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@OP
all you need is determination.
Take me as an example I started ICAN when I finished secondary school and I was a science student that never did account or it's related subjects before.
In my class we had graduates and as at that time I have never been in the four walls of the university.
when we went for the exams I passed all five papers then in the foundation level.
What saw me through was determination to succeed after waiting for university admission for almost four years.
Another thing you have to do is to look for a good tuition center go for lectures and success will be yours that I know.

@OP
first this might be harsh, tell her to return the phone to her boss, and warn her that never will you see her chat with her boss.
Once she is out of the office communication should stop excepts it has to do with official matters.
And lastly if she still proves stubborn she lives the Job, if she wants to continue with the Job she lives the marriage.
Naturally if nothing is wrong with what she is doing she will keep the chat history for her to delete it she is hiding something and that makes her a lier.
Since trust issues has crept in, it will lead to issues in the marriage.
And above all, learn not to put her in you plans or tell her what you do.

let them take him to his school from there they can't locate his family easier.
he would have address in his records in the school.

Kachi188:
I don't understand this post...is it that OP doesn't realize that 'go to hell' is an actual agricultural tool?

the name is sickle, go to hell is an informal name.

yes you can, but you should check if your school has ICAN accreditation.
The years to be spent depends on what you study but if its accounting it will be two exams thats one year.
depends on how you pass that will depend when you will qualify

ucheheart:
Two deadly snakes or should I say, sugar mummy and son... And Jonathan will be like. .. Are you sure this woman is not cheating on me?

Abeg somebody help me with that Jonathan clueless photo.

Dont just sit and insult people, have you ever been even a class monitor in your life?
Don't call someone clueless if you have never led.

lalasticlala:
I got this mail today from one Odegwu who claims this is the "real" version of what transpired between the IBB University lecturer whose nude pictures went viral over accusation of sexual victimization. Read the unedited story as sent in and draw your own conclusions. Also share below what you think about this new version of the story which is different from the old version.



The TRUTH OF THE MATTER BETWEEN IG YUSUF and GRACE 400LEVEL STUDENT OF ENGLISH DEPT IBBU LAPAI
https://cdn1.dailypost.ng/wp-content/uploads/2017/02/IBB-UNI-MAN.jpg

IBB University Lapai Niger State......TRUTH OF THE MATTER BETWEEN IG YUSUF and GRACE 400LEVEL STUDENT OF ENGLISH DEPT IBBU LAPAI.g

On the 20-02-2017 Dr. Abayya who came on sabbatical from ABU Zaria who happen to be IG Yusuf's Ph.D major supervisor conducted a test for 400level students of Engliah dept which he splited d class into two and told IG Yusuf to supervise one of the classes.

Grace and one student known as pastor samuel was cut teaching and his script was tear off as directed by Dr. Abayya . Grace later want to IG's office dat she want to see him but he declined that he is busy probably she shuld check back later or tomorrow and she left. On Tuesday she called him on phone dat it is an important issue she wants to tell him and he said ok.

Later Grace called back again and he told her he is busy in d office IG has been elevated from deptal examine officer to faculty examines officer and to him that he is trying to explained somethings to new deptal examines officer and they were their upto 10:30pm and as he was about to closed to go home Grace still called and he told her it was late so she shuld meet him in d office d next day but she still insisted d issues is very important so since will be going home she will come and wait for him at LOCUS JUNCTION close to INEC office in lapai bye pass that link to Agaie road.

On approaching there he sighted her standing and immediately he stop Grace and other four guys entered d car with sophiscated wepons asked him to keep driving down to Grace's house. on reaching d house, they took him to a room and told him GOD DON CATCH U TODAY in pegin english.

Asked him to pull of shirt and remean wit boxer gave him moper to moop d room and him water Mellon to take but refused which use knief to part of his hand to know that they are not playing. From that moment he followed any instruction giving to him. There gang leader know as AKA Liyas hold him and pull his boxer down and took picture with him and d Grace was recording d vedio.

There after Grace told him that pastor Samuel's script dat he tears he will pay it. They wrote something on paper and asked him to read it and it was recorded and video. He was made to wrote an undertaking as follows: Grace must graduate this year along with her two female and two male friends and he must write her project.

Items collected from him include: D money in his pocket, ATM cards, 2 of his phones. They kept him hostage till 5a.m of Wednesday been 22-02-2017 blf he was released to go. However, he was warned never to involve police and if he does his life is in danger.

He however informed his DEAN and told him to be patient since is all about life threatening dat he Dean will look for Grace for fact findings. Two hours later three me member of the gang followed him to his office again at University to re-warned and remind him of the undertaking he wrote.

God bear me withness this is notten but d truth. Ya-Allah save us in d hands of evils.



Meanwhile, if you missed the earlier accusation, check out these threads https://www.nairaland.com/3647485/i.g-yusuf-ibb-university-lecturers

https://www.nairaland.com/3648806/ishaq-yusuf-ibb-university-lecturer

if you are a student of the school hmm we are in trouble.
Always make what you write clear and understandable to the reader.

my brother, flesh and blood. did not reveal this to you but our Heavenly Father.
Be properly guided.

