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franciscajohn11:
As a good husband, it is wise and pertinent to let your wife know much about you. Your wife is your friend, your confidant and your everything. She is in a better position to know your plans, your whereabouts, ideas and thoughts. When your wife know all these things about you, it give her a sense of belonging and makes her feel loved. For this, she will..Read more:-http://www.familygists.com/2017/07/5-secrets-you-must-not-reveal-to-your.html

I dont understand people ooh what does it cost you to post it here, you go wait tire for click.

op please is it hate or heart, kindly correct.

ChangeIsCostant:
This is unfortunate coming from a graduate. A man identified as Bright Eugene has left online users in a confused state after sharing an application letter received by an office in Abuja today. Funny enough, the application letter which was constructed with"high-paying keywords" was written by a GRADUATE.

Nigerian netizens have reacted differently to this after the letter was shared online.

Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2017/07/see-application-letter-received-abuja-office-graduate.html

Please is the guy Obahiagbons nephew or wanna be?

mylander:
Please advise.

I was in an employment of a bank until recently when my employment was terminated.

When I had the job, I took my family welfare as my priory. My wife and our only son were faring good, I always ensure we do not lack the basic necessities. Meanwhile, my wife did not have a job then. All the house upkeep expenses including the cost of running her postgraduate program were on me and I felt comfortable bearing the costs as the breadwinner of the family.

After I lost my job in the bank some month ago, my wife got an employment with the state govt. With her little income, she has been able to assist in bearing some expenses, even she pays for fuelling our car sometimes.

The drama has now started in the house and our marriage is on the verge of breaking up.

Any little issue, my wife will turn it to quarrel, different abuses. Funny enough, she would be referring to the financial supports she has been rendering in the house. This is a woman that did not work at all for 2 years and I was bearing all the expenses with pleasure. Now she had only supported me for about 4months now and she's is misbehaving.

To my surprise, my wife maintains a record in which she records every penny she spends in the house including food items and fuel. With this, she always ask me when will I pay him back.

At the instance of a simple argument/misunderstanding, my wife would be boasting of 'I paid for this, I paid for that....' 'If not for my support since you had problem at work......'

Please advise me, I am getting fed-up with the situation, my wife had changed totally.

My guy my advice to you is to get a book yourself too and write down every expenses she spends that relates to you directly or would I say personal to you. It is always bound to happen that's why I beg God that my wife will never provided for me, people might say its stupidity but it saves you much agony.
Now never let her nagging make you a less human, when ever she does anything you are not down with please and please again put your foot down and make her understand and know her boundaries.
You will surely come out strong that I know I believe.
Never lose focus in all you do,God be with you.

For me economics education is better as a profession .
You do all the economics causes with that for education but no education cause with that of pure economics.

SirMichael1:
You really seem to be a lunatic this morning. A wild agog psychological depressed maniac.

Why will any gaddamn lady agree to be in a relationship with a guy and not stay faithful. You're not smart at all! No one forced the bitch to be with the lad so why the Bleep will she do as she pleases because he isn't married to her. Are you really stupid off-NL or you just come out here to vent your frustration?

So after the slüt cheats during the period of dating because she isn't married to him, you'll still expect the guy to marry the lady? You see how dull and how flawed your mentality is.

Because a dude dropped your silly ass doesn't mean you should come here, spew trash and throw tantrums like the silly, lonely and depressed Arrow you are.

Bros you harsh ooh, you for just ask am, watin make dem dump am like dustbin?

kitaatita:
She is not cheating on you. You don't have a claim over her life. You guys are not married. She is living her life and whatever she choses to do is not your business.

Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh, for my place dem no dey learn left hand for old age.

Airforce1:
I've reached my last bus stop guys.


It is too late to fail, Amen.

Na watin we dey always hear. All the same wishing best of luck.

pally the earlier you go for deliverance to get sense the better for you.

chihes:
Actually pregnancy is calculated from the first date of the last menstration. I had been pregnant once like your wife when I made love on the third day after I saw my period thinking I was free. Dont be disturbed abt the guy mentioning our baby because I have male colleagues that used to ask me our baby when I was heavy, and trust me, hubby was ok with that knowing I have nothing with them or him. Just realx until baby is born, then you can go for DNA so as to clear your fears. Why you

My sister it might be true that your hubby was OK with that but I guess the situation here is not the same with yours.
Op I say it again go for DNA test and pray she does not come and tell you she lost the baby anytime soon.
I have seen and heard a lot.

