₦airaland Forum

Ghana is trying too in Afro hiplife/rap but Naija is always big brother. I still listen to Ghanaian music.

Give it to Nigerians especially on YouTube for attracting the world to Africa with it's music, content creation....

If not for Nigerians exposing a lot on some fields like IT and Nursing, many will be in the dark. The Indians, Paks and Phillipines will just even prefer speaking their languages and communicating goodies only to themselves....Filipinos own na to say 'PO' in many of their sentences.

I like Ghanaians too because they too are trying on the international scale.... As we are boasting of Nigerians who have lived in USA and UK even in the 40's to 60's, Ghanaians too rev up....There is this oldies sitcom: Mixed Blessings where Suzie was married to Thomas ( the white guy).... Suzie was a Ghanaian, I think she is late...but many thought she was a Nigerian and her dad had lived in UK.

Nigerians have made a lot of Africans, including SA people to up their games. That is y I believe our Politicians don't define us.

Naija to the world.

GerogeI:
You are naive. This thing is more common than you think. A lot of men have kids they know are not theirs.
They consider the impact on the rest of their children. For some its their licence to cheat as much as they want, the wife keeps the home irrespective and is the begging party. For others , every child is a blessing.

Sense no go kill you ( lol).... Read all your posts.

And this thing might not even be with the first child sef.

One may even marry a virgin and due to certain things: separation, lack of money( only God knows if Op's wife's colleague was helping her out financially during their separation) etc have the other kids borne out of wedlock. Op's wife may be secretly consoling herself that after all they were separated at the time but, she fall my hand as no show of loyalty and respect to the person she calls her husband when situations demanded.

Even in the Bible, God had to tell a Prophet( Hosea) to go marry a harlot, she bore kids for him and still went outside again but God told Hosea to forgive her and take her back because originally, God hates divorce( though certain situations may necessitate it).

Even Jesus' lineage has a harlot( Rahab).... This life is so complex and simple at the same time. How one reacts matters for peace of mind and longevity.

The mistake has happened.

And just this morning, I was reading of the guy abroad who just gave birth to his 10th child@ 22 years- An NBA player....The 2nd to the mother of this 10 th child ...Strings of ladies in between.

What do you aim to achieve in life as everything is not reproduction? Bishop Oyedepo once said that once the use of a thing is unknown, abuse sets in.

Congrats though

It is not easy to marry 2 Kings in one's lifetime, not everyone is lucky or destined as such like Mandela's widow.

Though, it doesn't mean her Science teacher husband was wretched but definitely not of the same cadre with her.

With this divorce, she may remain single and just flirt around when necessary.

Before a divorce, one needs to really sit down and decide if that is what they want....

Redstubpen:
Oh you are very lucky. Access Bank is the cesspool of corruption and compromised workers . Hope you aren't trying to whitewash them give us.

Then, what will u call Kuda bank where fraudsters reside?

RIP

May we not be overcome with spirit of sleep when we ought to be awake.

jeromestarks:
My mom married as a virgin!
If you are still a virgin, then you aren't loose. But if you're not, hmmmmmm, then you're a loose woman and you're a shame to your private part.

Now tell me. Are you a virgin or a loose woman?

Good luck to your virgin mama that became loose after marrying your dad.... Check if your siblings are your dad's .

Bye

jeromestarks:
There are very decent girls here in the city. Girls with self worth, girls with dignity, girls with brains, girls with pure pvssies, girls with a blood of royalty and girls with respect for their body who can't be fvcked with material things. These kinda girls still exist in the cities.

Not every girl is as loose are you're.

Okay, but your mama and sisters and possibly your daughters are loose and u didn't have the guts to tell them even when they are very close to u....Na stranger when u never meet b4 u dey tell say e loose like your mama etc.....It tells of the upbringing you have....

jeromestarks:
Yes and the whole community knew.
It's a taboo to marry non virgin in my father's clan.

Hoping you will be lucky after men have disvirgined many under several guise: deceit, rape etc....If not, your village's calling u for a wife, so u will not be in #teamforeignwifehubby

jeromestarks:
Many people are currently enduring their marriages. Only those who married their wives as a virgin are enjoying.


Let me tell you. No matter how happy you're right now with your wife, one day, just one day, she will begin to frustrate you as long as you're not the first man to enter her legs.

Marry a virgin and have peace of mind this is the plan of God.

Na lie....Even men with virgins cry just like as the poor is crying the rich also cry.

Did your mum marry your dad as a virgin?

sageb:
I have lived in Boji-Boji Owa before.
Ika girls like Bike so much
Alua! Alua!

Lol....I should be the opposite

sageb:
which LGA in the Anioma axis do you hail from?
Ika south?

Ika North...
Are u from Delta?

I hope Ado Ekiti is impressive now?

Adex2442:
Degree holder who doesn't know how to construct a simple sentence. Better utilize the time u use on that lil kid to learn English.

Fault finder....Which one u do?

Please, go and sleep with your English!

Streett:
Your sketches Dope ….

Reminds me of my class mate for primary school then, The guy sabi draw Actor & Boss ….. e dey sweet me wan kain wan kain ah no dey concentrate for class , Under my desk I’d be gone in fantasy gazing at his sketches …

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Marvel Comics too was something special to me( lol).... Na to dey draw tire for primary school with my male friends...