[quote author=liljboy post=54020444]It’s okay to marry a woman old enough to be your mother, you can still explain that as love, but someone old enough to be your grandmother?[/quote
that love extraordinary.

Nicole12345:
Hi guys am Nicole Lewis.. Light skinned, tall, curvy and pretty as well. I reside in Lagos and want a serious minded and God fearing guy for a serious relationship that will someday lead to marriage.. Am very cool and down to earth, fun to be with and love making new friends. I can be shy at times, esp when meeting a guy for the first time lol..Hit me up on 08124149826 and let's get to know each other better.. Players please stay away..

After you don use yourself finish you dey do d person wey you go imprison abi?
laughing in 4D

I no blame the person wey tweet. The whole celebrity for their country no reach AJ celebrity.

Even life itself is a scam
my advice is that maximum time u invest is 2 and never invest more than what u have made.
Na recession cause all this one.

All in pursuit of green card and a insurance.

chizzy4love:
Please I need advice for my elder sister whose husband is a chronic cheat.Their marriage is about 2 years now with a son. She have whatsapp chat proof of his affairs with like 10 other girls. He gives her everything and hides these affairs but my sister is extremely smart. He cheated on her during their 9 years courtship with like 3 different girls that she knows of but she dint have enough proof and people including her inlaws begged her not to leave him without proof. Well fastforward to after marriage, he is still seeing those girls including new ones but this time she have enough proof.

The worst of all was her complains to my mum this morning. She said she discovered in a chat between her husband and one of the girls he dated that she dint initially have proof of that he wants to marry her secretly, that the lady initially aborted for him 3 times before and now he is begging her to get pregnant for him again and he will marry her secretly. Meanwhile he is still constantly chatting and sleeping with the remaining 9 or more others.

She also discovered in his chat the curses from another girl he promised marriage before abandoning her to marry my sister. The lady lamented on how he made her commit series of abortions in the name he was not ready yet and his responds was I want to fvck you tonight are you free?.

From the same whatsapp chat she discovered he gave another girl 10,000 naira to abort a pregnancy recently.
He also invited 3 other different girls from outside his state.
Please if I continue, this whole page will not be enough.

My mum was trying to advice her to save massively since she already have a 6months old baby for him because she cant take care of the baby alone in these hard times. But I think she should just quit.
Meanwhile her husband dosnt know she has all those proofs.

PLEASE I NEED MATURED ADVICE GUYS.
Note* He have refused to open any business for her so that she can be financially independent.

So to want to tell us that your sister did not cheat on him during the 9 years they dated?
Na who Dem catch be thief.

justicee4all:
That's the best option he should stop behaving like a weakly

I was once in his shoes I became though threw her out and let her know I was comfortable with those kind of communication

After months passed she realised her mistakes and the iddiots that were sweet talking her left to the thin air

Shes now very humble and submissive if I had taking things midly she would have capitalise on my weakness and take me for a ride
never be submissive to a woman never!!

My brother you just hit the nail gbam and it should enter ones into the OP head.
No time for dulling.

MicroBox:
Brother, women are very cunny but not too smart. Before suspicion will ruin your marriage, tell her to let go anything with the so called family friend to avoid unnecessary suspicion because you are becoming not too comfortable with the guy.
A good and reasonable wife will understand and save her marriage.

You said a good reasonable wife abi, if she is not good and reasonable, what happens?
Na from clap e dey turn to dance.
OP tell her straight to the face that any day you see or she mention that guy she goes back to her parents.
Kosi aye fun Iran.

Islie:
http://tribuneonlineng.com/pastor-beats-wife-daughters-stupor-plateau/

Hmm seriously, are they not paying thites and offering in his church?

please help me and as Shaki ooh sorry Saraki in which language did he speak to Bubu oh sorry Buhari with?
oni Iran.

Darammliveth:
LMAO,,,,,, Northerners can never develop in this era. Can you imagine what a whole state government spewing out(total rubbish).
The Northern part is really drawing Nigeria back big time.

For once I tend to agree with Ellie Rufai
the FRSC are actually constituting a nuisance.
They mount check points inside streets disturbing people going about their legitimate duty .
They are supposed to be on the Highways as stated in their act.
Sincerely it's welcome

hmm mama in which language when you speaking to Bubu.
That your mother has 28 of you and she no enter guineas book of world record, then you hold world record for lying.
Yar Adua people did worse.
In 2 face voice, "" this one na another story again ooh.

in 2 face voice this one na another story again ooh.

Nnamdd1:
Vertu phones are said to be the most expensive phones in the world right now.