ibolomo:
Bros, please don't destroy your marriage over something that may be non existent. I mean, I sometimes chat in a way with a certain female friend of mine that, if you read our chats out of the blue, you would think we are in a romantic relationship, but there has never been, and will never be anything between us. Like, she calls me dear, sweetie and all the rest, and we even sometimes joke about marriage, but she has her boo, and I... well I don't have mine.
also, the ultrasound is never 100% certain about the exact date.
Just never mention the issue again, wait till the child is born and do a paternity test. shikena.
if possible sef, assure her that you now believe her and show her love throughout the pregnancy. I have a feeling the child is yours. time will tell, and good luck

You can have any kind of chat when single not when one party is married and you spew poo and say na joke. Abeg park well my time to faint don dey reach.

MemphisRaynes:
Hi, please I need honest and mature contribution on this matter. I love my wife so much, and I don't want to have a failed marriage, not so early.

My marriage is only 18months old. This is my wife's first Pregnancy, but I am having serious concerns about the paternity of the baby.

I trust(ed) my wife with all my heart and soul. She was away on a Job training for 6 months. The training finished on May 19th and we made love same day. She told me she last saw her period in May 16th so we both assumed she was in her safe period by May 19th before we made love. Actually we didn't want pregnancy or a baby yet because we are strained by resources for now.

My wife started complaining of strong tummy pain, plus her period hadn't shown up by June 12, so we went for a Pregnancy test and she was confirmed Pregnant. In fact the Lab attendant told me she is very pregnant. Days after I went through her chat while she was asleep and came across her chat with some guy, the chat was very suspicious. Actually the said guy is a Gynecologist, so she had told him she was Pregnant immediately after the test so as to get medical advice. In this chat the guy called my wife "luv", "dearie", talked about she visiting him, and my wife's response was to play along. At some point she even said she can't wait to visit the guy. The height of it was when the guy asked "how is our baby doing?"

I could not control my emotions after reading their chat, so I confronted my wife. She claim the guy was her best friend, that they met at her training. Actually she has always freely spoken to the guy via phone in my presence before this event so I had no suspicions until I read their chat. We quarrelled and she cried and cried swearing that she has never been with any man but me. She said she was heart broken I am doubting the paternity of her Pregnancy.

On June 26th, we were at the hospital for ultrasound scan and medical check up. The Ultra sound scan report says the pregnancy was 7weeks and 6days on June 26th. Now remember we first met on May 19th after about 6 months, also remember May 19th was three days after her period ended, she was supposed to be in her safe period. Now Let's assume she conceived on May 19th, between May 19th and June 26th is not upto 7weeks and 6days. Again I confronted her with these facts and she's been very emotional, she threatened that we must do paternity test after the baby is born to prove me wrong, she also warned that she will make my life hell after that test for doubting her faithfulness to me.

Please I don't know what to do next, my doubt is not fading because the numbers and events don't add up, I need useful suggestions please. Kindly note that I trust and love my wife, a part of me believes the baby is mine, its the maths that don't add up, and her chat with her Gynecologist best friend that keeps fueling my doubt. What is the best way to handle my situation?

My brother dont be deceived by her emotions or threat still go ahead with the paternity test and do cap it with a DNA test.
You would be surprised that she might come up an information to you that she lost the pregnancy.
Please dont be fooled.

make dem use their own na, abi e dey against their law?

There is one thing I always tell people one day young lady go resemble him mama, she would one day be a mother inlaw too.

Greenbullet:
Look At What My Elder Brothers Wife Did To My Mum ( Picture)

As I am speaking right now, I am fuming, my elder brothers wife has always hated my mum, and yesterday she showed it, she Beat my mum because she could, she injured my mom all over her body, I swear to God I will beat the shit out of this woman , I am on my way to my brothers house, my mother is not her house girl that she can beat like she owns and my stupid weakling brother will also feel my wrath , I swear to God

My brother when you get there first ask her what happened just in case the beaten you wanted to give her is not enough so you can improve on it.

Papiikush:
Advice his child to do the same stupid thing he did? I hope you will agree if this was an advice to the opposite gender.

No be every advice dey make sense oga

You might call it stupid, but it worked for him and he was able to have a child I guess was properly trained.
Your spouse not knowing how much doesn't make you stupid as long as you meet up to your responsibilities.
IF I may ask do you tell your spouse how much you earn I.e evey kobo that comes in ( that's if you are married sha).
You manage your situation the way you see it.
Remember wisdom is profitable to direct.

Papiikush:
His father is not a faithful husband.

