niggar before I meet ham so am number 13 is that normal shaa ?

She's asking me same question but I don't answer her cuz I the ladies I have bleeped in my life the rough estimation cus I don't forget some sef just 52 it's may more than that or so shaa ..but me na guy nah ..

I go add you guys for more ..I beg no vex ..mesef bro broke too much ..I no like ham

service44:
please i need ur opinion, am actually over matured 4 marriage but i hv not told any girl "i want to marry you" due to my economy status, but recently a girl whom i never realy pay attention to just said to me that she told my friend to tell me she wants to get married to me, i just lough over it but i never said anything cos i thougth it was a joke, but my friend later asked me if am seriouse about wat she said dat d girl realy wants to settle down. I told him to wait let me hear from nairalanders, the thing is, d first time i saw d grl she was very urgly facialy but since she told me she wants to get maried to me she becomes manageable to me because even me am a second to 40, i realy need to settle down, pls advice me on wat to do. Urgent pls.

WETIN YOU DEY WAITING FOR WHAT NAH ACCEPT AND MARRY HER JOOR ...I WANT YOU KNOW THE BEST RELATIONSHIP AND UNION IS WHEN YOUR WOMAN LOVE YOU PASS THE WAY THE MAN LOVE HER THATS THE BEST LOVE

Preciousjewel01:
NO LOVE IN MY HOME (Advice pls)

My name is precious( wrong name). Opened this acct to go strictly anonymous. All kinda comments are accepted, good or bad. All I need is great advice pls. This is gonna be a little long story but pls bear with me.

I was born and raised in port Harcourt but moved down to Kano 2013. My dad is never home 'cause he works in the USA. So, believe me when I say I hardly know my dad. Comes home once a year sometimes once in 2 years. So, it's been just my mom all along. He's the very protective type not minding the fact he's never home. Especially since I'm his only daughter. Thing is I've never had my freedom, always indoors 24/7. Childhood memories are also boring asf, just the ones from school that's all.
Being in the USA, my dad is the type that loves to flex and chill a lot. Gets me nice clothes and all that. When we moved to Kano, he decided to open a clothing business for my mom with the capital of 4M. He agreed and had it done.

Along the way, they began to have issues 'cause my dad kept claiming he's the owner of the shop and wants all sales made to go to his own acct. My mum disagreed 'cause she was like even a sales girl gets her own salary. The agreement they made was that she's gonna send the money from whatever sales to his account while he pays her monthly for looking after the shop and selling the materials. Not minding the fact she's his wife o. They ran that way for months till my dad stopped paying her. She complained about it 'cause this man doesn't give her own personal allowance even as his wife. The shop was closed down for months.

He finally came back to Nigeria, my mom got pregnant but lost the baby to miscarriage. Just a month after, my dad married another wife. Even me as his daughter kept pleading on whatever issues they have and to resolve it but no. It was as if he was under voodoo. My dad is 50 and the lady he married is just 23.His first son is 25,imagine.

I asked my dad why he did all that but he told me was that my mom is proving stubborn. Fine, so thing is his family were super happy he got married to another 'cause he finally married their tribe. The young lady he married is igbo and my mom is Hausa. There's no single person from my dad's who likes my mom plainly because she's a muslim and not their tribe. We're Christians

In just one week of marriage, he already gave the new wife a car and also opened a shop for her. All this while, he stopped eating my mom's food. Claimed she should only prepare food for us her kids. And so it was
He travelled again after spending a good whole year at home with us (for the very first time) to stay with his new wife. When he got married to my mom,he got her pregnant and left the following month. So, he never stayed with my mom. But when he got married to this one, he stayed with her for a year.
He left again before the lock down while his new wife was pregnant. Before then, he was closed to divorcing my mom. That's just like some months after he got married to his new wife. My mum stood her ground that she's going no where so, my dad and one of his brothers went all the way to Jos to go talk to her parents. By the special grace of God, they didn't get divorced.

He travelled leaving my mom with no cash and no business. He never calls us, even we the kids. My mum collected goods on credit and is even currently planing to take a loan just so, she could feed her 4 kids. The other wife's business also fell. She finally gave birth to a baby girl and also always kept complaining that my dad never calls her. My mum would only laugh and tell her that's the way he is. The new wife would go to her parent's place to ask for cash sometimes be in tears and be like what kinda marriage is this? My dad only called my mom once ever since he left early this year just to inform her that his new wife had given birth and that was it. Today is October 10th,my dad never called my mom nor we the kids. He called once on sallah day ranting and asking why we the kids never called him. Someone that doesn't send us cash, abeg how are we gonna get money for airtime and all that. With the little money I could get, I'd always send a vn via WhatsApp to always check on my dad but he never replies but reads the msg. I stopped checking on him.