Once had a friend in university who was into comics and telling stories.... I had to do a historical work on the Aniomas, very detailed work with many pages while he sketched them....One of the best cartoonists in Naija as he only imagines things to draw them....Anyway, bobo has long left the shores of Nigeria....He always mentioned another guy, Chima( Anioma too) as even the best.

If you can fine tune things and possibly having video making/editing skills, you can have your YouTube channel which can also welcome adverts( paid)

obembet:
I'm a Messi fan but I just love Cristiano's passion for his country. He almost had his nose broken tonight and was covered in blood. That didn't stop him from playing full game and he provided an assist too.

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Same thing with me....

When I saw his bloodied nose on a news page on Instagram yesterday I was worried and praised him @same time.

Adex2442:
Nurse apprentice.

Grow up stop doing something irrelevant with yr time

You fool yourself again....

Nursing is my 2nd degree after my BSc Physics degree....

So, person no fit chill again after a stressful day again without offending Nairaland boys?

Anyway, I don't even care what a random stranger thinks about how I spend my time wen I no come world because of person.

[quote author=IDENNAA post=116987932][/quote]It is a process: Traditional> Court>Church/ Mosque

IDENNAA:
Cc.sharone21
So, traditional wedding is invalid. Africans are ffucking hilarious

No cover for women... It is sometimes not women-friendly unless the tradition has a lot of positives for women.

Heard they never married formally in a court/church just traditional wedding.

Seems Yul was smarter than May. And people say Yul and Judy have dated for 6 yrs

If anything happens, you cannot just claim what you jointly built with him( house) as the native laws and customs of the East will hold sway for May.

Since it is a traditional marriage, whether or not she likes it, she has a companion already.

In Camerooniaj law, when doing the Court marriage, u are asked 2 questions:1) Will both of u have joint accounts 2) Do both of u accept Polygamy? This is not so with our more British type court wedding.

The only person to bring back sanity to the marriage is Yul.....He was supposed to fully legitimise his marriage with May instead of disrespecting her with a new wife....Anyway, I trust women( lol), May would have sat down to think of all the sacrifices and good she did to him but was back stabbed, she will gradually and intelligently be withdrawing sex, joint account things with him( at least let her be planning for her own kids in this marriage of 3)

Adex2442:
Jobless gal spotted. So all you do with yr time is to watch a lil kid on the Gram while his parents makes more money.

I sincerely sorry for yr condition

Hahaha....I'm a very busy person/Nurse and when I'm less busy, I catch fun reading/watching Instagram and in between, I come across handsome Munir.

I see how Nairaland men reason, too poor!

Very adorable boy as I do watch him on instagram....

Just like an old Papa, calm, mature, reads his mum's moods and tries not to offend her as some would with selfish cries.

I LOVE Munir.

Ruggedniggaone:
America government is decieving Iranians the same way they decieved Libyans to kill Gaddafi, America govt left Libyans to carry their cross alone while they ran back to their peaceful country'Iranians should not allow America govt to use them to destabilise their peaceful country

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This is a religious issue ( and how Moslem ladies should conduct themselves socially) not a political one like that of Libya, so don't get it twisted.

Sad news is that recently, Canada opened her doors to so many Afghans to enter, praying they won't face any terroristic activity in nearest future.

id2019:
Yes, I am a Nigerian registered nursed, just got my visa to study MSc

If you can successfully work in UK with the preregistration MSc for some years then, you can also work in USA if you write your NCLEX and IELTS/TOEFL/OET.

Up Akwa Ibom....Up Niger Delta...

I think Akwa Ibom has been lucky with governors especially from the time of Akpabio that was boasting to turn it to NY( LOL).

There is nothing prayer cannot do....You need wisdom and a lot of patience here and presently. Pay no attention to mockers and jesters. If you need to relocate from your present environment to accommodate your daughter and grandchild psychologically, do so.

Take your daughter and grandchild and after 1 year, put your child in school and grandchild with your ex( her grandmother)..... and with time, she can begin school....If the mother is nowhere to be found, a day care may be necessary so your daughter can go back to school( very important) till your grandchild needs to go to school then your daughter will be the one picking her from school.

There is a popular USA Nurse who became a parent with his high school sweet heart( maybe not more than 17-18 yrs then) while he was possibly 21 yrs.

Both were determined while their parents helped out, sure there will be some time of separation......Today, they are married and one if the highest paid Nurses in USA and later welcomed another baby just last year when they were in their thirties.

Peace.

What is happening to our Police officers recently?

The spirit of disrespect and assault of Police officers is in the air.

U can imagine a small girl serving this professor as maid? She go use her to work from dawn to dusk....

Igbo women and madamism.

Congrats Mark and family.

And the wife is a Medical Doctor who helps to run their foundations

Una no see where to block, na airport where commoners dey try to escape Naija from life long savings?

Go and block Ministries of Education, Labor etc and as u are doing that discuss/negotiate WELL with ASUU so they compromise a bit and not stand unshaken on a selfish goal.

Peace

seunny4lif:

You people voted for change and now Bubu introduced earthquakes

Where u see me vote for Bubu?

etrouble:
Black Pussssies cost nothing. They are less than cheap

Black pussie still has price higher than men's instrument.

Though, men have been trying with different manipulations/naggings for ladies to make it free for them but sensible ladies no dey hear that one.

seunny4lif:
Taiwan is part of China
You need to go Chinese embassy for visa to Taiwan.
So, we can blame China for the earthquake since earthquakes are common to China

Taiwan has its own embassy separate from China's.