The great JUDGE how faithful are you?
Person advice him pickin based on his experience you dey para, born your own and give am your advice.

the most important thing is having a dream and living it which she already has.
she will succeed.

Souljaboi1:
I wonder how people just advice others to "move on" like its a walk in the park.

Move on from 4 years of his life ? Mine didn't last that long and it still bugs me till date.

Nevertheless, thats the only way forward.

I agree with you its not easy, and you were bugged much because you contributed more to the relationship.
If you are not happy with something while hold into it.
Hear the truth, if its not working move on.

valnelly:
As I write this.... I'm filled with so much hurt and regret.
My girlfriend whom I thought would be patient enough for me so I could get married to her has broken up with me.
I met her while I was writing my final year project in Yabatech about 4 years ago. We were cool together and the distance between us didn't mean that much to me even though she stays in ikorodu and I stay in surulere. The problem started when I gained admission to Unilag due to my decision for self development. I'm 31 years old and she is 25.
During the last 2 years I noticed she has changed drastically I notice that she now has stuffs like new shoes and new bags. Which of course ordinarily she wouldn't have been able to afford. The only time we see is on weekends and that's because she is still in Yabatech schooling and sometime when she comes like that she acts funny with phone calls. The way she talks to some certain people so suspicious. But none the less she always feels cool with me and always wants to be around me. Could it be because of sex?

I noticed that she behaves single at school and even on social media. We do not chat or use social media, we added each other but at a point I had to take her off because she doesn't portray any thing that shows we are actually dating...i took her off all platform of social media and she wasn't perturbed about it. I don't actually know what's going on in school or her place of residence but I have a very strong feeling that she has been cheating on me and some other guy have been buying her things I can't get for her. But on top of this she was actually looking for school fees and I was deploying all methods to make sure she pays this on time and that alone made me confused!. We had a heated argument on Sunday and she was yelling and talking back at me... I left the house for her in annoyance only for me to come back and she is gone. She left a note that says that she is no longer interested. Guys please what should I do. I love this girl so frigging much. I can't sleep or think straight right now. It's almost impossible for me to start all over again. I feel hopeless. Please guys your advice!

A line that made me laugh, she is looking for school fees and I was deploying ball methods to make sure she pays this on time and that alone made me confused.
Let me ask you one question, are you her father, if her father can't pay her school fees how does she expects you to pay it for her?
Aburo, my advice for you is to thank God that she left voluntarily. If I might ask what does she or has she contributed to the growth of the relationship aside sex?
Make money you get better offers.

he is only showing what covers his weakest point.

trendyvoiceBlog:
Here’s what a Nigerian Man did to someone he swore to love forever, someone he said ‘I do’ to..
According to Human right lawyer, Emeka Ugwuonye who shared the photos, the woman is constantly battered by her husband. Too bad!! Domestic violence got to stop! More photos below;
http://www.voiceloud.com/2017/06/how-can-man-do-this-to-his-wife.html

its always easy to to lay blame based on what is seen, but if you probe further you would be really surprised and your decision might change.
If you ask me, na her mouth put am for trouble just look and see as e be.

Takeit2017:
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I love though...but this way to an owambe?

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When the chips are down an average olosho always goes back to her trade.

dafeyankee:
The Catholic is a fraud.

Have they defrauded you or you just have to type because data is cheap?

wurabecca:
I don't know...ask your phone screen......

my phone screen tell me say you just buy your phone and subscribe for your first internet.

wurabecca:
I don't know...ask your phone screen......

my phone screen tell me say you just buy your phone and subscribe for your first internet.

wurabecca:
So, it all happened last night and I decided to pour my pains and perhaps to make other young Lass and lads learn.

I was in the kitchen preparing Dinner, unknown to me, Dad has bn calling me..probably to get him water, and I was blasting Fall by Baba Imade.... I really do like the song. So..... , Mum was aback yelling and talking...the typical Nigerian mother's talk....perhaps I no hear anything...the music was loud.... and I really like Are you done talking part normally, you tend to sing where you like most aloud right?....well I did ..... last night! Stipula(Garri turner) Fall on me! ..... learn from me pls.....

Do not Sing misunderstanding lyrics loud... Use only one ear plug...... bye

so what have you written now?

Abstinence is the best condom, because you dont have to use it.

[quote author=yarimo post=57689291]Op you are right, all what they know how to do best is scamming and kidnapping of innocent people [/quote
ok if you say so, but the Yoruba rich pastors swindle people in the name of God no be so?

Is this the reason you made me waste my mega byte God is watching you poster