The new wife keeps complaining on how she's gonna live with her lil baby and still calls her bf secretly saying she's fed up with the marriage and would like to see his face. She claims the marriage was all a rush and never knew all that glitters wasn't gold.

We always have light issues 'cause we use a prepaid meter and we always gotta recharge. Since my dad doesn't send money home no one wants to buy including one of my eldest cousin who my dad asked to begin to stay with us as a watch on the house ever since he got married to his new wife 'cause then, both my mom and the new wife always beefed each other. But they all good now
So, once a while it's gonna be this my elder cousin to buy the Nepa bills. Though, my mom was buying ever since my dad travelled not minding that she wasn't receiving money. She was also feeding this 21 yr old cousin of mine all through but stopped when things got really hard.

We had water issues since we had no light. So, we went to the next compound to fetch water, immediately that night my dad called and had someone give us 36k to keep for the light bills just so he could save his name outside. My younger sister stopped school recently and attend a home library Islamic school which one of my uncle's own. Since it's family related, it's gonna be easy for her to sort.

I've cried to my dad, kissed him a mil times, told him how much I love him but no, he listens to no one.He just neglects us, I'm so fed up and feel for my mum every day. What do I do to bring back love to my family as a their child? I need advice pls

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Trying to look for job even it's 20k you can still be getting monthly to.put food on your table ..Your dad is a bad boy

christabell18:
The boy and the girl are both at fault...
The girl's fault: business is business.there is no family in business.this is because once the business liquidates due to eye service thing,the same family you did eye rendered eye service to will mock and blame you till you die..the only mistake she made was not to discount the boyfriend's mom. And I love the way she handled the guy during the conversation.she didn't insult him but the guy was so foolish to have insulted her. That's immature and arrogant of the guy.

The boy's fault: No matter what, that doesn't call for insults.tge highest he couldn't have done of he felt disappointed was to tell her what's in his mind and if he isn't pleased with the girl's reaction after that,then end it there.walk away like a responsible guy.you could have as well told all your family members to come make their hairdo for free all because you fund her.And to top it all,you had a count of all you did for her,let's thank God for what he does for us then.
God is even trying for providing for the whole world.you are only providing for one person and you want to die there.ypu are the ill-mannered person here. And with due respect, the mother shouldn't have told the son what happened,instead,call the girl to order. She might not know it's wrong to collect the full money but discount.But the question is ,does the mother even want to pay at all?.I'd say the mother is inconsiderate if she doesn't wanna pay at all,and actually,that's what the story is depicting.

Conclusion....gurl,I'd advice you to be easy on money,you aren't totally wrong,you should have collected the money and returned some to her immediately.
Boy,you need to control yourself.think before you act.you're a man or going to be one someday.
Mum,don't try to be a relationship breaker,try to mend,and it it doesn't seem to be working, then break.
I rest my case

Na rubbish you talk for here ,totally rubbish the guys wey dey clothe you , buy for you , secure you apartment ..you dey tell him wetin him do ...Jesus sef no like people's wey no appreciate .. remember the 10 leprosy inside Bible so if you don't know what to write lady keep shut your mouth ok

Psych412:
guys/ladies in the house;

why is it that, my konji level increase (so high) when I kush (smoke weed) and I get wet easily.

I have not kush since July because of this

Psychologist mate how are you ...trying to stop it ok or reduce it

ArewaOduduwaBia:
Must u bring everything to nairaland? Now, what do u want us to do about what u just penned down? I will advise that u go join the protest. #End SARS.

Yes you are right make she go and join the protest jare and stop bothering us

SweetCunt97:
Pls shut up ur dirty mouth... Yen yen yen yen, this niggar ryt here might b typing from a hole trying to feel fly. Shame no even catch you. Your mates are dying for the Struggle and a pussy ass nigga like u is only interested in picking women? I for plank u 2by2 if close.

Imagine they have killed 78 part of us at lekki toll gate and all you know is to be picking girl at protest ground it's so sad nah

Charx122:
Lol. True that s why I have bleeped like 8 girls from the protest ...still counting una fit do anything for motor

Ahahhaha say God bad child

Fact1:
God should firstly bless you with sense,,,,,,,,,❤️


Because if you have Sense you won't think firstly dat all Nigerian girls loves gbola and money,,,,,



When you won't work with decent girls,,,,,,,

Shut up that your mouth ok !

illicit:
Who else has not joined the protest like me

Why you no go join the protest nah ... Abuja we dey go tomorrow and you must follow us ok