According to tech analysts "All Vertus are hand built and made out of exotic materials, but that is not the main point of owning a Vertu phone. A Vertu comes with a status symbol only a Vertu has, and only a select few can afford it. It is like a Rolls Royce. People buy it to flaunt their wealth and showcase their status".

http://www.naijahelm.com/2017/02/dino-melaye-shows-off-his-customized-vertu-phones.html

@OP
the phone no dey spoil, abi you fit take am talk to the dead?

Curioussme:
Hi peeps, I've been dating this guy for almost 4 years now, and I've noticed when I need a major financial assistance from him, he'll just enter low key and be giving flimsy excuses like he doesn't have plans for me.

The most recent one that happened is that I need to pay my rent and the money with me isn't enough he's also giving excuses that he has commitments.

Sincerely, am tired of these excuses, I can't imagine getting married to a man who can't support me while am single what will he now do when we're married. He acts like someone who dodges responsibilities by all means.

Am confused right now,is he just a stingy person or what? The last time I needed money from him, I had to quarrel with him about it before he finally gave me money Guys pls help me out

@OP
hmm the guy resemble your parents abi your papa don port to the guy?
what help have offered him since you started dating.
Even the sex, him go buy you sweet mouth before una do.
Abeg go hustle.

StupidYorubaFool:
I've been living a life of chastity because my strict disciplinarian parents always advised me to stay away from girls til I'm married, I adhered to it but as I clocked 26 years I got disvirgined by my girlfriend. Mehn the sexercise was sweet eh. I keep reminiscing about it every day.

Now I'm 27 years and the rate of konji and libido is higher that the price of dollar and I cant stand a day or two without sex because from the ages of 27—30. The tendency for sexual urge would be so high because when I was a young teenager I abstained from sex and now it's affecting me..

Had it been I used to indulge in sex when I was a teenager by now the urges won't be much..

My friend and contemporaries that used to fucck during primary school days are no more experiencing sexual urges cos they have gotten used to it since childhood..

I regret not fuccking during teenage years now it's affecting me cos now that I'm old I can't stand a day without sex.. The urge is inexpressible, I nearly rape a lady yester night.


So fathers and mothers pls always advise your children to learn to sex at their young age. Teach your teenage daughters about sex education and the need to start fuccking as early as from 13 years so that it won't affect them in their late 20s.


Thats why rapist are on the upsurge and increase because they abstained from sex during their childhood days and now they are old konji is killing them.

A word is enough for a wise. Hope I made sense?

see watin cheap data dey cause.

Lai you never lied in this one, it is us the citizens did listen we and ask what kind of change you people promised.
May we never see this kind of change again.

In a time like this I always remember there is always a time for everything and vanity upon vanity all is vanity. Rest on, and well madam until we meet to part no more.

Lai you don't only task force to check prices but you also need task force to check wrong utterances from your crew and we need good governance not task forces.
Remember you don't tell a hungry man that there is God.

I always ask one question why all this now?
Sincerely you don't kill your citizens because you want to build because only I need oe son does not build but the entire people.
America had recession when Obama came in, did he make them go through sufferings that .kills them
Someone that has never managed any successful business running a country is a disaster to that country.
If na Jona now insults for don full.

gabazin080:
I am tired of my marriage. my only joy in that marriage is my look-alike 1yr old son. i married a single mother. she tells a lot of lies and i felt she might be cheating on me. though she doesnt know how i feel about her cus she is always eager to see me get back from work. but i just dont love her anymore and i now get home late in the might. i want to quit and keep my boy. how do i do it without hurting her

please before you quit
confirm if she is really cheating?
the kind of lies she tells you?
is it the type of lies that leads or can course cheating. or involves life and death?
Is she a confident person that does not have complex?
What are her qualities that you like and can develop?
Does she have a Job or she just sits at home all day?
Apart from the lies does she have any bad or life threatening attitude to you?
Then the final question hora to you is she that bad that you think living her is the best option now and are you sure the person you are living her for has a better attitude?
Any time she tells you lies tell her to her face she is lying with proofs if any and tell her she should not do that again and have a way of dealing with her. For me I prefer emotional punishment.
Ponder on this before taking your decisions
wish you the best.

gabazin080:
I am tired of my marriage. my only joy in that marriage is my look-alike 1yr old son. i married a single mother. she tells a lot of lies and i felt she might be cheating on me. though she doesnt know how i feel about her cus she is always eager to see me get back from work. but i just dont love her anymore and i now get home late in the might. i want to quit and keep my boy. how do i do it without hurting her

please before you quit
confirm if she is really cheating?
the kind of lies she tells you?
is it the type of lies that leads or can course cheating. or involves life and death?
Is she a confident person that does not have complex?
What are her qualities that you like and can develop?
Does she have a Job or she just sits at home all day?
Apart from the lies does she have any bad or life threatening attitude to you?
Then the final question hora to you is she that bad that you think living her is the best option now and are you sure the person you are living her for has a better attitude?
Any time she tells you lies tell her to her face she is lying with proofs if any and tell her she should not do that again and have a way of dealing with her. For me I prefer emotional punishment.
Ponder on this before taking your decisions
wish you the best.